FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right long story but will cut it short , 5 years ago was in a gay dating app , really liked this chap we were messaging for ages , then accidentally walked past each other both in a rush , still chatting away via text then nothing it went dead so , roll forward to last year he came back onto the app , I messaged him saying hello keep safe etc nothing no reply nothing , Xmas sent him a happy Xmas , again nothing , then out of the blue he starts sending message after message saying he didn’t realise it was me he’s sorry he was a twat etc , saying when this is all over can we meet up ,I’m fit just he’s type etc etc , spent all night chatting swapped phone numbers then bang nothing again , 5 days and nothing , I’m not into playing cat and mouse , do I just block him him or what ,

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By *oxyred41Woman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Give it up if he can mess you around before you have even met what will he do after? Is it really worth the hassle

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

Don't let yourself be treated like an afterthought.

Block him and move on.

You deserve better. Good Luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you both , have blocked hes number, there must be a sane person out there for me somewhere

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Sometimes timing is everything and it's ok to give someone a second chance if there's a good reason why they didn't get in touch first time around. But third and fourth chances? Definitely not! You deserve better sir! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he really worth all the hassle,you could always stay friends chat on the phone and things ,but for anything else I would really think hard about that side of it

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Give it up if he can mess you around before you have even met what will he do after? Is it really worth the hassle "

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Don't let yourself be treated like an afterthought.

Block him and move on.

You deserve better. Good Luck x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah block him. Maybe he's married and the wife found the texts so he had to hide. You deserve better.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

So think about this if he is doing you head in now.

How will it be over time and your living together and he gives you the silent treatment cos he saw you looking at some one.

NO move on ASAP.

Bet you if you block him he will try and get in contact.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Block him m8 ur feeling are bien messed about with and thats not good .People who play games are not nice people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Stupid swipe to go back a page

Hit delete button

Would have cut bait 5 years ago

I get it all the time

Guys who have stood me up 7-8 years ago and tell me it’s because I am not sexy and stuff very early days off dressing well not really been dressing from 5 but I mean online definitely looked a hot mess back then

Message me now and I turn and say I am the same person you stood up years ago sorry not interested

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Right long story but will cut it short , 5 years ago was in a gay dating app , really liked this chap we were messaging for ages , then accidentally walked past each other both in a rush , still chatting away via text then nothing it went dead so , roll forward to last year he came back onto the app , I messaged him saying hello keep safe etc nothing no reply nothing , Xmas sent him a happy Xmas , again nothing , then out of the blue he starts sending message after message saying he didn’t realise it was me he’s sorry he was a twat etc , saying when this is all over can we meet up ,I’m fit just he’s type etc etc , spent all night chatting swapped phone numbers then bang nothing again , 5 days and nothing , I’m not into playing cat and mouse , do I just block him him or what , "

Time is the most precious thing we have so if anyone wastes mine i do not give them the opportunity to waste anymore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you both , have blocked hes number, there must be a sane person out there for me somewhere

I think that was probably the right move.

I've got a friend who behaves like this guy with men. It was like a game almost to her.

There will be a sane person out there somewhere I'm sure

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Thank you both , have blocked hes number, there must be a sane person out there for me somewhere

I'm sure there is, don't give up hope x

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