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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typo? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

No!! She would be having too much fun if she did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?

No!! She would be having too much fun if she did."

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Enjoyed sex and had orgasms? Oh god no, they’re mutually exclusive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms."

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...pleasure doesn’t always need to lead to or end in an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does "

That just spoils sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any woman that enjoys sex isn't going to want to meet me!!;

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Any woman that enjoys sex isn't going to want to meet me!!;"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex."

Can't say iv ever noticed, but then again iv never been in that position, if she didn't want to hit the end result then I don't think I'd bother, stay home with my feet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

Can't say iv ever noticed, but then again iv never been in that position, if she didn't want to hit the end result then I don't think I'd bother, stay home with my feet up "

Have you ever considered that there may be a medical reason why she can't orgasm but that she still gets a lot of pressure from the act it's self?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

So long as she can still concentrate on sucking my cock whilst she's cumming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any woman that enjoys sex isn't going to want to meet me!!;"

I do just cuddles aswell

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Speaking as a woman who doesn't have a problem in that department - I'm inclined to steer clear of men who see my orgasms as a referendum on their worth. Let's have fun. It's not a competition ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

Can't say iv ever noticed, but then again iv never been in that position, if she didn't want to hit the end result then I don't think I'd bother, stay home with my feet up

Have you ever considered that there may be a medical reason why she can't orgasm but that she still gets a lot of pressure from the act it's self?"

No I hadn't because a medical condition wasn't mentioned, obviously that goes without saying, no sane minded person would try to get a woman to orgasm who can't medically, that would be like digging Henry the 8th up and trying to revive him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman that enjoys sex isn't going to want to meet me!!;

I do just cuddles aswell "

You women are all the same. Have sex with us and then take advantage, one thing leads to another and we end up cuddling!!

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By *_91Man
over a year ago

huds

As long as she’s had a great time then I can’t see her not reaching orgasm being a problem.

I’d even stick around for a cuddle afterwards if there was a want for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman that enjoys sex isn't going to want to meet me!!;

"

Il happily let you find out NSP

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

Do you mean didnt?

If so, yes. sounds like a nice challenge for my oral skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any woman that enjoys sex isn't going to want to meet me!!;

I do just cuddles aswell "

In regards to cuddles I'm a stud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she could not orgasm because of a medical reason then yes I'd still be interested but if it was because she didn't want to, then I don't know how that would work, have sex but don't orgasm through choice, iv never met no-one that thinks that way and if someone could explain what the logic would be then of course I'm all ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

Can't say iv ever noticed, but then again iv never been in that position, if she didn't want to hit the end result then I don't think I'd bother, stay home with my feet up

Have you ever considered that there may be a medical reason why she can't orgasm but that she still gets a lot of pressure from the act it's self?

No I hadn't because a medical condition wasn't mentioned, obviously that goes without saying, no sane minded person would try to get a woman to orgasm who can't medically, that would be like digging Henry the 8th up and trying to revive him "

In a casual sex/swinging situation she may not disclose something like that to you.

Please mot My comment in no way relates to the op. it was just a hypothetical argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are there men that see it as a challenge, if you don't squirt/cum from oral/orgasm from sex, or whatever else? If it isn't a problem for us, why is it so much for you... Be a decent fuck! A great time is all that matters. If your only aim is orgasm you ain't enjoying the sex properly! It's not always a reflection on performance ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she could not orgasm because of a medical reason then yes I'd still be interested but if it was because she didn't want to, then I don't know how that would work, have sex but don't orgasm through choice, iv never met no-one that thinks that way and if someone could explain what the logic would be then of course I'm all ears "

Where did she say it's through choice?! Some women just don't

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Why are there men that see it as a challenge, if you don't squirt/cum from oral/orgasm from sex, or whatever else? If it isn't a problem for us, why is it so much for you... Be a decent fuck! A great time is all that matters. If your only aim is orgasm you ain't enjoying the sex properly! It's not always a reflection on performance ffs! "

But that's why we bring an abacus - to keep count of the orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there men that see it as a challenge, if you don't squirt/cum from oral/orgasm from sex, or whatever else? If it isn't a problem for us, why is it so much for you... Be a decent fuck! A great time is all that matters. If your only aim is orgasm you ain't enjoying the sex properly! It's not always a reflection on performance ffs! "

If it's more challenging then a daytime TV multiple choice quiz question than IL probably give up.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

I would do anything to get her to orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't mention a medical condition. I did say can't not didn't want to. Trying to force it doesn't help at all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I didn't mention a medical condition. I did say can't not didn't want to. Trying to force it doesn't help at all. "

I hear you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the orgasm is just the full stop to a beautiful poem.

Words of love,feeling and emotion, making your heart beat faster.

An orgasm is just punctuation .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the orgasm is just the full stop to a beautiful poem.

Words of love,feeling and emotion, making your heart beat faster.

An orgasm is just punctuation ."

Marry me

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does "

Worse thing a man can do is try to make me have an orgasm.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

Worse thing a man can do is try to make me have an orgasm."

Same

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Now that would be a Challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the orgasm is just the full stop to a beautiful poem.

Words of love,feeling and emotion, making your heart beat faster.

An orgasm is just punctuation .

Marry me "

I do!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And there was me wondering why so many women feel they have to fake it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"And there was me wondering why so many women feel they have to fake it."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was me wondering why so many women feel they have to fake it.

Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was me wondering why so many women feel they have to fake it."

Men fake it too...remember Milli vanilli?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its amazing how many men see it as a challenge. For me sex is about mutual enjoyment. Im pretty easy to orgasm but if i wasnt id be put of by guys that see it as a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its amazing how many men see it as a challenge. For me sex is about mutual enjoyment. Im pretty easy to orgasm but if i wasnt id be put of by guys that see it as a challenge"

Its all a challenge, have you not heard of the single guy success rate on fab ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And there was me wondering why so many women feel they have to fake it.

Men fake it too...remember Milli vanilli?"

Do men have to sing their own songs now too!? That's a meet I'd be interested in.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its amazing how many men see it as a challenge. For me sex is about mutual enjoyment. Im pretty easy to orgasm but if i wasnt id be put of by guys that see it as a challenge

Its all a challenge, have you not heard of the single guy success rate on fab ? "

Is it. Blimey, I need to up my game

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its amazing how many men see it as a challenge. For me sex is about mutual enjoyment. Im pretty easy to orgasm but if i wasnt id be put of by guys that see it as a challenge"

Exactly.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think some guys need to start listening to women

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By *upersilver88Man
over a year ago

hazelgrove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys need to start listening to women"

I agree but i think the 2 sex's could do with starting to listen to one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. Sex is not just about orgasms. It's about sensual pleasure and that comes in many forms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see it as a challenge, it's not a formula one time trial for pole position, that's probably more thrilling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course. Sex is not just about orgasms. It's about sensual pleasure and that comes in many forms. "

I totally agree

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think some guys need to start listening to women"

God so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you talking just about sexual intercourse or are including Sexual acts as well?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Women have orgasm's this is strange anywhere particularly

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Sex is not just about orgasms...

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

Normal sex

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I say as long as everyone is comfortable and having fun.. why not? Understandable not everyone can reach orgasm but you never know though. One person I met ages ago had the same thing but when we met she did.. but that comes down to we been talking to each other for a while and we kinda open up to each other so when the time was right, it just made it that more special if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd try my hardest for her to have one!

It's got to be done xx

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By *errero RochelleWoman
over a year ago

Chocoville

My toys always give me orgasms.

Not all men did.

And the mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was led to believe the female orgasm was a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m easy lol
"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me as long as the lady is enjoying what we were doing it's not be all and end all,just pleasing them how they want would be surfice for me with some cuddles and sensual massage thrown in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can find it hard to orgasm, particularly with someone I don’t know particularly well, but it doesn’t bother me, the rest of it is just as enjoyable. If someone tells me they guarantee I will cum, that puts me off immediately, as straight away there is pressure, and trying to force it will have the opposite effect.

It’s not a competition or a badge of honour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the best sex is getting to know each other’s likes and dislikes.

Then building up the sensual element so it’s intense and pleasure for both not a race to see who finishes first

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

Not having an orgasm doesn't mean a woman is not enjoying sex, so yes I definitely would

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

I agree "

Me too. Why is there so much fixation on forcing women to cum like it's some prize or holy grail? Can't we just have great sex?

All that 'ladies first' bollocks puts as much pressure on women to cum as it does on men who think they have to stop themselves cumming.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I tend to go with the flow sometimes orgasms come easy for the women I meet, other times it takes longer. There is no finish line, so I enjoy the moment and if she relaxes she will cum...

Women always cum first, I will only follow after. But it’s the whole meet not just the crescendo that is enjoyable.

I agree with an earlier post. Don’t pressure anyone. Comfortable meets in turn, make for repeat meets. Everyone loves those..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to go with the flow sometimes orgasms come easy for the women I meet, other times it takes longer. There is no finish line, so I enjoy the moment and if she relaxes she will cum...

Women always cum first, I will only follow after. But it’s the whole meet not just the crescendo that is enjoyable.

I agree with an earlier post. Don’t pressure anyone. Comfortable meets in turn, make for repeat meets. Everyone loves those.."

I’m curious though, don’t you think that by saying women always cum first is putting some pressure on?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I tend to go with the flow sometimes orgasms come easy for the women I meet, other times it takes longer. There is no finish line, so I enjoy the moment and if she relaxes she will cum...

Women always cum first, I will only follow after. But it’s the whole meet not just the crescendo that is enjoyable.

I agree with an earlier post. Don’t pressure anyone. Comfortable meets in turn, make for repeat meets. Everyone loves those.."

Your post makes no sense.Why are you forcing women to cum first? What about women who take huge pleasure in watching and hearing a man cum?

Why does anyone have to cum at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are there men that see it as a challenge, if you don't squirt/cum from oral/orgasm from sex, or whatever else? If it isn't a problem for us, why is it so much for you... Be a decent fuck! A great time is all that matters. If your only aim is orgasm you ain't enjoying the sex properly! It's not always a reflection on performance ffs! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

I agree

Me too. Why is there so much fixation on forcing women to cum like it's some prize or holy grail? Can't we just have great sex?

All that 'ladies first' bollocks puts as much pressure on women to cum as it does on men who think they have to stop themselves cumming."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I tend to go with the flow sometimes orgasms come easy for the women I meet, other times it takes longer. There is no finish line, so I enjoy the moment and if she relaxes she will cum...

Women always cum first, I will only follow after. But it’s the whole meet not just the crescendo that is enjoyable.

I agree with an earlier post. Don’t pressure anyone. Comfortable meets in turn, make for repeat meets. Everyone loves those.."
why does the woman gave to cum first? I much prefer a man to cum before me

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I would yes, an orgasm is not the be all end all its the enjoyment of each other that matters

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

Had a woman years ago who could orgasm through other means but never with a guy actually inside her.

Had a few fun meets and made sure she had her orgasm in other ways until the one time when she was totally relaxed with me and riding me cowgirl and it happened.

Awesome experience to be part of and her face and "oh my god" language when it was happening was a delight to be part of.

So yes I definitely would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she enjoy having a sex and she want to meet for sex can’t see why not to meet her.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not a problem ..as long as she's quiet about it ...all that oh god stuff and yesyesyesing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the orgasm is just the full stop to a beautiful poem.

Words of love,feeling and emotion, making your heart beat faster.

An orgasm is just punctuation .

Marry me "

How many husbands is that now?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who told me she doesn't orgasm with random people, but still loves sex regardless.

We met twice and fingers crossed for number 3

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Speaking as a woman who doesn't have a problem in that department - I'm inclined to steer clear of men who see my orgasms as a referendum on their worth. Let's have fun. It's not a competition ffs "

Agreed. Also sometimes someone can give me an orgasm but it not necessarily be that enjoyable. Usually if they go too hard. It's kinda like an uncomfortable orgasm .

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

As long as I cum it doesn’t matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?

Had a woman years ago who could orgasm through other means but never with a guy actually inside her.

Had a few fun meets and made sure she had her orgasm in other ways until the one time when she was totally relaxed with me and riding me cowgirl and it happened.

Awesome experience to be part of and her face and "oh my god" language when it was happening was a delight to be part of.

So yes I definitely would."

You missed the correction,who doesn't orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

Can't say iv ever noticed, but then again iv never been in that position, if she didn't want to hit the end result then I don't think I'd bother, stay home with my feet up

Have you ever considered that there may be a medical reason why she can't orgasm but that she still gets a lot of pressure from the act it's self?

No I hadn't because a medical condition wasn't mentioned, obviously that goes without saying, no sane minded person would try to get a woman to orgasm who can't medically, that would be like digging Henry the 8th up and trying to revive him "

No sane minded person would try to get a woman to orgasm if she says she doesn’t.

Far too many people see “orgasm” as the “end goal” and forget about all that goes on in between. You can have enjoyable pleasurable sex without reaching climax.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was me wondering why so many women feel they have to fake it."

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By *aountyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely, so many things to do that's pleasurable and which doesn't need to finish eitj an orgasm.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years. "

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it."

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I think that it could have a negative impact on my sexual psychology, which in turn could manifest itself physically or emotionally. So I’m going to say “no”.

If I find out that someone has lied about it (usually one of the hurtful/truthful things that ex partners say as they are in process of becoming ex’s) then it does impact me. Apologies I know that is very Neanderthal and “basic” but that’s the up and down of it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything. "

I'm like, go on then son, finish yerself off

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything.

I'm like, go on then son, finish yerself off "

With the Countdown timer music playing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down "

I mentioned my problem to someone i was chatting to recently and he said (i quote) get the fuck off this site.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything.

I'm like, go on then son, finish yerself off

With the Countdown timer music playing? "

With an audience too but me on the countdown bongo

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything.

I'm like, go on then son, finish yerself off "

I don't want to upset anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down

I mentioned my problem to someone i was chatting to recently and he said (i quote) get the fuck off this site."

Wtaf! Well, the issue is with him my lovely, and not you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down

I mentioned my problem to someone i was chatting to recently and he said (i quote) get the fuck off this site."

Niiice. So charming. Such manners.

Women can have sex for any reason they want. Their pleasure is about them.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything.

I'm like, go on then son, finish yerself off

I don't want to upset anyone"

Even chuck em in a free wank sock.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down

I mentioned my problem to someone i was chatting to recently and he said (i quote) get the fuck off this site."

I hope that your reply included the words "yourself", "fuck" and "go" in some order...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it might take the pressure off those who judge their performance on their partners orgasm.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down

I mentioned my problem to someone i was chatting to recently and he said (i quote) get the fuck off this site."

You know I want you to send em my way don't ya? I love a bully. Let me rephrase.... I love taking on a male bully, not in the bedroom sense, but leftover abuse venom I have.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Flipping it around, I've felt "not good enough" if the guy hasn't cum, even though I can get the mental block and not cum myself.

I need my wand to bring me off most of the time and that's with me being in control of it.

Same. But I don't tell him that he has to cum or anything.

I'm like, go on then son, finish yerself off

I don't want to upset anyone

Even chuck em in a free wank sock."

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"One of the complications of a hysterectomy can be nerve damage and an inability to orgasm.

I'm tired of trying to explain to people who won't listen, that regardless of what technique they use, not all women can cum.

Too much emphasis is placed on orgasms that the pleasure of sex itself is lost and that's a real shame.

Telling someone constantly that they should only behave in a certain way, ie. have an orgasm, puts so much pressure on them to conform what is considered to be the norm, that it has the opposite effect and actually makes it mush harder or even impossible to achieve.

For some who struggle, myself included, I want to enjoy the journey, not fixate on the destination. "

As someone with no problems, it's a filter for me too. Anyone telling me how to have sex is a no go.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does "

Oh dear.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

One of the complications of a hysterectomy can be nerve damage and an inability to orgasm.

I'm tired of trying to explain to people who won't listen, that regardless of what technique they use, not all women can cum.

Too much emphasis is placed on orgasms that the pleasure of sex itself is lost and that's a real shame.

Telling someone constantly that they should only behave in a certain way, ie. have an orgasm, puts so much pressure on them to conform what is considered to be the norm, that it has the opposite effect and actually makes it much harder or even impossible to achieve.

For some who struggle, myself included, I want to enjoy the journey, not fixate on the destination.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Sorry deleted my post in error

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"One of the complications of a hysterectomy can be nerve damage and an inability to orgasm.

I'm tired of trying to explain to people who won't listen, that regardless of what technique they use, not all women can cum.

Too much emphasis is placed on orgasms that the pleasure of sex itself is lost and that's a real shame.

Telling someone constantly that they should only behave in a certain way, ie. have an orgasm, puts so much pressure on them to conform what is considered to be the norm, that it has the opposite effect and actually makes it much harder or even impossible to achieve.

For some who struggle, myself included, I want to enjoy the journey, not fixate on the destination.

"

I'd just like to add if I may, that assuming you need to go harder, faster and deeper, that picking a woman up by her vag for maximum power REALLY isn't gonna force it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms.

I'd make it a life mission to make sure she does

That just spoils sex.

Can't say iv ever noticed, but then again iv never been in that position, if she didn't want to hit the end result then I don't think I'd bother, stay home with my feet up "

It's not always about not wanting to hit the end result. I struggle to cum in front of people. I can feel amazing and like I'm about to cum, but it very rarely happens.

Guys who say they make it their mission or duty or a challenge to make a woman cum would be shown the door. Enjoy the time you have together, enjoy the feelings. It doesn't matter if there's not a big O if everything else is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far... "

Honestly... you've probably been faked on.

A bold statement but I really do believe that any bloke who has never failed to make a woman cum has been a victim of the *let's get this finished* "oooo oooo oooohhhhhhhhhhh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are probably not wrong! but I mean... I thought I had the job done, so that counts right? Haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

Honestly... you've probably been faked on.

A bold statement but I really do believe that any bloke who has never failed to make a woman cum has been a victim of the *let's get this finished* "oooo oooo oooohhhhhhhhhhh" "

Agreed. "Oh god I can't deal with the tantrum" *makes noises and stuff*

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

Honestly... you've probably been faked on.

A bold statement but I really do believe that any bloke who has never failed to make a woman cum has been a victim of the *let's get this finished* "oooo oooo oooohhhhhhhhhhh" "

That sounds familiar.

Hey, wait - so you....?

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Or being told that you just haven't met the right guy yet and that they can absolutely guarantee that you will have an orgasm.

Er, no. You really can't guarantee that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I had a full profile it was on there about me not cumming. I got so many messages telling me how to do it or that they could do it for me. Instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far... "

Why would you be pissed off.

I don’t get it, it’s not a failing on anyone’s part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

Are you asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it could have a negative impact on my sexual psychology, which in turn could manifest itself physically or emotionally. So I’m going to say “no”.

If I find out that someone has lied about it (usually one of the hurtful/truthful things that ex partners say as they are in process of becoming ex’s) then it does impact me. Apologies I know that is very Neanderthal and “basic” but that’s the up and down of it. "

It is very neanderthal since around 15% of women have never orgasmed.

If one is good at what they do, there’s no need to wait for the “climax”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she relaxes she will cum

So that's what i've been doing wrong for the last 11 years.

Silly you, your orgasms are about men and if you don't have them you should apologise to them for letting them down

I mentioned my problem to someone i was chatting to recently and he said (i quote) get the fuck off this site."

Wow. Sorry you had to experience that.

I have no issue with orgasms but the pressure from some is off putting and triggering.

It must feel awful for you that some men demand that of you. Sex isn’t just about the orgasm, that’s one element of pleasure, that most of the time many men can’t even tell if it’s authentic or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

Why would you be pissed off.

I don’t get it, it’s not a failing on anyone’s part. "

Many men see it as their own failing. They weren’t good enough so their partner didn’t climax. Regardless of if it’s correct many men do believe in that, deep down.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Sex isn’t just about the orgasm, that’s one element of pleasure, that most of the time many men can’t even tell if it’s authentic or not. "

[Bloke mode]

We can tell

[Bloke mode off]

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

My answer to this is of course!

Sex is about intimate and sensual fun no matter what the outcome.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

Why would you be pissed off.

I don’t get it, it’s not a failing on anyone’s part.

Many men see it as their own failing. They weren’t good enough so their partner didn’t climax. Regardless of if it’s correct many men do believe in that, deep down. "

It seems many men need to let go of that mentality and understand that sex isn’t just about an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex isn’t just about the orgasm, that’s one element of pleasure, that most of the time many men can’t even tell if it’s authentic or not.

[Bloke mode]

We can tell

[Bloke mode off]

"

You cannot!

When a woman knows exactly what she does when she orgasms she can replicate it perfectly when needed!

Trust me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems many men need to let go of that mentality and understand that sex isn’t just about an orgasm. "

Yep you’re right. It is interesting to explore why they feel that way. Lack or wrong education is probably one of many factors.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Sex isn’t just about the orgasm, that’s one element of pleasure, that most of the time many men can’t even tell if it’s authentic or not.

[Bloke mode]

We can tell

[Bloke mode off]

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems many men need to let go of that mentality and understand that sex isn’t just about an orgasm.

Yep you’re right. It is interesting to explore why they feel that way. Lack or wrong education is probably one of many factors. "

Yeah, I think lack of education and also locker room talk.

When men get together and they brag a bit about their sexual prowess, I don’t think that helps, but boys will be boys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems many men need to let go of that mentality and understand that sex isn’t just about an orgasm.

Yep you’re right. It is interesting to explore why they feel that way. Lack or wrong education is probably one of many factors.

Yeah, I think lack of education and also locker room talk.

When men get together and they brag a bit about their sexual prowess, I don’t think that helps, but boys will be boys! "

Often it’s not only exaggerated but totally fabricated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

Why would you be pissed off.

I don’t get it, it’s not a failing on anyone’s part.

Many men see it as their own failing. They weren’t good enough so their partner didn’t climax. Regardless of if it’s correct many men do believe in that, deep down. "

That's a fair point. Especially on a site with gushing bollocks TripAdvisor sex reviews.

"Oooh s/he was the best shag ever, we had 345 simultaneous mind blowing orgasms!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems many men need to let go of that mentality and understand that sex isn’t just about an orgasm.

Yep you’re right. It is interesting to explore why they feel that way. Lack or wrong education is probably one of many factors.

Yeah, I think lack of education and also locker room talk.

When men get together and they brag a bit about their sexual prowess, I don’t think that helps, but boys will be boys!

Often it’s not only exaggerated but totally fabricated "

I’m glad you said it..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It seems many men need to let go of that mentality and understand that sex isn’t just about an orgasm.

Yep you’re right. It is interesting to explore why they feel that way. Lack or wrong education is probably one of many factors.

Yeah, I think lack of education and also locker room talk.

When men get together and they brag a bit about their sexual prowess, I don’t think that helps, but boys will be boys!

Often it’s not only exaggerated but totally fabricated

I’m glad you said it.. "

And porn!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Sex isn’t just about the orgasm, that’s one element of pleasure, that most of the time many men can’t even tell if it’s authentic or not.

[Bloke mode]

We can tell

[Bloke mode off]

You cannot!

When a woman knows exactly what she does when she orgasms she can replicate it perfectly when needed!

Trust me. "

Only teasing, I know we can’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a fair point. Especially on a site with gushing bollocks TripAdvisor sex reviews.

"Oooh s/he was the best shag ever, we had 345 simultaneous mind blowing orgasms!!" "

there should be a compilation of the top fab reviews. I’m surprised there isn’t a scoring system!!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I think that it could have a negative impact on my sexual psychology, which in turn could manifest itself physically or emotionally. So I’m going to say “no”.

If I find out that someone has lied about it (usually one of the hurtful/truthful things that ex partners say as they are in process of becoming ex’s) then it does impact me. Apologies I know that is very Neanderthal and “basic” but that’s the up and down of it.

It is very neanderthal since around 15% of women have never orgasmed.

If one is good at what they do, there’s no need to wait for the “climax”. "

This I completely understand. However I was just expressing how it would make me feel and being honest with that. I fully appreciate that spending time with someone in a physical way is much more than about achieving orgasm. However I would feel (rightly or wrongly) that I had “failed” either consciously or subconsciously and I feel that would have a negative effect on me, mentally, which in turn may make my partner feel inadequate, which they aren’t. It is inevitable that we meet people that we don’t click with, physically, mentally or emotionally or people who have different elements of sex that they enjoy/don’t enjoy. I would never believe that I could make someone experience something that they categorically could not experience and fully respect them articulating that. I guess for me it’s just a psychological thing and probably one of those leftover primeval things or comes from reading too much vogue/cosmopolitan in my youth.

Sorry just me being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And porn!"

I don’t agree with that. We can all pound away at top speed for 4-5 hours straight without breaking a sweat while making a woman scream so loud that we have to ask her to turn the volume down And if you can’t hold her upside down in a standing 69 then what really as a man CAN YOU DO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it could have a negative impact on my sexual psychology, which in turn could manifest itself physically or emotionally. So I’m going to say “no”.

If I find out that someone has lied about it (usually one of the hurtful/truthful things that ex partners say as they are in process of becoming ex’s) then it does impact me. Apologies I know that is very Neanderthal and “basic” but that’s the up and down of it.

It is very neanderthal since around 15% of women have never orgasmed.

If one is good at what they do, there’s no need to wait for the “climax”.

This I completely understand. However I was just expressing how it would make me feel and being honest with that. I fully appreciate that spending time with someone in a physical way is much more than about achieving orgasm. However I would feel (rightly or wrongly) that I had “failed” either consciously or subconsciously and I feel that would have a negative effect on me, mentally, which in turn may make my partner feel inadequate, which they aren’t. It is inevitable that we meet people that we don’t click with, physically, mentally or emotionally or people who have different elements of sex that they enjoy/don’t enjoy. I would never believe that I could make someone experience something that they categorically could not experience and fully respect them articulating that. I guess for me it’s just a psychological thing and probably one of those leftover primeval things or comes from reading too much vogue/cosmopolitan in my youth.

Sorry just me being me "

I’d say it’s more to do with lack of education, and the notion that orgasm is somehow a measure of someone’s ability to pleasure someone.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I think that it could have a negative impact on my sexual psychology, which in turn could manifest itself physically or emotionally. So I’m going to say “no”.

If I find out that someone has lied about it (usually one of the hurtful/truthful things that ex partners say as they are in process of becoming ex’s) then it does impact me. Apologies I know that is very Neanderthal and “basic” but that’s the up and down of it.

It is very neanderthal since around 15% of women have never orgasmed.

If one is good at what they do, there’s no need to wait for the “climax”.

This I completely understand. However I was just expressing how it would make me feel and being honest with that. I fully appreciate that spending time with someone in a physical way is much more than about achieving orgasm. However I would feel (rightly or wrongly) that I had “failed” either consciously or subconsciously and I feel that would have a negative effect on me, mentally, which in turn may make my partner feel inadequate, which they aren’t. It is inevitable that we meet people that we don’t click with, physically, mentally or emotionally or people who have different elements of sex that they enjoy/don’t enjoy. I would never believe that I could make someone experience something that they categorically could not experience and fully respect them articulating that. I guess for me it’s just a psychological thing and probably one of those leftover primeval things or comes from reading too much vogue/cosmopolitan in my youth.

Sorry just me being me

I’d say it’s more to do with lack of education, and the notion that orgasm is somehow a measure of someone’s ability to pleasure someone.

"

Okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a fair point. Especially on a site with gushing bollocks TripAdvisor sex reviews.

"Oooh s/he was the best shag ever, we had 345 simultaneous mind blowing orgasms!!"

there should be a compilation of the top fab reviews. I’m surprised there isn’t a scoring system!! "

A scoring system would be amazing. My lack of stars would be epic.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I think that it could have a negative impact on my sexual psychology, which in turn could manifest itself physically or emotionally. So I’m going to say “no”.

If I find out that someone has lied about it (usually one of the hurtful/truthful things that ex partners say as they are in process of becoming ex’s) then it does impact me. Apologies I know that is very Neanderthal and “basic” but that’s the up and down of it.

It is very neanderthal since around 15% of women have never orgasmed.

If one is good at what they do, there’s no need to wait for the “climax”.

This I completely understand. However I was just expressing how it would make me feel and being honest with that. I fully appreciate that spending time with someone in a physical way is much more than about achieving orgasm. However I would feel (rightly or wrongly) that I had “failed” either consciously or subconsciously and I feel that would have a negative effect on me, mentally, which in turn may make my partner feel inadequate, which they aren’t. It is inevitable that we meet people that we don’t click with, physically, mentally or emotionally or people who have different elements of sex that they enjoy/don’t enjoy. I would never believe that I could make someone experience something that they categorically could not experience and fully respect them articulating that. I guess for me it’s just a psychological thing and probably one of those leftover primeval things or comes from reading too much vogue/cosmopolitan in my youth.

Sorry just me being me

I’d say it’s more to do with lack of education, and the notion that orgasm is somehow a measure of someone’s ability to pleasure someone.

Okay. "

Take a peek at the "understanding" thread

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I dont see any reason why not frankly.

Im stupidly difficult to make orgasm to the point its something I've never had someone do for me, it is usually of my own doing even as part of regular sex woth a person. I have to take control and control rhythms etc.

Whatever someone else's reason for not orgasming is theirs and sexually as long as they enjoy sex then let's get it on.

Its what you do together that makes it enjoyable for me, an orgasm is just the cherry on the top and you can have a beautiful bakewell tart without needing that cherry

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Would you still be interested in meeting a woman who enjoyed sex but did have orgasms?"

Do you mean don't ?? And yeah of course why wouldn't we ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is a correction a few messages down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasams are essential. X

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"There is a correction a few messages down "

I'd still enjoy the sex !!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Orgasams are essential. X"

Why are they? Does it make the experience any less pleasurable for anyone? Surely the important thing is whether all involved have had a good time and walk away with a smile on their face and wanting to do it again regardless of orgasms?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Orgasams are essential. X"

For you?

I've reported you for advertising for a meet by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be pissed off at myself if I ended up finishing before the woman had an orgasm it hasn't happened so far...

Why would you be pissed off.

I don’t get it, it’s not a failing on anyone’s part.

Many men see it as their own failing. They weren’t good enough so their partner didn’t climax. Regardless of if it’s correct many men do believe in that, deep down. "

Not understanding biology nor basic sexual pleasure, is their failing, not not getting someone to orgasm

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms."

This sounds like me.

I do have them but just as often don't.

Still I sure as hell enjoy the journey

I don't think it puts my partners off...had no complaints anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cum easy.

It's the rolled up shirt sleeves, grim determination that crosses their face that makes me heart sink.

The frantic pawing, sometimes they scratch! And then the ones who move my hand just as I'm getting there because they know better than me how my body works.

It's easier and less hazardous to fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Marilyn Munroe had problems reaching orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can find it hard to orgasm, particularly with someone I don’t know particularly well, but it doesn’t bother me, the rest of it is just as enjoyable. If someone tells me they guarantee I will cum, that puts me off immediately, as straight away there is pressure, and trying to force it will have the opposite effect.

It’s not a competition or a badge of honour.

"

That so applies to men too. It sometimes feels like you have to be a performing sealion! Everyone if likely to have more fun if they're relaxed with no expectations of orgasms or cumming. In fact it's more likely to happen that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care if I cum, or if he cums, as long as we have a connection, chemistry and a good time.

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

why not moody bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, her enjoyment is the pleasure for me and as long as she’s left satisfied everyone’s a winner

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Oops lol

Who didn't have orgasms."

Didn't have orgasms, Yet!.

And yes.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Speaking as a woman who doesn't have a problem in that department - I'm inclined to steer clear of men who see my orgasms as a referendum on their worth. Let's have fun. It's not a competition ffs "

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