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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It is an incredibly stupid question and shows that you have no idea about childbirth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP have you been binge watching Greys Anatomy by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

Ah so that’s why my wife scream so much!!!!!!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Nope. I got nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read an article in the independent recently to say that it was an increasingly common and sought after experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

Have you ever orgasmed whilst having a bowling ball pulled out through your arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh boy....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No but i did do a poo on the labour table.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"No but i did do a poo on the labour table."

Me to ... but apparently it's only normally the delivering mother to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read an article in the independent recently to say that it was an increasingly common and sought after experience "

Sought after?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"No but i did do a poo on the labour table.

Me to ... but apparently it's only normally the delivering mother to do this"

Better that than getting an enima i guess.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Think someone has had enough fab for one day....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"No but i did do a poo on the labour table.

Me to ... but apparently it's only normally the delivering mother to do this

Better that than getting an enima i guess."

Yes ... but the expecting father???

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I seem to think orgasms can induce labour but I think during would be

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I read an article in the independent recently to say that it was an increasingly common and sought after experience "

To say that I think that is highly unlikely, would be an understatement.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"No but i did do a poo on the labour table.

Me to ... but apparently it's only normally the delivering mother to do this

Better that than getting an enima i guess.

Yes ... but the expecting father??? "

He was a nurse so had seen many poos before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ?

Have you ever orgasmed whilst having a bowling ball pulled out through your arse? "

Oooo ..that made me cross my legs and clench my bottom cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to think orgasms can induce labour but I think during would be "

It’s used as an induction of labour due to the release of oxytocin, which caused muscle contraction, and semen contains prostaglandins that causes uterine contractions. Which is the same thing used for induction of labour, so orgasm + semen= Labour (hopefully!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have zero personal experience of childbirth thankfully.

But I did see a programme about sexual climax through childbirth a few years ago and I believe it to be true. A small percentage I presume experience such a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have zero personal experience of childbirth thankfully.

But I did see a programme about sexual climax through childbirth a few years ago and I believe it to be true. A small percentage I presume experience such a thing "

A minuscule percentage I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have zero personal experience of childbirth thankfully.

But I did see a programme about sexual climax through childbirth a few years ago and I believe it to be true. A small percentage I presume experience such a thing "

Everyday is an education.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask a stupid question expect a stupid answer

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]"

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did actually read something about this in some of the hippy-ish parenting groups im in. I think its a mindset thing but it wasn't for me!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Well, I've had a poop that felt like labour pains, so it might be possible.

Maybe all the heavy breathing brought them on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt. "

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have zero personal experience of childbirth thankfully.

But I did see a programme about sexual climax through childbirth a few years ago and I believe it to be true. A small percentage I presume experience such a thing

A minuscule percentage I'd say "

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/6-cent-women-orgasm-during-birth-study-suggests-a7015986.html

6% experienced orgasmic births apparently according to statistics in 2016

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

How exactly would they pull that off "hold on doctor do you mind if I masturbait before my child pops out don't worry I won't be long"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I've had a poop that felt like labour pains, so it might be possible.

Maybe all the heavy breathing brought them on."

Well they’re both stimulated by the hypogastric nerve so I would imagine that’s why, interesting though!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It is an incredibly stupid question and shows that you have no idea about childbirth.

"

Its been in the paper's one actress said she did.

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required "

Haha, absolutely. By the time you reach that point you are willing to try anything and just hope it will work eventually they do arrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How exactly would they pull that off "hold on doctor do you mind if I masturbait before my child pops out don't worry I won't be long" "

Haha again it depends on the Bishops score, if it’s under 5 the spontaneous rupture of membranes is unlikely. So people can try all sorts to help induce labour. It’s a really interesting topic I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have zero personal experience of childbirth thankfully.

But I did see a programme about sexual climax through childbirth a few years ago and I believe it to be true. A small percentage I presume experience such a thing

A minuscule percentage I'd say

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/6-cent-women-orgasm-during-birth-study-suggests-a7015986.html

6% experienced orgasmic births apparently according to statistics in 2016

"

Blimey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required

Haha, absolutely. By the time you reach that point you are willing to try anything and just hope it will work eventually they do arrive "

That’s very true! How many weeks were you if you don’t mind me asking? I just finished my obs abs gyne rotation so I geeked out on this kinda stuff for like 4 months haha

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"How exactly would they pull that off "hold on doctor do you mind if I masturbait before my child pops out don't worry I won't be long"

Haha again it depends on the Bishops score, if it’s under 5 the spontaneous rupture of membranes is unlikely. So people can try all sorts to help induce labour. It’s a really interesting topic I find "

Wait what in the blue hell does a bishop have to do with this dirty fecks and they are keeping score to make it worse god damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP

I did experience a full on fit though. Due to eclampsia

Oh, and a wanker of an ex husband who told me i should " pull myself together" when at deaths door

P'raps I had an orgasm when I was out of it, pumped full of drugs to keep me alive?

P'raps we could make that a new genre on X gerbil?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How exactly would they pull that off "hold on doctor do you mind if I masturbait before my child pops out don't worry I won't be long"

Haha again it depends on the Bishops score, if it’s under 5 the spontaneous rupture of membranes is unlikely. So people can try all sorts to help induce labour. It’s a really interesting topic I find

Wait what in the blue hell does a bishop have to do with this dirty fecks and they are keeping score to make it worse god damn "

Hahaha I think the person who invented it was called Dr Bishop...it basically a scoring system to see how likely a natural delivery was...although I think scale is more accurate!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

It is actually true that some women may experience contractions similar to orgasms during birth.. Mostly at the stage of pushing or just before.. in the transition phase. There is increased blood flow and a surge of endorphins, adrenaline and oxytocin which can induce euphoria and indeed feelings like arousal and maybe even orgasm.

Many couples use sex, kissing, stroking and nipple stimulation to induce Labour and also during labour to help the process along. When women release oxytocin it can help to soften muscles, sooth pain and dilate the cervix.

I can assure you it is very different to a usual sexual scenario with everything else that is going on... But I definitely experienced euphoria and altered States during birth. I had no painkillers for both my children so was naturally high and bonkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lord no. Were they mistaking the total and utter relief of the 'pop' of the shoulders as orgasm I wonder

I think ladies can do without the pressure of seen to be 'seeking' orgasm during childbirth. Heavens

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Why do you ask OP?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

Oh dear dear dear.....

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"How exactly would they pull that off "hold on doctor do you mind if I masturbait before my child pops out don't worry I won't be long"

Haha again it depends on the Bishops score, if it’s under 5 the spontaneous rupture of membranes is unlikely. So people can try all sorts to help induce labour. It’s a really interesting topic I find

Wait what in the blue hell does a bishop have to do with this dirty fecks and they are keeping score to make it worse god damn

Hahaha I think the person who invented it was called Dr Bishop...it basically a scoring system to see how likely a natural delivery was...although I think scale is more accurate! "

Jeysus a doctor and a bishop very clever he can touch people and get away with it at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I met someone who did. There is a literature from believers.

If you read about midwife Ina May Gaskin she would always encourage partners in birth to kiss cuddle and stimulate nipples of the mother to help release oxytocin and also as as a way of dealing with urges/contractions. There is a lady whose name I forgot now who is a huge advocate of Orgasmic birth. I will find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debra Pascali-Bonaro is the name. She also wrote a book and has been invited to quite few childbirth related conferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is actually true that some women may experience contractions similar to orgasms during birth.. Mostly at the stage of pushing or just before.. in the transition phase. There is increased blood flow and a surge of endorphins, adrenaline and oxytocin which can induce euphoria and indeed feelings like arousal and maybe even orgasm.

Many couples use sex, kissing, stroking and nipple stimulation to induce Labour and also during labour to help the process along. When women release oxytocin it can help to soften muscles, sooth pain and dilate the cervix.

I can assure you it is very different to a usual sexual scenario with everything else that is going on... But I definitely experienced euphoria and altered States during birth. I had no painkillers for both my children so was naturally high and bonkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but I met someone who did. There is a literature from believers.

If you read about midwife Ina May Gaskin she would always encourage partners in birth to kiss cuddle and stimulate nipples of the mother to help release oxytocin and also as as a way of dealing with urges/contractions. There is a lady whose name I forgot now who is a huge advocate of Orgasmic birth. I will find it. "

Hahaaaaa yey ... I thought you lot must think I’m cracked mentioning Greys ... but that right there what you just put was kinda like the storyline I’d seen xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Eh? The pain you go through during childbirth, there is no way it would be physically possible for me to have an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is actually true that some women may experience contractions similar to orgasms during birth.. Mostly at the stage of pushing or just before.. in the transition phase. There is increased blood flow and a surge of endorphins, adrenaline and oxytocin which can induce euphoria and indeed feelings like arousal and maybe even orgasm.

Many couples use sex, kissing, stroking and nipple stimulation to induce Labour and also during labour to help the process along. When women release oxytocin it can help to soften muscles, sooth pain and dilate the cervix.

I can assure you it is very different to a usual sexual scenario with everything else that is going on... But I definitely experienced euphoria and altered States during birth. I had no painkillers for both my children so was naturally high and bonkers!

"

That’s really interesting...was the feeling of euphoria at the end of childbirth? There’s some really interesting brain chemistry that happens just after birth to do with oxytocin and stuff that allows the mother to bond, it’s amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you ask OP? "

Just curious, as it’s totally alien to me , and seems to have sparked some lively and informative replies .

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you ask OP?

Just curious, as it’s totally alien to me , and seems to have sparked some lively and informative replies . "

What is alien? A woman having an orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP have you been binge watching Greys Anatomy by any chance? "

I wasn't but you said it was in a storyline? I read Gaskin books when I was pregnant and watched some clips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not what the threads about but still...

I found it incredibly arousing during the build up to my wife giving birth and was very embarrassing but she found me hilarious and said it helped relax her.

It’s the noises she was making and the way her body moved.

That soon dissolved as soon as it got serious and I ended up a blubbering mess.

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required

Haha, absolutely. By the time you reach that point you are willing to try anything and just hope it will work eventually they do arrive

That’s very true! How many weeks were you if you don’t mind me asking? I just finished my obs abs gyne rotation so I geeked out on this kinda stuff for like 4 months haha "

No worries, 41weeks 4days, but felt like about 5 years lol.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

Until you push a melon out of a whole the size of a lemon I don't think us men will ever know that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required

Haha, absolutely. By the time you reach that point you are willing to try anything and just hope it will work eventually they do arrive

That’s very true! How many weeks were you if you don’t mind me asking? I just finished my obs abs gyne rotation so I geeked out on this kinda stuff for like 4 months haha

No worries, 41weeks 4days, but felt like about 5 years lol. "

Haha I bet it did! 3 more days and I’m guessing induction was on the cards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP have you been binge watching Greys Anatomy by any chance?

I wasn't but you said it was in a storyline? I read Gaskin books when I was pregnant and watched some clips. "

It was a storyline in Greys too yes - recent binge watch of mine

One of the gynae docs was suggesting it as a method of pain relief, most of the mothers looked at her like she was mad ... but it is a real thing too as you posted x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"It is actually true that some women may experience contractions similar to orgasms during birth.. Mostly at the stage of pushing or just before.. in the transition phase. There is increased blood flow and a surge of endorphins, adrenaline and oxytocin which can induce euphoria and indeed feelings like arousal and maybe even orgasm.

Many couples use sex, kissing, stroking and nipple stimulation to induce Labour and also during labour to help the process along. When women release oxytocin it can help to soften muscles, sooth pain and dilate the cervix.

I can assure you it is very different to a usual sexual scenario with everything else that is going on... But I definitely experienced euphoria and altered States during birth. I had no painkillers for both my children so was naturally high and bonkers!

That’s really interesting...was the feeling of euphoria at the end of childbirth? There’s some really interesting brain chemistry that happens just after birth to do with oxytocin and stuff that allows the mother to bond, it’s amazing "

I would say I had a few moments of euphoria throughout. For me at times it was a very sensual experience and my body was on fire in a very primal state. You're right.. We are mammals after all and especially when left as much as possible to let what our innate senses naturally do it's a very special and amazing process. It wasn't bloody easy but I'd do it again if I could. The birth bit anyway.. No more babies for me though I'm done

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Not what the threads about but still...

I found it incredibly arousing during the build up to my wife giving birth and was very embarrassing but she found me hilarious and said it helped relax her.

It’s the noises she was making and the way her body moved.

That soon dissolved as soon as it got serious and I ended up a blubbering mess."

This is lovely to read! Watching your woman in her rocking, moaning natural state bringing your baby into the world is fucking awesome! I know my partner at the time felt the same.. Until the overwhelm hits! Its a massive experience to share and witness and brings couples super close and in awe.

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required

Haha, absolutely. By the time you reach that point you are willing to try anything and just hope it will work eventually they do arrive

That’s very true! How many weeks were you if you don’t mind me asking? I just finished my obs abs gyne rotation so I geeked out on this kinda stuff for like 4 months haha

No worries, 41weeks 4days, but felt like about 5 years lol.

Haha I bet it did! 3 more days and I’m guessing induction was on the cards? "

Yes, had it booked for two days later! she arrived when she was ready(and on positive note we didn’t have to go through induction and all the extra stress that involves lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

I remember a lady who was the mum of one of the kiddy’s at preschool was in the paper for this she would orgasm when giving birth non stop

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Jebus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only guessing here but I'm thinking op ain't never been in as Labour ward ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's also supposed to be good for you while in labour to help with pain & move things on quicker.

wish i was told that when i had mine haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not stupid at all OP. It can happen in certain conditions. I gave birth my second and third child in a water birthing pool at home with the appropriate medical assistance. When the woman is relaxed and fully conscious of her body it truly can happen. These a lot of stigmas about homebirthing and it's not for everyone. But its definetely an experience I would recomend to those with the previous research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sceptical around this and will remain so forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 31/01/21 20:54:22]

We tried this but can safely say it didn’t work..... our youngest decided to arrive when she was ready(way later than when we were expecting her to arrive) And as far as orgasm question; no bloody way!! Whoever said that was lying, it’s the most intense and unreal pain I’ve ever felt.

Haha yes, hopefully was the big caveat in that statement! Generally it depends on something called the bishops score to say if labour will happen naturally or if assistance is required

Haha, absolutely. By the time you reach that point you are willing to try anything and just hope it will work eventually they do arrive

That’s very true! How many weeks were you if you don’t mind me asking? I just finished my obs abs gyne rotation so I geeked out on this kinda stuff for like 4 months haha

No worries, 41weeks 4days, but felt like about 5 years lol.

Haha I bet it did! 3 more days and I’m guessing induction was on the cards?

Yes, had it booked for two days later! she arrived when she was ready(and on positive note we didn’t have to go through induction and all the extra stress that involves lol) "

Haha yea induction can be really stressful, I remember as a student going to one for learning, and I was all excited about it, I was there for like 14 hours! Like it was magical and everything but I couldn’t believe how much meds we had given to this poor women, that baby was not budging haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"it's also supposed to be good for you while in labour to help with pain & move things on quicker.

wish i was told that when i had mine haha"

I actually think I saw this in Greys anatomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's also supposed to be good for you while in labour to help with pain & move things on quicker.

wish i was told that when i had mine haha

I actually think I saw this in Greys anatomy "

It’s all about the oxytocin and prostaglandins

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Through hypn0birthing and other techniques, it's said to be acheivable.

So certainly not a stupid question!

Unfortunately not the case for me! Though gas and air is fucking hilarious stuff! The stuff I thought I heard and saw on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not stupid at all OP. It can happen in certain conditions. I gave birth my second and third child in a water birthing pool at home with the appropriate medical assistance. When the woman is relaxed and fully conscious of her body it truly can happen. These a lot of stigmas about homebirthing and it's not for everyone. But its definetely an experience I would recomend to those with the previous research "

Hello fellow home birther

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I squirted during child birth. Not really, it was my waters being broken for me.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Ahh ffs

I only logged in 5 min ago,,

Well that's enough Fab for one week,

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Ignore thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not stupid at all OP. It can happen in certain conditions. I gave birth my second and third child in a water birthing pool at home with the appropriate medical assistance. When the woman is relaxed and fully conscious of her body it truly can happen. These a lot of stigmas about homebirthing and it's not for everyone. But its definetely an experience I would recomend to those with the previous research

Hello fellow home birther "
hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

"

Sadly they were born in hospital? What’s sad? You have your babies and they are healthy...count your blessings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

"

Were you hoping that you would have home births?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm only guessing here but I'm thinking op ain't never been in as Labour ward ? "

I have been in a labour ward to see the birth of my two children and wouldn’t swap it for the world !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

Sadly they were born in hospital? What’s sad? You have your babies and they are healthy...count your blessings "

I know I'm lucky to have healthy children and I'm very thankful for the midwifes etc in hospital. However, there is some sadness for me because its not the birth I wanted to have. I had pre eclampsia. Home birthing just wasn't an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

Were you hoping that you would have home births? "

Yes.

I won't bore people with details here but I had my first son when I was 17 and the whole hospital experience was horrific. My wishes completely disregarded.

When I had my 2nd I was too risky.

Although with my third I was better, it was still ruled out because of my 2nd.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks


"

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/6-cent-women-orgasm-during-birth-study-suggests-a7015986.html

6% experienced orgasmic births apparently according to statistics in 2016

"

I checked the link. It's based on a survey. The first question I ask when presented with survey results is, "Who funded the survey? What was asked and how?". This survey was commissioned by the 'scientists' at ChannelMum. A parenting website. I don't know the questions they asked for this survey. That info isn't published.

But it's certainly possible that they've included women who felt euphoria akin to an orgasm as orgasmic. It's also possible they've included sarcastic responses as positive ones. "Painful? No, it was like having multiple orgasms after half a bottle of Tia Maria. Twat"

Just saying, never trust surveys that don't tell you what was asked and how it was assessed

Science or clickbait? You decide...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

"

I had my first baby in the hospital and it wasn't too bad but I would have loved to have the same experience I had with my second and third. My husband was there to help me go through it he received both babies in his hands and cut the umbilical. We recorded the whole thing for them when they grow a bit more. My eldest daughter saw everything too. the babies arrived in the warmth of our home, safe and healthy. That's what I call a humanized birth. Nothing against hospitals by the way. Just a personal decision when everything was in favour for it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

Were you hoping that you would have home births? "

Was that the fake trainee doctor? Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. Ermmmm no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly all my boys were born in hospital. My hospital phobia probably made it impossible to relax enough to make childbirth the magical and wonderful experience I hoped it would be.

Sadly they were born in hospital? What’s sad? You have your babies and they are healthy...count your blessings

I know I'm lucky to have healthy children and I'm very thankful for the midwifes etc in hospital. However, there is some sadness for me because its not the birth I wanted to have. I had pre eclampsia. Home birthing just wasn't an option. "

It's ok to grieve the kind of birth you didn't get. And I'm sorry that you had horrific experiences. No woman should go through this x

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

Not a stupid question OP. It does occasionally happen, usually as the baby's head puts pressure on the G spot as it is crowning.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ?

Not a stupid question OP. It does occasionally happen, usually as the baby's head puts pressure on the G spot as it is crowning.

K "

Many thanks , it’s just nice to know , a thought that has crossed my mind recently !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's also supposed to be good for you while in labour to help with pain & move things on quicker.

wish i was told that when i had mine haha

I actually think I saw this in Greys anatomy "

You did ... I did too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

Maybe you are yet another guy who watches too much porn.

Just a tip.

Porn isn't real.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ?

Maybe you are yet another guy who watches too much porn.

Just a tip.

I would read the

Rest of the thread if I were you !

Just a tip !

Porn isn't real."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know. "

Just asking an honest question ? I am surprised by the varied and sometimes hostile replies , but refreshingly, mostly informative !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know.

Just asking an honest question ? I am surprised by the varied and sometimes hostile replies , but refreshingly, mostly informative ! "

Have you ever been in a labour room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know.

Just asking an honest question ? I am surprised by the varied and sometimes hostile replies , but refreshingly, mostly informative !

Have you ever been in a labour room?"

And people honestly think that it isn't a stupid question. ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know.

Just asking an honest question ? I am surprised by the varied and sometimes hostile replies , but refreshingly, mostly informative !

Have you ever been in a labour room?

And people honestly think that it isn't a stupid question. ...?"

Im thinking maybe OP doesnt really know anything about the whole childbirth thing

P'raps he thinks women lie there, planning what sexy outfit they're gonna wear the following night? And they get all horneeee

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Fab forum, the gift that keeps giving!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Nope. I got nothing "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I really would like to know where you got any suggestion from that this could possibly be true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really would like to know where you got any suggestion from that this could possibly be true?"

Maybe he cums from having a big jobbie and figured it's much the same thing?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Reads thread the independent..I'm gob smacked

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Orgasmic childbirth — aka a birth-gasm — is when a woman has an orgasm while she's in labour. And even though it's a relatively rare phenomenon (one study suggests it occurs in just 0.3 percent of women), it's a legit possible one.2 Jun 2019

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people seem outraged by this but the OP is absolutely right.

There is a birth technique called orgasmic birthing.

It was fairly niche until recently but has become a quite popular way of giving birth and you can even hire coaches to guide you through this.

A little bit of research will show you he is not being outrageous it really is a thing and it's a growing (for one for the better word) craze.

Last week they were talking about it on loose women it was actually really interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For you sceptics out there this is a link to what they talked about on loose women and I didn't really understand it so i looked it up because I didn't really understand it at it really is a thing.

https://youtu.be/wPm_Gf5kNGk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the concept of orgasmic birthing is literally about having an orgasm when you're giving birth

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know.

Just asking an honest question ? I am surprised by the varied and sometimes hostile replies , but refreshingly, mostly informative ! "

It's not a stupid question at all, it's a well documented though fairly rare phenomenon and it's a shame so many have chosen to belittle you for an honest question.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"Don't think it's a stupid question and not sure why the sarky remarks tbh you don't know what you don't know.

Just asking an honest question ? I am surprised by the varied and sometimes hostile replies , but refreshingly, mostly informative !

It's not a stupid question at all, it's a well documented though fairly rare phenomenon and it's a shame so many have chosen to belittle you for an honest question. "

Agree.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Orgasmic birthing and obstetrical orgasm are 2 different things. One is a birthing technique, the other is a spontaneous reaction. Both are real.

K

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ? "

I was a Midwife for 25 years and this came up in conversation a couple of times.

Some women have likened some aspects of uninterrupted, supported, naturally advancing birth to the high of an orgasm but nobody had ever admitted to having one.

Conversely, three women in my career absolutely refused to breastfeed because they were convinced that their nipples would need to be poked with needles to get the milk out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid or crass question, but have any ladies on here experienced an orgasm during childbirth ?

I was a Midwife for 25 years and this came up in conversation a couple of times.

Some women have likened some aspects of uninterrupted, supported, naturally advancing birth to the high of an orgasm but nobody had ever admitted to having one.

Conversely, three women in my career absolutely refused to breastfeed because they were convinced that their nipples would need to be poked with needles to get the milk out."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok on baby 3 I didn’t orgasm during birth, but I came close as baby was crowning...it was pretty intense and wouldn’t have taken much to push me over the edge...it felt amazing ....it was the 3 days in intensive care that wasn’t so good

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