FabSwingers.com forum: Chocolate or Flowers?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This question is more for the women on here, what you you ladies prefer the receive, chocolate, flowers or perhaps something better?

Asking for a friend x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Flowers. Always flowers.

And that comes from a chocolate addict!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends what the occasion is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Flowers

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Wine and scented candles are always welcome.x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"A kiss "

Oh g'wan then. Just a little one

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Flowers, please.

But flowers AND chocolate preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A kiss

Oh g'wan then. Just a little one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chocolate flowers

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Either whilst dating, or birthdays, valentines, christmas. Any other time, then I treat with suspicion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't both a little too predictable..? I prefer to think outside the box

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I guess I’m a suspicious guy ??

Is it over the top for me to buy a woman flowers that I hardly know just on the basis she’s gorgeous?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Well I guess I’m a suspicious guy ??

Is it over the top for me to buy a woman flowers that I hardly know just on the basis she’s gorgeous? "

Its a bit creepy but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You’ve got it ??

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Flowers are always appreciated

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Depends why but yes more than a bit weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate & edible flowers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flowers last longer than chocolates and therefore the memories last longer just my humble opinion

but to be fair cream cakes are more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really into either, get me a chinese takeway or bag of donuts im happy

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Aren't both a little too predictable..? I prefer to think outside the box

Yes, but they are generally the safer option. Go out on a limb and try to be smart, might get the door slammed in your face. Maybe the second meet after you have made a better assessment.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Beer

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Not really into either, get me a chinese takeway or bag of donuts im happy

Oh yes food

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Beer

Chips from you my love

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Forget the flowers, write me a letter and I'll be happier.

Flowers can be cute but try and get ones you know she'll like (that is if you know her!).

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By * and A777Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nice flowers (not from a garage forecourt!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the reason. If just met its a bit corny, saying that one guy I had a social meet with brought me a bottle of red wine but we had chatted about wine at some stage.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Beer

Chips from you my love

I'll supply chips and you beer

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Love love love love love flowers, or a house plant.

I wouldn't be freaked out by someone getting me any either. Same way if someone had mentioned they liked I dunno, Parma Violets and I grabbed a packet from the shop coz I thought they'd appreciate it. No biggie

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Chocolate but not too much.

Flowers I wouldn't thank you for I'd rather they stay in the ground for the bees :b

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"Flowers last longer than chocolates and therefore the memories last longer just my humble opinion

but to be fair cream cakes are more fun

Ah yeah you can look at the flowers as they wither and die and contemplate the nature of relationships. Just saying ')

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Flowers and cchocolate éclairs ... I'm greedy like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flowers last longer than chocolates and therefore the memories last longer just my humble opinion

but to be fair cream cakes are more fun

Ah yeah you can look at the flowers as they wither and die and contemplate the nature of relationships. Just saying ')"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flowers and cchocolate éclairs ... I'm greedy like that

Ill even throw in a coffee for you x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nice flowers (not from a garage forecourt!)"

I am happy with flowers wherever they come from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flowers and cchocolate éclairs ... I'm greedy like that

Now you're talking fresh cream éclairs and a coffee mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flowers, chocolates and a full pampering with all the perks

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Flowers x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Aren't both a little too predictable..? I prefer to think outside the box

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wildflowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither for me, not a fan of either! A potted plant as the memory keeps or a bottle of wine to share memories please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel comfortable being given flowers on a meet. It kind of indicates that feelings are involved and therefore my gut feeling would be to back away.

Now, turning up with some chocolate or food snacks is a great idea as we would both (or all) need to keep our energy levels up.

Her x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I enjoy receiving a book with a note written inside. Think outside the norm, it shows originality. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love flowers nearly always have them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate or a plant. I’m not keen on flowers.

Or something original, personal to that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chocolate a lot. But I love being given flowers

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Flowers and cchocolate éclairs ... I'm greedy like that

Now you're talking fresh cream éclairs and a coffee mmmmm"

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Something with a bit of imagination.

Anyone can order a random bunch of flowers from Interflora.

I'd d rather have something like a bar of Imperial Leather or an inflatable zimmer frame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gesture means more than the item. If someone brought me a bunch of my favourite flowers because they’d listened to me talk about them, that would mean more than a random expensive bottle of wine.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"The gesture means more than the item. If someone brought me a bunch of my favourite flowers because they’d listened to me talk about them, that would mean more than a random expensive bottle of wine.

Eeeeeeexactly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I enjoy receiving a book with a note written inside. Think outside the norm, it shows originality. X

One of the nicest gifts I received from a lover was an inscripted book we'd discussed. That level of thought meant a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flowers hands down

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I enjoy receiving a book with a note written inside. Think outside the norm, it shows originality. X

One of the nicest gifts I received from a lover was an inscripted book we'd discussed. That level of thought meant a lot."

That’s a lovely thoughtful gift

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Neither. I don't eat chocolate and flowers belong growing, not grown to be cut, transported around the world and put in a vase to die. I don't drink either so a pain to buy safe for!

If I don't know someone, I don't buy them anything but depending on the occasion, I may write them a card.

All other gifts are small and personal; nice coffee or tea for example.

In the past I've been given gorgeous butter from grass fed cows and I loved it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I don't like cut flowers...the only gift of flowers I've ever truly liked was when an ex grew some sunflowers for me, they're my favourite flowers and he grew them in pots hidden from me until they flowered

I'd much rather some random small thing that I've talked about, like favourite sweets or a book...it shows they actually listen to me. Or a handwritten note or card.

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