FabSwingers.com forum: Bad manners

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I sent a message to someone on here, only to find it was deleted without response, the message was a compliment on her body ink, why can't people just say thanks?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because you answer with 1 reply and then get hammered but more.

As per the FAQ a no response = no thanks. Nothing to do with bad manners!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Do you mail men and compliment them on their body ink ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1101526

Hope this helps

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

Just a feeling you had?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because you answer with 1 reply and then get hammered but more.

As per the FAQ a no response = no thanks. Nothing to do with bad manners!!!!"

I was making a compliment not asking for a meet, I would understand the lack of response had I been trying to arrange something

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

good woman

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I knew what this was going to be about just by the title

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"Because you answer with 1 reply and then get hammered but more.

As per the FAQ a no response = no thanks. Nothing to do with bad manners!!!!"
Good woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mail men and compliment them on their body ink ?"

Indeed I do, as I like body ink as if you look i am also inked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of messages.

I generally delete messages from men who don't meet my criteria - usually I don't even bother opening the message.

No response = not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"good woman

Helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

Just a feeling you had?

I was initially, (as always when someone goes with bad manners for a title), going for lip up fatty but I realised somebody might find that offensive these days so opted for special brew instead.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Surely if it was *just* a compliment to let them know you liked their ink OP - surely it's wrong to *expect* a response?

Yes it would be nice to get a thank you - but it would also be nice if the lady concerned could send a thank you and it not be seen as an invite (which she has no way of knowing if you'd see it that way or not)

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Do you mail men and compliment them on their body ink ?

Indeed I do, as I like body ink as if you look i am also inked "

Fair enough, but you have been using the forums for 41 weeks and this topic is frequently posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when people reply. It's just not cricket

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

Just a feeling you had?

I was initially, (as always when someone goes with bad manners for a title), going for lip up fatty but I realised somebody might find that offensive these days so opted for special brew instead."

I know...but you obviously missed my subtle reference in response Lorraine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you answer with 1 reply and then get hammered but more.

As per the FAQ a no response = no thanks. Nothing to do with bad manners!!!!

I was making a compliment not asking for a meet, I would understand the lack of response had I been trying to arrange something "

Yes but more often than not that is what happens next.

Someone deleting your message is not rude but expecting a reply to an unsolicited message is.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

You don’t hear much about Bad Manners these days. They seem to be the forgotten band of the two tone era

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I hate when people reply. It's just not cricket "

Fine, I'm not replying to you either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

Just a feeling you had?

I was initially, (as always when someone goes with bad manners for a title), going for lip up fatty but I realised somebody might find that offensive these days so opted for special brew instead.

I know...but you obviously missed my subtle reference in response Lorraine

It’s late.

You were too subtle.

Just ram it home next time please GM!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You don’t hear much about Bad Manners these days. They seem to be the forgotten band of the two tone era"

Still touring (or were until COVID) and still packing them in to smaller venues - Buster is half the size he was though and he's the only original left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you answer with 1 reply and then get hammered but more.

As per the FAQ a no response = no thanks. Nothing to do with bad manners!!!!

I was making a compliment not asking for a meet, I would understand the lack of response had I been trying to arrange something "

She has no way of knowing that. I have had so many men give me compliments or comments, and then when I respond politely, use it as a way to try and get me to chat further. It happens all the time.

Then it becomes 'We were having a nice conversation and she stopped talking to me! How rude!'

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

Just a feeling you had?

I was initially, (as always when someone goes with bad manners for a title), going for lip up fatty but I realised somebody might find that offensive these days so opted for special brew instead.

I know...but you obviously missed my subtle reference in response Lorraine

It’s late.

You were too subtle.

Just ram it home next time please GM!"

But your profile says straight - besides I don't Top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not bad manners at all you aren’t entitled to a reply. No reply is a no thanks without all the why/how come questions and abuse that could come with it.

Have you seen how many messages women get no joke hundreds... literally who has time to reply to so many messages.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Everyday, when i say, that i'm not gona take anymore

It's ok, dont go away, i feel bad when you're closing the door

Need some more, to restore all the feeling that i get from you

I want more, give me more, all i want is a barrell of you

Woh woh woh woh woh woh woh

Just a feeling you had?

I was initially, (as always when someone goes with bad manners for a title), going for lip up fatty but I realised somebody might find that offensive these days so opted for special brew instead.

I know...but you obviously missed my subtle reference in response Lorraine

It’s late.

You were too subtle.

Just ram it home next time please GM!

But your profile says straight - besides I don't Top

I'll ram ya Samson .. I'll get a harness made up for my 12in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don’t hear much about Bad Manners these days. They seem to be the forgotten band of the two tone era

Still touring (or were until COVID) and still packing them in to smaller venues - Buster is half the size he was though and he's the only original left "

Funnily enough one of the last bands I saw before lockdown! Really good night out.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"You don’t hear much about Bad Manners these days. They seem to be the forgotten band of the two tone era

Still touring (or were until COVID) and still packing them in to smaller venues - Buster is half the size he was though and he's the only original left "
he went back on the road when Fatty Towers went bust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You don’t hear much about Bad Manners these days. They seem to be the forgotten band of the two tone era

Still touring (or were until COVID) and still packing them in to smaller venues - Buster is half the size he was though and he's the only original left

Funnily enough one of the last bands I saw before lockdown! Really good night out."

Yeah a proper party band - saw them at the Leeds Ska and Mod Festival a couple of years ago - sadly Buster threw a strop that day because they'd been bumped down the running order as The Duallers had a hit album out, so the performance suffered as a result.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Saying thanks to millions of messages is a waste of energy.

We aren't superwoman you know.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts."

I know something that will persuade you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Because you answer with 1 reply and then get hammered but more.

As per the FAQ a no response = no thanks. Nothing to do with bad manners!!!!

I was making a compliment not asking for a meet, I would understand the lack of response had I been trying to arrange something "

Ok, but we don't know the difference between "now you've been nice to me let's meet. What do you mean you don't want to meet (insert abuse here)". You might not do that, but for every guy who wouldn't, there's two that deny they would and three that wouldn't even deny it.

And it breaks the filters so they can message you forever more. Bad idea.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts."

That's actually really funny, if someone starts getting aggy at work or it's closing time they say "come on Peggy, do yer stuff" to get me to kick people out.

"Get outta ma pub"

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

One of the best live bands around back in the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you."

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok OP so you complimented the lady

The lady responds thanks.....

Im curious, what would you have done next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

That's actually really funny, if someone starts getting aggy at work or it's closing time they say "come on Peggy, do yer stuff" to get me to kick people out.

"Get outta ma pub" "

Fuck off... she was loads taller than you!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite."

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite."

What a coincidence. I was looking at a video today by Jemma Cupcakes on how to make sticky toffee pudding cupcakes. She said they were now her favourite, so I thought I might have a go at making some.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

I think he means eating them, not stuffing them up his butt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

I’ll fetch the Vaseline.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

Innit! Least I know now to smear my chuff with sticky toffee sauce and kapow it in Samuel's mush before I run away and play barbie with H.

I might throw a crumb or 10 under the door to keep him dribbling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you seek a response?

You chose to make a compliment...

No rules say they have to reply nor engage in chat..

Can end up as a tennis effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

I think he means eating them, not stuffing them up his butt

Bwahahahahaha!

This is the closest I’ve been to expressing my amusement with an emoticon since I first started my one man silent protest against them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

Innit! Least I know now to smear my chuff with sticky toffee sauce and kapow it in Samuel's mush before I run away and play barbie with H.

I might throw a crumb or 10 under the door to keep him dribbling "

Powerless...

Foul temptress.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Why do you seek a response?

You chose to make a compliment...

No rules say they have to reply nor engage in chat..

Can end up as a tennis effect.

I used to reply sometimes with "I know" when I was told I had a great arse or whatever.

Funnily enough I was a stuck up bitch.

I ain't gonna reply to a compliment with another compliment for the sake of it.

Sometimes I'll say thank you if I'm in an exceptional mood. That mood generally then spirals once I remember it was a bad idea as I'm now being asked how my day has been and what WUU2?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

I think he means eating them, not stuffing them up his butt

I think the "I'll fetch the vaseline" comment that followed your post suggests otherwise

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Why can't people just not demand the time and attention of strangers.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No amount of special brew is gonna result in me getting rammed up the arse.

Just to clarify.

Gemini and princess ‘peggy’ peach.

You perverts.

I know something that will persuade you.

Is it a sticky toffee muffin from greggs?

It’s like my cryptonite.

And you call me and Peach perverts?!

Innit! Least I know now to smear my chuff with sticky toffee sauce and kapow it in Samuel's mush before I run away and play barbie with H.

I might throw a crumb or 10 under the door to keep him dribbling

Powerless...

Foul temptress."

Clucking hell, I just got a Greggs voucher and everything

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Probably for totally different reasons to why people don't read the FAQ or search for topics before posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow must be a day ending in Y if another man feels entitled to a response from someone he doest know. Fab rules clearly state they if a message is not replied to it should be taken as a polite no thankyou and as such it's not rude to not reply. What is rude is expecting a reply just because you feel you are owed one, as is creating a post on the forum to try and shame people into feeling bad for not responding to every single message in there inbox

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