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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’?" As in you fabbing photos of others you mean? Didn’t know there was an issue if so ![]() | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’?" Which people? Fuck em! ![]() | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’? As in you fabbing photos of others you mean? Didn’t know there was an issue if so ![]() I mean that I’ve seen comments in the forum, about pics being fabbed, and people living their pics fabbed is not a good thing apparently. I think it’s a lovely part of the site where we can show our appreciation of people’s creativity, and have our pics fabbed too ![]() | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’? Which people? Fuck em! ![]() I like your thinking ![]() | |||
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"I think it's more the intent and thought process behind your liking. There are some that accept them with good grace and appreciate the appreciation. Others that view it as a sign of popularity and power. It does something to their ego that isn't beneficial to who they are as a person." Yes, that makes sense, you make a good point. | |||
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"Because we're supposed to be self deprecating and not like attention. Fuck that ![]() Exactly this. | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. " The whole site is about attention seeking of one kind or another. We are all here for some kind of interaction/attention. Fabs are part of that, and that's cool. | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’? As in you fabbing photos of others you mean? Didn’t know there was an issue if so ![]() ![]() You look at them like art though x lots of people view others pics as competition and want to be on top of the liked pile | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’? Which people? Fuck em! ![]() ![]() I like your pictures! ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. " It exists in most areas of our life in one way or another. It's boring being told to walk that tightrope. | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’? As in you fabbing photos of others you mean? Didn’t know there was an issue if so ![]() ![]() That’s true, I love to fab pics that are pleasing to the eye ![]() | |||
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"Liking your pics being fabbed? I love to fab pics that are creative, inventive or just gorgeous, but for some reason some people seem to think it is a ‘bad thing’? Which people? Fuck em! ![]() ![]() ![]() And you know I like yours ![]() | |||
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"I loved getting fabbed. It's a confidence booster for me." Exactly ![]() | |||
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"I think it's more the intent and thought process behind your liking. There are some that accept them with good grace and appreciate the appreciation. Others that view it as a sign of popularity and power. It does something to their ego that isn't beneficial to who they are as a person. Yes, that makes sense, you make a good point. " I feel all clever now ![]() | |||
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"We love fabbing pics that stand out - we don’t fab pics because we fancy that person/couple, we do it on the basis the pics got that x-factor...sensual, sexy, erotic, pure sex...something that’s gets the mind racing. We love people fabbing our pics and don’t see it as anything other than an appreciation of a pic they enjoy. Agreed K" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. It exists in most areas of our life in one way or another. It's boring being told to walk that tightrope." I agree, it is perceived as attention seeking. If I come right out and say yes, I like getting fabbed, I appreciate the love, some will understand, but some will say urgh, arrogant or attention seeker. | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think it's more the intent and thought process behind your liking. There are some that accept them with good grace and appreciate the appreciation. Others that view it as a sign of popularity and power. It does something to their ego that isn't beneficial to who they are as a person. Yes, that makes sense, you make a good point. I feel all clever now ![]() Ah well, this is probably a whole other thread ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. It exists in most areas of our life in one way or another. It's boring being told to walk that tightrope. I agree, it is perceived as attention seeking. If I come right out and say yes, I like getting fabbed, I appreciate the love, some will understand, but some will say urgh, arrogant or attention seeker. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There's not a stigma around liking your photos being fabbed but there is one surrounding seeking attention. We all do it - you've done it OP by the very nature of starting this thread, I've done it by replying. I think there are different levels of attention seeking people find palatable; much like in anything in life you're not going to like the behaviour of everyone you encounter are you? Perhaps the way in which people seek attention for their photos is more grating? People don't think women should be so self confident? Maybe they don't particularly care for the person and it's an easy thing to pick at. Saying jealousy and forgetting how nuanced emotions can be is a bit of a cop out. My waffling posts probably cause some to eye roll, much like your seeking Fabs might as well. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. It exists in most areas of our life in one way or another. It's boring being told to walk that tightrope. I agree, it is perceived as attention seeking. If I come right out and say yes, I like getting fabbed, I appreciate the love, some will understand, but some will say urgh, arrogant or attention seeker. ![]() ![]() I haven't read through all the comments but I did read this and I think this is the issue. Outsider hit the nail on the head! ![]() | |||
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"I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it can often be perceived as 'attention seeking' I'm not saying it is, but that is how it can look. It's strange being a female (I should add, T is posting this, the male) because you have to look confident, that is sexy. guys want that. but if you look TOO confident, you look arrogant and it puts people off etc.. It's very tough, its a fine line for ladies to walk. It exists in most areas of our life in one way or another. It's boring being told to walk that tightrope. I agree, it is perceived as attention seeking. If I come right out and say yes, I like getting fabbed, I appreciate the love, some will understand, but some will say urgh, arrogant or attention seeker. ![]() ![]() ![]() I think you’re both right ![]() | |||
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"For me, I prefer it if people fab my pics because they like the picture, the effort that went in, the concept etc NOT because it was me that posted it. " You are the ultimate in creativity and imagination (and piss myself funny too) ![]() | |||
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"I didnt realise fabs were a bad thing. " Apparently for some they are (need shrug emoji here) | |||
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" I think there are different levels of attention seeking people find palatable; much like in anything in life you're not going to like the behaviour of everyone you encounter are you? Perhaps the way in which people seek attention for their photos is more grating? People don't think women should be so self confident? Maybe they don't particularly care for the person and it's an easy thing to pick at. Saying jealousy and forgetting how nuanced emotions can be is a bit of a cop out. This kind of reply is why I started the thread, because I wanted to hear more about the whys? If that makes sense (and you know we all love your waffling ![]() Yes, I know you wanted to hear about the potential whys, that's why I posted some (see above). ![]() ![]() | |||
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" I think there are different levels of attention seeking people find palatable; much like in anything in life you're not going to like the behaviour of everyone you encounter are you? Perhaps the way in which people seek attention for their photos is more grating? People don't think women should be so self confident? Maybe they don't particularly care for the person and it's an easy thing to pick at. Saying jealousy and forgetting how nuanced emotions can be is a bit of a cop out. This kind of reply is why I started the thread, because I wanted to hear more about the whys? If that makes sense (and you know we all love your waffling ![]() ![]() ![]() Awesome ![]() | |||
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"Never ever come across someone not liking a pic fabbed..." I don’t mean people not liking their own pics being fabbed, as if you don’t like it you can turn that facility off. I mean, people disapproving of others liking their pics being fabbed. | |||
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"I don't really care what others think as this is my life and i lead it the way i want." ![]() | |||
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