FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever slept with someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To make someone else jealous?

To try and win someone back?

To get back at someone in anger?

Or to show someone that you can get laid just as easy as they can?

Or to prove you can do better?

Have you had it done to you?

Did it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To make someone else jealous?

To try and win someone back?

To get back at someone in anger?

Or to show someone that you can get laid just as easy as they can?

Or to prove you can do better?

Have you had it done to you?

Did it work?

Yes, many years ago now, my ex fiance. She did something very cruel so I took my revenge by fucking 3 of her friends.

In hindsight I do regret my actions and will make no excuses for them. I was hurting and wanted her to know how that felt.

I would never have revenge sex again. Hurting people just isn't my thing.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No, none of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure I’ve had that much sex

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Nooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

Too much drama x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

My thoughts exactly

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Nope I couldn't do that, that's just wrong imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I was hurt and so slept with someone else but ended up feeling worse

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"To make someone else jealous?

To try and win someone back?

To get back at someone in anger?

Or to show someone that you can get laid just as easy as they can?

Or to prove you can do better?

Have you had it done to you?

Did it work?

The winning someone back thing, yes when I was younger. But only now I'm older can I see it as that. At the time you think "they must still like me if they wanna fuck me". No, it didn't work and I just felt like an idiot.

I do believe people have tried to make me jealous, in an attempt to hide their own insecurity/hatred towards themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sure I’ve had that much sex

That made me laugh,

sorry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

Gotta love the jeremy Kyle desperados

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Once when I was young and stupid, I slept with my ex fiance's brother.

In my defence, he told me to do it, but in hindsight "well you might as well just go fuck Dan, that's the only way I'd be bothered about it" may not actually have been an instruction or request (it being me telling him I didn't want to be with him any more).

We got over that and became very good friends again though, but I do feel bad about it even twenty years later and would never do it again.

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

Iv had a girl use me to get back at her ex because they weren't too keen on me, We both had fun so I didn't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

Maybe it does but I think most would have been subjected to it or done it at some point or both, we all grow up eventually and probably started out as teenagers in the world of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh few years ago , spent a few hours with someone he took a photo of us together in bed ( nothing rude ) and then sent it to he’s ex who apparently fancied me , to wind him up

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"I’m not sure I’ve had that much sex

Made me laugh

Ty.

To the op, no and I'm not aware of anyone doing it to me.

I wouldn't be upset, about someone having sex with someone else; to prove they can or try and make me jealous/angry/etc as I'm compersive and not monogamous.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

No, and I’m pretty sure I haven’t had it done to me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I was hurt and so slept with someone else but ended up feeling worse

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was it recent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly, i planned to to get revenge for them doing it, but when i came to it i couldnt do it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

OP have you done it/had it done to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to two of those. Neither involved cheating on someone so I didn’t feel bad but nor did they lead anywhere and probably just added a complication that I didn’t need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope..waste of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I'm a good boy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP have you done it/had it done to you? "

I've had it done to me but not done it myself.

I had and ex admit he'd done it to try and make me jealous. It didn't work. In fact it totally backfired on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Dreadful mistake. Deeply regret it.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

On the off-chance that lockdown builds lots of festering resentment in previously healthy relationships, I just want women to know that, post-covid, I'll be there for all your revenge-sex needs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the off-chance that lockdown builds lots of festering resentment in previously healthy relationships, I just want women to know that, post-covid, I'll be there for all your revenge-sex needs

that made me giggle.

(pressed the right emoji this time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the off-chance that lockdown builds lots of festering resentment in previously healthy relationships, I just want women to know that, post-covid, I'll be there for all your revenge-sex needs

That's so altruistic from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used sex to move on from people who have hurt me, but it was my coping mechanism of “moving on”

Probably not the best but yeah.. sex was good

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On the off-chance that lockdown builds lots of festering resentment in previously healthy relationships, I just want women to know that, post-covid, I'll be there for all your revenge-sex needs

That's so altruistic from you

I'm just hoping that I'm not dispatched on any solo missions

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To make someone else jealous?

To try and win someone back?

To get back at someone in anger?

Or to show someone that you can get laid just as easy as they can?

Or to prove you can do better?

Have you had it done to you?

Legend

Did it work?

Yes, many years ago now, my ex fiance. She did something very cruel so I took my revenge by fucking 3 of her friends.

In hindsight I do regret my actions and will make no excuses for them. I was hurting and wanted her to know how that felt.

I would never have revenge sex again. Hurting people just isn't my thing."

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I sleep with women because it’s what I enjoy and it’s what I want to do, not because I’m trying to prove a point to myself or others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To make someone else jealous?

To try and win someone back?

To get back at someone in anger?

Or to show someone that you can get laid just as easy as they can?

Or to prove you can do better?

Have you had it done to you?

Did it work?

Yes

Yes & I wasn’t proud of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I’ve just had sex the odd time to prove to myself I can get laid easily. An ego boost when I wasn’t maybe feeling the most confident or was just horny as hell lol

So I guess that counts as proving it to someone still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No none of them

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No, none of those things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not done any of those things and I'm fairly sure they've not been done to hurt me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The second one, it was a bad idea, it was too broken to fix, and didnt feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact, looking at that list, I think maybe I did them all, just shows how toxic that relationship was.

Food for thought x

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over a year ago

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Nah. Don't like using people.

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By *nna WulfWoman
over a year ago

Wandsworth

None of the above.

I generally have sex with men to make them fall in love with my personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

My thoughts exactly

And mine.

Dramarama!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We have never done that, and never would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it would affect them more if you just walk away and move on. That's what I would do.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Don’t know

N/A

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Not really, but I did use sex as a band aid so to speak when I split with my ex, after the way he made me feel I had what I class as my 'loose woman' phase, to know I was wanted so to speak.

So I guess in a way to prove a point to someone even though he didn't know about lol

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I've definitely had ex sex to prolong the connection. Did it work?? Not in a healthy way. In my experience, any form of manipulation or shadowy choices never come good.

Now, I always sense in to how a choice feels in my whole self. Our instincts can guide us towards the clearest path.. Even if it is against what ego wants us to believe.

If something disturbs my inner peace its a no. What a relief! No more games, no more muddy waters but lots of self respect, integrity and respect for others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have slept with someone to make myself feel better and prove a thing to only me. It worked, and no-one was adversly affected or indeed will ever know. Except sisters, but sisters know everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I’ve never even considered any of those scenarios.

So it’s a no to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, wouldn't cross my mind to do it

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

None of the above as far as I'm concerned.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

None of the above for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To make someone else jealous?

To try and win someone back?

To get back at someone in anger?

Or to show someone that you can get laid just as easy as they can?

Or to prove you can do better?

Have you had it done to you?

Did it work?

At last, a list of questions I can say 'no' to

I was beginning to make myself sound of easy virtue in other threads tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

No, I've had sex with people because I was horny and there was a mutual attraction.. I don't like drama, revenge is petty and I'm just in it for the fun.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope say I have and if it was done to me I can't say I noticed.

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By *ovestruck69Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I had an ex go out with a mate coz I failed to do some decorating, (stupid I know lol) but when kept coming back to me for sex while she was with him, I also threatened the same mate that I could take a gf of his hands no troubles at all, he didn't believe me but I did on several occasions just because he was an arse to them. I once dangled him out a window coz he beat his gf.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope. I’ve only ever slept with someone for me. And for them.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope .. this just sounds like a waste of time and effort

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over a year ago

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"No, sounds very Jeremy kyle

Agreed, and no, none of the above

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

nope to much drama for me ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me being the one to get a partner jealous, but been the guy the female had sex with to piss her fella off with once or twice some many years ago. I didn't know at the time, otherwise I'd not go there.

Wouldn't want to get involved anymore. Too much hassle

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

And err, no.

Too much drama/hassle.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’ve never done this but I think I’ve been used for a couple of those purposes when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non of the above

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

None of the above.

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By *oey16Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

A few years ago I started talking to an ex whilst seeing someone else and after a while and a few visits to hers we ended having sex.

I wanted to get back with her but straight after we had sex to save any hassle with my then current gf I needed to reply to her messages or she would worry and start questioning me.

That's when my ex thought I was just using her for sex and that moment backfired.

Then a year later when I split up with that gf I met someone online and didn't realise my ex still wanted to get back with me so that killed it altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately yes. My ex husband had an affair and left me for her. I wanted no contact with either but she took it upon herself to contact me and tell me what an awful wife I was

so I had sex with my ex to prove that I could. Makes me feel

that I did that.

In my defence I was hurting and not in a great place at the time.

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