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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog then wife then maybe our son after three when he wakes up.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This actually entered my head recently

I don't even want to think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably my cat. She wakes up first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit."

Neighbours? Would they notice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This actually entered my head recently

I don't even want to think about it "

I am the opposite. I like wondering about the after bit.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

The dog. And then probably my nephew. Hope not, he's only little and it would scare him.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My girls would probably message my son, asking why I'm not answering my messages or phone calls. Then he would check in my room when he got home from work tomorrow.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My best friend. If she doesn't hear from me every day then she worries. She's also got a spare key to my house...just incase.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I see my kids fortnightly so my ex would eventually get concerned and call the authorities, also my work mates know I live alone and if I didn’t sign in (working from home currently) would also contact someone.

So nobody to give me CPR but plenty who would notice I wasn’t around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit.

Neighbours? Would they notice?"

No neighbours and I'm very private, haven't seen the ones I do have in over a year

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Wouldn’t make any difference once I’m gone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also work perm nights so the curtains closed during the day is normal, the postie also can't see through the door so the mail would need to be 4ft high before he noticed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 24/01/21 01:31:59]

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

The estate agent on the next viewing. They have their uses after all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N would nudge me to let the cat out and wonder why I didn't reply...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

What s jolly thought. It'd be Mr KC or our 3yo daughter

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Wouldn’t make any difference once I’m gone"

But who would wish Happy Birthday to if you're not here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's funny but we were just talking about this in relation to my parents. The only way to keep sane where they're concerned is to employ gallows humour and we were wondering how long it would take my father to notice that my mum had died if it happened in the day time.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Somebody nearby to me died from an accident in her home and was not found for months...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"It's funny but we were just talking about this in relation to my parents. The only way to keep sane where they're concerned is to employ gallows humour and we were wondering how long it would take my father to notice that my mum had died if it happened in the day time. "

I had that conversation with my sister. We came to the conclusion that Dad would notice if Mum went first, because she makes him tea and lunch.

Mum probably wouldn't notice if Dad went until she either ran out of mugs or plates or couldn't find a space to put the mug or plate down in front of him.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"[Flies and maggots Removed by crime scene investigators at 24/01/21 01:31:59]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody nearby to me died from an accident in her home and was not found for months..."

It happens, sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Flies and maggots Removed by crime scene investigators at 24/01/21 01:31:59]

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Winger!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Probably a few days ... Although I speak to various friends and family members throughout the weeks I don't think any would worry by the lack of reply for several days ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

I'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

Thats horrific, my heart goes out to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him.

I'm sorry "

Its ok, I thought it was quite thoughtful of him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's funny but we were just talking about this in relation to my parents. The only way to keep sane where they're concerned is to employ gallows humour and we were wondering how long it would take my father to notice that my mum had died if it happened in the day time.

I had that conversation with my sister. We came to the conclusion that Dad would notice if Mum went first, because she makes him tea and lunch.

Mum probably wouldn't notice if Dad went until she either ran out of mugs or plates or couldn't find a space to put the mug or plate down in front of him."

My dad rang me one evening to say he wondered if mum had had a stroke. He said "I thought I'd better ring, I can't go to bed and just leave her can I"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him.

I'm sorry

Its ok, I thought it was quite thoughtful of him."

Yes, in a way it was

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"It's funny but we were just talking about this in relation to my parents. The only way to keep sane where they're concerned is to employ gallows humour and we were wondering how long it would take my father to notice that my mum had died if it happened in the day time.

I had that conversation with my sister. We came to the conclusion that Dad would notice if Mum went first, because she makes him tea and lunch.

Mum probably wouldn't notice if Dad went until she either ran out of mugs or plates or couldn't find a space to put the mug or plate down in front of him.

My dad rang me one evening to say he wondered if mum had had a stroke. He said "I thought I'd better ring, I can't go to bed and just leave her can I" "

I get regular phone calls about 2 pm saying "I can't get hold of mum and she was doing lunch for 1 o clock. Can you come and find her?"

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Be nice to wake up to a blowie haha

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

That's so sad. Sorry for your loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even before covid, no one would miss me

Or notice that i wasnt around

Oh, unless they wanted something from me of course

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Even before covid, no one would miss me

Or notice that i wasnt around

Oh, unless they wanted something from me of course"

We would miss you sappy x

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

It’s threads like this that makes me so greatfull that I’m married and have kids.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Probably my FWB would notice first. If he couldn’t get hold of me for a couple of days he’d probably come round, but he doesn’t have a key so he’d probably call my Dad. So I guess it would be them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even before covid, no one would miss me

Or notice that i wasnt around

Oh, unless they wanted something from me of course

We would miss you sappy x"

We would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry your boy isn't around, Thunder.

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

Sorry for your loss x

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Hmmm I actually had a thought of this a while again and I though a number of days/possibly week or so...I live with my sister but we generally keep to ourselves. If she needs me she usually texts me and if I didn't answer she'd assume I was fine.

My family are used to me not being in contact and a lot of my friends too...I'm terrible at keeping in touch with people woops!

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

I'd like to say my mum as I live with her and she'd notice the bedroom door was still shut.

God forbid she didn't notice she soon would when my sister who I speak to every day would send her to check on me when she couldn't get hold me!!

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

Oh my days, I'm so sorry to hear this

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm sorry for anyones loss. I deal with this on a daily basis. And its difficult. It made me ill earlier on last year. I'm getting better though

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

My wife

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Even before covid, no one would miss me

Or notice that i wasnt around

Oh, unless they wanted something from me of course"

Don't say that of course they would !!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My son who lives with me. I would rather be found by a stranger.x

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"My son who lives with me. I would rather be found by a stranger.x"

Definitely wouldn't want your son

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Work would be on the phone first thing if I was a no show.

Apart from that it would be family...probably my kids.

I think they'd hate it if I was found by a stranger.

But..they are older so as traumatic as that would be I'd imagine it would be worse for someone much younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit."

Why so important to be found whilst fresh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit.

Why so important to be found whilst fresh? "

Part of it made me chuckle. I have morbid sense of humour.

I get it would be less distressing possibly. Depending on the cause of death. Body decay. Odour. Would you prefer that?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My 8 year old

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

My 2 daughters that still live home! The thought is horrific ! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"My 8 year old "

xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit."

No one really.

I'd be found like an acquaintance was found a few years ago.

Juicy and covered in flies.

I guess my daughter ( 250 miles away ) would eventually phone my friend, who would make a grisly discovery.

My friend calls often tho ..... So after a few hours of me not answering texts he'd beat the door and then call the police.

Either way ....... im already dead whoever gets there.

Hope im not dildoing in the middle of it all.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

This is a new prob to me having recently given up full time work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner.

I can't imagine how it must feel to know nobody would find you straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children. How long it would be before they found me depends on the week as I have 50/50 residency, one week on one week off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

Oh my goodness, I am so sorry that you and your family have gone through that and so recently.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit.

No one really.

I'd be found like an acquaintance was found a few years ago.

Juicy and covered in flies.

I guess my daughter ( 250 miles away ) would eventually phone my friend, who would make a grisly discovery.

My friend calls often tho ..... So after a few hours of me not answering texts he'd beat the door and then call the police.

Either way ....... im already dead whoever gets there.

Hope im not dildoing in the middle of it all. "

One of my friends (who is a policeman) was the first to find a lad who died mid wank

His Mum had called them as she hadn't heard from him in a couple of days

Thankfully, he'd asked her to wait downstairs whilst he went up

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"My son moved into a hostel 10 minuets from his house when he took his life 6 months ago specifically so I didn't find him."

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think work would miss me first

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Well........ now i've read that Bussy ...... I think it's a good way to go , so sod who finds me. I'll be dead. Better to have wanked and died than slip off the loo seat post pee and be found with my arse pointing skywards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well........ now i've read that Bussy ...... I think it's a good way to go , so sod who finds me. I'll be dead. Better to have wanked and died than slip off the loo seat post pee and be found with my arse pointing skywards.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

At least this thread sorts out the ones who are genuinely single from the ones who pretend to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least this thread sorts out the ones who are genuinely single from the ones who pretend to be!

"

Genius.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Work would report it within a minute of me being late. Twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would find you?

I work for myself and alone, my few friends are the type that we don't speak for months and I live alone with no family. My bills are paid by DD so until the money ran out nobody would come looking.

Scary shit."

I'm in an almost identical position, hence since last March I've had daily contact (text) with family members. If the other person doesn't respond, then a phone call is made to check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much in same position and have had these thoughts a few times. I consciously put it out of my head as it upset me but for many, it's the life we live now, disconnected, disinterested and fear of being the nosey neighbour.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I reckon my husband or kids would come looking when they got hungry or couldn’t find something.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody would find me for weeks. Neighbours would notice a smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often worry that if you die I your sleep, do you know? Just the dream just carry on?

That is a 3am kind of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My youngest would find me because he can't go a couple of hours without food!

It is an awful thought that no one would know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My whole street and probably Tik Tok would know before I'd even high fived St Peter - I have a couple of very clingy, very noisy sidekicks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cats.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It would be our young son, as Mr is always at work early and wouldn't realise until later in the day.

I would be the one who would discover my husband.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

If I died I’m my sleep, there’s one thing for sure, I wouldn’t wake to go to work and as for someone finding me, ermmmmmm perhaps next door after the smell had drifted under the door

Seriously, it is a tad scary

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Wouldn’t make any difference once I’m gone

But who would wish Happy Birthday to if you're not here "

There is that, how are the ribs?

Any cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the neighbours cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a horrible thought!

I live alone too and don't have close family.

I talk to friends daily but I'm flaky and it would take time for them to take me not answering the phone seriously.

It almost makes me want a relationship

...... nope changed my mind already I was just having a little moment there

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