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Netflix - Daniel Sloss - Jigsaw

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By *melia Domina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

He was on Graham Norton recently and mentioned that his analogy on relationships had broken up 371 marriages and heap of other relationships from those watching the programme.

If you want to test your own relationship. Watch it!!!

It is an eye opening discovery....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was on Graham Norton recently and mentioned that his analogy on relationships had broken up 371 marriages and heap of other relationships from those watching the programme.

If you want to test your own relationship. Watch it!!!

It is an eye opening discovery....

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I saw it when I was in my relationship with my ex, and at the time it didn’t phase me. In hindsight though it’s so accurate it’s almost scary.

Oh and I’ve met him 3 times. Lovely guy, if a little crazy

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Ohhhhh I do like him but I haven't heard of this! Need to check out this analogy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?"

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think his jigsaw analogy makes a lot of sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."

This makes complete sense to me, especially as someone who did exactly that in my 20’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."

Thank you for explaining this. Yep, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."

That's me screwed! I've been doing this for years and I still haven't found anyone lol!

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By *melia Domina OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Very clever outlook on how a person and relationship works.

I love the whole "shoe horn a piece in the middle of the jigsaw that doesn't fit so you loose aspects of yourself"

It is so true.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."

I kinda get it, it's what I did with my two exes, made allowances for their shitty behaviour and very much lost myself for 11years with one of them.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it.

I kinda get it, it's what I did with my two exes, made allowances for their shitty behaviour and very much lost myself for 11years with one of them."

Me too x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?

Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.

Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."

Can't agree more.

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