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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there such a liking for Big Beautiful Men? We only ever hear about women but I just wondered if BBM is even a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is quite rare here in the forum. Dad bod v gym bod v BBM is not usually the discussion

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I thought this was a thread about blackberry messenger...

showing my age there

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s definitely a thing, for every perversion there’s a pervert, thankfully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just seen on another thread about BBW and how common it is. Seems to be a nice way of describing a big lady and I get that. But never see anything nice for the larger men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought this was a thread about blackberry messenger...

showing my age there"

Do BlackBerry even make phones anymore?

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

The term I see used in various places, is BHM. Big handsome men. But Big beautiful men works too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wonder if i qualify

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I thought this was a thread about blackberry messenger...

showing my age there"

I did too I thought it was back haha

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......"

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men"

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......"

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?"

So my opinion and experiences are “wrong” then?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it's BHM for men.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?

So my opinion and experiences are “wrong” then? "

Where did he say that? He said that two people, from the same situation can draw different conclusions.

As a woman I can tell you that I'm not powerful, I'm bossy.

I don't have an opinion, I'm a know it all.

I am not playful, I'm a tease, asking for it and don't have agency over my own body.

If I reject someone who called me a BBW believe me it quickly turns to 'Fat ugly heffer'.

Women aren't slim, they are 'too skinny', or twigs.

I'm not saying that men aren't subject to scrutiny on appearance but it is nothing compared to that of women.

This is my lived experience, not once, but repeatedly, the experience of my peers and friends....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?

So my opinion and experiences are “wrong” then?

Where did he say that? He said that two people, from the same situation can draw different conclusions.

As a woman I can tell you that I'm not powerful, I'm bossy.

I don't have an opinion, I'm a know it all.

I am not playful, I'm a tease, asking for it and don't have agency over my own body.

If I reject someone who called me a BBW believe me it quickly turns to 'Fat ugly heffer'.

Women aren't slim, they are 'too skinny', or twigs.

I'm not saying that men aren't subject to scrutiny on appearance but it is nothing compared to that of women.

This is my lived experience, not once, but repeatedly, the experience of my peers and friends.... "

I've been both 3 stone lighter and 3 stone heavier than I am now and yep to all you just said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always known them as YFB's.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s BDM actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always known them as YFB's. "

Who ate all the pies?

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