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So.. The ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds pretty toxic to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether she’s seen more cock than KFC in the interim or not, don’t go back to an ex.

She’s an ‘ex’ for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That she been shagging around? That's her right too. That she's rubbing your face in it? Nah, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbing it in your face - nope. That behaviour could continue into the relationship. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you start a thread to try and slut shame them

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I wouldn't. It's up to her who she's slept with, but rubbing it in your face is a big no no.

Walk firmly in the opposite direction would be my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is one only you can decide op

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it? "

What she does is completely up to her, honestly most would go out and enjoy themselves in any way they see fit to OP.

If she wants to rub your face in it though by telling you what she gets up to then she doesn't really give much of a toss for your feelings so walk away.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it? "

How is she rubbing your face in it, how is she being indiscreet, do *you* want to go back to her, does *she* want to come back to you? These are questions I would ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t go back sounds bad rubbing it in your face

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Definitely stay away and cut out completely is what I would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it? "

So you have a dialogue going and you have both been shagging others in the interim.

What makes you discreet and her not?

If you didnt want to hear about her exploits, why did you listen?

Do you think she is trying to win you back by making you jealous, showing you what you are missing? (Obviously this has back fired, if thats the case)

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

The fact that you’ve had to ask suggests you shouldn’t take her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few elements in your post that makes difficult for me to give a neutral answer.

The part where you say she is making out with everyone, if that's the case, so what? It's her business and nothing to do with you.

Taking her? As if she was a thing.

My point is, ex or no, that women always get to be lashed for getting involved sexually with many men, even here. I've seen posts where men say they avoid profiles with many veris, not so much as preferences but as a condemning judgement. your position about your ex only reinforces that, which imho is wrong. And if you go back to her with that osition it's only toxic for both.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

What caused the break up and has that issue been resolved?

Lou x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

By the way you are talking about her, It doesn't seem like you hold much respect for her so nope..move on.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You don't seem to like her very much so I would say don't contact her again.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

It puts me in mind of the Beautiful South track, 'A Little Time'...

From your post I infer that you were discreet post break up and she was less discreet. That's not rubbing your nose in it. That's her living her life without having to consider your feelings. You're not a couple anymore.

If you can't deal with her acting with autonomy when she's not in a relationship with you then you should absolutely NOT get back together. She deserves better.

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you are exes and you’ve both been fucking others but you’ve kept it quiet & she hasn’t?

Either way you are exes & free to do what you both want.

Do you want her back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it? "

Why ask? You know you’re going to get back with her.

As with everything where humans are involved, anything is possible. You may both have learnt from past experiences, build on it and have the best relationship ever.

From experience tho, the sex will be fantastic, for a while. Then the old cracks start to open up and this time they’ll be worse. You’ll get burnt bad and you’ll regret the day you decided to give it another go.

So, go steady mate, hope you get what you desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it? "

Err...the man on the adult site of a sexual nature, complaining about his ex getting "banged by anyone and everyone" ....

She should not take you back..

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"You are talking to your ex again and although you have been discrete she has been banged by anyone and everyone .

Do you take her back, when she is constantly rubbing your face in it?

Err...the man on the adult site of a sexual nature, complaining about his ex getting "banged by anyone and everyone" ....

She should not take you back.."

That’s her choice, he has no say in that. Just as she has no say if he chooses to get back into a relationship with her.

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By *losernow69Man
over a year ago

Melksham

Depends if you enjoy rubbing your face in it after she has been banged ??

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