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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

I am not a happy bunny! I replied to an email to Si about a subject we had discussed before and now I have a block for a couple of hours because I mentioned another site in it!

I need to reply to a couple of mails tonight and now I can't.. All because I tried to help out! Last fooking time I do that!! Just hope those I promised an mail to will understand.. Off to bed totally pissed off!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i didn realise you could get blocked from sending emails on here

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Thought you just got blocked from forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i didn realise you could get blocked from sending emails on here "

Me too freaky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought replying to personal messages and mentioning other sites or sending links was ok?

Bit worried I'll accidentally break rules I don't even know about now.

Can anyone clarify please?

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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden


"i didn realise you could get blocked from sending emails on here "

Yep! Sending info to the Boss! It was only for two hours, but that meant we couldn't email two couples on here! But site names in private emails? Perhaps a little too far

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i didn realise you could get blocked from sending emails on here

Yep! Sending info to the Boss! It was only for two hours, but that meant we couldn't email two couples on here! But site names in private emails? Perhaps a little too far "

learn something new each day....

i knew previously they just blocked web addresses

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Who is 'The Boss' ?

How do you send e mails through the site ?

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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Who is 'The Boss' ?

How do you send e mails through the site ?

"

Granny, I just mean Si.. I emailed on his profile that he posts on the forums with, same one as he mailed me on a few days previously...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Are you saying that a site you mentioned in a pm got you a two hour block from sending pms?

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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Are you saying that a site you mentioned in a pm got you a two hour block from sending pms?"

Yes, I sent a message via a profile and the system picked up the web site name in it and promptly banned me from sending messages for two hours. I do think it is a bit much that they monitor our private mails in this way.. Buy they own the site...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Are you saying that a site you mentioned in a pm got you a two hour block from sending pms?

Yes, I sent a message via a profile and the system picked up the web site name in it and promptly banned me from sending messages for two hours. I do think it is a bit much that they monitor our private mails in this way.. Buy they own the site... "

I wondered why one of the sites I like to recommend for parties always got a spam warning. Surely that stops the message though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

All ive ever had is (this website address is blocked) but thats only if you havent sent any messages to the people before, think its two or three messages then it lets the site come up, but never heard of it blocking you,

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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Are you saying that a site you mentioned in a pm got you a two hour block from sending pms?

Yes, I sent a message via a profile and the system picked up the web site name in it and promptly banned me from sending messages for two hours. I do think it is a bit much that they monitor our private mails in this way.. Buy they own the site...

I wondered why one of the sites I like to recommend for parties always got a spam warning. Surely that stops the message though."

If you just got a warning, beware! I had no warning, just a two hour time out! Yes it stops the message, but I am not happy about my private mails being vetted in this way! It does mean that I will go back to using off site mail once initial contact is made, unless they stop email addresses next!

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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden


"All ive ever had is (this website address is blocked) but thats only if you havent sent any messages to the people before, think its two or three messages then it lets the site come up, but never heard of it blocking you,"

Yep! BIG red letters at the top of the page telling me I cannot mail for two hours because of the Site Name I used..

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

[Removed by poster at 26/07/12 22:43:20]

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

deleted to rephrase

I recently had a 48 hour forum ban for linking a UK goverment addreess on a frourm thread, its easily found, and verified ,

I emailed admin to saying what the link was etc and it was obvious from the address, they ddin not even bother to reply, even to say sorry you broke the rules, penalty stands

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By *umour OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rushden


"deleted to rephrase

I recently had a 48 hour forum ban for linking a UK goverment addreess on a frourm thread, its easily found, and verified ,

I emailed admin to saying what the link was etc and it was obvious from the address, they ddin not even bother to reply, even to say sorry you broke the rules, penalty stands

"

They do say you can appeal, but then in another place tell you they don't or can't read all mails! As all mails go to the same place, it seems like lip service!

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds


"deleted to rephrase

I recently had a 48 hour forum ban for linking a UK goverment addreess on a frourm thread, its easily found, and verified ,

I emailed admin to saying what the link was etc and it was obvious from the address, they ddin not even bother to reply, even to say sorry you broke the rules, penalty stands

They do say you can appeal, but then in another place tell you they don't or can't read all mails! As all mails go to the same place, it seems like lip service!"

how can you appeal against something when your firts appeal has not even been dignified with an answer?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"deleted to rephrase

I recently had a 48 hour forum ban for linking a UK goverment addreess on a frourm thread, its easily found, and verified ,

I emailed admin to saying what the link was etc and it was obvious from the address, they ddin not even bother to reply, even to say sorry you broke the rules, penalty stands

"

Here is Admins answer to this.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/98303

The forum mods are all volunteers.

Mistakes and mistjudgements occasionally do happen. We do ask that forum ban complaints are directed to us via the CONATCT link.

If you contact us about a forum timeout we will look into it. If you don't hear back from us you can assume we think the timeout is fair .

If you treat the forums as a bit of fun, you won't go far wrong and you're really unlikely to have any problems.

Closing this now, any specific mod issues feel free to contact us directly.

Admin x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All ive ever had is (this website address is blocked) but thats only if you havent sent any messages to the people before, think its two or three messages then it lets the site come up, but never heard of it blocking you,

Yep! BIG red letters at the top of the page telling me I cannot mail for two hours because of the Site Name I used.."

Which site name was it?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Are you saying that a site you mentioned in a pm got you a two hour block from sending pms?

Yes, I sent a message via a profile and the system picked up the web site name in it and promptly banned me from sending messages for two hours. I do think it is a bit much that they monitor our private mails in this way.. Buy they own the site... "

They don't monitor mails Rumour, it is automated and if some sites are blocked for spamming reasons thats when it happens, not that someone is sat reading your mails watching for a link.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Don't mention SNOW.

I was banned once for describing my skiing holiday ffs.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Don't mention SNOW.

I was banned once for describing my skiing holiday ffs. "

Really? on your log no mention of snow at all with any ban.

Why don't you give it a rest with your stories?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing "

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too "

It was your fault yes !!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Don't mention SNOW.

I was banned once for describing my skiing holiday ffs.

Really? on your log no mention of snow at all with any ban.

Why don't you give it a rest with your stories?"

Check the chatroom logs. I got chucked out of there and tbf admin reinstated me when i contacted them.

You check your logs.

It is a matter of record.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

ps Rugby MFM, please post to confirm when you have done so, many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

It was your fault yes !! "

How are the length of bans determined?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

ps Rugby MFM, please post to confirm when you have done so, many thanks. "

I was talking about what you implied and what people on this thread were talking about, ie forum ban and you probably worded it withiut " chat ban " in the post for your own reasons.

Either way, please stop with the comments about your bans ( sounds like you get them everyhwere) and if you want to dispute them go to the proper place.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

It was your fault yes !!

How are the length of bans determined? "

It depends on what rule is broken. Admin decide how long they are, anything from 24 hours to a perm.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

ps Rugby MFM, please post to confirm when you have done so, many thanks.

I was talking about what you implied and what people on this thread were talking about, ie forum ban and you probably worded it withiut " chat ban " in the post for your own reasons.

Either way, please stop with the comments about your bans ( sounds like you get them everyhwere) and if you want to dispute them go to the proper place. "

Quite simple really, please post again when you have checked the appropriate logs and confirmed the true events.

I've no current ban, as yet, to dispute, but i have contacted Admin to confirm the logs and the veracity of the "story".

In any event, are you suggesting that "stories" shouldn't be told, made up, embellished, on Lounge Forums.

Does that apply to everyone or just me?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

It was your fault yes !!

How are the length of bans determined?

It depends on what rule is broken. Admin decide how long they are, anything from 24 hours to a perm.

"

They make you have a perm??

How cruel!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

ps Rugby MFM, please post to confirm when you have done so, many thanks.

I was talking about what you implied and what people on this thread were talking about, ie forum ban and you probably worded it withiut " chat ban " in the post for your own reasons.

Either way, please stop with the comments about your bans ( sounds like you get them everyhwere) and if you want to dispute them go to the proper place.

Quite simple really, please post again when you have checked the appropriate logs and confirmed the true events.

I've no current ban, as yet, to dispute, but i have contacted Admin to confirm the logs and the veracity of the "story".

In any event, are you suggesting that "stories" shouldn't be told, made up, embellished, on Lounge Forums.

Does that apply to everyone or just me? "

I won't be confirming anything as I am not looking at any chat bans you have recieved.

As I said on previous posts, having digs about previous bans on the forums all the time is not what Admin want. So any previous bans you still want to dispute use the right channels.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

It was your fault yes !!

How are the length of bans determined?

It depends on what rule is broken. Admin decide how long they are, anything from 24 hours to a perm.

They make you have a perm??

How cruel!"

A 70's one if you are really really naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

It was your fault yes !!

How are the length of bans determined?

It depends on what rule is broken. Admin decide how long they are, anything from 24 hours to a perm.

They make you have a perm??

How cruel!"

Yes its one of those really tight granny ones that last months and ends up with birds building nests in it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Im going to be having Kevin Keegan nightmares tonight now

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

At least they don't make you wear a shell suit with it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"At least they don't make you wear a shell suit with it "

Im not going to risk it anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"At least they don't make you wear a shell suit with it "

awww no! just ordered a load as well....ill send them back

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

ps Rugby MFM, please post to confirm when you have done so, many thanks.

I was talking about what you implied and what people on this thread were talking about, ie forum ban and you probably worded it withiut " chat ban " in the post for your own reasons.

Either way, please stop with the comments about your bans ( sounds like you get them everyhwere) and if you want to dispute them go to the proper place.

Quite simple really, please post again when you have checked the appropriate logs and confirmed the true events.

I've no current ban, as yet, to dispute, but i have contacted Admin to confirm the logs and the veracity of the "story".

In any event, are you suggesting that "stories" shouldn't be told, made up, embellished, on Lounge Forums.

Does that apply to everyone or just me?

I won't be confirming anything as I am not looking at any chat bans you have recieved.

As I said on previous posts, having digs about previous bans on the forums all the time is not what Admin want. So any previous bans you still want to dispute use the right channels."

I'll repeat, i have no current ban, all previous ones are spent.

The true "story" of the ban of which i posted was in fact rescinded after contacting Admin through the proper channels.

I'd be amazed if the word "snow" did not appear in the log or my "appeal".

It should be simple for you to check the truth of the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is 'The Boss' ?

How do you send e mails through the site ?

"

Bruce Springsteen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you got a ban for talking about bans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a reasonable site precaution to me, I'm sure nobody would want to be recieving spam and adverts in their inboxes. If this sought of thing goes unchecked then that's where it eventually leads.

I appreciate that recieving an automated short term ban would be annoying, but is there a better way of policing it?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I thought you got a ban for talking about bans?

"

The first rule of ban club is you dont talk about ban club...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Seems a reasonable site precaution to me, I'm sure nobody would want to be recieving spam and adverts in their inboxes. If this sought of thing goes unchecked then that's where it eventually leads.

I appreciate that recieving an automated short term ban would be annoying, but is there a better way of policing it?"

I think so too.....although being the butt of HPC's jokes for two hours wasn't so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought you got a ban for talking about bans?

The first rule of ban club is you dont talk about ban club..."

i never said anything....... honest

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Rugby MFM any confirmation yet about my previous ban being true and not a story?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Rugby MFM any confirmation yet about my previous ban being true and not a story?

"

Not from me Mushroom no.

If you want confirmation of what you were banned from chat from, contact Admin from the CONTACT button.

Thats my last bit of the same advice, I can't keep repeating myself.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Rugby MFM any confirmation yet about my previous ban being true and not a story?

Not from me Mushroom no.

If you want confirmation of what you were banned from chat from, contact Admin from the CONTACT button.

Thats my last bit of the same advice, I can't keep repeating myself."

Admin have confirmed the prior ban.

So much for me telling stories eh?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Why don't you just drop it.

You know I wasn't talking about chat as you were commenting on a thread that mentioned forum bans.

You are winding yourself up over something that I wasn't talking about.

BUT, I will have to leave you to carry on as it is a tad boring now.

As always, snide remarks about unjust bans please leave away from the forum as per the rules.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

*posted* not posed.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"To OP....yes I got caught out a couple of months back sending a mail to HPC...it blocked us for two hours too, she couldn't stop laughing

Now that was hilarious and it was all my fault too

It was your fault yes !!

How are the length of bans determined?

It depends on what rule is broken. Admin decide how long they are, anything from 24 hours to a perm.

"

its actually good you are being accomodating and answering the queries we generally cant get answered.

how would one go about getting a perm ban lifted?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I was wondering that...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Always through the CONTACT page for any bans.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/contact/owners

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Always through the CONTACT page for any bans."

and if that has been tried, without reply or success?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Always through the CONTACT page for any bans.

and if that has been tried, without reply or success?"

Yep, cos I've contacted admin about a ban which I consider to be extremely harsh and never heard anything back.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is Admins answer to this.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/98303

The forum mods are all volunteers.

Mistakes and mistjudgements occasionally do happen. We do ask that forum ban complaints are directed to us via the CONATCT link.

If you contact us about a forum timeout we will look into it. If you don't hear back from us you can assume we think the timeout is fair .

If you treat the forums as a bit of fun, you won't go far wrong and you're really unlikely to have any problems.

Closing this now, any specific mod issues feel free to contact us directly.

Admin x

I did post this up there ^^^^^^

It does say they review every ban and if they think it is the right ban you won't hear anything.

Now as this is only talking about bans I will shut it like Admin did.

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