FabSwingers.com forum: married women.

By *exy Two-Shoes40 OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

It's not strange at all, married women are sexy. Women shouldn't be judged differently from men

Actually prefer married women. Slightly less judgemental I find. Would actually love to find a regular local married FB.

"does it matter married or single, its only sex not getting into long term relationship, lots of husbands cant satisfy there wife, so let another guy do the fucking , and same for the guys if there not getting any fun at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They loooove me.

They love getting away from their pot bellied judgemental boring husbands.

Like the care free big cocked gent.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"They loooove me.

They love getting away from their pot bellied judgemental boring husbands.

Like the care free big cocked gent."
Oh dear!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think its up to the individual what they do, only they know their situation and only they have to live with themselves. I do think that if what you're doing could negatively affect someone else you should think very carefully before you do it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

Mrs kf x

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"It's not strange at all, married women are sexy. Women shouldn't be judged differently from men

Actually prefer married women. Slightly less judgemental I find. Would actually love to find a regular local married FB.

That's not swinging though right.

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

Mrs kf x"

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

must be the simplest and most honest NSA relationship you can have. I wish I could find a married woman who does'nt want to change their situation whatsoever like myself but needs a mini vacation from normal life and non existent or occasional vanilla sex at home. A very mutually understanding and empathic occasional relationship is totally possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

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By *ickynicks12Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

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By *nholy TrinityCouple (MM)
over a year ago

leeds/york

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife "

That does seem to be the general attitude on Fab

Though I think us chaps are somewhat to blame - there are very few guys who would pass up the opportunity on fab to meet with a married woman, it wouldn’t put them off in any way, whereas there are very many women on fab who would be appalled by the thought of meeting an attached man.

Some solidarity of “the bro’s” would help redress that balance though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married women. Not all rubber gloves and drudgery.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met a married woman in the past on here. I got no kick out of it. I’m glad it ended fairly quickly. I wasn’t comfortable with it.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I feel it’s seems socially acceptable for a married lady to play away but when it comes to a married man it’s so wrong and not accepted in the same way and get called a cheat . I’m a married man of 25 years and my wife’s idea of a healthy sex life is five minutes once a year leaving me unsatisfied abs it’s been like that for 18 years or so. I would so like to meet a local married lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They loooove me.

They love getting away from their pot bellied judgemental boring husbands.

Like the care free big cocked gent."

But no face to face verifications in over a year?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I feel it’s seems socially acceptable for a married lady to play away but when it comes to a married man it’s so wrong and not accepted in the same way and get called a cheat . I’m a married man of 25 years and my wife’s idea of a healthy sex life is five minutes once a year leaving me unsatisfied abs it’s been like that for 18 years or so. I would so like to meet a local married lady "

I don't think it is socially acceptable in the real world for a married woman to cheat, in fact in my experience it is usually the opposite.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I don't think it is socially acceptable in the real world for a married woman to cheat, in fact in my experience it is usually the opposite. "

In the real world yes it’s not acceptable but on here it is

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Just because someone is married doesn't mean they are on here due to not getting enough at home! I'm on here with my husband we have a profile together but also both have our own singles profiles, I actually wouldn't know about this site if it wasn't for him or how much fun swinging can be

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

"Just because someone is married doesn't mean they are on here due to not getting enough at home! I'm on here with my husband we have a profile together but also both have our own singles profiles, I actually wouldn't know about this site if it wasn't for him or how much fun swinging can be"

but that different cos both of you are on here and have each other’s consent. We’re talking about men and women on here without their other half knowing

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

but that different cos both of you are on here and have each other’s consent. We’re talking about men and women on here without their other half knowing "

That's just cheating no matter what gender if it's without the other knowing doesn't matter how it's dressed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a married woman from time to time,her husband knows all about me ,as long as everyone is happy and no one gets hurt I can't see the problem enjoy life while we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

Mrs kf x"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"They loooove me.

They love getting away from their pot bellied judgemental boring husbands.

Like the care free big cocked gent.

But no face to face verifications in over a year?"

It's almost as if we've been told we can't fuck random strangers on the Internet as well as our family and friends to try and stop the spread of covid 19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask tbh

adults decide and I don't judge.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I've only got involved if the M approves. He took pics and video.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Is it less socially acceptable for men to cheat due to the old 'stereo type', that the poor wife would be left to fend for herself with the kids, no income and possibly have to move out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate horses for courses and the thrill of the chase and not really committed.

I am man who was cheated on and I can actually say it’s heart breaking and family destroying. Still hurts me to this day and you should really think about other peoples feelings before you do it. As a man the woman always wins regardless in divorce and once divorced you won’t like her as she’s divorced so think twice before you ruin lives. This is fabswingers not cheating house wife’s. Stay safe peace out.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Is it less socially acceptable for men to cheat due to the old 'stereo type', that the poor wife would be left to fend for herself with the kids, no income and possibly have to move out?"

In non-fab life, I don't think it's ever particularly acceptable for a man or a woman, is it? On here it's purely a numbers game. Far more men than women so proportionally more of them are going to be playing away. The women are in higher demand, hence why some think it's more acceptable for women than men to be cheating on here. It's all subjective though - for many, it's never OK.

Mrs kf x

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx"

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just for clarity the married woman I saw. Her husband had no idea. She was “cheating” on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady."

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady speaking has a medical condition so she is different

Most people cheating on here do it just to be selfish.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It does matter to me if someone's playing behind their partners back, male or female as there is some unknowing partner sat at home.

However many men, not all will still meet women who are cheating and some see it as a turn on,so that's why women are able to do it with not much criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on here a long time and being married I have noticed that the married women on here tend to be unhappily married and stuck, whereas the men tend to be happily married but not getting enough sex.

That isnt to say all situations are like this, but after 11 years of asking I can confidently say the majority are.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Being on here a long time and being married I have noticed that the married women on here tend to be unhappily married and stuck, whereas the men tend to be happily married but not getting enough sex.

That isnt to say all situations are like this, but after 11 years of asking I can confidently say the majority are.

This is a very interesting observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That isnt to say all situations are like this, but after 11 years of asking I can confidently say the majority are.

That's interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That isnt to say all situations are like this, but after 11 years of asking I can confidently say the majority are.

This is a very interesting observation. "

Ooh snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's acceptable for men OR women. It's the level of deceit, which isn't a good trait in a person.

If you're no longer compatible with your spouse, for whatever reason, then surely it makes more sense to end the relationship? It will hurt them of course, but then it will probably hurt them more finding out you've been cheated on for X number of years later down the line?

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course. "

But mine doesn't know anything about my intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may not like this but it's got to be said ....From a personal point of view I'm not in agreement with either half of a married couple cheating and yes it is cheating. My wife cheated on me and left me alone with 3 kids which had a devestating affect on all of them especially our daughter. Just think twice before you have sent "fun" with a married person because there's always someone who's world you're potentially going to destroy if and when the get found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

Mrs kf x"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Is it less socially acceptable for men to cheat due to the old 'stereo type', that the poor wife would be left to fend for herself with the kids, no income and possibly have to move out?"

Men are just rampant sex beasts with absolutely no control of their sexual desires, whereas women are on a higher plane of physical and mental awareness. It’s just Nature, we can’t help it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

Mrs kf x"

Well said that's exactly how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet a married woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**LIKE**

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

"I'm a married woman.

I love fucking other men.

My husband loves it too.

Does that mean he can't satisfy me or we are fed up with each other?

No fucking way.

This is me too!

Mrs kf x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They loooove me.

They love getting away from their pot bellied judgemental boring husbands.

Like the care free big cocked gent. Oh dear!

Yes.....oh dear! There’s always one.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx"

Fair play to you. I have the same situation as you and was once, on here, referred to as "scum of the earth" because of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to meet a married woman

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

"They loooove me.

They love getting away from their pot bellied judgemental boring husbands.

Like the care free big cocked gent. Oh dear!

Exactly my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's acceptable for men OR women. It's the level of deceit, which isn't a good trait in a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married women. Not all rubber gloves and drudgery.

You can keep the rubber gloves if you like..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course.

But mine doesn't know anything about my intentions."

So you are just cheating for selfish reasons? What is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not strange at all, married women are sexy. Women shouldn't be judged differently from men

Actually prefer married women. Slightly less judgemental I find. Would actually love to find a regular local married FB.

Spoken by a truly sexy man!

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course.

But mine doesn't know anything about my intentions.

So you are just cheating for selfish reasons? What is it??"

What business is it of yours, whether I'm cheating for selfish reasons or not?

My own personal life is just that. Personal, and I don't pre-judge or label people. I accept them for what they are, with all their various flaws.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We always want what we can’t have.

By definition, married women are unattainable.

And that’s sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course.

But mine doesn't know anything about my intentions.

So you are just cheating for selfish reasons? What is it??

What business is it of yours, whether I'm cheating for selfish reasons or not?

My own personal life is just that. Personal, and I don't pre-judge or label people. I accept them for what they are, with all their various flaws."

Saying “I don’t judge” is a cop out.

Because everyone judges even when they don’t realise there doing it.

I find it’s often those who cheat and who aren’t 10p% comfortable with what they’re doing preach about “Don’t judge” but in the next breath they’ll judge those who are judging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course.

But mine doesn't know anything about my intentions.

So you are just cheating for selfish reasons? What is it??

What business is it of yours, whether I'm cheating for selfish reasons or not?

My own personal life is just that. Personal, and I don't pre-judge or label people. I accept them for what they are, with all their various flaws.

Saying “I don’t judge” is a cop out.

Because everyone judges even when they don’t realise there doing it.

I find it’s often those who cheat and who aren’t 10p% comfortable with what they’re doing preach about “Don’t judge” but in the next breath they’ll judge those who are judging them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general, I don't think it is. I know two married women who cheated, got caught, and were judged *very* harshly by society, by their families, by their children. One was told it was her own fault that her husband violently attacked her upon finding out, and the other's adult children no longer talk to her.

I also know a few men who have cheated and lost relationships, but there seems to be more of a 'men will be men' attitude towards it.

On here, I think it seems more skewered because men seem more likely to not care about a woman's circumstances if he gets to have sex.

(obviously not all men)

Just my thoughts and observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but that different cos both of you are on here and have each other’s consent. We’re talking about men and women on here without their other half knowing

That's just cheating no matter what gender if it's without the other knowing doesn't matter how it's dressed up "

There is nothing honest about cheating on your partner, lies, sneaking about etc..male or female it's no excuse.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

We came on fab thinking with what goes on different things people are into all their kinks etc and some so judgemental of couples that play away from partners, not knowing all the facts etc. Some have medical Reason Some have partners than arnt interested in them any more sexually and have tried and tried to get them interested again. There are loads of reason And that's why while I'm on fab I'm judging noone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married n I play away hubby don’t know tho, he’s got medical issues, but I have needs, n any guy I meet I state clearly my situation n that I have no intention of leaving my husband xx

Almost in the same situation as yourself. Imho, nothing wrong so long as feelings don't come into play. If they do. Just walk away and find another guy...or in my case lady.

Nothing wrong in playing if you are married?

That is true if the other partner knows of course.

But mine doesn't know anything about my intentions.

So you are just cheating for selfish reasons? What is it??

What business is it of yours, whether I'm cheating for selfish reasons or not?

My own personal life is just that. Personal, and I don't pre-judge or label people. I accept them for what they are, with all their various flaws."

Touchy.

We don't pre-judge people when what they are doing doesn't hurt others, but when it is selfish and can blow a n innocent person's life apart it is totally different.

Your tone tells us all we need to do.

Love the name by the way.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Is it less socially acceptable for men to cheat due to the old 'stereo type', that the poor wife would be left to fend for herself with the kids, no income and possibly have to move out?

Mrs kf x "

It’s not acceptable anywhere. Unless you accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but that different cos both of you are on here and have each other’s consent. We’re talking about men and women on here without their other half knowing

That's just cheating no matter what gender if it's without the other knowing doesn't matter how it's dressed up

There is nothing honest about cheating on your partner, lies, sneaking about etc..male or female it's no excuse."

This is exactly it.

Dishonest, disresectful and an abuse of trust.

Like above, no excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife "

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!"

There should not be any dual standards.

If a man is scum for playing away, then so should a woman be as well.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!"

I agree that men are more tolerant of cheating women than women are of cheating men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!

I agree that men are more tolerant of cheating women than women are of cheating men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!

I agree that men are more tolerant of cheating women than women are of cheating men.

Without wishing to be considered or thought to be condescending, well said, Ive found it to be true on here

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!

I agree that men are more tolerant of cheating women than women are of cheating men.

Without wishing to be considered or thought to be condescending, well said, Ive found it to be true on here"

They aren’t happy when they find out it’s their wife though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married women who is playing away = Good person who is finally living her life.

Married man who is playing away = The scum of the earth. His poor wife

Definitely this on Fab, dual standards and hypocrisy but that's the ratio for you!

I agree that men are more tolerant of cheating women than women are of cheating men.

Without wishing to be considered or thought to be condescending, well said, Ive found it to be true on here

They aren’t happy when they find out it’s their wife though!"

That is what we would call Karma.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"Touchy.

We don't pre-judge people when what they are doing doesn't hurt others, but when it is selfish and can blow a n innocent person's life apart it is totally different.

Your tone tells us all we need to do.

Love the name by the way."

Not touchy at all. Just fed up of people trying to foist there opinions on other people without knowing the facts..

How is it going to blow an innocent life apart? How do you know, whether my partner has not played behind my back in the past? Or, any other number of reasons I could justify my actions for. You don't. You know absolutely nothing about my circumstances, nor ever will.

I was working many years ago with a couple, who were having an affair. They were both my friends. I certainly never discussed their infidelity with either of them. Even though, it was common knowledge.

I take it, that if you were in my position then. You would approach both of them and say something along the lines of "Cheats never prosper." Then go onto advise them that they shouldn't cheat, as it's selfish and could blow both their families lives apart?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Touchy.

We don't pre-judge people when what they are doing doesn't hurt others, but when it is selfish and can blow a n innocent person's life apart it is totally different.

Your tone tells us all we need to do.

Love the name by the way.

Not touchy at all. Just fed up of people trying to foist there opinions on other people without knowing the facts..

If they were both cheating I would talk to them both. Fair is fair.

If one was cheating and the other didn’t know I would still talk to them both. The outcome may be different but hey ho.

If someone wants to cheat, then be big enough to face the consequences.

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