FabSwingers.com forum: Some peeps are so short fused

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was having a chat with a guy when i smelled burning crumpets in the toaster so quickly left the chat ,took crumpets out of toaster and back to the chat maybe 1 to 2 minutes then he called me a tome wasting twat and blocked me??.Was he right to do that???.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You have your answer already.

Of course not.

Not unless you told him he had your undivided attention which nothing could shake.

There's a lot of that goes on unfortunately. Normally when they only have a 40 second window to blow their beans before the wife gets suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had similar situations OP, when talking to people. If I don't reply straight away to a message or if I log off before seeing it. Next message I get will be the same that I'm wasting their time, which I have no intention or desire to do. I understand people get frustrated on here and unfortunately have been messed around. But patience and kindness goes a long way, just take it as it comes and try not to have an expectation in your head or you maybe disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t make time for folk who don’t take time to wait for you to butter your crumpets.

life lesson #226

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have your answer already.

Of course not.

Not unless you told him he had your undivided attention which nothing could shake.

There's a lot of that goes on unfortunately. Normally when they only have a 40 second window to blow their beans before the wife gets suspicious "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t make time for folk who don’t take time to wait for you to butter your crumpets.

life lesson #226"

Love it

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By *odgerNbadgerMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

Some people forget that other people have lives outside Fab... sounds like you dodged a bullet there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You went for crumpets when he was going for the vinegar stroke

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And i didnt even butter the crumpets as i didnt want to stop the chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was having a chat with a guy when i smelled burning crumpets in the toaster so quickly left the chat ,took crumpets out of toaster and back to the chat maybe 1 to 2 minutes then he called me a tome wasting twat and blocked me??.Was he right to do that???."

Ignore idiots like that. Likely it wouldn't have worked anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he didn’t like your neglect of said crumpets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And i didnt even butter the crumpets as i didnt want to stop the chat."

Never put someone before you buttering your crumpets!

# Life lesson 301

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And i didnt even butter the crumpets as i didnt want to stop the chat.

Never put someone before you buttering your crumpets!

# Life lesson 301"

Is this a book you are quoting or from your own knowledge, asking for a friend they may need this book

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Crumpets before crumpet any day of the week.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You put him off his wank rhythm.

He was going at it, and you stopped him in his tracks, you terrible man.

Did you still eat the crumpets?

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"And i didnt even butter the crumpets as i didnt want to stop the chat.

Never put someone before you buttering your crumpets!

# Life lesson 301"

I concur... I’m sorry we can be mid flow but if there are unbuttered crumpets somewhere they need attending to. Time stands still for no crumpet...

Like the worlds worst superhero, Unbuttered Crumpet Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And i didnt even butter the crumpets as i didnt want to stop the chat.

Never put someone before you buttering your crumpets!

# Life lesson 301

Is this a book you are quoting or from your own knowledge, asking for a friend they may need this book

Just my own personal life experiences

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By *lla_eastWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’d call that a lucky escape OP!

I once had a similar scenario with a gent over WhatsApp from here, I was on there responding to a group work chat, during my work hours. His message (amongst others) remained unread until an appropriate time. However, he must’ve noticed I was online and hadn’t responded to his earlier message and lost it. Got himself all wound up, hurled a load of abuse and then blocked me.

I consider it as the rubbish taking itself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar guy expounding on how lovely his wife was .. wanted me to do this and that ...then went all time waster on me and blocked...I did scratch my head for a second or two ... decided I didn't need a flake like that on my fab so blocked and move on

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Was he right to end things and block you? In a way yes, it was his choice and it was not wrong. Regardless of the reason he was right to do whatever he chose to do.

Now, were those choices hastily and incorrectly implemented? Of course they were, your actions were justified and not deserving of the outcome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And they are warburtons crumpets the best .

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Was he right to end things and block you? In a way yes, it was his choice and it was not wrong. Regardless of the reason he was right to do whatever he chose to do.

Now, were those choices hastily and incorrectly implemented? Of course they were, your actions were justified and not deserving of the outcome. "

Yeah this, but he wasn't right to call him a time wasting twat tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have eaten the crumpets before going back to the chat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are ppl really that unstable that they’d have you burn down your house in order to maintain message flow with them....?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a very lengthy first message at around 2am one morning. It needed more energy than i had to engage at the time, so i turned it unread, aiming to reply the next evening. The next morning there was a grumpy /terse ... Oh see you've read / not replied blah blah blah , so then i felt forced to reply to explain i needed more time, but i was irritated at having to explain myself because someone else made an assumption

So you are not alone OP

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