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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

If whilst out and about you met someone and went back to theirs for no questions asked sex, found out at a later date that their partner was listening upstairs would you be justified in feeling pissed about it?

(Said partner never intentions of getting involved)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If whilst out and about you met someone and went back to theirs for no questions asked sex, found out at a later date that their partner was listening upstairs would you be justified in feeling pissed about it?

(Said partner never intentions of getting involved)"

No wouldn't bother me if it's just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Because its no questions asked. Meaning it shouldn't matter.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway "

Yes love pornstar moan idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway "

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway "

Aint that the truth... I'm good at porn star moaning

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP. "

Is asking no questions the same as making no assumptions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP.

Is asking no questions the same as making no assumptions? "

I think so. If I'm asking no questions then I'm not bothered about the answers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

Aint that the truth... I'm good at porn star moaning "

Me too I was nearly the stunt fake orgasm moaner on When Harry Met Sally but I was washing my dog that day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP.

Is asking no questions the same as making no assumptions?

I think so. If I'm asking no questions then I'm not bothered about the answers. "

But what a waste of my porn star moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP.

Is asking no questions the same as making no assumptions?

I think so. If I'm asking no questions then I'm not bothered about the answers.

But what a waste of my porn star moaning "

You should always do that... just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP.

Is asking no questions the same as making no assumptions?

I think so. If I'm asking no questions then I'm not bothered about the answers.

But what a waste of my porn star moaning

You should always do that... just in case"

Agreed

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

Aint that the truth... I'm good at porn star moaning

Me too I was nearly the stunt fake orgasm moaner on When Harry Met Sally but I was washing my dog that day. "

Wow that must be a sight and sound to behold

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes you would be justified. You agreed to have sex in private with one person. Not sex in private with someone listening.

I'd want to know so I could do my porn star moaning anyway

I don't agree. You agree to no questions asked. That was the OP.

Is asking no questions the same as making no assumptions?

I think so. If I'm asking no questions then I'm not bothered about the answers.

But what a waste of my porn star moaning

You should always do that... just in case"

Noted

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I may consider going back again and pretend i didn't know he was upstairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may consider going back again and pretend i didn't know he was upstairs. "

Oooh yeah.... definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very pissed off. It's weird.

But I wouldn't do it with a stranger I'd just met and especially wouldn't go back to their house. Far too risky.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It is risky. Pyjamas dressing gown but it should be said beforehand. Nothing is worth getting yourself in A position that you don’t need to be in

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"If whilst out and about you met someone and went back to theirs for no questions asked sex, found out at a later date that their partner was listening upstairs would you be justified in feeling pissed about it?

(Said partner never intentions of getting involved)"

If it was done with deception, as in told me she was single or we were alone in the house, then I might feel justified feeling pissed of, but I doubt I would be.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think you should know what you are actually consenting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should know what you are actually consenting to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, because they lived in a bungalow and I’m worried he’ll fall off the roof.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

How would you find out? As that wpuld have some bearing on how I felt about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes, because they lived in a bungalow and I’m worried he’ll fall off the roof."

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"How would you find out? As that wpuld have some bearing on how I felt about it."

Maybe a mate of theirs let it's slip.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes I think it's deceptive and I'd be pissed.

If you think someone may not be OK with something, you give them the option, simple. By not telling them you take that choice away.

"Yeah you can come back to mine but my partner will be listening, it's our thing... that cool with you?"

The couple that I used to see really enjoyed it, so what we would do for it to be natural and he knew it was natural, was he would go out and me and her would do our thing, but he would sneak back in at some point and listen, we'd have no idea if he was back and we didn't care because by then we were wrapped up in each other.

We had some really really funny times with it too, with one of us going for a drink and him quickly hiding so we didn't know he was back

I guess it was a bit different because we would spend the weekends together partying and stuff so there was no rush or time limit as such so that was easily doable.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

One question - are the kids locked up in basement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"How would you find out? As that wpuld have some bearing on how I felt about it.

Maybe a mate of theirs let it's slip.

"

Yeah it feels sneaky so I'd be annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds creepy so I wouldn't like it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It sounds creepy so I wouldn't like it

"

Yep, pre-planned.

If you share a house with someone else, you told the person you brought back there would be someone else home and they overheard accidentally, to me that's hugely different to purposely listening.

The intent is key for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a guy tell me his disabled daughter was upstairs, but "it's OK, cos she can't get downstairs"

Exit Bussy, stage left

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No because I'd never do it.

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