FabSwingers.com forum: Do any females actualy message

By *opknight OP Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Is there any females that actualy message guys on here? I know there is 100's of men to one female but be good to actually chat with a couple

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

With a couple? Or females?

Mixed messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to fucking loads

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Women certainly do message if they can catch a moment in-between sifting through the hundreds of one word messages they get daily

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By *opknight OP Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Happy to chat with a couple or single females

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are plenty that do - it's not about how many messages they get, or how many men there are here but finding an approach that works for you and the ladies whose interests etc match with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to chat with a couple or single females

This will be a revelation to them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any females that actualy message guys on here? I know there is 100's of men to one female but be good to actually chat with a couple "

Depends how you go about chatting to women, I know if I get "hows you" or "how's your day" or something equally bland and non exciting I just ignore as it becomes like groundhog day answering the same message.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have done and will do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a couple but 99.9% of the time it's me Ali online and I do send messages to males, females, couples and Tv' and T's

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I have done and will do again."

She does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp, I do. Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to message guys

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By *opknight OP Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

I have done and will do again.

Nice pro pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They most certainly do, I still can’t believe it when it does happen to me but yes they certainly do

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By *opknight OP Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Must be somthing im doing wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do.

Her x

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I do.

I don’t always get replies but if I like a profile I will, and then I delete all the sent mail so I have no idea what’s happened with it

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I do... doesn't work much, but I try

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I do occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do... doesn't work much, but I try

Looking good wonder-woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait... there’s women here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done and will do again."

That sounds like a threat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/02/21 19:47:47]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. All the women on here are either blokes or bots. Apart from the actual women of course

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Some do but not very much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do, I’m very chatty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t. Only from the back of a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through forum yes. Otherwise not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

It’s just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Through forum yes. Otherwise not. "

Same here.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I do occasionally, if someone interests me enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

It’s just me then

You is special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My better friends here are all guys. So yes, we do message guys.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP plenty do and for different reasons. Some to chat about something said in a forum, some to chat to get to know you more, some to wind you up

, some to bitch

, some to lend support. Some because they're interested in knowing more to plan ahead.

But many thousands don't and won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if the guy is what I am looking for

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Could do with a chat ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I do If they catch my eye. Its usually down to humour in the forums, or they're local and physically appealing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

It’s just me then

You is special

Fanks

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By *opknight OP Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Yup, I do If they catch my eye. Its usually down to humour in the forums, or they're local and physically appealing to me.

Im just out ur age rage heat..85

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As single guys on here.. (Unless you happen to be Brad Pitt) then I figure you have to accept that for the most part, you have to search for women, and/or couples.. And then do your best to stand out from the crowd. I like to think I do ok with this.. But it is probably from bitter experience!! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

It’s just me then

You is special

Fanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

It’s just me then

You is special

Fanks

Your bum looks nice today

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sometimes, but I can almost guarantee it won't be about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t, but I’m not thinking about chatting with a view to meeting (whenever that may be) at the moment, even then I probably still won’t

It’s just me then

You is special

Fanks

Your bum looks nice today

Your boobs look marvellous

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

If I am in a chatty mood then yes, quite fun to play status riddle games on a Sunday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it on the thread please op

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By *opknight OP Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

"Is there any females that actualy message guys on here? I know there is 100's of men to one female but be good to actually chat with a couple

So what messages spark your interest

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Is there any females that actualy message guys on here? I know there is 100's of men to one female but be good to actually chat with a couple

Sometimes I tell em the truth. Fucking terrible and list loads of shit things that happened. It's amazing how many seem to think a good cocking will make it all OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any females that actualy message guys on here? I know there is 100's of men to one female but be good to actually chat with a couple

Sometimes I tell em the truth. Fucking terrible and list loads of shit things that happened. It's amazing how many seem to think a good cocking will make it all OK."

C'mon, they're being nice. Trying to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait... there’s women here? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re what they’re looking for yeah they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With a couple? Or females?

Mixed messages

Or no messages by the sound of it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if they catch my eye and interests. No point waiting for the guy to message... He might not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any females that actualy message guys on here? I know there is 100's of men to one female but be good to actually chat with a couple "

I replied to your message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon after joining I realised it was pretty impossible to keep up with messages without a PA (makes me sound really big headed...but im really not that kinda person

)...so i periodically block everyone and go browsing for men i want to chat to.

Unfortunately for you there are loads of men compared to girls, and im sure a lot do the same as me...just keep your head up and keep trying

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Yes they do. I get quite a few

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes I do if I see someone who grabs my attention enough to warrant sending a message

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

They do! Just randomly natter on the forums, chatrooms and you’ll find it helps. Oh and offer biscuits/cake too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes lots of us women send messages.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Not so much atm... will do more when meets are allowed again. Keeping in touch with people and friends who are on our "to do" list

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Not so much atm... will do more when meets are allowed again. Keeping in touch with people and friends who are on our "to do" list

Ace new pics Mrs R! Since I can’t PM you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually when they want some milk and coffee picking up on my way home from work I find.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"Not so much atm... will do more when meets are allowed again. Keeping in touch with people and friends who are on our "to do" list

Ace new pics Mrs R! Since I can’t PM you

What!?!

Is it age filters?!

However, thanks lovely! You are definitely on our list, as promised, we ARE having a Lincoln social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you'll never know unless you actually meet them...

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Some ladies do message thankfully.

Its always funny when its just the one word or even just an acronym (and I'm scratching my head trying to work out what on earth it means)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of girls who message m8. But there's a few who don't. Don't give up im sure that you will eventually find a couple of girls and couples who will message you

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I don’t get none lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last one i got was a female telling me i'm band from the forums

Again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I try to respond to as many general messages as I can and i look out for ones from friends who I've met on here and respond to them... I don't have an unlimited amount of time tho and if I spend say half hour a day trying to get through messages I'm probably only doing half...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Not so much atm... will do more when meets are allowed again. Keeping in touch with people and friends who are on our "to do" list

Ace new pics Mrs R! Since I can’t PM you

What!?!

Is it age filters?!

However, thanks lovely! You are definitely on our list, as promised, we ARE having a Lincoln social!

I’m too old lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

They do and when a guy gets a random message from a lady it feels great. There is a god! Lol.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I do.

I don’t always get replies but if I like a profile I will, and then I delete all the sent mail so I have no idea what’s happened with it "

The moment you start looking to see if your message has been read is the moment that Fab has chewed you up and spat you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message my friends..chat most nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally if a profile catches my eye. I’m finding reading through and joining some of the forum chats is better for finding people I would want to message though, as you get a better sense of someone’s personality on here which is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes women will absolutely message... If they see you interacting in a decent manner then of course they will approach.... Women are human too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes women will absolutely message... If they see you interacting in a decent manner then of course they will approach.... Women are human too

Yes to this

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I chat to people in the forum, but otherwise no. Messages via inbox generally are from people wanting sex, albeit eventually, and I don’t want any of that. So forum it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

We both message and reply

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Not unless you're Prince Charming, they're holding out for a hero

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Had a few messages from couples stating they're not interested. Think WTF who are you ? We have never spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never seem to get chance to I get bombarded with messages but that’s because I got boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! I message guys I like

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I have no problem sending a message to those I like the look of ...what's the worst that can happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do depending on the quality of the initial message.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Yes I message those I am interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did!

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By *etanoiaWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I do occasionally if a profile catches my eye. I’m finding reading through and joining some of the forum chats is better for finding people I would want to message though, as you get a better sense of someone’s personality on here which is important "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a swamp donkey, because no woman ever initiate the conversation with me!

I don't even send ye olde dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,both of us read messages ,and most of the time it's me that messages after reading them with hubby

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