FabSwingers.com forum: Begging for fabs

By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

Not sure if this post has been done before but of late I’ve seen a lot of “begging” for fabs on pictures. Is there a specific reason why getting loads of fabs is now the new trend on here?

I’m not sure where the correlation between swinging and fabs on a pic is. Women on here are inundated anyway and I assumed people were posting pics because they liked them themselves, not just for others praise.

Worlds gone mad

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

This is not a new topic

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Everyone likes a compliment

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"This is not a new topic

I did think it may have been asked lol. I only started it as I had seen a few statuses over the past week or so and then one today complaint about the lack of fabs in her full frontal pic she posted. Madness lool

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Everyone likes a compliment"

Mhmmm I agree when the compliment hasn’t been asked for..

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's not a new thing.

Everyone is on here for attention of one kind or another, and in the grand scheme of things asking for fabs is pretty harmless.

If it ain't your thing then that's ok,hey ho

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Can I have some please. Go on I’ll buy you a mars bar.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"This is not a new topic

Some people need or like a lot of validation. Requests for fabs are no different to any other status updates really, you like them or you don't. I find them quite good for filtering.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People like attention and validation. They seek it out.

If you don't like it don't Fab it.

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"It's not a new thing.

Everyone is on here for attention of one kind or another, and in the grand scheme of things asking for fabs is pretty harmless.

If it ain't your thing then that's ok,hey ho

I agree with the attention part but if your asking for fabs does it not feel less organic if you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not a new topic

Some people need or like a lot of validation. Requests for fabs are no different to any other status updates really, you like them or you don't. I find them quite good for filtering."

I find them brilliant for filtering. That way i don't have to be confronted with them every time i look at my local updates.

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By *x2 4 funCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Same women on most fabbed pics every day seems they have to pot a new pic every day to satisfy their egos

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

"Everyone likes a compliment"

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

"It's not a new thing.

Everyone is on here for attention of one kind or another, and in the grand scheme of things asking for fabs is pretty harmless.

If it ain't your thing then that's ok,hey ho

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Everyone likes a compliment"
but isn't the compliment lost when it's asked for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never begged for a fab, its nice of i get one. If I didn't want my pics fabbed I'd turn the option of. As z curvy girl I appreciate the fab. And I always fab pics of guys/girls/couples if I like the pic. No ulterior motive.

Oh and not every woman is inundated with attention or messages.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Most fabbed pics has become a league table. Some ladies (almost always ladies) are getting over 2k fabs in a day.

Some folks get a kick out of getting onto page 15 (TBH - we did get a kick from that).

Gotta say though, when you see lots of people looking at profile and NOT fabbing your pics it’s like “gee thanks guys”

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By *lla_eastWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I don’t understand either, because it’s not like the site has an algorithm that is going to promote you dependent on amount of “fabs” (or does it?).

I don’t even check mine so it’s a total waste of time in my opinion, sooner just get to messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just self-promotion and/or validation. People want to be noticed on here and since the hot pics function exists they're utilising it. It's not something I've ever sought out, but we're all different and it's good that Fab is able to cater for a variety of needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I’ve no problem when needy people ask for fabs but it does tickle me in a perverse way when they ask and you take a peak and they have achieved the grand total of ten from a audience of over 30,000 which kind of confirms that they are not as popular as they think they are but bless them for trying!!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Like I've said in my profile,if I fab it's because I like it, nothing more. I must admit to avoiding fabbing the ones with loads of fabs(don't ask me why, even I'm not sure why I do it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t really bother me what other people do. I always forget to fab and to look at mine! But I’ve been recently making a conscious effort to start dabbing pics I like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse when they friend request you just for fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t bother me tbh if that brings them joy let them be no harm done

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Looking at a handful of the profiles on top pics and the veris for those that have them, they don't appear to be swingers. Good luck to them anyway, some good pics.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

There was a forum feed on here the other day that just asked for fabs on picks so that it could be on most fabbed piks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it gives them a dopamine rush, the more Fabs they have the more they want and then they’re stuck in a loop, a never ending loop, searching for the next high, when what they really need is a cuddle and to be told everything will be okay. Or maybe not, what do I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if this post has been done before but of late I’ve seen a lot of “begging” for fabs on pictures. Is there a specific reason why getting loads of fabs is now the new trend on here?

Worlds gone mad

I have seen that on a. couple of statuses; more than a little off-putting. But each to their own.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well my lovelies. You didn’t ask for them but there’s a bunch of Fabbed pictures for you. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I have some please. Go on I’ll buy you a mars bar.

Rather have the Mars bar

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've never asked for fabs!but of course love getting them who wouldn't? X

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

"Can I have some please. Go on I’ll buy you a mars bar. Make it a Kit Kat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same women on most fabbed pics every day seems they have to pot a new pic every day to satisfy their egos"

And thats fine, We all like to have our egos boosted and also people are here for different reasons.

Some people are here just to post pics and be an exhibitionist and we appreciated for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I have a problem with the word begging for fabs because that sounds derogatory.

Surely if somebody asks for a photo to be fabbed it's simply a request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm begging for fabs?????

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

Wow my fingers are hurting after all that fabbing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab if you like flip flops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't beg for fabs or chastise my friends for not fabbing my pics, I just post a few pics every week for fun, but of course it's flattering if people fab them. Let's not pretend it's not.

If someone fabs your pic it means that like it, and that's always nice.

Maybe it's also gone a bit mad at the moment because no one is meeting, so for the exhibitionists of the world, this is a good outlet for them. And we're not a group of kink shamers are we?

Live and let live folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people need validation from others

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I got one once...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its the race to try to get themselves to the top of page 1.

You only have to.look at their profiles which have thousands of friends to fuel that for them.

Same on a day by day basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got one once... "

Lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people need validation from others "

I think most of us do at moments.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I got one once...

Lies

Busted... Just wanted to join in and get on page 999999...if you fab me I'll take my top off though... Friends requests welcomed etc etc

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Everyone likes a complimentbut isn't the compliment lost when it's asked for ? "

Exactly what I said lol

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By *aneyy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I don’t understand either, because it’s not like the site has an algorithm that is going to promote you dependent on amount of “fabs” (or does it?).

I don’t even check mine so it’s a total waste of time in my opinion, sooner just get to messaging. "

I know getting a fab gives most a nice feeling, but when your asking for those fabs. It’s no longer organic and so must kill the feeling. A bit like if you got a compliment from your partner say about your bum. It’s feels nice. But if you say Oi babe tell me how nice my bum is... it’s not really the same anymore looool

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

"Everyone likes a compliment"
Yes they do but begging for it is not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got one once...

Lies

Busted... Just wanted to join in and get on page 999999...if you fab me I'll take my top off though... Friends requests welcomed etc etc"

No snow no blow my friend

friend requests welcome, I'll be accepting requests for the next 36 minutes until i've washed all my knickers....that everyone else bought me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes a compliment Yes they do but begging for it is not a good look. "

Is it begging to simply ask someone to like your photos?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I got one once...

Lies

Busted... Just wanted to join in and get on page 999999...if you fab me I'll take my top off though... Friends requests welcomed etc etc

No snow no blow my friend

friend requests welcome, I'll be accepting requests for the next 36 minutes until i've washed all my knickers....that everyone else bought me

I must be doing something wrong, nobody buys me knickers anymore...but I am emptying out my golf socks drawer, only used once..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please Fab my photos

..thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please Fab my photos

..thank you

Anything for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please Fab my photos

..thank you

Anything for you.

Thank you fluffy socks

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I ready don't mind if someone wants their pics fabbed...if I like them I'll fab them.

If it makes them happy that's fine by me.

I only think it'd be sad if it was used to validate themselves in some way.

As long as it's for fun I don't see an issue with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ready don't mind if someone wants their pics fabbed...if I like them I'll fab them.

If it makes them happy that's fine by me.

I only think it'd be sad if it was used to validate themselves in some way.

As long as it's for fun I don't see an issue with it.

I’d fab your 2 tins

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"Well my lovelies. You didn’t ask for them but there’s a bunch of Fabbed pictures for you. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it helps pass the time OP. If it gives people a boost in these horrid times then why deprive them? We can all do with a bit of that.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I ready don't mind if someone wants their pics fabbed...if I like them I'll fab them.

If it makes them happy that's fine by me.

I only think it'd be sad if it was used to validate themselves in some way.

As long as it's for fun I don't see an issue with it.

I’d fab your 2 tins

I'm so gonna cook chick peas curry

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have two views,

1, it's harmless and if it gives people a buzz, then it's no bad things

and

2, when some people upload a pic captioned, 'fab it if you want to fuck it' then it's a bit naff.

I guess it is like most things, all fine unless taken to excess.

Now fab my f'in pics!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm always ecstatic to get a fab on a picture, I even had one the other day from a very nice lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a way of keeping entertained through lockdown lol.... Set a mission for yourself to get on to the number one spot or something lol.... Or maybe in lieu 0f being able to meet people in person it's a way of making up for the lack of attention? Who knows but if its making them happy then what harms it doing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I have two views,

1, it's harmless and if it gives people a buzz, then it's no bad things

and

2, when some people upload a pic captioned, 'fab it if you want to fuck it' then it's a bit naff.

I guess it is like most things, all fine unless taken to excess.

Now fab my f'in pics!

Fabbed

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