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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was browsing through forums as i often tend to do, and came across a pegging one ( no pun intended)

I was surprised even though I shouldn’t be, how many guys loved to be pegged by women & how many couples there are that the wife pegs the husband - and reading so many guys describe how much they enjoy it I couldn’t stop wondering Why they didn’t or haven’t moved on to actually taking a real cock and Wondering if there was a common reason - maybe wanting to stay ‘straight’ and by being pegged they do so?

Anybody with experience able to shed some light on my brains little query please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was browsing through forums as i often tend to do, and came across a pegging one ( no pun intended)

I was surprised even though I shouldn’t be, how many guys loved to be pegged by women & how many couples there are that the wife pegs the husband - and reading so many guys describe how much they enjoy it I couldn’t stop wondering Why they didn’t or haven’t moved on to actually taking a real cock and Wondering if there was a common reason - maybe wanting to stay ‘straight’ and by being pegged they do so?

Anybody with experience able to shed some light on my brains little query please?"

Because they only fancy women perhaps? If I recall correctly one doesn't actively choose one's sexual orientation....

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Why does liking a dildo anally mean that you must need to take a real cock...

I see this over and over again on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like pegging as we like the dynamic that it gives us.

Equally we both like cock too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was browsing through forums as i often tend to do, and came across a pegging one ( no pun intended)

I was surprised even though I shouldn’t be, how many guys loved to be pegged by women & how many couples there are that the wife pegs the husband - and reading so many guys describe how much they enjoy it I couldn’t stop wondering Why they didn’t or haven’t moved on to actually taking a real cock and Wondering if there was a common reason - maybe wanting to stay ‘straight’ and by being pegged they do so?

Anybody with experience able to shed some light on my brains little query please?"

Pegging is just a form of pleasure if you get no pleasure from the idea or the act of having sexual contact with a man then pegging is another great way to feel the pleasure of the erotic possibilities of your arsehole.

I think it is great to see straight men experimenting and enjoying the pleasure they can get from anal stimulation without thinking it is exclusively a homosexual act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a lot of men it’s the dynamic shift. Would you say to a lesbian couple, I see you use a strap on on each other, how long before you take a real cock, it’s not a substitute for the real thing till the man gets there, believe it or not men don’t have to be the main event in everything, a lot of people like it when men aren’t about, but this seems hard to accept for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a lot of men it’s the dynamic shift. Would you say to a lesbian couple, I see you use a strap on on each other, how long before you take a real cock, it’s not a substitute for the real thing till the man gets there, believe it or not men don’t have to be the main event in everything, a lot of people like it when men aren’t about, but this seems hard to accept for some. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a lot of men it’s the dynamic shift. Would you say to a lesbian couple, I see you use a strap on on each other, how long before you take a real cock, it’s not a substitute for the real thing till the man gets there, believe it or not men don’t have to be the main event in everything, a lot of people like it when men aren’t about, but this seems hard to accept for some. "

Never done it but would for above reason...it’s the shift of control and power in the situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight. "

I never said being pegged made anyone bi or straight - I’m aware of this fact

I just wondered what stopped guys who love being pegged so much, moving from plastic to real that’s all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does liking a dildo anally mean that you must need to take a real cock...

I see this over and over again on here "

I’m not saying it does mean it

I’m asking if there’s a common reason why it doesn’t

Good reply above saying they only fancy women - basic & quite obvious really haha which may just end my query lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight.

I never said being pegged made anyone bi or straight - I’m aware of this fact

I just wondered what stopped guys who love being pegged so much, moving from plastic to real that’s all "

Probably because they don't want to have sex with a man.

I know that's absolutely the case for me.

Its either a strap on or the rarest of the rare, a non op trans woman.

Its the femininity that does it for me, masculinity is not going to get my cheeks to part

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We like pegging as we like the dynamic that it gives us.

Equally we both like cock too "

Ok - so here we go - a different POV -

So were you pegging your husband Before he moved onto cock or as a result of him liking it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was browsing through forums as i often tend to do, and came across a pegging one ( no pun intended)

I was surprised even though I shouldn’t be, how many guys loved to be pegged by women & how many couples there are that the wife pegs the husband - and reading so many guys describe how much they enjoy it I couldn’t stop wondering Why they didn’t or haven’t moved on to actually taking a real cock and Wondering if there was a common reason - maybe wanting to stay ‘straight’ and by being pegged they do so?

Anybody with experience able to shed some light on my brains little query please?

Pegging is just a form of pleasure if you get no pleasure from the idea or the act of having sexual contact with a man then pegging is another great way to feel the pleasure of the erotic possibilities of your arsehole.

I think it is great to see straight men experimenting and enjoying the pleasure they can get from anal stimulation without thinking it is exclusively a homosexual act."

Good answer thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For a lot of men it’s the dynamic shift. Would you say to a lesbian couple, I see you use a strap on on each other, how long before you take a real cock, it’s not a substitute for the real thing till the man gets there, believe it or not men don’t have to be the main event in everything, a lot of people like it when men aren’t about, but this seems hard to accept for some. "

Hmmmm good point about lesbians & dildo’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight.

I never said being pegged made anyone bi or straight - I’m aware of this fact

I just wondered what stopped guys who love being pegged so much, moving from plastic to real that’s all "

Sexuality.

If they fancy a cock hopefully they will get to try one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight.

I never said being pegged made anyone bi or straight - I’m aware of this fact

I just wondered what stopped guys who love being pegged so much, moving from plastic to real that’s all

Probably because they don't want to have sex with a man.

I know that's absolutely the case for me.

Its either a strap on or the rarest of the rare, a non op trans woman.

Its the femininity that does it for me, masculinity is not going to get my cheeks to part "

First line of reply seems to be the answer in a nutshell thank you

Maybe I was over complicating my train of thought when this wonder popped into my head

Plainly & simply they are Straight, who don’t want sex with a man when they can have a different kind of sex with a woman / partner

Thanks

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

It’s a power shift, a switch if you like. I’m well used to being in charge, it’s so refreshing and relaxing to switch off and be something else. Plus when she hits my p spot it’s a feeling of pleasure that’s like no other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight.

I never said being pegged made anyone bi or straight - I’m aware of this fact

I just wondered what stopped guys who love being pegged so much, moving from plastic to real that’s all

Probably because they don't want to have sex with a man.

I know that's absolutely the case for me.

Its either a strap on or the rarest of the rare, a non op trans woman.

Its the femininity that does it for me, masculinity is not going to get my cheeks to part "

I learned recently that your preference has a name and is known as gynaesexuality. I think this is often the case when guys say they are straight but like to meet feminine tv’s and ts’s.

Bisexuality is such a broad spectrum it’s helpful to have more distinctions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being pegged doesn't mean they are gay or bi. If they haven't moved on to a proper cock it's because they are straight.

I never said being pegged made anyone bi or straight - I’m aware of this fact

I just wondered what stopped guys who love being pegged so much, moving from plastic to real that’s all

Probably because they don't want to have sex with a man.

I know that's absolutely the case for me.

Its either a strap on or the rarest of the rare, a non op trans woman.

Its the femininity that does it for me, masculinity is not going to get my cheeks to part

First line of reply seems to be the answer in a nutshell thank you

Maybe I was over complicating my train of thought when this wonder popped into my head

Plainly & simply they are Straight, who don’t want sex with a man when they can have a different kind of sex with a woman / partner

Thanks "

Yep, pretty much it, but as Sophie says there are also nuances too.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Being pegged shouldn't even begin to have your sexuality brought into it, its anal play and if you enjoy it then go for it as it can be a wonderful feeling and the kink of being pegged adds to the fun of it all.

That it is even looked at as 'moving on to a penis' is daft.

If one man wanted sex with another man then would they even question how they have sex or the genitalia involved?

Straight men can like anal play too and pegging is part of that, nothing more and nothing less. Its highly unlikely that if they are straight that sex with another man will be something they would try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like pegging as we like the dynamic that it gives us.

Equally we both like cock too

Ok - so here we go - a different POV -

So were you pegging your husband Before he moved onto cock or as a result of him liking it?"

I can't remember which came first as it was pretty much the same time. He was definitely orally bi but maybe the difference for us is him being bisexual anyway so already wanting to try cock and us also enjoying Domme/sub as part of our bedroom fun for which pegging plays a significant part

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

‘Pegging is gateway sex’...

Doesn’t have to be but for some it stimulates them into taking the next step.

Trying to define anything in the fantastically fluid lifestyle we all share is pointless sometimes, just go with it if to enjoy it.

The dynamic change is often talked about and we like that sometimes, other times it’s the ultimate service sub Becky can provide me, pleasuring me with a strap on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi sexual and have experience with both a cocktail and a strap on , my wife fucks me regularly with a strap on and by god she reaches orgasm we don’t get with sex. Also its about power instead of me pinning her down and taking control and pounding her it gives her the opportunity and also me to control and make me be the sub and it’s just awesome seeing her fit body strapped up and also I think it’s a turn on for a lot of woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was browsing through forums as i often tend to do, and came across a pegging one ( no pun intended)

I was surprised even though I shouldn’t be, how many guys loved to be pegged by women & how many couples there are that the wife pegs the husband - and reading so many guys describe how much they enjoy it I couldn’t stop wondering Why they didn’t or haven’t moved on to actually taking a real cock and Wondering if there was a common reason - maybe wanting to stay ‘straight’ and by being pegged they do so?

Anybody with experience able to shed some light on my brains little query please?"

maybe they aren't attracted to men

maybe they don't want to have sex with men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women like their pussy licked they should go lesbian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its hot with the right girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was browsing through forums as i often tend to do, and came across a pegging one ( no pun intended)

I was surprised even though I shouldn’t be, how many guys loved to be pegged by women & how many couples there are that the wife pegs the husband - and reading so many guys describe how much they enjoy it I couldn’t stop wondering Why they didn’t or haven’t moved on to actually taking a real cock and Wondering if there was a common reason - maybe wanting to stay ‘straight’ and by being pegged they do so?

Anybody with experience able to shed some light on my brains little query please?"
an ex of mine loved pegging me..i did wonder if i would enjoy a real cock..so i used a t girl escort...wow..i loved it lol

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