FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How significant is the difference in feeling, when a partner used a condom vs without a condom?

Of course nearly all guys say it’s night and day difference, some guys say they can’t cum with a condom on, but is it a massive difference in terms of feeling for you women?

I’m aware some people will talk about pleasure and climax not being an issue with or without a condom but I’m thinking more about the physical feeling during sex.

An old play partner really hated the ribbed ones or dotted. Said they were really uncomfortable where as I can barely feel them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel a massive difference and have never liked condoms. Sex is more pleasurable and intense without them

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No difference.

Psychological I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex with a condom is like fucking a dildo. Much prefer without.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Honestly say can’t feel a difference all I know is I feel a lot cleaner when they cum lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very little difference

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I can feel a difference between condoms/no condoms, it does depend on the brand though - some I can't at all.

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By *atchusplay1000Couple
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Sex is always better without a condom. But I can understand why they are sometimes necessary.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

My gf loves sex with a condom, the sound of the ripping of the foil, the stretching of the condom, the smell of the lube and the rubber... All have a massive connection with her which heightens the experience. She always puts it down to when she spent a few years being extra naughty with a teacher while she was married. Amazing how powerful the mind can be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very varying responses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My gf loves sex with a condom, the sound of the ripping of the foil, the stretching of the condom, the smell of the lube and the rubber... All have a massive connection with her which heightens the experience. She always puts it down to when she spent a few years being extra naughty with a teacher while she was married. Amazing how powerful the mind can be. "

Absolutely agree with you there re’ the mind. Sounds like you’re both quite reflective in your sexual exploration too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation. "

Yeah, as a guy I can really tell. Thought it may be different for women but it seems varied.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

With some condoms I can't tell the difference, with ribbed once it's like whoa mama!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation.

Yeah, as a guy I can really tell. Thought it may be different for women but it seems varied. "

Skins condoms are wafer thin, I'm quite sure I'd not know if my eyes were closed. I'm not gonna test it out tho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation.

Yeah, as a guy I can really tell. Thought it may be different for women but it seems varied.

Skins condoms are wafer thin, I'm quite sure I'd not know if my eyes were closed. I'm not gonna test it out tho!"

I’ve never used skins. As a default I go for durex extra safe

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

So different for me!!! I really feel the difference with a guy wearing a condom and hate both the feel and knowing that it’s there! But needs must of course! But still so much better without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Condoms do spoil sex considerably for me, always prefer without. Him also cumming inside gives a feeling of satisfaction that can't be matched by anything else xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I prefer without. With can be okay .... but if you have a good stayer and he has a condom on then I have to prepare for smoke........ y know....

Give me an unsheathed quick cummer n im happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. "

I do understand that bit. I didn't know if it was me or just the lack of pre-splodge on his part.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No difference at all x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I prefer without. With can be okay .... but if you have a good stayer and he has a condom on then I have to prepare for smoke........ y know....

Give me an unsheathed quick cummer n im happy."

That's a problem I have with some condoms. They dry me out, and some make me itch.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. "

I get it with some condoms; especially the extra safe ones.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I prefer without. With can be okay .... but if you have a good stayer and he has a condom on then I have to prepare for smoke........ y know....

Give me an unsheathed quick cummer n im happy.

That's a problem I have with some condoms. They dry me out, and some make me itch."

I know. I might start a new line made out of Marigold Gloves......

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.

I do understand that bit. I didn't know if it was me or just the lack of pre-splodge on his part. "

Ha, pre-splodge. Yes, I get similar but it's fine, lube makes everything better.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Without, I like to feel the cum twitch, which is markedly reduced with condoms on

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I can't say as I notice much difference to be honest.

Condoms these days are thin but strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly say can’t feel a difference all I know is I feel a lot cleaner when they cum lol

Lol love it xx feel the same x

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I prefer without but not an option really, can’t stand the taste or smell of latex, makes me gag before we’ve even got going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.

I do understand that bit. I didn't know if it was me or just the lack of pre-splodge on his part. "

they just seem to suck up all the wetness no matter how much of it there was to start with.

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By *ornyhun69Woman
over a year ago

Wales

100% prefer without... the feeling is so much better. And the little twitches and warm feeling when they cum

wouldn't sleep with anyone unless in a relationship without tho. Better safe than sorry

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

"Same here. Condoms do spoil sex considerably for me, always prefer without. Him also cumming inside gives a feeling of satisfaction that can't be matched by anything else xx"

Absolutely agree....that feeling of being filled when a guy cums....soooooooo good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly for me i actually don't mind condoms 1 bit. Zero clean up after, it feels different but not in a bad way at all, gives piece of mind, not forcing anyone to turn into a nutter on the pill. The only down fall is putting it on, stopping foreplay to unwrap and slide one on can sometimes be a little awkward.

I think men should stop worrying so much about condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they put about 10 condoms on I can't feel the difference, it doesn't touch the sides.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. "

I need lube anyway nowadays but later condoms used to cause soreness. Skyns are pretty good but there's still that difference in sensation for me. But we all feel things differently

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.

I need lube anyway nowadays but later condoms used to cause soreness. Skyns are pretty good but there's still that difference in sensation for me. But we all feel things differently

*latex

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It depends on the type of condom, but there's not much difference in feel with any. As mentioned above, some can cause dryness. And I don't particularly like the smell of them. But they're a necessity unless I'm with a regular partner and we both have regular tests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without feels better x a lot of it is in the head I think

Tho I’ve noticed with condoms I tend to feel a slight burning feel maybe due to latex and I get sore a bit easier x

Ideally without is the best but yeah, I still mostly do safe unless it’s a regular guy I trust x

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