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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm 19 and have been chatting to a few couples all ages, age has never been an issue to me but having said that never been with a couple.

Do you think it would be an issue eventually meeting a much older couple.

Have found the older couples much nicer to chat with.

Has anyone had any experience of a big age gap meet good or bad?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Age only becomes an issue if it's made to be an issue ... there's 19 years between the pair of us ... the only issue is me having to explain 80s culture to Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you I find older people nice to talk too.

a lot of them look very good indeed and when we can are people I would meet.

People worry to much about age. You can still have fun

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's not so much about age but about connection - if a connection is there then age shouldn't matter - however without a connection I'd find it very difficult to relate to someone a lot younger than me, especially if they were the same age or younger than my kids.

That said if everyone is happy with the arrangement then I don't see the problem.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s all about the connection. If you get on well and feel relaxed on their company, age shouldn’t matter. It’s only an issue if you keep focusing on it.

Oh and I’ve just added to my hotlist on here OP

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

She was 20 years younger. I liked her as she had a very mature attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had both good and bad experiences.

I’m in my 20s and prefer older.

I’d just say be careful because I find many can be very patronising even when they don’t realise it, I’ve also found when I’ve politely rejected some older men they’ve got abusive about my age and proceeded to call me a “little girl who doesn’t know anything”.

Apart from that you can have great experiences with anyone as long as you are careful! X

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not something I've any experience of as my lower age filters will always remain at 10 years above my eldest child.

I've no interest in engaging with anyone below that age and never will.

Got into a row once in a chat group when a woman in her 20s pm'd me and I politely declined her advances. She accepted my explanation and no harm done. A few hours later I got a lot of abuse on the group chat from another man who was more than happy to meet her but felt that I was stuck up and must be gay if I didn't want to meet her.

She had obviously told him about our conversation but he didn't seem to understand that not everyone thinks the same.

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