FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging?

By *hesecretlover OP Man
over a year ago

Leigh

Just wondering, when and how a couple becomes open to swinging.

Did both of you decide? Did one of you need convincing?

How was your first experience?

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

Mr was a "swingle" because having a threesome and exploring your bi side sounded like a fun way to pass the time.

Mentioned this to the Mrs when we first started dating. She found it interesting that I found it interesting. Few months later she thought it sounded like something that would be fun to try. Carried on from there really.

I would say Mrs now probably more 'into' it than Mr... But I think that has more to do with women being naturally more sociable, her being very interested in exploring her bi side... And of course her looking hotter than me

The key part in all of those steps was being honest with yourself about your own feelings, interests and desires. Being honest with each other about them. And both of you having a decisive enough personality to turn thoughts into reality.

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By *hesecretlover OP Man
over a year ago

Leigh

My wife has a bi side but she's not really eager to explore.

I would never get bored of her exploring that.

Life's short and it's a pity not to explore its pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago while using porno nags in foreplay I noticed my girlfriend getting turned on by FMM threesomes. She eventually admited she wanted to try two cocks but had been afraid to mention it to previous boyfriends in case they were angry about it. Well it let to us putting adverts in contact mags as the internet was not as advanced then and we did after many months meet some guys and had some threesome with her being the centre of attention. I enjoyed watching her suck off other guys to completion and swallow their spunk and being fucked while she sucked me off. Unfortunately the long drawn out process involved with meeting people via contact mags got very tedious and we stopped. If we had had the Internet at the time and sites like this no doubt we would have carried on.

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"My wife has a bi side but she's not really eager to explore.

I would never get bored of her exploring that.

Life's short and it's a pity not to explore its pleasures.

Yes life is too short not to try as many things as possible!

To be honest I find watching two women getting it on a bit dull after about 5 minutes! doesn't matter if it's porn or real life. Although I will happily spend hours talking about how the Mrs feels or how her interests are developing or which women she fancies and why. Its much more fun watching someone grow as a person and experience new things.

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By *hesecretlover OP Man
over a year ago

Leigh

Of course, when you see something often enough it loses it's shine. But indeed the internal process is so much more.

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By *hesecretlover OP Man
over a year ago

Leigh

Where I come from people are still a bit conservative about sexuality, which makes it difficult to open up.

This puts me in a difficult position as I'm quite open minded and support everyone's opinions. It is why the wife doesn't try. Something inside tells her it's wrong, sadly.

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

The Mrs got over it feeling wrong when she decided she liked touching women and being touched by them!! Although I think she enjoys knowing it's wrong

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