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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello,

I gave up on any hopes of finding someone, but last night something awaken in me and i thought "you know what, why not give it a go again?"

I have a neurological health condition, one of the symptoms is severe fatigue, which makes me useless. Parties and other events most likely a nono, i would struggle to have an ordinary sex due to the lack of energy, never mind parties . Last time i had it was about 2years ago and was pretty tired after 1 min.

I gave up on any hopes of finding a partner many years ago, but thought maybe its still possible to find someone for casual fun even just for a chat.

So with what i said, do you think its even possible of finding anyone, or im just wasting my time?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Hello,

I gave up on any hopes of finding someone, but last night something awaken in me and i thought "you know what, why not give it a go again?"

I have a neurological health condition, one of the symptoms is severe fatigue, which makes me useless. Parties and other events most likely a nono, i would struggle to have an ordinary sex due to the lack of energy, never mind parties . Last time i had it was about 2years ago and was pretty tired after 1 min.

I gave up on any hopes of finding a partner many years ago, but thought maybe its still possible to find someone for casual fun even just for a chat.

So with what i said, do you think its even possible of finding anyone, or im just wasting my time?

"

I think you should keep going mate. I’m a firm believer there is someone out there for everyone.

Good luck

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I'm sure you would find someone. There are ways to find gratification without having physical sex. Whether you would find that on here, it might be difficult. Perhaps you could try a fet-ish site? You may have more luck there. I chatted to many different people there from blind to disabled. Although there are a few disabled on fab, I realise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% possible. Good looking fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you attend any support groups for your condition?

There may be people there that understand things better than your average person and are willing to work on the physical aspects with you

I'm not saying you won't find fun on Fab, more really to not restrict your searches to here

You're a good looking smiley man

I'm sure there is a lady or two out there who'd fancy a snuggle up with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you may find it difficult, although not entirely impossible, to find someone compatible on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's possible, just try and find someone really lazy lol.

No but seriously, I'm sorry to hear about your condition. I hope you are getting the right help and support you require

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Good luck in your search

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't think it's all about having a mad sex life.

Friendship and compatibility also count.

Look after yourself and good luck in your search.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Get out of your head that it's all about sex for a start, most women generally aren't wired like that.

Don't give up you're so young, a nice looking guy I'm sure you have plenty to offer.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello,

I gave up on any hopes of finding someone, but last night something awaken in me and i thought "you know what, why not give it a go again?"

I have a neurological health condition, one of the symptoms is severe fatigue, which makes me useless. Parties and other events most likely a nono, i would struggle to have an ordinary sex due to the lack of energy, never mind parties . Last time i had it was about 2years ago and was pretty tired after 1 min.

I gave up on any hopes of finding a partner many years ago, but thought maybe its still possible to find someone for casual fun even just for a chat.

So with what i said, do you think its even possible of finding anyone, or im just wasting my time?

I think you should keep going mate. I’m a firm believer there is someone out there for everyone.

Good luck "

Thanks mate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure you would find someone. There are ways to find gratification without having physical sex. Whether you would find that on here, it might be difficult. Perhaps you could try a fet-ish site? You may have more luck there. I chatted to many different people there from blind to disabled. Although there are a few disabled on fab, I realise. "

The only problem is - hormones are there, but the energy is very limited :D. Dont expect anyone to understand but, you can have both arms and legs, a 13 inch penis, but if you dont have energy you dont have anything.

What do you mean by fet-ish site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100% possible. Good looking fella! "

Thanks mate!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant


"I'm sure you would find someone. There are ways to find gratification without having physical sex. Whether you would find that on here, it might be difficult. Perhaps you could try a fet-ish site? You may have more luck there. I chatted to many different people there from blind to disabled. Although there are a few disabled on fab, I realise.

The only problem is - hormones are there, but the energy is very limited :D. Dont expect anyone to understand but, you can have both arms and legs, a 13 inch penis, but if you dont have energy you dont have anything.

What do you mean by fet-ish site?"

Can't be easy. If you would like to know more about your last paragraph, mail me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you attend any support groups for your condition?

There may be people there that understand things better than your average person and are willing to work on the physical aspects with you

I'm not saying you won't find fun on Fab, more really to not restrict your searches to here

You're a good looking smiley man

I'm sure there is a lady or two out there who'd fancy a snuggle up with you "

Well not really, like i said i feel like i have given up on any hopes of finding a partner and just feel different from everyone else in the community. Im 31 people who i spoke to are usually about 20 30 years older who have families, careers all that stuff, and just generally feel a lot healthier so not much in common.

Just hope to have some occasional fun while i still can. But if its not meant to be im sure you can get used to anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you may find it difficult, although not entirely impossible, to find someone compatible on here"

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course it's possible, just try and find someone really lazy lol.

No but seriously, I'm sorry to hear about your condition. I hope you are getting the right help and support you require "

Thanks! Nono dont be sorry for me please, this is not why i wrote this post . I just rejoined this site last night and kinda have second thoughts "maybe its not too late"

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

You seem cute and I would get to know you but also 400 miles away

I hope you find someone patient and kind to help

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What exactly are you looking for? Maybe make that clear, there are people on here looking for all sorts

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hello,

I gave up on any hopes of finding someone, but last night something awaken in me and i thought "you know what, why not give it a go again?"

I have a neurological health condition, one of the symptoms is severe fatigue, which makes me useless. Parties and other events most likely a nono, i would struggle to have an ordinary sex due to the lack of energy, never mind parties . Last time i had it was about 2years ago and was pretty tired after 1 min.

I gave up on any hopes of finding a partner many years ago, but thought maybe its still possible to find someone for casual fun even just for a chat.

So with what i said, do you think its even possible of finding anyone, or im just wasting my time?

"

Never give up mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What exactly are you looking for? Maybe make that clear, there are people on here looking for all sorts "

Im looking for casual fun BUT i have a neurological condition that affects my energy levels. So i wont be able to perform like a normal man if that makes sense and im not really sure if i want to post this info on my profile. Maybe i should

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello,

I gave up on any hopes of finding someone, but last night something awaken in me and i thought "you know what, why not give it a go again?"

I have a neurological health condition, one of the symptoms is severe fatigue, which makes me useless. Parties and other events most likely a nono, i would struggle to have an ordinary sex due to the lack of energy, never mind parties . Last time i had it was about 2years ago and was pretty tired after 1 min.

I gave up on any hopes of finding a partner many years ago, but thought maybe its still possible to find someone for casual fun even just for a chat.

So with what i said, do you think its even possible of finding anyone, or im just wasting my time?

Never give up mate

"

Cheers bud!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I agree, don't give up looking. You're far to young to be thinking like that. I'm sure you have lots of other things to offer someone.

In terms of Fab there are lots of people on here who are happy just chatting. When it comes to having fun, it's not all about penetrative sex. There are people on here looking for all different things. I'm sure you will find someone and wish you lots of luck.

Kx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What exactly are you looking for? Maybe make that clear, there are people on here looking for all sorts

Im looking for casual fun BUT i have a neurological condition that affects my energy levels. So i wont be able to perform like a normal man if that makes sense and im not really sure if i want to post this info on my profile. Maybe i should "

You don't have to put anything on your profile that you don't want to. Maybe explain after you've made contact with people.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

After suffering from a life changing illness , and im on the mend but I always have what ive been diagnosed with, i say go for it get it out your head about sex many of us ain't wired up like that , dont let it put you off , but life is far to dhort to live on what ifs , grab it and take that chance is my advice

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You might find a kindred spirit with similar circumstances or just click with someone. Keep going but just expect it may take time. Good luck.

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