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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

If you had gotten to know someone really quite well.

Have respect for them, are very attracted to them.

Have become close to them and really like them as a person.

They are half your age and a virgin and have asked you to be the 'one'.

You know that you could make the experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Would you share the experience with them?

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By *8shyMan
over a year ago

Newport


"If you had gotten to know someone really quite well.

Have respect for them, are very attracted to them.

Have become close to them and really like them as a person.

They are half your age and a virgin and have asked you to be the 'one'.

You know that you could make the experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Would you share the experience with them?

"

Oh yes. And if that’s your dilemma he is going to be one lucky guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re both happy and comfortable with that why not?

I guess maybe consider that stereotype of people becoming clingy to their “first one”.

I think it is probably a better way for someone to lose their virginity than most other scenarios.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If someone was half my age, I'd wonder why they were still a virgin

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If you had gotten to know someone really quite well.

Have respect for them, are very attracted to them.

Have become close to them and really like them as a person.

They are half your age and a virgin and have asked you to be the 'one'.

You know that you could make the experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Would you share the experience with them?

"

How old am I ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Oh yes. And if that’s your dilemma he is going to be one lucky guy."

I feel like any guys discouraging this are tight sods, cockblocking this said virgin from an amazing experience

Only issue is the bar may be set too high for him !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would but from experience with taking women's virginity they will fall in love with you and unless you're willing to take that leap with them, you shouldn't as a guy put yourself on that type of situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but from experience with taking women's virginity they will fall in love with you and unless you're willing to take that leap with them, you shouldn't as a guy put yourself on that type of situation. "

Nice triceps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but from experience with taking women's virginity they will fall in love with you and unless you're willing to take that leap with them, you shouldn't as a guy put yourself on that type of situation. "

I would read the question again if I was you.

Part of it is half your age

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I would not worry about being the one ir being their first, you add too much pressure on the situation.

If you want to bump uglies with them and its both mutual and consensual, then go for it.

My only concern would be as previously stated a risk that a fling/good time becomes awkward if they want to take it further or to make it more than a one off.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Personally no I wouldn't simply because of the age difference alone. I have children older than that so I wouldn't even be chatting to anyone of that age.

In regards to why someone half my age would still be a virgin, I was still one when I was 25 so don't assume that everyone on this site or elsewhere have the same life experience or the same sexual experience.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Half my age would be late 20's so yes i think i would.

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

The fact that your concerned and asking the question makes me think that you care enough to make it happen and make it memorable, I'd say go ahead of it feels right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but from experience with taking women's virginity they will fall in love with you and unless you're willing to take that leap with them, you shouldn't as a guy put yourself on that type of situation.

I would read the question again if I was you.

Part of it is half your age "

Ffs I thought she meant herself specifically (insert face palm emoji). It’s been a long work day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't as that would make them a teenager and my cherry popping experiences weren't very satisfying.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I wouldn’t because that would make losing their virginity more about the physical element than the mental or emotional element.

I think spontaneity, lust, passion, the heat of the moment, eyes across a crowded room, more than make up for the potentially “not great” physical aspect.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No, 23 would be too low for me to go.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Half my age would be way to young for me so definitely not..

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If you had gotten to know someone really quite well.

Have respect for them, are very attracted to them.

Have become close to them and really like them as a person.

They are half your age and a virgin and have asked you to be the 'one'.

You know that you could make the experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Would you share the experience with them?

How old am I ?"

53 Granny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in your position Anabelle I would say go ahead and go for it. It sounds great for both (as long as you are happy taking it) and for the person “losing it” you both get on and attracted to each other it will certainly be a memorable moment for all the right reasons

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I was single... possibly but the chances of me having that sort of connection with someone younger than my children and still a virgin, is unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half my age is too young. But I'd consider a virgin if there was a connection, but if it's just a fuck the probably not as they're unlikely to be much fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea but doubt I would actually do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'd be honoured..and do my utmost to make it the experience she hoped for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Half my age would be a no at the moment (ask me again in a few years) but wouldn’t rule out being with a virgin.

I can’t help but think that my first time would have been a lot more enjoyable and less fumbly if it had been with a patient, considerate older and more experienced guy instead of another virgin the same age as me.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

I'm not sure I'd want to be anyone's first no mater what age they are

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No deffo not x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

No I don’t think so ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't. Even if I ignore that half my age would be very young, I think the first time should be with someone you develop emotions with and personally I wouldn't be wanting to give them all of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately they would be 13 so no because I'm not a pedo.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd be wary of idealizing the first time and loading too much pressure on it.

It's great if the first time is special but every other time has a chance to be special too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you've qualified it - why the hell not?

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By *ony2269Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Yes.

I lost my virginity to an older woman and it took all the pressure away. I let her take control and show me the way.

All in all a great experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annabella, you have a great body, maybe this 26 yr old is blagging you, wtf is he still a virgin at that age. But you asked for a moral compass. Have him for a whole weekend but let him know he is history sexually after that as you don't need drama thereafter.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. My teaching days are long gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm not a patient teacher.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes why not. If you both wanted to.

I dated a girl a few years ago who at 27 had had sex once in her life several years before. We became close and built up a lot of trust.

She was a complete blank page in terms of sex as she didn’t have any previous experience or past knowledge to call upon. So she wanted to experience everything. She actually taught me a lot of things too and was my first step into BDSM.

So I’d say yes, go for it. You may be pleasantly surprised...

K

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

half of my age would be 21 , yes i would

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Half my age....no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annabella, you have a great body, maybe this 26 yr old is blagging you, wtf is he still a virgin at that age. But you asked for a moral compass. Have him for a whole weekend but let him know he is history sexually after that as you don't need drama thereafter."

Multiple reasons people could be a virgin. Really dont think its something men use as a 'blag' lol. Technically I am with woman and im 31 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you had gotten to know someone really quite well.

Have respect for them, are very attracted to them.

Have become close to them and really like them as a person.

They are half your age and a virgin and have asked you to be the 'one'.

You know that you could make the experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Would you share the experience with them?

"

Yes

and I have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer my man wang says is fuck yeah.

In reality I’m pretty sure I’d have all the same doubts you’re obviously having.

If it feels right and you’re both comfortable then go for it, it would probably be the making of his sexual awakening.

Be prepared for him to fall in love with you though!

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester


"If you had gotten to know someone really quite well.

Have respect for them, are very attracted to them.

Have become close to them and really like them as a person.

They are half your age and a virgin and have asked you to be the 'one'.

You know that you could make the experience memorable for all the right reasons.

Would you share the experience with them?

"

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, as they would be barely over the age of consent.

When I was at college I had sex with a virgin, he was very awkward and it was shit. He went on to tell me how amazing it was and then for the next 6 months pursued me and declared his love no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious now OP

Do let us know (by weekend) just how many begging letters have landed in your inbox from twenty something virgins

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think depending where the intention comes from it could be seen as quite a caring thing to do, knowing they'll be with someone relaxed etc who'd make it not awkward and a comfortable atmosphere.

However....

Sexual fetishes and desires etc often come from early experiences (not always of course) and *can* shape our path, even though they change and develop over time.

I'd stress in case that was then his "thing" and he didn't go on to form a loving family raising relationship due to age differences in the future.

I'm not saying that would happen, be likely to happen or has ever happened before, I honestly don't know. It’s just how my brain works at times.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Thanks..appreciate all your thoughts x

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By *anhh4285Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

It really doesn't matter what other people think if you are both happy about it why not?? You obviously like this person and vice versa I don't see any problem at all

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