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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Did you shut your eyes and think of someone else?

Or what?

Just curious after reading a comment from a guy about just such a thing!

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load!

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no?

Curious as to who will hold their hands up to doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I’m curious too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though "

Where did the vomit land?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh I’m curious too "

I’m curious too

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Never slept with anyone I wasn't attracted to. Wouldn't do it either.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

Where did the vomit land? "

Down my Ralph Lauren shirt

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Me too "

Me 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have when I was in the rebound stage. It wasn't fun. It wasn't magic. Just a release of tension. I was a young man then tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

Where did the vomit land?

Down my Ralph Lauren shirt "

What colour was your shirt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though "

I feel quite bad that I laughed . It was the “I still did though” comment

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though "

What's wrong with a woman having a moustache?

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

I have in the past.. it’s a selfish and unsatisfying experience.

Getting hard isn’t that difficult with imagination and the appropriate stimulation.

Not recommended...

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Neither of us have or would never sleep with someone we weren't attracted to. Each to his/her own.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Not slept with, but in a club once. I started off thinking it would be good but it wasn’t.

We did stuff for her and that was it.

Not quite my proudest moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

I used to meet anonymously in my early adventures

There were some lovely surprises, but a couple of awkward moments where I had to send people away

By the same token, I've had people turn on their heels too

As for getting hard, I find if I can go down on someone orally, something usually pops up

I need something to take my mind off the view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wouldn't be able to get hard if I wasn't attracted to the person, let alone cum.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

Where did the vomit land?

Down my Ralph Lauren shirt "

I respect your honesty

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By *ylonistMan
over a year ago

Worksop

I have to admit i cant have sex with someone that i am not attracted too although i do have a game that involves wanking over a selection of people that i find un attractive in my eyes anyway they are selected by a toss of a coin which adds a certain extra thrill to the process

Has lockdown come to this

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

Where did the vomit land?

Down my Ralph Lauren shirt

What colour was your shirt? "

I think it was Blue, was a long time ago . It wasnt blue after though

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

Where did the vomit land?

Down my Ralph Lauren shirt

I respect your honesty "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I could. At least based on the fact that the best sex I've had has been with women I've been most attracted to, generally, it follows the worst sex has been with women I've been less attracted to. Although sometimes I've had amazing sex and felt much more attracted to the person as a result!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I have never had sex with anyone I wasnt attracted to

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

What's wrong with a woman having a moustache?

"

Nothing if its not like full on Adolf Hitler jobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant say that i have

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Tbh I didn't expect many who would admit it but I bet there's a few who have done this.

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I guess in my early teens it was pretty much anything with a pulse.

Once I got past that childishness it was all about the attraction, attraction leads to connection and one you've got a connection you can build on it.

Couldn't and wouldn't have sex with anyone that there wasn't a genuine attraction to.

I'd be nice, always be nice, conversation and pleasantries for sure regardless of attraction

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Tbh I didn't expect many who would admit it but I bet there's a few who have done this."

Maybe I'm too open and honest sometimes

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By *xxsomonMan
over a year ago

rugeley


"If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Did you shut your eyes and think of someone else?

Or what?

Just curious after reading a comment from a guy about just such a thing!

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load!

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no?

Curious as to who will hold their hands up to doing it?

"

Ive always fancied who ive slept with but have been put off when i saw them naked,so I tried thinking of something else but ended up thumbing a semi in,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had sex with someone I wasn’t attracted to, but as a sidenote, had a meet once and it just “wood” not work the first time!

I knew I was attracted to her because we had met the previous week for a little tease session and it was like a stick of rock from Blackpool!

She started crying saying it was her and she was ugly and no one wanted her, and I shouldn’t come back if I need blue pills... Please do not react like that! It makes you feel worthless and makes us feel stupid.

On the plus side when she had calm downed a little my twig became a trunk again!

Motto of the story is sometimes we are just as nervous and if it isn’t working straight away relax yourselves and help us relax too, do something different like talk a bit or have a drink, then try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never do that and if I’m attracted to someone I’m aroused whilst kissing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much used to have a sexual attraction to most women when younger so getting an erection was never a problem,raging testosterone

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you

Have done many times, especially in my younger days, more often than not, girls go around in pairs when out, and many times my friends have pulled one girl, but cant get sex unless her friend finds someone, use to call it a good wing man, certainly have no problem with with a erection, sex is sex, and as i was told many a year ago, you dont look at the mantle piece while your poking the fire

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I pretty much used to have a sexual attraction to most women when younger so getting an erection was never a problem,raging testosterone "

Ahhh...the young raging bull

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

believe me it doesn't matter what you look like to guys

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I was there so it would have been rude not to"

I've definitely heard it more than once when people have been talking.

Literally a means to an end in many cases.

I see it much the same as when blokes say they're thinking about "trying" a bi guy. There's no attraction or anything but they just want their dicks sucking and balls emptying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happening..

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Did you shut your eyes and think of someone else?

Or what?

Just curious after reading a comment from a guy about just such a thing!

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load!

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no?

Curious as to who will hold their hands up to doing it?

"

Don't they call this phenomenon beer goggle syndrome. I've suffered with this many times during my callous misguided youth.

I've got to be honest, these days I'd plump for an Indian takeaway every time

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’ve played plenty of times at parties or even clubs with people I wouldn’t be attracted to if I’d met them let’s say at the pub and they often turned out to be great shags

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"believe me it doesn't matter what you look like to guys"

Absolute rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I certainly wouldn't, and wouldn't be able to get hard. Actually happened once when I'd met a lass on a night out. She was very forward, which was off putting at the start. Couldn't get hard and she got all upset. So I got her a taxi home in morning

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you


"believe me it doesn't matter what you look like to guys

Absolute rubbish "

A lot of truth in her statement

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you


"I’ve played plenty of times at parties or even clubs with people I wouldn’t be attracted to if I’d met them let’s say at the pub and they often turned out to be great shags "

100% agree, sometimes the most unexpected amazing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, at parties I have, outside of that there has always been an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to say I’ve done this once or twice.. it’s great when the d*unk and in the darkness of a club. Then you get home sober up abit, hate to say I have thought about others, or the blindfold has come out of the draw haha! It’s not great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load

"

Ive only done it once. I was d*unk and yes it was to blow my load. Men are built like that!

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

It’s only ever happened to me once but I was extremely d*unk after a heavy night on the beer many moons ago, but I made up for it the following morning when we woke up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word

Alcohol

I am sure lots of us have woken up with that feeling :*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say "

Probably trying to stop themselves from Cumming too quickly. X

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say "

He’s probably trying his hardest and concentrating not to cum early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say "

You are so beautiful, that if I look into your eyes while I cum, I would have fallen in love with you

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say "

That they are scared of being turned into stone

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say "

You shouldn’t shine the torch at them as you tighten the handcuffs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I made a few wrong choices. Most I completed. A few were just so unpleasant i pulled out and discreetly legged it.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"believe me it doesn't matter what you look like to guys

Absolute rubbish

A lot of truth in her statement "

Speak for yourself . I found it very generic and sweeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because they were all attractive at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

Probably trying to stop themselves from Cumming too quickly. X"

Oh is 90 seconds about average?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happened to me once , it was my early days of swinging as I was very inexperienced. having only seen pics of her that she sent me, we arranged to meet at my place.

I opened the door to what I can only describe as a woman that could of easterly been my grandmother. not only was she at least 20 years older then her pics but at least 100 lbs heavier!!. I invited her in and I made her a cup of tea and told her very delicately that unfortunately I wasn't attracted to her but it was nice to keep her as a friend. she stayed for about 30 mins then left. she was a lovely lady but there was no way I could of had sex with her, let alone cum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

He’s probably trying his hardest and concentrating not to cum early "

Maybe he was imagining that i was Farrah Fawcett

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

Probably trying to stop themselves from Cumming too quickly. X

Oh is 90 seconds about average? "

Shhhh. You said you wouldn't tell anyone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

You are so beautiful, that if I look into your eyes while I cum, I would have fallen in love with you

"

Haha oh my days... Smooth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

Probably trying to stop themselves from Cumming too quickly. X

Oh is 90 seconds about average? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

That they are scared of being turned into stone "

i made them all sign an NDA, wait 'til I find which piggie squealed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

You shouldn’t shine the torch at them as you tighten the handcuffs? "

Now that is good advice

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

That they are scared of being turned into stone

i made them all sign an NDA, wait 'til I find which piggie squealed "

Anything to have the pleasure of you would be lucky indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

Probably trying to stop themselves from Cumming too quickly. X

Oh is 90 seconds about average?

Shhhh. You said you wouldn't tell anyone.... "

Oops.. It's ok... I don't think anyone reads replies

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

Probably trying to stop themselves from Cumming too quickly. X

Oh is 90 seconds about average?

Shhhh. You said you wouldn't tell anyone....

Oops.. It's ok... I don't think anyone reads replies "

Phew.

At least you cum 3 times first.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Did once physically she was very attractive like even I was amazed how I managed to pull her lol but personality wise she was a sarcastic, entitled, stuck up, spoilt brat (excuse my language) Why did I do it? Just to prove to myself that even I a 4/10 can land a 10/10 if I really wanted

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!? - Yes. Getting an erection through physical stimulation and the prospect ofgetting laid was enough.

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to? - Because I wanted sex.

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no? - Nope, not even when afterwards I kicked her out. She kept coming back for more.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

That they are scared of being turned into stone

i made them all sign an NDA, wait 'til I find which piggie squealed

Anything to have the pleasure of you would be lucky indeed "

Anyone

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Did once physically she was very attractive like even I was amazed how I managed to pull her lol but personality wise she was a sarcastic, entitled, stuck up, spoilt brat (excuse my language) Why did I do it? Just to prove to myself that even I a 4/10 can land a 10/10 if I really wanted "

So really then we should be asking her..why settle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never slept with anyone I wasn't attracted too, I'm amazed at anyone who has tbh

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"Did once physically she was very attractive like even I was amazed how I managed to pull her lol but personality wise she was a sarcastic, entitled, stuck up, spoilt brat (excuse my language) Why did I do it? Just to prove to myself that even I a 4/10 can land a 10/10 if I really wanted

So really then we should be asking her..why settle? "

Haha she knew from her friend 'I had the magic stick' haha

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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage

I did.. ( jam ) was good few years ago.. she was not at all attractive.. but it was to get a big contract and she made it clear if i wanted it that would be the deal.. so i did, it still turns my stomach now.. But it was definitely worth it..

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Did once physically she was very attractive like even I was amazed how I managed to pull her lol but personality wise she was a sarcastic, entitled, stuck up, spoilt brat (excuse my language) Why did I do it? Just to prove to myself that even I a 4/10 can land a 10/10 if I really wanted

So really then we should be asking her..why settle?

Haha she knew from her friend 'I had the magic stick' haha "

Sounds like hocus pocus to we

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Me

Bloody fat fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say

He’s probably trying his hardest and concentrating not to cum early

Maybe he was imagining that i was Farrah Fawcett "

I wouldn't have to force it with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did once physically she was very attractive like even I was amazed how I managed to pull her lol but personality wise she was a sarcastic, entitled, stuck up, spoilt brat (excuse my language) Why did I do it? Just to prove to myself that even I a 4/10 can land a 10/10 if I really wanted

So really then we should be asking her..why settle?

Haha she knew from her friend 'I had the magic stick' haha "

I went to see what the magic stick looks like but there was no sign of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me

Bloody fat fingers "

All the better for fingering with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presumably this is why glory holes and dark rooms are so popular - you can imagine whoever you like is on the receiving end . Do you think you’d watch and see who comes out later?? I’ve often wondered. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex with those I wouldn't find attractive and ended up having great sex (and attraction increases).

The flip side I've had sex with those I would find attractive and had mediocre sex (and attraction diminishes).

Once you start kissing and the clothes come off. Then hands and mouths start wandering I'll get hard.

I have found that someone's 'attractiveness' is not commensurate to sexual 'ability'. It's how they kiss, suck, smell, taste, feel which gets me hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Presumably this is why glory holes and dark rooms are so popular - you can imagine whoever you like is on the receiving end . Do you think you’d watch and see who comes out later?? I’ve often wondered. Xx "

Glory holes make a great impromptu loo roll holder.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Me

Bloody fat fingers

All the better for fingering with."

Jim..yes...they really are

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

I offered a girl I know a lift home one night I wasn’t attracted

She insisted I come on for a drink this was after night club

I said ok came in for a

She turns light off

Then starts pulling cock off me

As light was off I thought ok fuck it

Then she turns wild being really vocal

Fuck me you bastard etc

So I did then left she was happy

2 weeks later I meet her mate and mate tells me it’s her friends thing to bring men home fuck them and be vocal

As the hubby is in hallway wanking off listening

Seriously wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Presumably this is why glory holes and dark rooms are so popular - you can imagine whoever you like is on the receiving end . Do you think you’d watch and see who comes out later?? I’ve often wondered. Xx "

Maybe they have gorgeous photos on the inside of the booth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me

Bloody fat fingers

All the better for fingering with.

Jim..yes...they really are "

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I offered a girl I know a lift home one night I wasn’t attracted

She insisted I come on for a drink this was after night club

I said ok came in for a

She turns light off

Then starts pulling cock off me

As light was off I thought ok fuck it

Then she turns wild being really vocal

Fuck me you bastard etc

So I did then left she was happy

2 weeks later I meet her mate and mate tells me it’s her friends thing to bring men home fuck them and be vocal

As the hubby is in hallway wanking off listening

Seriously wtf"

That made me chuckle

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Presumably this is why glory holes and dark rooms are so popular - you can imagine whoever you like is on the receiving end . Do you think you’d watch and see who comes out later?? I’ve often wondered. Xx "

And I really do think it's how your brain is wired as to how you enjoy them.

Mine does not allow it.

Instead of getting all hot and letting my imagination wandering giving myself the freedom.... oh no

Mine says.... what if your son is here and you have no idea?

What if it's your ex who beat the shit out of ya?

What if it's someone you fucking despise?

What if it's someone who barebacks and you've seen it first hand?

What if it's someone who wouldn't take no for an answer, got pushy, and now you've got their cock in yer gob?

It's dark... what if they have an infection and I can't see it?

That is how my brain works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, no would I.

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By *oss25Man
over a year ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

There has to be attraction; nothing to do with looks or body shape etc. Good conversation, eyes and the first kiss.....if they aren’t great then it’s not happening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never slept with anyone I had no attraction too, don't think I could to be honest, there needs to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people do things they dont like.

having sex with not your perfect match is one of them.

maybe as you get older your mind changes to being involved with people who you like the look off and enjoy being around. thats experience.

when your younger i think sometimes you just want sex and will do whatever to get it.

so i dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to blow my own trumpet but yes I can

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Got somewhat tipsy at a Rock club back in the early 90's. Ended up back at a lass's hotel room, when I woke up in the morning, she looked just as good as I'd remembered from the night before, very pretty and a figure to die for. It was only when I saw how dirty her fingernails were I shuddered to think where they'd been

I've seen mechanics with cleaner nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Presumably this is why glory holes and dark rooms are so popular - you can imagine whoever you like is on the receiving end . Do you think you’d watch and see who comes out later?? I’ve often wondered. Xx

And I really do think it's how your brain is wired as to how you enjoy them.

Mine does not allow it.

Instead of getting all hot and letting my imagination wandering giving myself the freedom.... oh no

Mine says.... what if your son is here and you have no idea?

What if it's your ex who beat the shit out of ya?

What if it's someone you fucking despise?

What if it's someone who barebacks and you've seen it first hand?

What if it's someone who wouldn't take no for an answer, got pushy, and now you've got their cock in yer gob?

It's dark... what if they have an infection and I can't see it?

That is how my brain works "

Haha, my mind doesn’t like the idea of it either. My first thought is ‘why don’t you want to be seen?’ And then my imagination fills in the rest - and it’s never in a good way

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By *onlylive1ceMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Ooooh interesting, if we are talking not physically attracted in any way then I do recall when a friend and I went back with few women to their house for a few drinks after the pubs closed. It got late and found myself kipping on the sofa downstairs and one of the other women decided to join me. She wasn’t unattractive in anyway but equally I didn’t instinctively fancy her, and despite best efforts my mind wasn’t in it and neither were other parts of me!

Since then I have been lucky to have similar scenarios which resulted in absolutely filthy fun, but this is when we had a laugh together, shared some filthy stories about our kinks, and teased each other a little before anything happened. Needless to say is ended in great sex. Well I thought so anyway!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though

What's wrong with a woman having a moustache?

Nothing if its not like full on Adolf Hitler jobby "

Frickin' stachist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Did you shut your eyes and think of someone else?

Or what?

Just curious after reading a comment from a guy about just such a thing!

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load!

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no?

Curious as to who will hold their hands up to doing it?

"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have slept with a few who i look back at now and find im not attracted to them, but at the time there must have been some form of attraction for me to want to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much someone I wasn't attracted to but at 16 I ended up in the sack with my mums best friend. She had a reputation for being a man eater. Safe to say I did a lot of growing up that night. Lol

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"believe me it doesn't matter what you look like to guys"

Hey Mrs S,

What a beautiful smile you have in some of your profile photos! That's cheered me right up.

My confession? As a young man it didn't matter if I was physically attracted to a woman or not, I would and did rise to the occasion. Now? Attraction is sooooo important, but can be based on the person as much as their looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with a few I wasn't attracted to and it was purely sex nothing more nothing less

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

On my first trip to a club I was propositioned by a woman who was OK but I wasn't really attracted to her. I thought beggars can't be choosers so I went for it.

Not being attracted to somebody isn't the same as not being able to get hard. Here tits and arse still felt good. She did her stuff with her mouth and hands too. Getting hard wasn't the problem for me. Reaching orgasm was the tricky bit, but I managed it in the end, though she complained about how long it took.

After I had got dressed and was leaving the club, I saw a lady I'd been talking to that night who I really did fancy, and she propositioned me too! But I was done for the night. Fortunately I got to shag her the next two times I went to that club.

Luke

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

Yes i have slept with somebody i am not attracted to. Getting hard was not and has never been an issue. If amything it made me last longer and weboth came multiple times during the night. Theres nothing wring with mutual sexual satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Did you shut your eyes and think of someone else?

Or what?

Just curious after reading a comment from a guy about just such a thing!

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load!

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no?

Curious as to who will hold their hands up to doing it?

"

I simply couldn't get aroused, I have a discerning cock. Its why I should be on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it's just a male thing. I'm female and had questionable encounters. Granted tequila has played a part and I was much younger but still....

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Need that physical and mental stimulation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did once after a heavy night out in a nightclub ( circa 99 or 2000) .

She seemed lovely in the club in the dark so I took her home, and not only did I discover she had a moustache but she then proceeded to vomit on me as she was hammered.

I still did though "

Oooooooooppps Serious Beer Goggles.

No I never nor could I ever sleep with someone I didn't find attractive

Some peeps would get up on just about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest,

Long day out at football, then out all night,

She looked good, up for anything,

Cut a long story short,

Got her back to mine, piss pearls when I went down and tissue paper stuck down there,

And marks in her panties,

It's a site I'll never forget,

And yes, I still fucked her x

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ex wife. 16 year marriage and the last 5 years were tough on the rare occasion when I had to. It was like playing snooker with a bit of rope.

No amount of porn inspired anything but a semi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have ever slept with someone you really were not attracted to how did you get hard!?

Did you shut your eyes and think of someone else?

Or what?

Just curious after reading a comment from a guy about just such a thing!

Why would you sleep with someone that you weren't attracted to?

Was it just to blow your load!

Did you feel guilty and didn’t like to say no?

Curious as to who will hold their hands up to doing it?

"

I'm apparently a bit weird as I couldn't fuck someone I didn't fancy! There have been times at orgies when you interact with someone who isn't your traditional type, but that's more about the hotness of the situation. I be had a few funny looks or comments when politely declining!

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I did when I was younger, broke up with my first love, become friends with another girl but I wanted just the be friends, she wanted more and made a play for a while. Eventually I gave in and started sleeping with her, the sex was shit and I faked climax a fair few times.

I only did it not to hurt her feelings!!

She was a lovely girl, just didn’t find her sexuality attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lot of guys will try sound good here to get the likes from the ladies, guys don’t think clear when horny, will say and do anything to get sex.

Guarantee you now most guys will have slept with someone they already knew they wasn’t interested in! It’s different if we are talking about finding someone repulsive, but simply just not really being interested and super attracted too... I call bullshit to all guys saying they haven’t!

As for feelings after, well I think even women after they get what they want, sometimes will have regret etc.. what your willing to do when horny in reflection once you are satisfied are very different things.

Never expect pure honesty from a guy looking to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite a few when in my 20s and on the heavy drinking induced nightclub scene.

Now older and wiser absolutely no way its demeaning for yourself and her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s far more common than most would be willing to let on, especially amongst younger guys.

Never heard the phrase, “any hole is a goal” ? and for some that includes other guys.

Then there’s also the incredibly disrespectful game of pull a pig, groups of young lads can be horrible creatures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I just couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone I'm not attracted too. Can't have sex for the sake of sex

And this is why I am glad I don't drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with men who closed their eyes

What does that say "

You are about to make their eyes pop out?..

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

No could never sleep with a women or even kiss her if I'm not sexually attractive 2 her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men did when they was younger and they are lying if they say they did not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've definitely slept with girls that I wasn't attracted to, alcohol has sometimes helped. Didn't have to think of anything to help get me hard, just as long as I knew I was going to get to blow my load

Probably not something that I should openly admit But I would defo do it again. Haha!

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