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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positivity! Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And all unique x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone on here appears in or on someone’s top ten for something or other. Just need to find them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

We don't have to have anything, but some people like to put others on pedestals, or show them appreciation for effort they put into being interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

I'm not convinced... Yours is quite possibly the best back drop of a photo, matched perfectly with your outfit, and with a sexy bum... Ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well said.

Absolutely 100% true.

I’ll drink to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

You'll never make the top ten with this attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, but some fabbers are more equal than others....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well sed we all beautiful and special in or own unique ways x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Maybe, but some fabbers are more equal than others...."

No..they just think they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly put lovely

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Aww thanks hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe, but some fabbers are more equal than others....

No..they just think they are "

That's what counts in our society though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a refreshing oroginal post op...well done. Xx

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By *unichMan
over a year ago

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Thanks OP, for genuinely making me feel that little bit better about myself. A great post.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

Aww that's super cute Love it

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

That’s so lovely

Made me smile, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP great message.

You are all fabulous xx

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Well said OP.

We all want a bit of love snd support

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

That is a really nice sentiment. Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you OP, well said.

Regarding ‘best of lists, etc’ the best quote is from Groucho Mark: ‘I wouldn’t want to belong to any club that would have me as a member.’

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Best thread I've seen today

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thanks OP!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like what you saying, thanks.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire

And so say all of us! Love the positivity.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

Thank you OP, you have made me feel so much better after it dawned on me that I have never made the top ten of anything

I was so upset I had to open some Ben and Jerry

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Maybe, but some fabbers are more equal than others....

No..they just think they are

That's what counts in our society though."

I'm not sure it is though - I'm more drawn to people who aren't full of their own self-importance and somehow display that they think they're above others in their words and actions

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Well yes..definitely...but I'll still be checking the next list

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?

Thank you OP, you have made me feel so much better after it dawned on me that I have never made the top ten of anything

I was so upset I had to open some Ben and Jerry "

Great response to clique-creating posts.

Curious couple - top of the top 10 list for ice cream eaters for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That's what counts in our society though.

I'm not sure it is though - I'm more drawn to people who aren't full of their own self-importance and somehow display that they think they're above others in their words and actions"

Agree 100%. They are not particularly appealing qualities in any context.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?

Thank you OP, you have made me feel so much better after it dawned on me that I have never made the top ten of anything

I was so upset I had to open some Ben and Jerry

Great response to clique-creating posts.

Curious couple - top of the top 10 list for ice cream eaters for you. "

Oi! no top tens or whatevers on this thread please! Thank you kindly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My momma always said I was special

finished 8th once in an egg and spoon race at school? Does that count?

(ps: - there were only 8 participants)

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed

Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
wow.. That is a great post and you are 100 % correct. A lot of people are obsessed with list and competing. 8 personally couldn't care less. Just here to have some fun. This is the post i wanted to read and has given me a little cheer up. Thanks OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yaayyy.. I'll settle for being a kind misfit trying to do no harm in life and leaving it in a slightly better place because i existed

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

Uniqueness is special and we are all unique

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed

Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it."

Can I come and cuddle next to you?

That way you keep the dog off the settee, stay 1st and I get comfy boobies to rest my head against

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

I guess its natural.

I dont like this everyone is equal thing, when clearly we are not!

You know like when all the kids win at sports day?

Suck it up, its character building!

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed

Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it."

How can you be top when I was there first and you plonked you fine tush on my private parts.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed

Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it.

Can I come and cuddle next to you?

That way you keep the dog off the settee, stay 1st and I get comfy boobies to rest my head against

"

That will throw everything off! Then I will have to be the top of the top ten female humans on the settee!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed

Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it.

How can you be top when I was there first and you plonked you fine tush on my private parts. "

That was on your settee

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yaayyy.. I'll settle for being a kind misfit trying to do no harm in life and leaving it in a slightly better place because i existed "

My kinda misfit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?

I guess its natural.

I dont like this everyone is equal thing, when clearly we are not!

You know like when all the kids win at sports day?

Suck it up, its character building!

"

Slightly different when it's a competitive thing.

I don't personally think we should be competing with each other on fab like that.

Different context.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Can’t we just be the best versions of ourselves and finish number one at that?

Mind you I hate to lose and would probably come second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you "

Yep, completely agree with you and just what I was thinking.

It's just banter, friendship and it really doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. I don't bat an eyelid when other people name who they like etc but some take it so badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you "

People can still be horrible whether you're on a list or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you "

Such people were not worth bothering with anyway. At least you find out their true nature!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't strive to be in the top anything. I strive to exceed the hopes and expectations of people who matter to me. Luke

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't take it personally if I'm not named on a list when someone is giving a shout out to others.

I know my worth and it doesn't come from being named on such a list.

I Think they're just meant to be a bit of friendly banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most Definately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someones opinion of you ( or someone else) does not change your worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you

Yep, completely agree with you and just what I was thinking.

It's just banter, friendship and it really doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. I don't bat an eyelid when other people name who they like etc but some take it so badly.

"

You’re right that it’s just banter with no harm intended, and none felt by most people I’m sure.

But I think it’s right and fair to ask if the Forum should be seen as a competitive environment, especially at a time when plenty are struggling with loneliness and self esteem and perhaps joined Fab for some online company. I can see this is not so encouraging for newbies.

Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault !

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you

Yep, completely agree with you and just what I was thinking.

It's just banter, friendship and it really doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. I don't bat an eyelid when other people name who they like etc but some take it so badly.

You’re right that it’s just banter with no harm intended, and none felt by most people I’m sure.

But I think it’s right and fair to ask if the Forum should be seen as a competitive environment, especially at a time when plenty are struggling with loneliness and self esteem and perhaps joined Fab for some online company. I can see this is not so encouraging for newbies.

Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault ! "

Hmmmm I kinda assume the same

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Defo not a top ten in anything on fab but most defenetily top 1 being i believe a good father to my kids and try to be the best husband i can bee to my lovely wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you, like a ray of sunshine OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault !

Hmmmm I kinda assume the same "

It’s an Aries thing ! (you mentioned your birthday in another thread, mine is the next day)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you

Such people were not worth bothering with anyway. At least you find out their true nature!"
Yep.. Keep smiling, keep having a laugh, don't take it too seriously.. We all need a bit of light hearted escapism until life returns to normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all need some validation. Some much more than others. Let them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be recognised occasionally, but popularity contests aren't really my bag

I'm a content kinda guy, happy with my lot, aware of the fact I'm not a natural fit here and OK with that

I don't need nor want nor crave spotlighting

A 'Hi Bussy' once in a while is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nice to be recognised occasionally, but popularity contests aren't really my bag

I'm a content kinda guy, happy with my lot, aware of the fact I'm not a natural fit here and OK with that

I don't need nor want nor crave spotlighting

A 'Hi Bussy' once in a while is enough "

Hi Bussy

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault !

Hmmmm I kinda assume the same

It’s an Aries thing ! (you mentioned your birthday in another thread, mine is the next day) "

Really...oh wow

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Oh dear, i love the post, however having not one competitive bone in my body i never have even wondered if i was in the top 10 for anything. Luckily i really don't mind.

I do however love the context of your post OP & agree, everybody is simply lovely just for who they are....

Mrs WD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm top of the list of fabbers to block instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm top of the list of fabbers to block instantly "

BLOCKED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm top of the list of fabbers to block instantly

BLOCKED "

Good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nice to be recognised occasionally, but popularity contests aren't really my bag

I'm a content kinda guy, happy with my lot, aware of the fact I'm not a natural fit here and OK with that

I don't need nor want nor crave spotlighting

A 'Hi Bussy' once in a while is enough

Hi Bussy "

Evenin' H&H

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm top of the list of fabbers to block instantly

BLOCKED "

If your HappyandHorny clap your hands..clap clap.

Apologies but that's been stuck in my head

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

What a lovely post! And yes we are all unique and special x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm top of the list of fabbers to block instantly

BLOCKED

If your HappyandHorny clap your hands..clap clap.

Apologies but that's been stuck in my head

"

Songs involving the use of the word 'clap' are not advised on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If your HappyandHorny clap your hands..clap clap.

Apologies but that's been stuck in my head

"

Those innocent memories of sing a longs at Scouts will never be the same again !

Also I’ve NEVER given anyone the clap and my solicitor can prove it

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By *oment on the lipsMan
over a year ago

London

Ahhh Reeet Petite that's a great way to start the day isnt it. we dont have to be equal but thoughtful and hotAf is working for you.. spanks for that ray of sunshine

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If you’re happy and you know it and you really want to show it, if you’re happy and you know it flash your tits

I’ve no idea why am I am posting this

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton


"Yes you reading this here right now.

You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....

But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.

Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?

Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "

Well said i couldn't agree more especialy as i would never make a top 10 on fab

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because validation either for ourselves or others in the hope they reciprocate.

I don’t view others as better than me anymore than I feel I am better than anyone else. Its just a matter of preferences.

Unless we are talking skill based comparisons, in which case yes there are some people who are better or more skilled then I am at a given thing.

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