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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im probably in the minority here and ill get called out for being a shallow tosspot.

But..when i see posts asking to give your preference on body parts and i see the obligatory White Knight 'Sir Chatshitsalot' commenting "Well i just think all women are beautiful and equal"

It makes me cringe and i just think they are telling porkies..they do have a preference..and are just saying they dont to try and get laid.

Yours Sincerly

Paulo (Whos friend list probably just shrank)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Shaven or Hairy?"

"Whatever SHE prefers"

"Big boobs or small?"

"They are all beautiful"

"Smelly welly fanny or clean?"

"It bothers me not i love them all"

Fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. I love that you're here ranting to yourself about this!

I agree with you.

Maybe people aren't turned off by one thing or another but everyone has a preference.

I tend to prefer taller men. That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't look at a shorter guy but my preference is tall.

Or are you looking for something even more decisive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got varying fantasies for a variety of women.....none of them include a smelly or overly hairy fanny though!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I can see attractiveness in most people.

I would say all but then some people open their mouths and turn ugly.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'll put my hand up as one of those guys and say I honestly don't have a "type" in a particular physical way, in my almost 56 years I have found attraction with a wide variety of women in terms of body shape - and really am not bothered by big boobs or small, smooth or hairy or the majority of other things...attraction for me *does* come from connection and chemistry and personality.

Yes, there has to be a physical attraction too, but that's not defined by a particular shape or size, hair or eye colour or any other specific.

So yes, I will find beauty in whatever shape, will leave it to the pubic preference of the person concerned etc.

If you choose to label me a "white knight just seeking to offer platitudes for sex" OP then that's your prerogative, but it also proves you don't know me very well.

I'll stick to what I do and my way of approaching the site, it's really no skin off my nose if others want to judge me for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill put my hands up too because i say the same thing...all women are beautiful....for me its not about beauty...for me its all about personality and chemistry. everyone has their own preferences and likes, no need for me to judge. i just do my own thing and enjoy life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I do think that there are two distinct groups of people. Those for who looks are very important in sexual attraction and those for who they're not, they find other things like attitude, intelligence of sense of humour the most important things.

I fall in to the first group, I need physical attraction first and foremost but plenty of others are in the second group.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

But I will say that a number of the men who've contacted us over the years and state on their profile that looks are not important start their messages by complementing my looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha. I love that you're here ranting to yourself about this!

I agree with you.

Maybe people aren't turned off by one thing or another but everyone has a preference.

I tend to prefer taller men. That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't look at a shorter guy but my preference is tall.

Or are you looking for something even more decisive? "

Agreed, I guess u can have an ideal person in your mind but be open minded and attracted by someone that obviously doesn’t come close to your ideal. For example I also love really tall guys, doesn’t mean i don’t mean shorter guys. Some of the best sex or time I’ve had with shorter guys.

My ideal man (if I could manifest/build my own) has light brown hair (so specific) but I love guys in all different kind of hair and skin tones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather a flat out "you are not my type" than blow smoke up my arse for a shag.

That being said, some genuinly don't have a set type and it will come down to facial attraction and personality. Most do have things they don't like though more than things they look for if that makes sense.

For example

Big or small boobs:

"Either" can be true but they will think "but I don't like huge nipples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha. I love that you're here ranting to yourself about this!

I agree with you.

Maybe people aren't turned off by one thing or another but everyone has a preference.

I tend to prefer taller men. That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't look at a shorter guy but my preference is tall.

Or are you looking for something even more decisive?

Agreed, I guess u can have an ideal person in your mind but be open minded and attracted by someone that obviously doesn’t come close to your ideal. For example I also love really tall guys, doesn’t mean i don’t mean shorter guys. Some of the best sex or time I’ve had with shorter guys.

My ideal man (if I could manifest/build my own) has light brown hair (so specific) but I love guys in all different kind of hair and skin tones. "

*Meet not mean

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Im probably in the minority here and ill get called out for being a shallow tosspot.

But..when i see posts asking to give your preference on body parts and i see the obligatory White Knight 'Sir Chatshitsalot' commenting "Well i just think all women are beautiful and equal"

It makes me cringe and i just think they are telling porkies..they do have a preference..and are just saying they dont to try and get laid.

Yours Sincerly

Paulo (Whos friend list probably just shrank)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed, I guess u can have an ideal person in your mind but be open minded and attracted by someone that obviously doesn’t come close to your ideal. For example I also love really tall guys, doesn’t mean i don’t mean shorter guys. Some of the best sex or time I’ve had with shorter guys.

My ideal man (if I could manifest/build my own) has light brown hair (so specific) but I love guys in all different kind of hair and skin tones. "

Yeah exactly... or its not even like I have this "ideal man" in my head, I'm just instantly, automatically attracted to certain traits and have noticed there's a pattern to it.

(Absolute sucker for dark hair and blue eyes - and you thought you were being super specific! Ha)

I'm not *not* interested in short guys or blonde guys or whatever. If they give good game, I'll be attracted but certain traits just do it for me more than others.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Im probably in the minority here and ill get called out for being a shallow tosspot.

But..when i see posts asking to give your preference on body parts and i see the obligatory White Knight 'Sir Chatshitsalot' commenting "Well i just think all women are beautiful and equal"

It makes me cringe and i just think they are telling porkies..they do have a preference..and are just saying they dont to try and get laid.

Yours Sincerly

Paulo (Whos friend list probably just shrank)"

Ah, the verb “to be”.

Has caused wars, yet there are those who still engage with it.

If we could only remove it the world would be so much more fluid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha. I love that you're here ranting to yourself about this!

I agree with you.

Maybe people aren't turned off by one thing or another but everyone has a preference.

I tend to prefer taller men. That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't look at a shorter guy but my preference is tall.

Or are you looking for something even more decisive? "

Im about the only person that listens to me. For obvious reasons lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I will say that a number of the men who've contacted us over the years and state on their profile that looks are not important start their messages by complementing my looks. "

Bahahahhaa!! Legend

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

But your a lovely toss pot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha. I love that you're here ranting to yourself about this!

I agree with you.

Maybe people aren't turned off by one thing or another but everyone has a preference.

I tend to prefer taller men. That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't look at a shorter guy but my preference is tall.

Or are you looking for something even more decisive?

Agreed, I guess u can have an ideal person in your mind but be open minded and attracted by someone that obviously doesn’t come close to your ideal. For example I also love really tall guys, doesn’t mean i don’t mean shorter guys. Some of the best sex or time I’ve had with shorter guys.

My ideal man (if I could manifest/build my own) has light brown hair (so specific) but I love guys in all different kind of hair and skin tones. "

Light brown hair you say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But your a lovely toss pot "

Im welling up. thats t sweetest thing anyones ever said to me. Hold me tightly and sing Celine Dion please xxxxxxxxxx

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"But your a lovely toss pot

Im welling up. thats t sweetest thing anyones ever said to me. Hold me tightly and sing Celine Dion please xxxxxxxxxx"

Ok chuckles calm it down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But your a lovely toss pot

Im welling up. thats t sweetest thing anyones ever said to me. Hold me tightly and sing Celine Dion please xxxxxxxxxx

Ok chuckles calm it down "

Yes Mrs

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

To be honest I have more of an issue with the people who create such threads, being pointless and a nod to the shallow validation people seem to crave these days, then I do the people who claim no preference.

Who cares if you prefer big or little things. Its not like they are the only things that turn up in a meet, the rest of the person does as well!

A liar with a nice bum is still a liar.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


""Shaven or Hairy?"

"Whatever SHE prefers"

"Big boobs or small?"

"They are all beautiful"

"Smelly welly fanny or clean?"

"It bothers me not i love them all"

Fuck off."

Totally get what you’re saying and it happens all the time now !

I think part of it is people are really afraid of offending others.

I get that a lot of women don’t like baldness and or beards. Everyone has their likes and dislikes, but you should never be afraid to try new things.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

From a woman white Knight perspective, the only preference I have is that I need to fancy them, for the rest of the package per se I have no preferences, the variety of my meets is quite big and I would have missed out if I stuck to one type as such.

My pet hate is indecisive preferences, make you mind up and just go for what you fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my preference personally but everyone is different and if people are happy in their own skin then that’s fine by me plus I find confidence very attractive!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"That being said, some genuinly don't have a set type and it will come down to facial attraction and personality."

This is me.

I am, of course, massively driven by physical attraction. Who isn't?

However, my physical attraction isn't limited by hyper-specific blanket factors.

I don't care about skin colour. If I find someone hot, I find them hot.

I don't care whether they're 18 or 75. If I find someone hot, I find them hot.

I don't care what they choose to do with their pubic hair. If I find someone hot, I find them hot.

Fab, therefore, feels very strange to me. Every other profile says "Anyone who's not exactly 6' 2.5", white, shiny bald all over, and precisely 37 years 4 months and 19 days old, can just fuck off and die."

You meet the most attractive person you've ever seen. A god amongst mortals. Your pulse quickens just thinking about them.

Yesterday was their birthday. They're twelve hours out of your age range.

Are you really going to block them, when yesterday they were your perfect match?

Complete insanity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Shaven or Hairy?"

"Whatever SHE prefers"

"Big boobs or small?"

"They are all beautiful"

"Smelly welly fanny or clean?"

"It bothers me not i love them all"

Fuck off."

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm an equal opportunities pervert and find a wide spectrum of women attractive, from muscular female bodybuilders to ssbbws.

However when I've said I like something on here before, I've been moaned at in the thread saying what about this type?

And I'm not even one of those guys who says ridiculous things like this thing=proper women.

So I can see why they play the politics game and try to appeal to everyone, but it does make me roll my eyes when I see it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"That being said, some genuinly don't have a set type and it will come down to facial attraction and personality.

This is me.

I am, of course, massively driven by physical attraction. Who isn't?

However, my physical attraction isn't limited by hyper-specific blanket factors.

I don't care about skin colour. If I find someone hot, I find them hot.

I don't care whether they're 18 or 75. If I find someone hot, I find them hot.

I don't care what they choose to do with their pubic hair. If I find someone hot, I find them hot.

Fab, therefore, feels very strange to me. Every other profile says "Anyone who's not exactly 6' 2.5", white, shiny bald all over, and precisely 37 years 4 months and 19 days old, can just fuck off and die."

You meet the most attractive person you've ever seen. A god amongst mortals. Your pulse quickens just thinking about them.

Yesterday was their birthday. They're twelve hours out of your age range.

Are you really going to block them, when yesterday they were your perfect match?

Complete insanity. "

Preach brother. Agree with all of this.

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"Im probably in the minority here and ill get called out for being a shallow tosspot.

But..when i see posts asking to give your preference on body parts and i see the obligatory White Knight 'Sir Chatshitsalot' commenting "Well i just think all women are beautiful and equal"

It makes me cringe and i just think they are telling porkies..they do have a preference..and are just saying they dont to try and get laid.

Yours Sincerly

Paulo (Whos friend list probably just shrank)"

You shallow tosspot.

Had to be done, but no, I agree. T is a big bearded viking. he has hair on his chest, back etc.. clean shaven where it counts of course! but still..K is an alt/metal chick.. again, not to everyones tastes. we get that. it's cool.

preferences are good!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ want a girl with a short skirt and long jacket

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"I’ want a girl with a short skirt and long jacket "

Who gets up early?

Stays up late?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I’ want a girl with a short skirt and long jacket

Who gets up early?

Stays up late? "

I loved cake.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’ want a girl with a short skirt and long jacket

Who gets up early?

Stays up late? "

Does such a woman exist ?

And does she have fingernails that shine like justice....

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Have to admit I do have a type, but seem to attract the opposite. Can I just ask why having a big dick would suddenly get a women to say yes instead of no thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to admit I use looks and body shape as an initial filter. Certainly on here.

Once I get chatting it’s all about how they come across tho.

In a club I’m not so harsh when it comes to looks as so many other factors are available to attract.

I’ve lost count of the times when my initial assessment of a room full of people hasn’t highlighted an initial attraction but then several people have them really grown on me.

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