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"There are people on the pitch They think it’s all over now "IT IS Now !!!  | |||
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"Well obviously it's dead at moment so maybe they think it's time wasting as meetings not happening. I think there will be a huge surge in action when things do get back to meeting after social distancing over" I’m sceptical it will ever return to the way it was clubs , socials , holidays etc | |||
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"Lot of our friends we made over 18 years of swinging seem to be leaving fab like they are giving up on the scene . Will it ever be what it was or is the swinging scene finished ? " It won't die but it will evolve like all things. You just need To decide if you are willing to evolve with it or not I guess. | |||
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"There are people on the pitch " It took me ages to get this | |||
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"It will still be a thing, whilst for a while it is on hold and may change it wont stop fully.. " sadly it hasn’t stopped fully now | |||
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"It will still be a thing, whilst for a while it is on hold and may change it wont stop fully.. sadly it hasn’t stopped fully now " Yes, not a surprise but inevitable.. | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted."  I totally agree | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted." Agreed. The mask has come off and I'm fucking appalled. | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted." This. The amount of selfish, entitled people disgusts me, being asked to make a small sacrifice to help save lives so we can get through this as quick as possible, imagine the hardest thing you’ve been asked to do in your life is stay at home and wear a mask when you’re out then you’ve lead a privilege life. | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted. This. The amount of selfish, entitled people disgusts me, being asked to make a small sacrifice to help save lives so we can get through this as quick as possible, imagine the hardest thing you’ve been asked to do in your life is stay at home and wear a mask when you’re out then you’ve lead a privilege life. " This....And yet some people can't seem to be capable of it. Sickening to see how selfish people can be | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted." Definitely agree. Nobody can be that desperate for sex! For some its like the be all and end all! | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted. This. The amount of selfish, entitled people disgusts me, being asked to make a small sacrifice to help save lives so we can get through this as quick as possible, imagine the hardest thing you’ve been asked to do in your life is stay at home and wear a mask when you’re out then you’ve lead a privilege life. " Absolutely on board with this thought process. It's bad enough seeing the numbers of infected and deaths on the news, but when you're contacted by someone or see someone still trying to hook up via status updates it then becomes personal. It's like you're being told "your life and health means nothing to me, I really don't care if YOU become another statistic, another number on the news and if you do? Don't matter, you fulfilled MY 'need' for that moment and that's what's important to me" Makes me think that humankind really is shameful. If these people are prepared to take your life, your health, your future away, they'd have no issue taking anything else from you, being rifling through your possessions if they were in your home, ignoring your own rules and boundaries etc. You mean nothing, your life is worth nothing. That's the message it sends to me anyway. | |||
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"There are an awful lot more people on here wanting instant gratification with sex chats and cam/phone sex, they don't want any non sexual conversations, its all just wank fodder" Totally agree what most guys want no interest in any other form of interaction | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted. This. The amount of selfish, entitled people disgusts me, being asked to make a small sacrifice to help save lives so we can get through this as quick as possible, imagine the hardest thing you’ve been asked to do in your life is stay at home and wear a mask when you’re out then you’ve lead a privilege life. Absolutely on board with this thought process. It's bad enough seeing the numbers of infected and deaths on the news, but when you're contacted by someone or see someone still trying to hook up via status updates it then becomes personal. It's like you're being told "your life and health means nothing to me, I really don't care if YOU become another statistic, another number on the news and if you do? Don't matter, you fulfilled MY 'need' for that moment and that's what's important to me" Makes me think that humankind really is shameful. If these people are prepared to take your life, your health, your future away, they'd have no issue taking anything else from you, being rifling through your possessions if they were in your home, ignoring your own rules and boundaries etc. You mean nothing, your life is worth nothing. That's the message it sends to me anyway." Totally agree. It has been a real eye opener seeing just how incredibly entitled & selfish a huge percentage of the population are. It has brought out the very worst in some people, but thankfully it has also shown that there are still some genuinely good, selfless, people in the world as well. | |||
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted. This. The amount of selfish, entitled people disgusts me, being asked to make a small sacrifice to help save lives so we can get through this as quick as possible, imagine the hardest thing you’ve been asked to do in your life is stay at home and wear a mask when you’re out then you’ve lead a privilege life. Absolutely on board with this thought process. It's bad enough seeing the numbers of infected and deaths on the news, but when you're contacted by someone or see someone still trying to hook up via status updates it then becomes personal. It's like you're being told "your life and health means nothing to me, I really don't care if YOU become another statistic, another number on the news and if you do? Don't matter, you fulfilled MY 'need' for that moment and that's what's important to me" Makes me think that humankind really is shameful. If these people are prepared to take your life, your health, your future away, they'd have no issue taking anything else from you, being rifling through your possessions if they were in your home, ignoring your own rules and boundaries etc. You mean nothing, your life is worth nothing. That's the message it sends to me anyway. Totally agree. It has been a real eye opener seeing just how incredibly entitled & selfish a huge percentage of the population are. It has brought out the very worst in some people, but thankfully it has also shown that there are still some genuinely good, selfless, people in the world as well. " It also makes me think if that huge amount can be so brazen about it, then there's sure as hell more that are being more sneaky about it and not so in your face with it all. It adds fuel to the fact I already struggle to trust people. | |||
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"There are an awful lot more people on here wanting instant gratification with sex chats and cam/phone sex, they don't want any non sexual conversations, its all just wank fodder Totally agree what most guys want no interest in any other form of interaction " Do you not think it could be like a post coital fag? So people have their release and then chill into a nice chat afterwards ? Surely I'm not the only single on here who enjoys a proper chat ? | |||
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"Lot of our friends we made over 18 years of swinging seem to be leaving fab like they are giving up on the scene . Will it ever be what it was or is the swinging scene finished ? It won't die but it will evolve like all things. You just need To decide if you are willing to evolve with it or not I guess. " I would say you have hit the nail on the head Evie! Andy  | |||
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"Lot of our friends we made over 18 years of swinging seem to be leaving fab like they are giving up on the scene . Will it ever be what it was or is the swinging scene finished ? " I'm not convinced that people leaving Fab is directly linked to the current situation. My feed this morning was full of people wanting lemo, along with free site supporter access. It feels like a proliferation of idiots have discovered Fab of late. I'm sure it will improve and some of your acquaintances will return. Hang in there! | |||
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"Lot of our friends we made over 18 years of swinging seem to be leaving fab like they are giving up on the scene . Will it ever be what it was or is the swinging scene finished ? I'm not convinced that people leaving Fab is directly linked to the current situation. My feed this morning was full of people wanting lemo, along with free site supporter access. It feels like a proliferation of idiots have discovered Fab of late. I'm sure it will improve and some of your acquaintances will return. Hang in there! "It's a bit like the site has become a victim of its own success. Swinging for me is about trust, honesty, respect and respect for rules and boundaries etc. Those values are getting lost. | |||
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" It's a bit like the site has become a victim of its own success. Swinging for me is about trust, honesty, respect and respect for rules and boundaries etc. Those values are getting lost." Yeah I get that. My background is BDSM, that scene has dramatically altered with the 50 shades rubbish. We are a throwaway society, but some of the things we are discarding we should be keeping.  | |||
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" It's a bit like the site has become a victim of its own success. Swinging for me is about trust, honesty, respect and respect for rules and boundaries etc. Those values are getting lost. Yeah I get that. My background is BDSM, that scene has dramatically altered with the 50 shades rubbish. We are a throwaway society, but some of the things we are discarding we should be keeping. "I'd already given myself the timeline of the next Brum social as to whether I leave the scene or not. If it wasn't for the forums I'd be long gone anyway as I'm well aware that to 90% of the site I'm just another vag that can't get enough cock, a right slut who drops her knickers at the thought of a throbbing cock. I must be, I'm on a site like this..
Clubs were always my "safe place" but even there I've had the odd chap de-sheath when they think you're distracted. I was lucky that I heard the snap of the condom being hurriedly removed as I went from my back to doggy, quickly reached my hand back to check and yep, bare cock.
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"Well without wanting to sound negative. Apart from the shocking deaths and illness that has happened. The next biggest thing I have personally noticed that has come from the pandemic is how selfish people are and ignorant to public and personal health. It has certainly made us really consider how/if we are going to Continue once things settle down. As many have said if people are things blase and irresponsible about a life threatening virus, they really are not going to give a flying fuck who and what they fuck. I fully expect to see an explosion of STDs once restrictions lifted. This. The amount of selfish, entitled people disgusts me, being asked to make a small sacrifice to help save lives so we can get through this as quick as possible, imagine the hardest thing you’ve been asked to do in your life is stay at home and wear a mask when you’re out then you’ve lead a privilege life. "
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"There are people on the pitch It took me ages to get this "Probably because the quote has been butchered  | |||
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