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What attracts you to the opposite or same sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me, a curvy woman who has a great taste in music.

Those are just 2 things.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Initially their face. After that it's what comes out of their mouths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face, eyes, hairstyles, clothes and partial to asses and tities

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

A connection of minds.

And boobs.

And bums.

And smiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a quirky woman.

Someone who has their own style rather than a follower of trends.

I adore curves but I have a particular liking for little boobies too!

I like strong women, kind women, funny women...usually the bay shit crazy kind

Man I miss women!

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The eyes & hair followed by the rump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Availability.

A pulse helps too!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A glint in their eye and a cheeky sexy smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes for me. Hair also, find red heads irresistible. Bums I like bums too

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

Eyes and bum

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Eyes it's all in the eyes windows to our souls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice fitted clothes, not necessarily a suit.

Sexy eyes/smile

Tall

Good sense of humour

Ooooh I forgot a guy that can dance!

There you go, not much really

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A man who can make me laugh is very very very attractive to me.

After that it boils down to sexual attraction, chemistry, what kind of man they are and how they conduct themselves and how they treat others and myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meeting of minds and the ability to laugh together, preferably until tears! The only thing that makes me really look aesthetically is guns, not necessarily the formed on gym ones but the ones that work hard! Mmmmmmmmmmm

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Their face and their personality...a nice bum never gets overlooked either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to say, I find many qualities attractive. It's probably easier to define what I don't find attractive

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Eyes, smile, dress sense, personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely eyes grab my attention first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warm wet pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Warm wet pussy "

This Rob

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure really, I guess the usual list of humour, intelligence, compassion. Oh passion attracts me - whether that's directed at me or your stamp collection you've been building since the 1800s.

I like people who make me think, because in turn it makes me think about them.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

First impression : Fit physique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes Smile Bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Voice. "

Voice is a great one.

One that I always forget about actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are happy to come to my house and eat cheesestrings and have a glass of wine from the wine aisle in the pound shop then they are instantly attractive and I would make love to them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I can't define it precisely, but it is definitely about a connection and chemistry and compatible personalities over any specific physical attributes - of course there has to be a physical attraction too, but for me it's secondary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face, voice and the way he poses himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't define it precisely, but it is definitely about a connection and chemistry and compatible personalities over any specific physical attributes - of course there has to be a physical attraction too, but for me it's secondary.

"

You may be demisexual.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

1st how they look and if u connect as in talk free make each orther smile

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I can't define it precisely, but it is definitely about a connection and chemistry and compatible personalities over any specific physical attributes - of course there has to be a physical attraction too, but for me it's secondary.

You may be demisexual. "

Nah..I'm Gemi-sexual

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Boobs, bums, thighs, height, face, eyes, hair, fun personality, dress sense, shoes, but most of all...the intangible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A touch of class

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A willingness (desire would be optimal) to touch my penis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back at previous partners, christ knows lol it sure wasn't looks! Yet, at the time, I thought they were drop dead gorgeous so I guess it's whoever can capture me with their voodoo

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Personality ..

Someone who gets my warped sense of humour and actually laughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a quirky woman.

Someone who has their own style rather than a follower of trends.

I adore curves but I have a particular liking for little boobies too!

I like strong women, kind women, funny women...usually the bay shit crazy kind

Man I miss women!

Lu "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to lie of course its the physical side of things looks, figure, smile, boobs and bump etc....but ultimately its their personality and we click. To find both looks and persona that you like, you are a lucky dude.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Looks for me first off then personality check

Take the rest from there

Xxx

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Looks, personality and then dress sense:

I prefer the teasing look. As opposed to mini skirts etc:

A lady that likes to hide a great pair of legs beneath a long length split leather skirt or dress, that occassionally she likes to flaunt, are more than welcome.

It's more what you can't see, but what your hoping to see for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face! that's my only criteria.

If I don't want to kiss it I don't want to go further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and bum

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personality i dont care how good looking someone is its the personality that wins me over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In men I like humour, tall and chunky, glint in their eyes, kind and practical and a bit Grrr

In women I like humour, smaller than me, long hair, excellent taste in snacks and willing to dance like no ones watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult to say, I find many qualities attractive. It's probably easier to define what I don't find attractive "

What isn’t than?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no one answer... But for me i like a woman that dresses well, is good fun and is classy ... Sigh

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