FabSwingers.com forum: What are Bi MF Couples looking for?

By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

It is as you described.

Some couples meeting solo guys would insist you are at least orally bi. So suck and be sucked by the male. Take it from there, you might enjoy full sex with him too?

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Strange questions for a straight guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

Either, neither, both or any combination. There is no one-size-fits-all blueprint of a bi couple, or any couple come to that.

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"Strange questions for a straight guy."

Well id need to know what im signing up for if i put my profile to bi lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s a discussion to have with those you are meeting, as everyone has their own boundaries, you included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange questions for a straight guy.

Well id need to know what im signing up for if i put my profile to bi lol"

Are you bi?

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"It’s a discussion to have with those you are meeting, as everyone has their own boundaries, you included "

Most Bi couples wont entertain a convi with my profile saying straight.. might put it to bicurious.. as im curious on what it is they are looking for lol hence the post in the forum

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

Each and every couple have their own opinion on this, and so the only accurate way for you to find out the answer is for you to ask them directly.

If you are honest and upfront about your boundaries then it will help other people and you. And if you try something and don't like it then you will be more certain of your boundaries going forwards.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

How on earth can any of us answer for every bi couple on Fab. Plus , if you need to ask yourself these questions , you’re not really ready to meet any bi couples !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

What are you looking for from meeting a bi couple is what you need to ask yourself first? Are you just into oral? Him sucking you, would you suck him too?

Are you into anal you fucking him if required, would you let them fuck toy anally as well?

You need to decide what your looking for from a bi couple before you look for that couple.

Worst thing you can do is meet a couple and then not be up for what they want .

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s a discussion to have with those you are meeting, as everyone has their own boundaries, you included

Most Bi couples wont entertain a convi with my profile saying straight.. might put it to bicurious.. as im curious on what it is they are looking for lol hence the post in the forum"

Even doing that, one conversation with a couple will likely be completely different with another. Everyone has different boundaries.

You need to think about what you want as well, not just what they want

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s a discussion to have with those you are meeting, as everyone has their own boundaries, you included

Most Bi couples wont entertain a convi with my profile saying straight.. might put it to bicurious.. as im curious on what it is they are looking for lol hence the post in the forum"

Why do you think bi couples won’t talk to a straight male profile, it’s simple, it is not what they are looking for.

You’ve got a lot of thinking to do, on what you would be comfortable with in a bi situation

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

Either, neither, both or any combination. There is no one-size-fits-all blueprint of a bi couple, or any couple come to that. "

This response is spot on.

You can't wait for an answer of what they want before you decide if you're bi or not. That answer is only within you. If you're curious about it, then say that. Just because you choose a label doesn't mean you have to go for the first one looking for a bi male. It all has to fit.

We're both bi, but that won't fit what every other bi couple is looking for. So we keep looking until we find it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Strange questions for a straight guy.

Well id need to know what im signing up for if i put my profile to bi lol"

What you're "signing up for"?!

Being bisexual isn't a club you submit a membership form and join you know!!

If you're curious about being intimate with a man, then be open and honest about that curiosity and if you truly are curious you'll have an idea of what you'd be comfortable doing as part of that - from there it's, as others have said, about discussing boundaries with prospective partners' to agree what you *all* are comfortable with.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Some married bi men would want to suck

Some married bi men would want to be sucked

Some married bi men would want to fuck

Some married bi men would want to be fucked

Some married bi men would want to kiss

Some married bi men wouldn’t want to kiss

Some married bi men might like other things completely.

Probably best to ask them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

It is as you described.

Some couples meeting solo guys would insist you are at least orally bi. So suck and be sucked by the male. Take it from there, you might enjoy full sex with him too?"

We are so accommodating aren't we baby x

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Both being only mildly curious, I think it just opens the opportunity to go with the flow more....when you are caught up in the action it may remove some boundaries.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Man here. I'm bi curious, if we were to meet a bi man I wouldn't want to kiss, I think. But suck and fuck each other I'd be up for trying. Mind heat of moment I get carried away and have few boundaries!

However every couple is different, I know bi men that don't do anal play of any kind.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

All depends on the people your meeting I would think, not everyone wants the same thing. Worth asking those that are interesting I suppose

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Couples that have contacted me in the past often will ask if I’m willing to partake in certain acts. Can be top, bottom, kissing both of them or even role play. When it comes to oral however I’m often asked if they can play or suck my cock or not as not all Tgirls are into it.

Every couple is unique to their play and will let you know what they are after.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Exactly the same as most others. It all depends on the who, the when and the mood unless you're here for a very specific fantasy.

By changing your profile to bi-curious, if indeed you are bi-curious isn't signing up for anything at all apart from opening some doors and closing others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange questions for a straight guy."

Yeah i spotted that. Straight bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange questions for a straight guy.

Well id need to know what im signing up for if i put my profile to bi lol

What you're "signing up for"?!

Being bisexual isn't a club you submit a membership form and join you know!!

I think he is just hoping to get to fuck the female. Lots of so called bi guys say anything to get pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a discussion to have with those you are meeting, as everyone has their own boundaries, you included

Most Bi couples wont entertain a convi with my profile saying straight.. might put it to bicurious.. as im curious on what it is they are looking for lol hence the post in the forum"

Bicuruous aint curious what they are looking for. Bicurious means you are curious about playing with a guy. I think you are just after the female and looking to tell them what they want to hear to get to touch or fuck the female. This is the reason we will not play with single guys.

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"It’s a discussion to have with those you are meeting, as everyone has their own boundaries, you included

Most Bi couples wont entertain a convi with my profile saying straight.. might put it to bicurious.. as im curious on what it is they are looking for lol hence the post in the forum

This is the reason my profile says straight. Im not looking to mislead a couple.. ive met a number of straight couples in the past..

Im genuinely not that desperate for pussy i feel i need to trick a couple into playing. But yes i know thats what single men do on here and what couples are used to..

This is why i tried to start an honest open convo on her.

I would like to meet a bi couple to explore with. No boundaries set etc. A different dynamic than a straight couple.

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By *uLou69Couple
over a year ago

Glos

Funny this one. Some say single men suggest they are Bi just to get to the girl with no intention of even trying because they aren’t even curious. There are a minority on here that will message you from a straight profile and claim their Bi intent. Some are not at all even Bi curious. Some lads for personal reasons simply want to keep their feelings a secret...not all of society is up to speed with LGBT.

Then there are clubs with Bi nights such as Chams. Safe place, clean and tidy with nice staff and generally a good easy going crowd. At least on Mondays when it Bi night anyway. We have been in there and overheard guys claiming they aren’t Bi at all to several other guys, some of those guys have then tried engaging sexually with us as a Bi couple. We normally ask guys if they are Bi or at least curious. If the answer is 100% not Bi then sorry there are other nights for that, look us up then. If they are remotely interested in trying anything Bi then we go to a room and try soft play only....zero penetration on Lou and any attempt is halted. We normally leave it at that then and if we see them again same thing until such time we all decide to take it further.

People deserve a chance to find themselves and quite often some couples can be harsh. I’ve heard some inviting lads to pass the threshold test. Suck his dick then you can play with us. C’mon that’s not gonna ease someone into believing it’s ok to be Bi. There’s also obviously male saunas where lads could give their Bi radar a go but that’s not for everyone. For us it’s about enjoying the Bi scene together with another or two, whether they are M, F, MF Couple, married or single. Perhaps positive feedback on profile veris is a good start?? Look for something with zero expectations and then no one can hold you to the threshold test!!!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"How on earth can any of us answer for every bi couple on Fab. Plus , if you need to ask yourself these questions , you’re not really ready to meet any bi couples !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some married bi men would want to suck

Some married bi men would want to be sucked

Some married bi men would want to fuck

Some married bi men would want to be fucked

Some married bi men would want to kiss

Some married bi men wouldn’t want to kiss

Some married bi men might like other things completely.

Probably best to ask them.

And my mood changes and how much I fancy the man too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny this one. Some say single men suggest they are Bi just to get to the girl with no intention of even trying because they aren’t even curious. There are a minority on here that will message you from a straight profile and claim their Bi intent. Some are not at all even Bi curious. Some lads for personal reasons simply want to keep their feelings a secret...not all of society is up to speed with LGBT.

All very good points.

We've been to bi nights where men have said they're not bi, then in a private room they said they are really they just don't want people knowing. On a bi night ffs.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Everyone has different boundaries so what we are looking for won’t be the same as another couple

.We won’t even have a social with a man who has straight on his profile as we have heard so many stories about men claiming to be bi then when they get down to playing it’s obvious he isn’t he just wants to fuck the wife that’s what puts us off.

First thing I would suggest is putting bi

On your profile.Maybe also put in your profile what exactly you are looking for.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Everyone has different boundaries so what we are looking for won’t be the same as another couple

First thing I would suggest is putting bi

On your profile.Maybe also put in your profile what exactly you are looking for."

This. We've made the decision now to not even bother with single guys because of this

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By *oom_4_1_MhoreCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We look for guys that are okay with fucking hubby whilst he fucks me. But we know that people are just curious and don't want to do this on a a first meet. Would rather build up to it.

Bi curious with whatever experience is okay for us but must be willing to try things.

Seems there are lots of "straight" guys willing to suck cock if it means they get to fuck me. They go awfully quiet when they realise in some meets I won't even be involved, just watching etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How on earth can any of us answer for every bi couple on Fab. Plus , if you need to ask yourself these questions , you’re not really ready to meet any bi couples !"

I disagree. This is clearly a starting point for him, and we all have to start somewhere.

He’s sensibly asking questions first.

Op. Everyone is different, it’s down to the dynamics, so it’s always good to have a discussion on boundaries before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty.

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By *oom_4_1_MhoreCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"How on earth can any of us answer for every bi couple on Fab. Plus , if you need to ask yourself these questions , you’re not really ready to meet any bi couples !

I disagree. This is clearly a starting point for him, and we all have to start somewhere.

He’s sensibly asking questions first.

Op. Everyone is different, it’s down to the dynamics, so it’s always good to have a discussion on boundaries before meeting.

Agree with this totally. We set out what we would like from the outset. And we ask whoever we are meeting to do the same. The boundaries are respected. Honesty is the best policy. No need to be shy

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

Bookmarking for a read later xx

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"Some married bi men would want to suck

Some married bi men would want to be sucked

Some married bi men would want to fuck

Some married bi men would want to be fucked

Some married bi men would want to kiss

Some married bi men wouldn’t want to kiss

Some married bi men might like other things completely.

Probably best to ask them.

This makes the most sense lol

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"How on earth can any of us answer for every bi couple on Fab. Plus , if you need to ask yourself these questions , you’re not really ready to meet any bi couples !

I disagree. This is clearly a starting point for him, and we all have to start somewhere.

He’s sensibly asking questions first.

Op. Everyone is different, it’s down to the dynamics, so it’s always good to have a discussion on boundaries before meeting.

Agree with this totally. We set out what we would like from the outset. And we ask whoever we are meeting to do the same. The boundaries are respected. Honesty is the best policy. No need to be shy

xx"

Its easy to be shy about it when never done it before lol.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I don't care what, but good if I can whip my strap on out

bonus if I get double vaginal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has different boundaries so what we are looking for won’t be the same as another couple

First thing I would suggest is putting bi

On your profile.Maybe also put in your profile what exactly you are looking for.

This. We've made the decision now to not even bother with single guys because of this"

Same

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Im very interested in meeting a BI couple. But i have no idea what BI actions they are looking for?

Is the Bi male in the couple looking to fuck the man or be fucked by the man??

The same question with oral. To give or receive it by the additional male or both?

I am a bi male in a married couple. If I am gonna play with a bi 3rd party I would agree in advance what is & isn't on the table & go from there.

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