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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Spain, fantastic guy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have previously travelled 320 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It clearly states on my profile that I will not meet anyone more than 30 miles. I know the roads around here as it can an hour just to get from Barnstaple which is only 10 miles away if you are not local. X

I look at as how long in time would you be prepared to drive ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind travelling wherever...maybe even 200 odd miles if it keeps going well

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"I have previously travelled 320 miles "
wow, was it worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to London from Liverpool x

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."
i like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have previously travelled 320 miles wow, was it worth it?"

Yep, he's a really good friend now. Totally worth it.

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"Spain, fantastic guy"
thats quite some distance, i can understand going to spain for a meet if theres a holiday involved

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

To the moon but I would have to stay over night and then come home

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I'd travel to the moon and back if she was the one and melted my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I happily travel and love going away for weekend adventures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."

Haha .. and why not .. to hell with travelling 200 miles round trip... Im pretty sure i could do better than that ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd travel to the moon and back if she was the one and melted my "

That’s soooo sweet. Marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lounge has me thinking some I'd book a flight for..

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'll just say a tank of fuel

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

O and there's loads on here that will travel 420 its on there profiles if you don't believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk 500 miles...

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"I have previously travelled 320 miles wow, was it worth it?

Yep, he's a really good friend now. Totally worth it."

I cant say i wouldnt go the distance to be honest as one of my good swinging friends now lives in scotland, just under 500 miles and i reckon i would go the distance for her

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I'll just say a tank of fuel "

Multiple refills for the right person

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

250 mile round trip for my last meet

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I would walk 500 miles... "

I'd drive it. Walking would be a bit much though

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I'd travel to the moon and back if she was the one and melted my

That’s soooo sweet. Marry me "

I'll just grab my suit and tails beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go to far prob 15 20 miles max

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

If u av a great connection with that person I would travel any distance even just 4 a cuppa cos wen u click u click

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I've travelled to the Dordogne!

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"If u av a great connection with that person I would travel any distance even just 4 a cuppa cos wen u click u click "

Thats very true, sometimes the best people are furthest away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not far to be honest. Maybe 30-60 mins max.

If it was somewhere i really wanted to see and i could do some sightseeing then id go further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any distance would be worth considering if the other person was worth it

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By *amb_ManMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."

Ha ha. Will you marry me??

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If u av a great connection with that person I would travel any distance even just 4 a cuppa cos wen u click u click "

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd travel to the moon and back if she was the one and melted my

That’s soooo sweet. Marry me I'll just grab my suit and tails beautiful "

Don’t forget your swing

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

4300 miles...

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"4300 miles... "

Well thats very precise

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"4300 miles...

Well thats very precise "

Give or take a few miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it feels good then why not meet in the middle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it feels good then why not meet in the middle."

I’m losing my mind just a little ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go to Alabama in the US but no further....

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just local except one man we hope to meet half way one day when allowed maybe make a weekend of it x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am quite often found 200 miles away from home up near derby way

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Never really thought about it in miles but probably it was Cheshire to Carlisle. A couple came out to stay with us in Spain after only chatting to them for 5 mins in a club, thought that was crazy of them at the time but we became bestie friends so maybe don’t limit yourself on the distance as you could be missing out on meeting someone special, if you click through chatting go with it if you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drive or use public transport so only within a couple of miles.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

It would totally depend on the person, I don't drive, but I would be willing to travel if they were one hundred percent worth it

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Number 24 in my street,she’s very fit

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I have previously travelled 320 miles "

Have done 330 miles (660 round trip), but was going that way anyway.

As a trip specifically just to meet one person, 370 miles round trip - 185 each way - in a single day.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I would go to Alabama in the US but no further.... "

No further?

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"Never really thought about it in miles but probably it was Cheshire to Carlisle. A couple came out to stay with us in Spain after only chatting to them for 5 mins in a club, thought that was crazy of them at the time but we became bestie friends so maybe don’t limit yourself on the distance as you could be missing out on meeting someone special, if you click through chatting go with it if you can "

I can see why though, you guys look amazing

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By *is_a_visMan
over a year ago

Cambridge/ London but often Herts/ East Anglia

All depends how much of a connection has been built up first I guess. I've driven 3 and a bit hours each way before but of course she was pretty special and by heck did she keep calling to tease me while I was driving up. She was having a lot of fun, and of course we both did. I guess the answer is it depends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine travelling 200 miles and they don't show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the persuaders had a profile here they would walk 500 miles for a meet...

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

An hour away maybe a little bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't ever be too far from home, so about an hour travelling.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Probably around an hours drive, but it does depend on the person and the situation.

For instance, I really want to visit Scotland one day, so if I could arrange a meet to coincide, that'd be great.

But I wouldn't travel that far 'just' for the meet.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've travelled back home to Scotland for meets

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

2 hours max

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Have travelled over 200miles , round trip For a meet.

Or conversely 20min lol...

Is there ever a happy medium ha ha

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Do have a friend who has travelled up from Glasgow for a couple nights 'getaway' to Aberdeen

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit"

What if your ideal meet was 101 miles away?

C

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve traveled an hour and a half each way. They were a lovely couple. It was a great night out. Problem started on the way home as the motorway slip roads were shut late at night due to roadworks. It was a nightmare getting back.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not far. My time to myself is sparse.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Well for the right person distance is irrelevant

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To a club in the middle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the distance....

Its the person

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

Not to far as time is sparse

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Its not the distance....

Its the person"

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit"
I've met someone for a social in Rome when I was there... and also someone in Greece for a chat x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I was once sat by the pool in a hotel in Lanzarote. A Fabber was quarter of a mile away. Turns out she was sunbathing at the same hotel. We had a social at the pool bar. True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right person whatever is doable in the time I've got.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

To the moon

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit

What if your ideal meet was 101 miles away?

C"

Reckon i could cope with the extra mile

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We'd only meet people we connected with. We enjoy travelling, and weekends away are doable with planning, so distance is never an issue

C

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

The longest I’ve drove is from Chester to Leicester to pick a couple up and then drive them to a fetish club (pedestal) in London which I paid their entrance fee just like the petrol and I spent most of the night on all fours as their footrest and a few other tasks before driving them back to Leicester at 2am before my journey back to Chester in which I was so tired I stopped on route to Chester at Mac Donald’s drive thru for a coffee to keep me awake.

On payment at the first window the young girl was quite amused about something then at the second window I attracted quite an audience of staff and a few giggles , only then I remembered the couple had wrote “ cuckold “ on my forehead in black marker pen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit"

Depends on how much the individual entices me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done a 500 mile round trip , was worth every second !

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

My travel limit was measured in time cos I'm a non driver, max one hour whether that's walking or buses cos had to be worth it!!! They could do what they wanted to meet me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than 30 mins travel or we can meet halfway

I prefer getting a hotel in the next borough to me just off the motorway as its most convenient

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I don't really care about distance, and don't understand people who do, or specify a particular distance / time zone. Especially if they're not the ones travelling, in which case why on earth does it matter? But whatever, to each their own I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get why some people find distance important as sometimes you might want spontaneous sex etc especially if you have feelings. But shouldn’t shut door on ppl just coz they an hour away. For the right person it’s worth it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I get why some people find distance important as sometimes you might want spontaneous sex etc especially if you have feelings. But shouldn’t shut door on ppl just coz they an hour away. For the right person it’s worth it. "

C'mon then I'm waiting

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

35miles. Would not go further in case they stood me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get why some people find distance important as sometimes you might want spontaneous sex etc especially if you have feelings. But shouldn’t shut door on ppl just coz they an hour away. For the right person it’s worth it.

C'mon then I'm waiting

"

hahah.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

1hr maybe more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the distance....

Its the person"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to keep it quite local but would travel for the right person

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Mrs crazytimes once drove five hours to see me when we first started going out.

We had sex in a field, lasted optimistically I’d say two minutes. (Belt was stuck so slowed me down)

Burger King then drive home.

She’s a keeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The longest I’ve drove is from Chester to Leicester to pick a couple up and then drive them to a fetish club (pedestal) in London which I paid their entrance fee just like the petrol and I spent most of the night on all fours as their footrest and a few other tasks before driving them back to Leicester at 2am before my journey back to Chester in which I was so tired I stopped on route to Chester at Mac Donald’s drive thru for a coffee to keep me awake.

On payment at the first window the young girl was quite amused about something then at the second window I attracted quite an audience of staff and a few giggles , only then I remembered the couple had wrote “ cuckold “ on my forehead in black marker pen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cover from Gloucester to Lands End for work so anywhere in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."

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By *etro8Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Marbella in the EU and Edinburgh in U.K. Excellent and adventurous.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

about hours driving wood be good for us any longer and the waiting wood get too much

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Its not the distance....

Its the person

"

To Dublin every time I'm back in the UK just to meet with my regular fab partners.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

If she/they have tea and cake - distance holds no bounds

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

First of all I would just like to say to everyone that has posted that is happy to travel over 2 hours or over 100 miles for a meet you all have my up most respect and you are all better and more committed people than me. I tend to stick to no more than one and a half hours travel in and around London I did once travel two and a half hours from my part of North London to Heathrow where the new Kestrels is via public transport.I am thinking of in the future maybe going to the Sutton house or Eureka which again will be about 2 hours I hope depending on public transport.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I once did a 6 hour round trip all the to hartlepool. Left at 6pm after work, got there at 9.. 3 hours of fun and drove back at midnight. I think I stopped at every single services on the way back down for coffee that early hours of the morning. Yeah, never again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably go all the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is connection then no distance is a barrier.

I had a guy travel from Amsterdam to meet me once

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Used to reg drive couple of hours for trusted regulars ,not so sure I'd invest that level of time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I'd stay local if it was just for a meet. If I was heading to the area then no problems. There's plenty of fish in the swinging sea, So why feel the need to travel all over the country? Might have a friendship, but I'm not getting attached to these people.

As for OP. You stated you wouldn't go over 100 miles. What if someone was 111 miles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is connection then no distance is a barrier.

I had a guy travel from Amsterdam to meet me once "

agree definitely. Closer is the icing on cake. Would you have gone Amsterdam tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it feels good then why not meet in the middle.

I’m losing my mind just a little ..."

You'll be fine all the attention you get on here

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

In the past I’ve done a 700 mile round trip and flown to Belfast and Dublin and back

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

there be no distance for the right person

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington


"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit"
. Id go 110 tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say about an hour or 50 miles tops but again it depends very much on who I'm meeting or whether we are attending a club.

I've driven to Barnsley from oxford and 160 miles for a weekend with a lovely young lady before.

And Torquay to a club visit.

So there's always the exception

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

5,200 miles - but then it was part of a business trip to the west coast of the states

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel hundreds of miles to meet... If i were starting again i think I'd definitely not agree to more than an hours drive... Makes spontaneous meets very difficult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any distance if I thought it was worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really care about distance, and don't understand people who do, or specify a particular distance / time zone. Especially if they're not the ones travelling, in which case why on earth does it matter? But whatever, to each their own I guess."

Can only speak for myself but there are several reasons I don't want a guy to travel to me.

I like the first meeting to be a no expectations attached social. We are probably not going to be playing the first time, but men seem to expect it if they are travelling to me. I worry that a guy might drive for two hours only for me to discover that there's no chemistry and that's just awkward. Also I've had several men offer to travel to meet me with the expectation that they will be staying at my place, which is not possible.

I mean, in theory, if someone wanted to travel for miles to my local area, get a hotel, and meet me for a drink without any physical stuff being involved at all... I suppose that's up to them and I'd meet them if we seemed to get on well online. But it's certainly not something I would encourage.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Any distance depending on the meet and time constraints

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

Anywhere in the UK for the right people,make a long/dirty weekend of it.

F.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."

That sounds like a perfect first date

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Before I used to travel all over london, but nowadays I just travel locally, so just few miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours.

As it would be on public transport, it's not necessarily as far, but my time has been given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet travelled to me, but the one before that I travelled a whole 2 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled 400 miles for a weekend meet once but I met him on Twitter not Fab.

I quite like an adventure somewhere new, so as long as I could explore the area as well as his body I'd have no limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as townhouse since that's the only place I'll meet

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I bought a plane ticket for my furthest meeting ... had a great time too

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

London to Hong Kong.

Admittedly, the trip was pre-planned but it was great fun to meet up with someone interesting for a long weekend before heading on to Sydney.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Can only speak for myself but there are several reasons I don't want a guy to travel to me.

I like the first meeting to be a no expectations attached social. We are probably not going to be playing the first time, but men seem to expect it if they are travelling to me. I worry that a guy might drive for two hours only for me to discover that there's no chemistry and that's just awkward. Also I've had several men offer to travel to meet me with the expectation that they will be staying at my place, which is not possible.

I mean, in theory, if someone wanted to travel for miles to my local area, get a hotel, and meet me for a drink without any physical stuff being involved at all... I suppose that's up to them and I'd meet them if we seemed to get on well online. But it's certainly not something I would encourage."

That's fair enough. But I guess I just don't think that way, and wouldn't have those expectations or feel that kind of entitlement - especially on a first time meet / social-only. I guess I also just think differently about distances and two hours not being a big deal at all. I know here in the UK it might seem like a big deal... but serioulsy, of all the places in the world we are a tiny island and most societies have to deal with much larger distances on a daily basis. Just my perspective on it. *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went from Essex to Liverpool. Man I am glad I did

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We wouldn't mind travelling around 150 miles one way and make a weekend of it. Some people are worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are hills and mountains between us

Always something to get over

If I had my way, surely you would be closer

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It depends on the connection I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a new person I wouldn't want either of us to have gone too far, although saying that I have never met anyone that was local and we all travelled bloody miles so, whatever it takes really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't drive or use public transport so only within a couple of miles. "

Same for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for any kind of sexual meet but I once drove 150 miles each way to deliver a couple of bottles of wine and some crusty bread and cheese to an old school (girl) friend.

She was down and needed cheering up and we used to discuss our love of wine and cheese via fb messenger regularly amongst other crap going wrong in our lives.

We weren't anything but friend so was without agenda but felt nice doing something out of the blue to cheer her up.

Had circumstances been different the bloke part of me would have been there like a shot but a peck on the cheek and the smile restored was my reward

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By *xhot_chocolatexMan
over a year ago

brighton/eastbourne/basingstoke

How do you meet someone on Twitter ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't put a limit on it. I'd be happy enough to travel anywhere in the right circumstances. I travel for work anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I am a single parent with very little access to child care as I have 5 children it is very difficult to leave my local area but if I didnt have those commitments I'd be happy to travel anywhere in the uk on a weekend treat it as a fun road trip

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