FabSwingers.com forum: Missed opportunities

By *ushNW OP Woman
over a year ago

Salford

Feeling fed up at the mo. Over the last year I’ve chatted to a few guys that I would have definitely played with if it weren’t for C***d!!!

There really is only so much chat you can do!

Anyone else had the same?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes i can relate to this. x

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By *ushNW OP Woman
over a year ago

Salford

"I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet."

Me too but do you not find it hard to keep the momentum going when bojo keeps extending lol

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By *ushNW OP Woman
over a year ago

Salford

"Yes i can relate to this. x"

Hallelujah lol

I also think all the good ones have taken a break until the plague has passed lol

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It can get a little difficult to maintain the momentum when charring but unable to meet.

Too much chatting before meeting can sometimes end up with people being in the 'friend zone' rather than ' I want to fuck you zone'

It's finding that happy medium.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could call or video call? Write a story together, send images, play games.

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By *ushNW OP Woman
over a year ago

Salford

"It can get a little difficult to maintain the momentum when charring but unable to meet.

Too much chatting before meeting can sometimes end up with people being in the 'friend zone' rather than ' I want to fuck you zone'

It's finding that happy medium."

I’m hoping a few have put me on their hit lists to re contact in the future lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I've had some great chats with people where if it wasn't for covid we would probably have met yet due to not being able to meet, things just fizzle out.

Luckily with some we understand how it is and are happy to have pencilled it in for a leter date and pick up the chat where it left off.

Its one of those things and hopefully in time once covid fucks off things will pick up again and maybe even with some of these people too....

Its part and parcel of the times we find ourselves in I think.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sure. But it's helped me develop friendships with some and figure out others that are a bullet dodged. Overall positive.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet.

Me too but do you not find it hard to keep the momentum going when bojo keeps extending lol"

Not hard at all. We don't chat everyday so its all good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had some great chats with people where if it wasn't for covid we would probably have met yet due to not being able to meet, things just fizzle out.

Luckily with some we understand how it is and are happy to have pencilled it in for a leter date and pick up the chat where it left off.

Its one of those things and hopefully in time once covid fucks off things will pick up again and maybe even with some of these people too....

Its part and parcel of the times we find ourselves in I think."

Paaaartaaaay

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"It can get a little difficult to maintain the momentum when charring but unable to meet.

Too much chatting before meeting can sometimes end up with people being in the 'friend zone' rather than ' I want to fuck you zone'

It's finding that happy medium."

I'll speak to you again when covid buggers off then, laters

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I've had some great chats with people where if it wasn't for covid we would probably have met yet due to not being able to meet, things just fizzle out.

Luckily with some we understand how it is and are happy to have pencilled it in for a leter date and pick up the chat where it left off.

Its one of those things and hopefully in time once covid fucks off things will pick up again and maybe even with some of these people too....

Its part and parcel of the times we find ourselves in I think.

Paaaartaaaay

Bigtime!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had some great chats with people where if it wasn't for covid we would probably have met yet due to not being able to meet, things just fizzle out.

Luckily with some we understand how it is and are happy to have pencilled it in for a leter date and pick up the chat where it left off.

Its one of those things and hopefully in time once covid fucks off things will pick up again and maybe even with some of these people too....

Its part and parcel of the times we find ourselves in I think.

Paaaartaaaay

Bigtime!!!!! "

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By *ushNW OP Woman
over a year ago

Salford

"Sure. But it's helped me develop friendships with some and figure out others that are a bullet dodged. Overall positive."

Fair point lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It can get a little difficult to maintain the momentum when charring but unable to meet.

Too much chatting before meeting can sometimes end up with people being in the 'friend zone' rather than ' I want to fuck you zone'

It's finding that happy medium."

I've got quite a few friends whose clothes I'm going to try not to literally rip off after we're vaccinated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet."

No negatives to building rapport. It will be likely that the meet will be ace.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet.

No negatives to building rapport. It will be likely that the meet will be ace. "

I've always found the more I chat to someone, the better the initial meet goes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure. But it's helped me develop friendships with some and figure out others that are a bullet dodged. Overall positive."

this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure. But it's helped me develop friendships with some and figure out others that are a bullet dodged. Overall positive."

Spot on swing!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve found this more on Bumble and Tinder.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have found a few new connections in lockdown that I’m hoping to pick up in person when we are out of this early next year

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm enjoying the chance to talk in all honesty. Yes it would have been nice to have met by now but the build up of anticipation, desire and all those other good things is a lot of fun. It's a no pressure way of talking and connecting. I think because I'm a talker (clearly!), I'm enjoying it a lot.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've definitely made some incredible connections over these last 64 years of lockdowns.

And despite the fact that we have no idea when it will actually be possible, I have hope that I will meet those I want to meet and we will have a lot of fun. Whether that includes naked time or not.

I think the connections you can make at the moment will either be fleeting and not reappear to your satisfaction post covid, or will turn out to be lasting ones in one way or another. At least that's what I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet.

Me too but do you not find it hard to keep the momentum going when bojo keeps extending lol"

Me too - I don’t feel like having sexy chats any more without having an idea when meetings can happen. I live alone and could form a bubble but the never ending changes just don’t make that seem likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can get a little difficult to maintain the momentum when charring but unable to meet.

Too much chatting before meeting can sometimes end up with people being in the 'friend zone' rather than ' I want to fuck you zone'

It's finding that happy medium."

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I like chatting to people. I prefer to get to know them and their personality before the thought of a meet.

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

It's like ground hog day. Including the same conversations

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By *idwesty74Man
over a year ago

Hants

It’s definitely having a massive impact. I enjoy chatting and seeing if there is a bit of rapport. And the honesty you can have in a chat with someone else who has a similar outlook on here is extremely refreshing.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We are enjoying the chance to chat and have got to know some lovely people whom we will definitely be meeting up with post Covid.

Other chats have started well and if we could have met may have gone further but the conversation eventually runs it’s course. There are only so many ‘hey, how are you?’ messages I can be arsed to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing missed - if it can't happen then it can't happen. If it will happen then it will, eventually, and part of the thrill is the chase and build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'd or still be on a dry streak.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I'm enjoying the chats I've been having, building up to when we can finally meet.

Me too but do you not find it hard to keep the momentum going when bojo keeps extending lol"

Totally relate to this ....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This forum is going to go absolutely berserk as soon as meeting is permitted.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We are enjoying the chance to chat and have got to know some lovely people whom we will definitely be meeting up with post Covid.

Hey, how are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This forum is going to go absolutely berserk as soon as meeting is permitted.

It'll be dead, everyone will be out fucking each others brains out

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"This forum is going to go absolutely berserk as soon as meeting is permitted.

It'll be dead, everyone will be out fucking each others brains out

There will be a storm, before the calm. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've definitely made some incredible connections over these last 64 years of lockdowns.

And despite the fact that we have no idea when it will actually be possible, I have hope that I will meet those I want to meet and we will have a lot of fun. Whether that includes naked time or not.

64 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I feel your pain OP..... Big time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This forum is going to go absolutely berserk as soon as meeting is permitted.

It'll be dead, everyone will be out fucking each others brains out

Forumites never had a lot of sex even pre-covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been my experience too.

If there is mutual interest and attraction then that should still be there in a few months and you can have regular catch ups without having to chat every day or every week.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I've definitely made some incredible connections over these last 64 years of lockdowns.

And despite the fact that we have no idea when it will actually be possible, I have hope that I will meet those I want to meet and we will have a lot of fun. Whether that includes naked time or not.

64 years

That's approximate, obviously

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By *aountyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Same here, chatting a bit is ok but has its limits, plus it's definitely more exciting to meet somebody in the flesh. COVID is the king of swingers, it f..k us all!!!

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