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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

'Says it all'

When it clearly cannot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Says it all'

When it clearly cannot "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

'Here for the same thing'

Is annoying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Just sayin'"

There is usually something else they are trying to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say it best... When you say nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind "

I wish I knew how they know. Already.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

“It is what it is”

Makes me want to reply “No it isn’t”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one knows what it means, but it's provocative ... it gets the people going!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind "

I usually pity them, if they endure something like my mind. Not that they get a pity/sympathy shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all "

Makes you speechless eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“It is what it is”

Makes me want to reply “No it isn’t” "

At the end of the day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat with respect"

How else are you expecting me to behave?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one knows what it means, but it's provocative ... it gets the people going!"

It's funny you used your username in above comment was that deliberately done?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Treat with respect"

How else are you expecting me to behave? "

Truism

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Lots irk me, but what irks me even more is that I have done it and not realised until I re read my comment

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I have no idea even what mine says

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots irk me, but what irks me even more is that I have done it and not realised until I re read my comment "

Haha that is true as well. I'm pretty sure I say some of them myself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1 that I've seen too much of recently -

'Here for a short time, not a long time'

Are they warning us not to bother getting to know them? Buy now, whilst stock lasts

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all "

For me that means actions speak louder than words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 that I've seen too much of recently -

'Here for a short time, not a long time'

Are they warning us not to bother getting to know them? Buy now, whilst stock lasts "

That's a question for a separate thread in itself! Interesting observation

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I wish I knew how they know. Already."

I always think they'll expect me to agree with everything they say.

I sort of know what they mean but I equate it in my mind with that dreadful phrase "right thinking people"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I wish I knew how they know. Already."

I wouldnt want anyone with the same mind as me it would get confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

For me that means actions speak louder than words "

Maybe its just about timing of it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I usually pity them, if they endure something like my mind. Not that they get a pity/sympathy shag"

They'll come up with a blank if their mind is like mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I wish I knew how they know. Already.

I always think they'll expect me to agree with everything they say.

I sort of know what they mean but I equate it in my mind with that dreadful phrase "right thinking people" "

Complete alikeness isn't after all the necessary foundation for having a good chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I wish I knew how they know. Already.

I wouldnt want anyone with the same mind as me it would get confusing"

I always say.. you don't need to understand me. You just need to accept me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I usually pity them, if they endure something like my mind. Not that they get a pity/sympathy shag

They'll come up with a blank if their mind is like mine "

Rebooting?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

For me that means actions speak louder than words

Maybe its just about timing of it? "

Could be.

I’m still laughing at being called a weapon as an opening line.... a weapon in my book is referencing a spanner, meaning idiot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

For me that means actions speak louder than words

Maybe its just about timing of it?

Could be.

I’m still laughing at being called a weapon as an opening line.... a weapon in my book is referencing a spanner, meaning idiot "

Hahahha that was a missed shot!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I wish I knew how they know. Already.

I always think they'll expect me to agree with everything they say.

I sort of know what they mean but I equate it in my mind with that dreadful phrase "right thinking people"

Complete alikeness isn't after all the necessary foundation for having a good chat."

I'd say it would prevent it!

I like a good exchange of views, you learn nothing listening to people who are "like minded"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

I usually pity them, if they endure something like my mind. Not that they get a pity/sympathy shag

They'll come up with a blank if their mind is like mine

Rebooting? "

No, I think lock down has slowly leeched all knowledge out of my ears and replaced it with images of chocolate biscuits and fluffy kittens

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

For me that means actions speak louder than words

Maybe its just about timing of it?

Could be.

I’m still laughing at being called a weapon as an opening line.... a weapon in my book is referencing a spanner, meaning idiot

Hahahha that was a missed shot! "

Yep it’s still trying to find it’s target

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

When people put ask on there profile ....ask what exactly ...sugar in tea? Fancy peeling me some spuds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think surely a lot of these phrases aren't intended to be taken literally, pretty much like anything we say, unless someone asks you for say geographical directions. Conversation is neuanced and that's the point in talking to different people surely, otherwise every conversation would be the same and quite predictable, imho

Maybe some folks styles just aren't to others taste, idk?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?"

Your profile tells me you like it up the bum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think surely a lot of these phrases aren't intended to be taken literally, pretty much like anything we say, unless someone asks you for say geographical directions. Conversation is neuanced and that's the point in talking to different people surely, otherwise every conversation would be the same and quite predictable, imho

Maybe some folks styles just aren't to others taste, idk?"

It's about the joy of picking apart funny phrases most of us are guilty of using sometimes, not really shooting anyone's conversing style.

On that note another one "don't take it personally "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When people put ask on there profile ....ask what exactly ...sugar in tea? Fancy peeling me some spuds?"

Like a single word "ask"? I didn't see that I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think surely a lot of these phrases aren't intended to be taken literally, pretty much like anything we say, unless someone asks you for say geographical directions. Conversation is neuanced and that's the point in talking to different people surely, otherwise every conversation would be the same and quite predictable, imho

Maybe some folks styles just aren't to others taste, idk?"

imho idk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?

Your profile tells me you like it up the bum "

I'm versatile;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?"

It means "your profile tells me a lot about you". I normally take it as a bad thing, as it tends to be said with a hint of shittiness.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

'Lets put on a show for the guys'....said by a woman.

I am not a member of a circus.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?

It means "your profile tells me a lot about you". I normally take it as a bad thing, as it tends to be said with a hint of shittiness. "

I see it followed with compliments but if felt confusing because of the phrase used!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Lets put on a show for the guys'....said by a woman.

I am not a member of a circus.

MsD"

Sometimes it does feel like a circus here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think surely a lot of these phrases aren't intended to be taken literally, pretty much like anything we say, unless someone asks you for say geographical directions. Conversation is neuanced and that's the point in talking to different people surely, otherwise every conversation would be the same and quite predictable, imho

Maybe some folks styles just aren't to others taste, idk?

It's about the joy of picking apart funny phrases most of us are guilty of using sometimes, not really shooting anyone's conversing style.

On that note another one "don't take it personally " "

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

For me that means actions speak louder than words

Maybe its just about timing of it? "

Oh see.. I was thinking ballgag

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I love being told that my profile is great.....

It's not been on view since dick docked.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all "

I see this similar to:

"If you cant say anything nice, don't say anying."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think surely a lot of these phrases aren't intended to be taken literally, pretty much like anything we say, unless someone asks you for say geographical directions. Conversation is neuanced and that's the point in talking to different people surely, otherwise every conversation would be the same and quite predictable, imho

Maybe some folks styles just aren't to others taste, idk?

It's about the joy of picking apart funny phrases most of us are guilty of using sometimes, not really shooting anyone's conversing style.

On that note another one "don't take it personally "

Each to their own "

followed by BUT.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

For me that means actions speak louder than words

Maybe its just about timing of it?

Oh see.. I was thinking ballgag "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love being told that my profile is great.....

It's not been on view since dick docked."

Oh them liars !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not my first time so I know how this works"

Umm, like any other social networking site I presume?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say it best... When you say nothing at all

I see this similar to:

"If you cant say anything nice, don't say anying." "

To me it's a bit like - you don't have anything useful to say? It's interesting how it can be read differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun loving" and "loves to laugh".

I prefer those types. I hate going on meets and finding out they hate laughing and having fun. Best cleared up early to avoid disappointment.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"“It is what it is”

Makes me want to reply “No it isn’t”

At the end of the day.. "

At the end of the day, it’s night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Fun loving" and "loves to laugh".

I prefer those types. I hate going on meets and finding out they hate laughing and having fun. Best cleared up early to avoid disappointment. "

I am a walking misery, it would be daunting to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“It is what it is”

Makes me want to reply “No it isn’t”

At the end of the day..

At the end of the day, it’s night "

Who would have thought! Guilty of using that one.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


""Fun loving" and "loves to laugh".

I prefer those types. I hate going on meets and finding out they hate laughing and having fun. Best cleared up early to avoid disappointment.

I am a walking misery, it would be daunting to meet you. "

Hates life, avoid at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Fun loving" and "loves to laugh".

I prefer those types. I hate going on meets and finding out they hate laughing and having fun. Best cleared up early to avoid disappointment.

I am a walking misery, it would be daunting to meet you.

Hates life, avoid at all costs "

At least she's honest.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes"

Surely that means that when you criticize them, you are a mile away from them and you have their shoes. ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes"

Surely that means that when you criticize them, you are a mile away from them and you have their shoes. ?"

That could work. You can't hear criticism from a mile away.

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By *ony2269Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

I think curves in all the right places is a attempt at a less crude version of lovely big boobs and a sexy round bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

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Yes, because I’ve used it to tell you about me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think curves in all the right places is a attempt at a less crude version of lovely big boobs and a sexy round bum.

"

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

Yes, because I’ve used it to tell you about me.

"

Eureka!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Such a shame that you’re not looking for... (me)”

That really grinds my gears

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I know you are so far away and we will never meet but .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what do you do for a living?"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my best Liam Neeson voice...

" I have a particular set of skills"

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"In my best Liam Neeson voice...

" I have a particular set of skills"

"

I’m related to him

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

Something that bothers me about some of these, is some are true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“Such a shame that you’re not looking for... (me)”

That really grinds my gears "

The shame word can be applied in strange ways here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know you are so far away and we will never meet but ....... "

World needs dreamers too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""So what do you do for a living?"... "

Some people like to keep these things separate, true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my best Liam Neeson voice...

" I have a particular set of skills"

"

As long as its said in Irish accent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something that bothers me about some of these, is some are true"

True how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know the score. Will fill in (our response) later

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


""Looking for like minded people" I never know how to tell if we're of the same mind

"

Likeminded - Not easy to judge when you're looking at a scant profile I'd agree. However when someone has taken time to explain in detail what they're looking for it ought to be quite clear whether they're looking for the same things and therefore likeminded.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"In my best Liam Neeson voice...

" I have a particular set of skills"

As long as its said in Irish accent. "

‘I just want my family back’

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By *ornyCouple17Couple
over a year ago

IPSWICH


"No one knows what it means, but it's provocative ... it gets the people going!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?"

I was trying to give it a positive view (the comment) but no, I can still only see it as something that makes me bristle a little

The Irish accent thing further on in the thread ... someone could read a shopping list in an Irish accent and it’d still be sexy ... if LN himsellllf read it then all the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?

I was trying to give it a positive view (the comment) but no, I can still only see it as something that makes me bristle a little

The Irish accent thing further on in the thread ... someone could read a shopping list in an Irish accent and it’d still be sexy ... if LN himsellllf read it then all the better "

Amen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Your profile is very telling"

I never understood the sense of that phrase.

Any others that irk you?

I was trying to give it a positive view (the comment) but no, I can still only see it as something that makes me bristle a little

The Irish accent thing further on in the thread ... someone could read a shopping list in an Irish accent and it’d still be sexy ... if LN himsellllf read it then all the better "
really is our irish accent that sexy? And for the shopping? .. If i was in tescos in Manchester and said to the girl at the till... "Chocolate hobnobs, strawberry ice cream, merlot wine"... Would she go weak at the knees?

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By *eadchefski1970Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

You're not my type!

But you don't know me????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not my type!

But you don't know me????"

Maybe it means there is no instant chemistry between us. That's what I think. Though I didn't use that phrase in ages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know the score. Will fill in (our response) later"

What's know the score ?

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