FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

A woman’s prerogative

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s nice to be polite but when does the politeness get boring, if at all. We’re all here because of one common interest so when is it acceptable to drop the niceties and talk about what fab tends to revolve around or should it be a woman’s prerogative.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nice to be polite but when does the politeness get boring, if at all. We’re all here because of one common interest so when is it acceptable to drop the niceties and talk about what fab tends to revolve around or should it be a woman’s prerogative....."

Personally, I find sex talk a bit yawny with randoms

I need men who are able to converse like big boys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There may be "one common interest" underpinning the site OP but there are many different ways of reaching the very individual varieties of that interest.

Personally I don't think it's something that should be forced, or anyone's "prerogative" more something that happens mutually, naturally and instinctively rather than being shoehorned into conversation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There may be "one common interest" underpinning the site OP but there are many different ways of reaching the very individual varieties of that interest.

Personally I don't think it's something that should be forced, or anyone's "prerogative" more something that happens mutually, naturally and instinctively rather than being shoehorned into conversation."

You have got a bloody fantastic bottom though

Can we talk about your bottom?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we are all here for the same end goal, there's nothing wrong with getting to know people a little first. It's not about being polite, it's about establishing some form of understanding with a person before you drop your knickers for them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the OP

Let's see more knicker dropping as soon as we say, "hi" or "you've got great tits" or "hey, here's a picture of my cock"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"There may be "one common interest" underpinning the site OP but there are many different ways of reaching the very individual varieties of that interest.

Personally I don't think it's something that should be forced, or anyone's "prerogative" more something that happens mutually, naturally and instinctively rather than being shoehorned into conversation.

You have got a bloody fantastic bottom though

Can we talk about your bottom?"

Thank you lovey, Midsummer Night's Dream is a delight but I have to say my Petruchio was better

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not here to talk dirty while guys wank themselves off and then vanish.

When I’m looking to meet I’d prefer to talk to get to know someone before arranging to meet them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There may be "one common interest" underpinning the site OP but there are many different ways of reaching the very individual varieties of that interest.

Personally I don't think it's something that should be forced, or anyone's "prerogative" more something that happens mutually, naturally and instinctively rather than being shoehorned into conversation.

You have got a bloody fantastic bottom though

Can we talk about your bottom?

Thank you lovey, Midsummer Night's Dream is a delight but I have to say my Petruchio was better "

Oi! I do the jokes around here!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"There may be "one common interest" underpinning the site OP but there are many different ways of reaching the very individual varieties of that interest.

Personally I don't think it's something that should be forced, or anyone's "prerogative" more something that happens mutually, naturally and instinctively rather than being shoehorned into conversation.

You have got a bloody fantastic bottom though

Can we talk about your bottom?

Thank you lovey, Midsummer Night's Dream is a delight but I have to say my Petruchio was better

Oi! I do the jokes around here!

"

That's no way to refer to your meets Sappster

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There may be "one common interest" underpinning the site OP but there are many different ways of reaching the very individual varieties of that interest.

Personally I don't think it's something that should be forced, or anyone's "prerogative" more something that happens mutually, naturally and instinctively rather than being shoehorned into conversation.

You have got a bloody fantastic bottom though

Can we talk about your bottom?

Thank you lovey, Midsummer Night's Dream is a delight but I have to say my Petruchio was better

Oi! I do the jokes around here!

That's no way to refer to your meets Sappster "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some women like that.

Others do not.

Their profile will probably give you a clue.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not here to talk dirty while guys wank themselves off and then vanish.

When I’m looking to meet I’d prefer to talk to get to know someone before arranging to meet them. "

Exactly what racheal just said. Some maybe here just for a fuck but we would rather have friends and good sex.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nice to be polite but when does the politeness get boring, if at all. We’re all here because of one common interest so when is it acceptable to drop the niceties and talk about what fab tends to revolve around or should it be a woman’s prerogative....."

I do like like a chatty guy, shows me hes interested. Sex chat is better in the bedroom not text on fab lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s nice to be polite but when does the politeness get boring, if at all. We’re all here because of one common interest so when is it acceptable to drop the niceties and talk about what fab tends to revolve around or should it be a woman’s prerogative....."

i think you need to know your audience. There are women on fab who will happily describe in great detail on the forum how they like to receive oral or what is their preferred position or say that they enjoy being rimmed so I'm not surprised that a lot of men aren't sure when to move the chat on privately. I would say, ask the individual how they'd like the conversation to progress and take your cue from them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s nice to be polite but when does the politeness get boring, if at all. We’re all here because of one common interest so when is it acceptable to drop the niceties and talk about what fab tends to revolve around or should it be a woman’s prerogative.....

i think you need to know your audience. There are women on fab who will happily describe in great detail on the forum how they like to receive oral or what is their preferred position or say that they enjoy being rimmed so I'm not surprised that a lot of men aren't sure when to move the chat on privately. I would say, ask the individual how they'd like the conversation to progress and take your cue from them. "
what a great answer! Thankyou x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Common interest?

I'm just here to make people laugh

And shoes. I like to show off my shoes.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Common interest?

I'm just here to make people laugh

And shoes. I like to show off my shoes."

You also have excellent hats

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Common interest?

I'm just here to make people laugh

And shoes. I like to show off my shoes.

You also have excellent hats "

I shall see if I can still squeeze into my pirate outfit, that has a fantastic hat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Common interest?

I'm just here to make people laugh

And shoes. I like to show off my shoes.

You also have excellent hats

I shall see if I can still squeeze into my pirate outfit, that has a fantastic hat"

If you get stuck in the outfit, please try and get a pic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Common interest?

I'm just here to make people laugh

And shoes. I like to show off my shoes.

You also have excellent hats

I shall see if I can still squeeze into my pirate outfit, that has a fantastic hat

If you get stuck in the outfit, please try and get a pic "

And a video of me trying to get it off

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Common interest?

I'm just here to make people laugh

And shoes. I like to show off my shoes.

You also have excellent hats

I shall see if I can still squeeze into my pirate outfit, that has a fantastic hat

If you get stuck in the outfit, please try and get a pic

And a video of me trying to get it off "

Great minds and all that jizz

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say do what ever feels natural, if it's not well received then learn from it...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I'm with the OP

Let's see more knicker dropping as soon as we say, "hi" or "you've got great tits" or "hey, here's a picture of my cock""

I well I won’t drop my knickers just for that and then I find I’ve picked a dud, no thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You know you can have interesting, non-sexual conversations that aren't about the weather, or how your day was.

I've heard ever sexual fantasy scenario going, and now my mind switches off.

Unless, I'm really turned on by the man behind the "nice" conversations and then I'll want him to tell me how much he wants me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"You know you can have interesting, non-sexual conversations that aren't about the weather, or how your day was.

I've heard ever sexual fantasy scenario going, and now my mind switches off.

Unless, I'm really turned on by the man behind the "nice" conversations and then I'll want him to tell me how much he wants me.

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm not entirely sure that we are all here for the same reasons or common interests, i actually think there are many different reasons/interests/goals and they vary greatly from one individual to the next. The challenge is finding people who are looking for similar things to you & establishing a connection with them. It is actually no different to meeting people in the real world.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We're all unique and getting involved and to know each other, is an iterative process that doesn't need any gender prejudice.

Apps that help people get to sleep are in demand. The way some want to talk about sex here could do an equally good job for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm an advocate for the woman's prerogative.

I find that their unwavering mindset is smoother and immovable like a porcelain monolith.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top