FabSwingers.com forum: End of lockdown

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s looking like another year ,I’m not sure I could do that .don’t know if anyone else feels the same.what is the point of going on .

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

There will be life after lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best foot forward and trust in the Lord, or the sense of your fellow man. Stiff upper lip and grin and bear it. We are all in the same boat and need to look to something to amuse ourselves with, Good luck all X

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"It’s looking like another year ,I’m not sure I could do that .don’t know if anyone else feels the same.what is the point of going on ."

It’s better than the alternative!! In a year or so (hopefully sooner!) this dull and boring life will be a distant memory and we will be busy bees with a full diary and not enough time to do all that we want.

There are 100000 people who would be grateful to have the chance to feel the way we do right now.

If you’re feeling low, contact people, offer to volunteer, join some local community groups, seek professional support. There is light at the end of this long tunnel.

Lou xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It interests me ....... lockdown......

My daughter is disabled, it doesn't change her life one iota.

I guess not going to the pictures or not being able to tickle someone's cock gets some down.

I really do hope that people manage to find ways of improving themselves or creating things..... finding out things about themselves..

Imagine what it would have been like without tech.

There are lots of things to be glad about still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it this way. It's not like I was getting any before it happened anyway lol. So if act like I'm not missing out I don't feel as bad lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pals wife is a senior leader on a hospital board and they have been told to put things in place for another 18months of spikes in brake outs of covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very difficult for everyone at the moment no matter what our situations may be. There is every point in going on. There is now light at the end of the tunnel at least. Please don’t give up. It will get better.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

If it’s going to be another year, I believe allowing one household to ‘bubble’ with one other household only, would not only alleviate some of the mental health issues that lots have started having to deal with, but also I feel people would be less likely to break lockdown rules if they had some sort of social support within their lives. Yes, there’s obviously those that would take the piss and have several bubbles on the go, but these are likely to be the same people that are already breaking the rules right now anyway.

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By *opknightMan
over a year ago

uttoxeter

There is light at the end of the tunnel, think on the positives if you can.. i know its hard, just the small things the nights are going out there are people you can reach out to

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I look at it this way. It's not like I was getting any before it happened anyway lol. So if act like I'm not missing out I don't feel as bad lol."

O.M.G No. And anyone who says it is is deluded. Neither is a burger!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a struggle for most if not more for the vulnerable people but only way to contain and control is with a lockdown to minimise people getting infected but opening schools or colleges we'll be just going around in circles their will always be some kind of sacrifice whether it's the economy or human life but economy can be restored eventually unlike human life and I doubt this vaccine is effective enough but it's exactly what Boris has said unclear information no accuracy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look to the future not to the now

In a lifetime, we have a 'lost' year

It's an inconvenience for the majority

If my being inconvenienced for 12-18 months helps the mortality figure stay as near 100,000 as it can, getting on with life, keeping safe and keeping others safe is the least I can do

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

The point of going on is better days will come.....

I’ve struggled at times especially in this lockdown but everyday I look for one positive thing no matter how small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will be life after lockdown.

Have ya seen Mad Max?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If it’s going to be another year, I believe allowing one household to ‘bubble’ with one other household only, would not only alleviate some of the mental health issues that lots have started having to deal with, but also I feel people would be less likely to break lockdown rules if they had some sort of social support within their lives. Yes, there’s obviously those that would take the piss and have several bubbles on the go, but these are likely to be the same people that are already breaking the rules right now anyway."

A single person can already bubble with one other.

That's enough.

Let's say 4 in one family all working and 4 in another with 1 working and 1 at secondary school who used public transport....... Just imagine all the people they come into contact with. No chance of getting the R down if one family can see another family.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lockdown has taken my job and any chance of getting one .it’s just not looking good.

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By *ack again. Again.Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Hang in there Bluesky. It all seems bleak at the moment but there will be better times ahead. For all of us.

Offering a manly hug if you need one mate

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Lockdown has taken my job and any chance of getting one .it’s just not looking good."

Sorry to hear that. You will get another job, it may not be what you’ve been doing until recently but something will come up and it will be an opportunity to meet new people, learn new skills etc.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

The 1 person working and the 1 in secondary school, will still be working and travelling to school regardless... Along that thinking then C we should split up and segregate households with more than 4 people in them.

I firmly believe the mental health toll on large portions of the population is going to have long and far reaching implications that are currently being for the large part, being ignored.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

"It’s looking like another year ,I’m not sure I could do that .don’t know if anyone else feels the same.what is the point of going on ."
After this we have decided to have more fun in life . Just goes to show how short life is and best to make most of it before it happens again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at it this way. It's not like I was getting any before it happened anyway lol. So if act like I'm not missing out I don't feel as bad lol.

O.M.G No. And anyone who says it is is deluded. Neither is a burger!"

Was just trying to light the mood with a little joke lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess not going to the pictures or not being able to tickle someone's cock gets some down.

i think this belittles the impact that being totally isolated has on people

i dont disagree with the lockdown but why can’t we just acknowledge that because someone has it hard in another way it doesn’t invalidate that its hard for each person

we seem to have gotten competitive with who is deserving of compassion and if someone has it worse you don’t qualify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very difficult for everyone at the moment no matter what our situations may be. There is every point in going on. There is now light at the end of the tunnel at least. Please don’t give up. It will get better. "

this and take it in small chunks ... i cant face another year either ... but i can manage til easter , then maybe ill be ready to manage another few months and so on ... if they told us nearly a year last march we would have gone

... but look we already made it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s looking like another year ,I’m not sure I could do that .don’t know if anyone else feels the same.what is the point of going on ."

Well one must continue. But i agree with you some days i think i cant do it. then something nice happens, a little lift, something small, or someone else needs you and on you go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... but look we already made it "

This is so true. Don’t look at the longer term. I learned this in life when I found out my child had issues. I nearly had a breakdown worrying about her future. What if we die, what if she can’t do this that and the other! I now don’t look much further than the next few months and it’s easier. Nobody knows what the future holds. Nobody x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Hang in there Bluesky. It all seems bleak at the moment but there will be better times ahead. For all of us.

I like this

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Life is still good in lockdown, just requires a lot of patience and change of perspective! When I’m starting to feel frustrated at being single, not being able to hold family and not having a support bubble during the pandemic I try and turn my way of thinking around and see it as a good excuse to slow down and look after myself. Stop rushing about wanting the future to be here already and just live right here, right now in this moment as it happens

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Lockdown has taken my job and any chance of getting one .it’s just not looking good."

First lockdown took mine! But got another at my age! There is allways hope! U could try supermarkets as a stop gap! They taking on! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s looking like another year ,I’m not sure I could do that .don’t know if anyone else feels the same.what is the point of going on ."

There is light dude.. I know it seems like it's a forever thing. But together we will pull through.

I lost my job in September and I was at rock bottom.. but now I'm learning myself a new trade and I stay well away from the news and social media... you'll see the light dude

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