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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've just seen this question asked on another site and now I'm curious.

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By *urham 3 riversMan
over a year ago

Co. Durham

a big blazing log fire with a furry rug in front and sexy woman

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Being desired by someone you also desire, that makes me feel a great

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky? "

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fresh hair always gives me that feeling, along with stuff like a nice fitting new Shirt/Waistcoat. Sometimes its just a day or moment where im feeling good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

I think wearing clothes that fit well, nice boxers and a spray of aftershave help but most of all getting a nice smile from a pretty lady. It gives me a serious confidence boost!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shirt, smart jeans & shoes ,best cologne in a nice bar with a whiskey in a cut glass.

You know that feeling of being chilled yet you've made a real effort for the night.. damn i miss that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with a lot of the above to be fair... fresh trim, quality clothes and knowing I made the effort for the night... coupled with finally making eye contact with a gorgeous woman across the bar having played glance tennis for a while!

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though."

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

A couple of things. Looking at myself post-workout (vain, I know!)

And when I think my hair and outfit is on point when going out

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


" shirt, smart jeans & shoes ,best cologne in a nice bar with a whiskey in a cut glass.

You know that feeling of being chilled yet you've made a real effort for the night.. damn i miss that "

You'll have it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chopping wood! It's really hard work, better than most workouts, and feels really productive and masculine, if that makes sense!

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Growing older, not worrying about what others may or may not think of me and feeling more confident in myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too . "

I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb

A couple of things. Looking at myself post-workout (vain, I know!)

And when I think my hair and outfit is on point when going out "

Nothing wrong with appreciating ur body once u done ur work out bet it’s nice

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Flirting and having had a good poo that day

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Being desired by someone you also desire, that makes me feel a great "

Bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preparing for a meet, tidying my tie before work.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Knowing you are sexually desirable to someone else .

Theres nothing quite like it

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By *ukeuk888Man
over a year ago

hastings


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

Not a lot these days sadly

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Chopping wood! It's really hard work, better than most workouts, and feels really productive and masculine, if that makes sense! "

It does

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

A sexy lady, red wine and a lot of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for the e learning

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .

I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more."

That makes sense

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too . "

I know what you mean by a sensual ritual. Mines buying Extra Strong Mints from the petrol station on my way out. Oh and trimming my bits.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb

Not a lot these days sadly "

Aww come on you, put on your best pants, some sexy music and tell yourself you're sex on legs

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My freshly shaven shaft and balls after a hot bath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive (or as near as I can get) - fresh shave and shower, feeling in good shape, good smart clothes and shoes, being in a good mood.

Sexually attractive- I only feel that in close sexual/physical situations, someone responding to my kiss and touch, obvious arousal.

Better have a lie down now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh haircut, shave, shower, suit and a good aftershave.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The woman next to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess being in the gym, or when I finish my workout and I put on a t shirt that shows off my arms. Before the pandemic, I used to enjoy walking into a pub and taking my jacket off and having women watch me and then at least one or will walk up to me and pay me a few compliments about my body, my hair and face etc.

It was a lovely feeling. Oh how I miss the good ole days

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

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By *ukeuk888Man
over a year ago

hastings


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb

Not a lot these days sadly

Aww come on you, put on your best pants, some sexy music and tell yourself you're sex on legs "

Why not? I’ll give it a go

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

THE most sexualising thing I've found about myself is when you're kissing and just pull away for a second to come up for air, the girl leans in lustfully to carry on. Or grabs you for a hard passionate snog.

That just gets me going.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"I've just seen this question asked on another site and now I'm curious. "

My hard cock against silky boxer shorts in front of a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .

I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.

That makes sense "

As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"I guess being in the gym, or when I finish my workout and I put on a t shirt that shows off my arms. Before the pandemic, I used to enjoy walking into a pub and taking my jacket off and having women watch me and then at least one or will walk up to me and pay me a few compliments about my body, my hair and face etc.

It was a lovely feeling. Oh how I miss the good ole days "

Can’t beat a good arm pump before heading out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

A good shave, a well fitted suit, nice neat haircut and sparkling conversation/ flirty innuendo with a partner whilst sharing a whisky

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .

I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.

That makes sense

As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful."

Good for you doc! I find it interesting so many of these answers are more about interaction with another person than an internal feeling. I'm very much the same as you and can feel sexy any day. Certain music, dancing naked, a nice shower, certain clothes or underwear, even just writhing under my bed sheets on a weekend morning .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My reflection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My reflection."

I'm happy I can still get a reflection at my age.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Having a sexy women wink or fab u making a comment saying ur hot ..makes u feel good about urself witch makes u try harder 2 look more sexy great roundabout

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Being desired, wanted.

Being dressed for and then that delicious thought that they are feeling as horny as you are.

And to start with. A long deep kiss

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

I’ve never had that feeling

I hate what I see in the mirror or pics

And most women seem to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a good suit or putting on a kilt. But if not that then a smart pair of jeans crisp white shirt smart blazer and a pair of proper shoes

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb

I’ve never had that feeling

I hate what I see in the mirror or pics

And most women seem to agree "

Concentrate on those who like what they see. Some women love a big, broad bloke who makes them feel all small and delicate in comparison

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Honestly. No idea, I neve have truely felt sexy.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Nothing at the moment!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Chopping wood! It's really hard work, better than most workouts, and feels really productive and masculine, if that makes sense! "

Watching a man doing man jobs is quite hot

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By *vasexperimentWoman
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Growing older, not worrying about what others may or may not think of me and feeling more confident in myself. "

Working on this more n more

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Chopping wood! It's really hard work, better than most workouts, and feels really productive and masculine, if that makes sense!

Watching a man doing man jobs is quite hot "

Watching male doctors doctor is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

Reading this again I would differentiate between confidence and feeling sexy, or ‘like a sex bomb’ !

Confidence in your own body and personality is almost always attractive and the sexiness for another person flows from that. But feeling that about yourself is something I don’t recognise, but fair play to those that do.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The air

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

A compliment xx

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Being desired....

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"what makes you feel sexually attractive"

Literally nothing.


"like a sex bomb"

What does this even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod all these days O

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

Just her attention and then underwear with lots of touching and kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never felt sexy "

With that picture? Nonsense x

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sexy time with a sexy woman

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Um, nothing, I don't think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be being in the shape I was 20 years ago.....getting dressed up to go out and getting THAT look from a woman across the bar/club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing makes me feel sexy...

Id be more inclined to want to feel happy over sexy anyway neither have been the case for so long i forgot what it even feels like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wearing womens clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a fundamental difference here where women can get dressed all up, make a REAL effort,look in a mirror and think I look amazing.

Correct me if I am wrong fellas, I haven’t ever looked in the mirror and thought I look great. Normally the feeling comes from the prep and process before a meet, so picking your clothing, getting in the shower to get ready, trying to get that shave perfect...

It is more in the prep than the finished article for men than it is for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb

A couple of things. Looking at myself post-workout (vain, I know!)

And when I think my hair and outfit is on point when going out

Nothing wrong with appreciating ur body once u done ur work out bet it’s nice "

Oh definitely, at least until the pump wears off 2 hours later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

Being physically fit

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When its time to go to work; my play partner is laid out in front of me and I start emptying my toy bag and zoning out the rest of the venue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever feel sexy

I don't think I know how to

I have never found myself attractive

I was the fat kid at school

I've never escaped that mentality

I have, however, built on it and I do have plenty of confidence

My weight will always be an issue mentally more than it is physically

I can feel better in myself wearing certain clothes, but I still don't feel 'sexy'

That's too much of a step

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

A little odd perhaps but breeks, long socks, garters, favourite shotgun to hand and the smell of smokeless powder, penhaligons quercus and sloe gin.

Mr.

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Being paid a flattering compliment is a huge turn on for me

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

A crisp white shirt, a smart jacket, making an effort and that effort being noticed by a woman when she gives you one of those looks.

Feeling sexy is a two way thing.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"A crisp white shirt, a smart jacket, making an effort and that effort being noticed by a woman when she gives you one of those looks.

Feeling sexy is a two way thing. "

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I feel sexy/good (most of the time) when I am going to work, earlier in the morning due to the the crisp shirt, wool pants, tie and matching belt and shoes and the freshly sprayed cologne.

Sexier if I put on my waistcoat as well (only wear them occasionally due to the heat/humidity here)

The feeling last only for 1-2 hours though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fresh trim of clean shaven, shaven n smooth down below, maybe a nice fitted suit if I was out somewhere .... nice aftershave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sexy when in tanned and have been focused in the gym for a few weeks

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?

As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "

Messages like “You still own my pussy” the day after our meet are very empowering......

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By *otlips322020Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely dripping my cum all over my pqrtmers balls and licking it off x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being perved on, I love that feeling of being fancied

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"I've just seen this question asked on another site and now I'm curious. "

Looking in the mirror after a shower haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact while getting a bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm fully groomed. Shave teeth whitened nice aftershave fresh clothes feeling nice

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By *haved and SmoothCouple
over a year ago

North East

Deffo shaved balls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice clothes, nice shoes

Good cologne

Fresh haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s this sexy feeling you speak of ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .

I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.

That makes sense

As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful.

Good for you doc! I find it interesting so many of these answers are more about interaction with another person than an internal feeling. I'm very much the same as you and can feel sexy any day. Certain music, dancing naked, a nice shower, certain clothes or underwear, even just writhing under my bed sheets on a weekend morning . "

Yes It definitely feels good when it is a state you can begin to access at will. It’s interesting how just responding to you on this thread I feel myself accessing it. I can feel my body change in how warm it feels to me. Until this thread I hadn’t really given it much conscious thought. I’d just been doing things that helped me feel really good. It is definitely the daily practice of doing this things that care for yourself, value yourself and to an extent endeavour to do that for others too, albeit that doesn’t always work. Thank you Lacey this thread has helped me a bit more as I am more conscious of things I am doing regularly without having acknowledged that’s what I have been doing.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Tight pants

D.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nice clothes, nice shoes

Good cologne

Fresh haircut

"

Extra juicy watermelon?

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.

I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .

I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.

That makes sense

As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful.

Good for you doc! I find it interesting so many of these answers are more about interaction with another person than an internal feeling. I'm very much the same as you and can feel sexy any day. Certain music, dancing naked, a nice shower, certain clothes or underwear, even just writhing under my bed sheets on a weekend morning .

Yes It definitely feels good when it is a state you can begin to access at will. It’s interesting how just responding to you on this thread I feel myself accessing it. I can feel my body change in how warm it feels to me. Until this thread I hadn’t really given it much conscious thought. I’d just been doing things that helped me feel really good. It is definitely the daily practice of doing this things that care for yourself, value yourself and to an extent endeavour to do that for others too, albeit that doesn’t always work. Thank you Lacey this thread has helped me a bit more as I am more conscious of things I am doing regularly without having acknowledged that’s what I have been doing."

Aww you're welcome! Keep tapping into the sexy

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a simple compliment is a huge boost to the sexual confidence.

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By *ondoner7694Man
over a year ago

london

Wearing sexy womens lingerie as you can see from my pics

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy "

Men know your limits

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy

Men know your limits "

Disclaimer; feeling sexy is likely to lead to unwanted judgement and copious (daily) threads about how you are doing sexy “wrong”. Men! Get a grip (or rather, don’t)

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.

"

I hooe you get it back soon

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy "

Take all the willy pics you want! Just don't send them to people who don't want them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice clothes, nice shoes

Good cologne

Fresh haircut

Extra juicy watermelon? "

#obvs

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.

I hooe you get it back soon"

Thank you but I am in the depths of the emotional glums at the moment since the middle of last year.

Just need to get my head back into a positive attitude and am sure things will get back.

Thank you anyway.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.

I hooe you get it back soon

Thank you but I am in the depths of the emotional glums at the moment since the middle of last year.

Just need to get my head back into a positive attitude and am sure things will get back.

Thank you anyway.

"

Sending hugs! You'll get there. Be kind to yourself.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.

I hooe you get it back soon

Thank you but I am in the depths of the emotional glums at the moment since the middle of last year.

Just need to get my head back into a positive attitude and am sure things will get back.

Thank you anyway.

Sending hugs! You'll get there. Be kind to yourself. "

Awe bless you thanks a hug on a wet cold Sunday morning is enough to cheer anyone up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to bring sexy back, but some idiots have panic bought it and there’s none on the shelves, but there’s loads of frumpy, awkward, provocative, sultry and slinky left.

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By *acey_Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I was going to bring sexy back, but some idiots have panic bought it and there’s none on the shelves, but there’s loads of frumpy, awkward, provocative, sultry and slinky left. "

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