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Is there room for love making on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

‘Its a swingers site’

‘It’s a sex site’

‘It’s a site where I swap scores about how many grapes i can put up my bum’

We all use fab for different reasons. Thats what makes it so fun (pre stupid covid). Fab is a place to explore new things and fantasies, but is there space for love making on fab? Good old fashioned, romantic, passionate love making. No whips, chains, hair pulling or WWE moves. Is this only reserved for couples? Do love making and NSA or ONS go in the same sentence? Maybe the definition of love making is subjective?

What say you loverly loverly fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making sweet lurve is where it's at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Damn straight there is

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

Sure there is room for everything and anything here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a very sensual guy who make love more than I fuck if that makes sense , I like the passion and the feeling as well as the kissing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say good old fashioned passionate sex is hard to beat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Ive never been any good at being a performing seal changing positions repeatedly and always using whips chains,

So I hope so

Ps not saying there's no room for the kinky stuff in my life but good old sex still has a place (socks off obviously)

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Like a box of Quality Street. There’s something here for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes of course.

use to meet a couple where the hubby wanted to watch me make love to his wife.

they were lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the term NSA. Once we’ve agreed to meet I’m afraid there’s a string right there!

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Definitely possible. There is lots of love to share around.

BTW, how many grapes can you fit up your bum OP?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's not only reserved for couples, it depends on your dynamics. You can have very intimate, passionate sex/lovemaking with someone without wanting to run off into the sunset with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get bored of just kinky fucking. Sometimes you just need the sensual stuff to give you the warm fuzzies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess all sex is love making in its own little way

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Love making hell yes dont always need whips chains etc .sometimes its about a connection between 2 people even if its a 1 off meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely room for it.

I love when a naked chick cuddles me and tells me I’m pretty.

Equally I love having my face ridden like she’s trying to escape gun fight at ok coral on a thoroughbred colt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely room for it.

I love when a naked chick cuddles me and tells me I’m pretty.

Equally I love having my face ridden like she’s trying to escape gun fight at ok coral on a thoroughbred colt."

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Absolutely there is, lots of kissing and passion, snuggling under the bed sheets, it’s not all about hanging from the chandeliers and bonking for hours ya know

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes most definitely, I am cautious with who I would do it with though, avoiding jealous drama Llamas is preferable

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From what I read its what most people want. From what I've experienced very few people actually do.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"From what I read its what most people want. From what I've experienced very few people actually do. "

Is it? We've both probably been on here for a similar amount of time - a lot of men would run a mile if the l-word was mentioned, even if it was in reference to putting their penis inside a vagina. Most people on here from what I've read seem to want fucking, strictly fucking and nothing like lovemaking because that makes it complicated.

Maybe we're both guilty of confirmation bias on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love is all we do really, but because we don't like to be seen as softies we call it sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"From what I read its what most people want. From what I've experienced very few people actually do.

Is it? We've both probably been on here for a similar amount of time - a lot of men would run a mile if the l-word was mentioned, even if it was in reference to putting their penis inside a vagina. Most people on here from what I've read seem to want fucking, strictly fucking and nothing like lovemaking because that makes it complicated.

Maybe we're both guilty of confirmation bias on this. "

You could well be right. I know I'm inclined towards confirmation bias.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I make passionate love with my main FWB who I met on here and it is the most satisfying, delightful and amazing sex I’ve ever had.

The sex I have with my other fwbs varies gradually from rough fucking to playful sex and it is all fantastic too.

Someone VERY special has to come along for me to indulge in a ONS/NSA liaison on here, there have been a very select few, but it is becoming rarer and rarer... probably because I am more than happy with my guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely possible. There is lots of love to share around.

BTW, how many grapes can you fit up your bum OP? "

4 and 3/4. Such a failure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely think there is room for that sensual and special sex on Fab. But I feel like you would need to have a connection with that person. So, someone you've chatted to and got to know a little.

I personally wouldn't be able to let someone be overly affectionate and sweet in the bedroom with me unless I had built a connection with them that goes beyond physical attraction.

I personally feel like with someone you have known for 5 minutes it's more just getting a fuck and enjoying it rather than making love. And there's nothing wrong with that, but I would want a little more.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"Definitely possible. There is lots of love to share around.

BTW, how many grapes can you fit up your bum OP?

4 and 3/4. Such a failure "

Practice makes perfect! That's all I can say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion, compassion and intimacy is not restricted to those in committed life partnerships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabland is like a Mediterranean beach. Most like to bask on the beach and paddle in the water.

Love making is like swimming far out from the shore...less crowded, potentially great fun but far more precarious.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I hope so. Maybe it'll happen when the plague is gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so. I love passionate sex, don't have to love someone for that but there has to be a connection.

That's why I prefer having a regular buddy.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

If I'm 121 with a lady then I think I would tend to make love. Sensual, kissing, cuddling etc. Unless we've arranged something specifically.

If I'm part of a mfm then usually it's more about fucking. Although that can be sensual in its own way, but it's not necessarily what a couple always want. More raw, than sensual.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Absolutely yes .

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope not on Fab in my experience pre Covid.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"It's not only reserved for couples, it depends on your dynamics. You can have very intimate, passionate sex/lovemaking with someone without wanting to run off into the sunset with them."
This

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If it’s whips and chains it’s satisfying a BDSM need and intimacy is not intended, dominance is

If it’s NSA per se it tends to be animalistic to scratch and itch or sometimes cold and demeaning

I prefer the intimate love making element where there is a degree of temporary emotional investment but realising the boundaries between NSA sex and relationship......never the two shall meet in my world, as that’s not the intention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is I'd love to meet a guy that's also a swinger and get into a relationship

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Totally.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It really does things for me, im all for lots of delicious kinky fuckery but there is something that satisfies the soul when sex is sensuous, lots of skin on skin contact, hand and faces being touched and kissing.....oh my gosh kissing

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh most definitely, hot intense love making is the finish to a perfect meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh most definitely, hot intense love making is the finish to a perfect meet "
Most definitely this

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer sensual and passionate. My days of being thrown around the bed by my nipples are long gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer sensual and passionate. My days of being thrown around the bed by my nipples are long gone."

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Sensual/passionate sex absolutely. To me "love making" is an emotional thing though, not purely physical, and thus something that would only happen where there was also an emotional connection between those involved.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it comes down to the individuals concerned and circumstances but it's entirely possible to find, even in a non-committed situation.

Passionate and intense sex with someone I had a connection and chemistry with would be lovemaking, even if the "love" element is for the duration of the time spent together.

Now if it was a hook up in a club, or a spontaneous meet then that would be different I'm sure, but it's still a very individual thing that each of us uses different levels of emotional connection with.

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