FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's like a kick in the nuts

But fuck it

The show must go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you classifying rejection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's contextual

If I was rejected by a family member or friend, I'd be gutted

A random off the net, shoulder shrug material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection? "

Being told you’re not local enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shit thing, but gotta move on. Your time will come x

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"It's like a kick in the nuts

But fuck it

The show must go on

Grow a thicker skin old son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Maybe they thought you were too good to be true and they might catch feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you let it be, just cause a person isn't into you doesn't mean a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Splitting up with my first love was fucking awful. But, she only wore knickers to keep her ankles warm so it was inevitable really.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha "

In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.

I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"

My minge is baron.

My butterflies have emigrated.

My hope is hopeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection? "

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha

In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.

I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"

My minge is baron.

My butterflies have emigrated.

My hope is hopeless."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha

In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.

I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"

My minge is baron.

My butterflies have emigrated.

My hope is hopeless."

I am with you on that one. Love is wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm actually laughing, I was when I wrote this thread and I am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually laughing, I was when I wrote this thread and I am now

Good for you, give yourself a pat on the back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm actually laughing, I was when I wrote this thread and I am now

Good for you, give yourself a pat on the back"

I can't reach

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they thought you were too good to be true and they might catch feelings.

Feelings can stay inside the hand bags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..

I recover from rejection in a heart beat

The show always goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..

I recover from rejection in a heart beat

The show always goes on

It's good to be resilient! Go you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..

I recover from rejection in a heart beat

The show always goes on

It's good to be resilient! Go you. "

Thank you, think it's all about accepting your own worth in life

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Amazing body xx Op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Amazing body xx Op"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated. "

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Amazing body xx Op

Thank you "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get rejected so often when I'm not rejected I'm like what's wrong with you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are. "

Then he doesn't need to classify it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Being told you’re not local enough

that's hilarious

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it"

Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It's contextual

If I was rejected by a family member or friend, I'd be gutted

A random off the net, shoulder shrug material "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

Exactly! I didn’t think I needed to ‘classify’ this either, but clearly I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection? "

noun

‘the dismissing or refusing of a proposal, idea, etc.’

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like trapping your penis under the toilet seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

But it doesn't matter how he was rejected, it still made him feel like shit

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Plenty more holes in the cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it"

The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.

OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on

Mr HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty more holes in the cheese "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

Oh, so if someone is depressed and you ask them what they are depressed about, but what they are depressed about doesn’t fit your view of what is worthy of being depressed about, then they should get a grip too ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

Confirmation bias

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on

Mr HH"

Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information

Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

But it doesn't matter how he was rejected, it still made him feel like shit

I’m not going to argue, as it’s derailing the thread, and serving no purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

But it doesn't matter how he was rejected, it still made him feel like shit

I’m not going to argue, as it’s derailing the thread, and serving no purpose. "

Nobody is arguing, just putting my points across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on

Mr HH

Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information

Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped"

Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.

Mr HH

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"It's like a kick in the nuts

But fuck it

The show must go on

Don't be upset when someone rejects you

Nice things are rejected all the time by people who can't afford them.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It soon becomes the norm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on

Mr HH

Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information

Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped

Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.

Mr HH"

I disagree because the meanings don't change however the context. But I've made my point and that is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on

Mr HH

Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information

Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped

Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.

Mr HH

I disagree because the meanings don't change however the context. But I've made my point and that is that"

The context is actually everything.

Meaning change depending on context, be it social, cultural, political or religious context.

For instance, the word fab doesn't have the same meaning on here that it does in the outside world of fab. We automatically link it to fabswinger.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha

In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.

I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"

My minge is baron.

My butterflies have emigrated.

My hope is hopeless.

I am with you on that one. Love is wank"

I don’t think mine emigrated. I think mine died

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"How are you classifying rejection?

noun

‘the dismissing or refusing of a proposal, idea, etc.’

Hope this helps "

Oh the irony on this post has been missed by most

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

"How are you classifying rejection?

noun

‘the dismissing or refusing of a proposal, idea, etc.’

Hope this helps

Oh the irony on this post has been missed by most

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I just say I am in no way feeling down or unwanted.

I was just pointing out that rejection is like a kick in the nuts but the show must go on

Being kicked in the nuts really does ticke

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just say I am in no way feeling down or unwanted.

I was just pointing out that rejection is like a kick in the nuts but the show must go on

Being kicked in the nuts really does ticke

Tickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. It's not.

If you're not for them, they're not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah. It's not.

If you're not for them, they're not for you.

We live in a world where by if your face does not fit you ain't the 1

We also live in a world where by lots of relationships fail

I'm no rocket scientist or a mathematician but I do have the intelligence to see the entire set up is floored

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You need a thick skin on Fab and in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..

Off topic

......but what is this new emoji thing? How can i do that one!? I'm still learning the ninja one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. It's not.

If you're not for them, they're not for you.

We live in a world where by if your face does not fit you ain't the 1

We also live in a world where by lots of relationships fail

I'm no rocket scientist or a mathematician but I do have the intelligence to see the entire set up is floored

I disagree.

We live in a world where lots of people are assholes.

But lots are good too.

If you give no time or energy to those who aren't for you, the world becomes a different place.

I've met many people who weren't for me. People who have insulted me, abused me, made me feel worthless.

Now I have a wonderful relationship with an incredible man who loves me for exactly who and what I am, and vice versa. And my friends are good people who are kind and supportive.

Sure the cunts are still there, but they waste a lot less of my brain space these days

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

When someone tells you they have been hurt by a thing, "iT oNlY hUrTs iF yOu lEt iT!" is *always* a horrible response.

Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How are you classifying rejection?

Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.

Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?

I was merely asking to clarify.

I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.

Then he doesn't need to classify it

OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on

Mr HH

Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information

Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped

Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.

Mr HH

I disagree because the meanings don't change however the context. But I've made my point and that is that

The context is actually everything.

Meaning change depending on context, be it social, cultural, political or religious context.

For instance, the word fab doesn't have the same meaning on here that it does in the outside world of fab. We automatically link it to fabswinger. "

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