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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people get enticed or put off by the number of verifications on a profile?

What is an adequate number before deciding to meet or not meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 visible readable maximum

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I must say I’m not into guys who look like there just ploughing there way threw fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number doesn't bother me at all as a lot of veris are from social meets. I'd be put off by someone displaying veris of play meets with all gory details as that's private. They're called verifications, not performance reviews. No veris at all would put me off also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the only verifications a person can get at the moment are via cams. So it shouldn't make a difference if there is 1 or 1000.

Put a good show on and you could get dozens in one sitting.

Post lockdown may be viewed differently but at the moment as long as its safe who cares?

In my opinion...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The number doesn't bother me at all as a lot of veris are from social meets. I'd be put off by someone displaying veris of play meets with all gory details as that's private. They're called verifications, not performance reviews. No veris at all would put me off also."

Yea, i understand that.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I don’t particularly mind, however if there’s lots of meets describing sexual experiences in a short space of time it would put me off, unless in a club.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

The volume of verifications doesn't bother us as we know people can accumulate many veris through social events.

Explicit veris do put us off. Also if people have been on here for over a year yet don't have any veris (we understand that due to Covid this currently can't be helped but we are taking about before Covid).

Also profiles whose most recent veri was something like 3 years ago.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Personally it doesn't bother me at all, but I use this site for sex meets. One of my friends is a regular at clubs and he can get 15 new veris a weekend when they play in an orgy, I know he's safe and responsible so I am happy to play with him, he has over 250 veris so far

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

All depending on the detail - if they’re a sociable person then it could be socials etc... but I look at some of the veri’s on here & think something’s are best off private...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few nasty messages from people thinking I was some kind of slut due to how many veris I have.

I note have them visible and, as they are all social, that judgement hasn’t been expressed since.

I’m still a virgin ffs. (I really am!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few nasty messages from people thinking I was some kind of slut due to how many veris I have.

I note have them visible and, as they are all social, that judgement hasn’t been expressed since.

I’m still a virgin ffs. (I really am!) "

This is no place for virgins missy!

I don't understand why anyone would hide veris after people being rudely judgemental. Who would want to meet someone like that?

Like attracts like. If someone has 1,000 veris they will attract similar people and those who want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few nasty messages from people thinking I was some kind of slut due to how many veris I have.

I note have them visible and, as they are all social, that judgement hasn’t been expressed since.

I’m still a virgin ffs. (I really am!)

This is no place for virgins missy! "

Should I leave then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few nasty messages from people thinking I was some kind of slut due to how many veris I have.

I note have them visible and, as they are all social, that judgement hasn’t been expressed since.

I’m still a virgin ffs. (I really am!)

This is no place for virgins missy!

Should I leave then? "

Heck no! x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do people get enticed or put off by the number of verifications on a profile?

What is an adequate number before deciding to meet or not meet?"

To me, the opinions of a total stranger about another stranger means absolutely nothing to me so I don't take any notice. I make a decision to meet purely on their interaction with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a few nasty messages from people thinking I was some kind of slut due to how many veris I have.

I note have them visible and, as they are all social, that judgement hasn’t been expressed since.

I’m still a virgin ffs. (I really am!)

This is no place for virgins missy!

Should I leave then? "

I guess most people on here are either v experienced, curious or first timers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few nasty messages from people thinking I was some kind of slut due to how many veris I have.

I note have them visible and, as they are all social, that judgement hasn’t been expressed since.

I’m still a virgin ffs. (I really am!)

This is no place for virgins missy!

Should I leave then?

Heck no! x"

Make your mind up luv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally it doesn't bother me at all, but I use this site for sex meets. One of my friends is a regular at clubs and he can get 15 new veris a weekend when they play in an orgy, I know he's safe and responsible so I am happy to play with him, he has over 250 veris so far "

This.

The number or the content of veris makes no difference to me, unless the content is negative (which isn’t likely to be displayed).

Most people are here for more than new Scrabble friends or ‘just the one bit of sex, please’.....

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