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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed an increase of messages of this nature to get a response, those and a stream of words that make no sense.

I just block

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ffs

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Aw, what a shame I don't have Kik

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My filters are still set to fuck off, so I'm missing out on all this fuckery

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm not gonna lie, I got freaked out by it thinking someone was targeting me for some kind of revenge or something.

Creeped me out and concerned me.

I don't want anyone getting upset or concerned by it, so putting the shout out just not to respond and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammit I wish I had kik to try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this twice now too, but a month ago as my filters are on atm x

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Dammit I wish I had kik to try that "

I don't use it, so of course I was all "eh? Wtf is going on?"

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm gutted. No one has tried it on me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Don't have Kik

Only people we know/trust/have met have our WhatsApp

So, good luck fuckwits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed a trend towards this a while back with my own inbox so I have now blocked single male accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dammit I wish I had kik to try that

I don't use it, so of course I was all "eh? Wtf is going on?" "

I must try harder

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ve recently had quite a few random kik messages - I just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a similar message today, saying hello stranger, I came and watched through your window, do you remember me.. I was like wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I’ve recently had quite a few random kik messages - I just block "

I don't use kik prickles

That's why it got me on edge, saying they'd spoken to me on kik and thanked me for giving them my fab profile name.

Would be like if someone said they'd seen me on a dating site or something, I'd be thinking someone had stolen my pics etc and got in a panic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the heads up, I've blocked single males so they're gonna struggle with doing that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked over 500 for many a reason.

Lots of.... verbal abuse if dont agree with the reply of no

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked "

They'll say it just to get talking initially. When you suss them out they've already opened convo and now they get through filters unless you block them.

Try to palm it off with "oh my mistake, I'm sorry, anyway what you up to?"

Or something like that

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

It's not a new low, it's a long established one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

Yep I have had this a couple of times nows

Had some say 'oh we spoke at so and so club' to. Then giving a name of a club I have never been to in my life

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

It's not a new low, it's a long established one "

I'd not had that one before. Plenty of others but not one that made me think I was on the end of some revenge malarkey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked "

I think they believe that they will get some kind of response and then maybe say something along the line says it was a mistake and see if that then leads to a conversation.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Thanks for the info OP. I have had a couple of weirdo’s on kik but I block them

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I've had this a few times this week (hence hiding my profile for a bit).

It's usually 'Hey Jess (or any other random name), didn't know you were on here.. Recognised you straight away hun!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit Rumbled Need to rethink my tactics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats sooo odd !! well its a shame that strange men have ruined for others

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I've had this a few times this week (hence hiding my profile for a bit).

It's usually 'Hey Jess (or any other random name), didn't know you were on here.. Recognised you straight away hun!'

"

I've one that's convinced I'm called Sam. Hi Sam....

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked

I think they believe that they will get some kind of response and then maybe say something along the line says it was a mistake and see if that then leads to a conversation."

Thats EXACTLY what it is.

Creepy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had a load of "Hi remember me/hello again" messages in the last few months.

Now I know I'm going a bit senile so initially I was thinking wtf?

But the penny finally dropped due to the sheer number with similar messages, as I just don't chat to randoms and never have. Now realise it's a ruse to try to get me talking/responding.

Feck off fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs what lengths to go to and for what purpose, are they that stupid they think it would work.

I stopped my Kik over a year ago for similar reasons.. .

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well "

Better than creeping people out and pretending or then trying to become a hero!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

"

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

You know what I had one of these a couple of weeks ago, was adamant we'd spoken before and had arranged to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well "
i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this a few times this week (hence hiding my profile for a bit).

It's usually 'Hey Jess (or any other random name), didn't know you were on here.. Recognised you straight away hun!'

I've one that's convinced I'm called Sam. Hi Sam....

"

Well he turned out to be a muppet, your name is clearly peach! You have a royal title however so I hope he addresses you as _rincess peach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny anuff you should say this I had something similar about 3/4 weeks ago

The message went hello not shour if you remember me

We meet dodging a couple off years ago at xxx spot

Witch straight away new was a lie as I have never been dodging before in my life

One I don’t drive any two I never found someone I trust to take me and not leave me there or something

Never thought anything more to it till up I read ur post x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's a lot of bizarre tricks to get people to reply.

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"There's a lot of bizarre tricks to get people to reply. "

Going in on a lie that's specifically meant to confuse you or frighten you is grim as fuck tho. There's bizarre and there's down right twisted

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's a lot of bizarre tricks to get people to reply.

Going in on a lie that's specifically meant to confuse you or frighten you is grim as fuck tho. There's bizarre and there's down right twisted "

Oh it's all manipulative. Ugh

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion "

Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion

Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point "

Ooh red flag

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had a few of those.

I'm now going to say no, you must have been really boring. Then block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion

Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point

Ooh red flag"

I will have you know this is a very important question no point in asking you :

“Why is it a toothbrush and not teethbrush?”

“Why does Fred Flinstone drive with his feet, surely its easier to walk than carry a half ton car, barney,wilma,kids and dino?”

“Why does Drake want kiki to love him when he only loves his bed and his mom, he”s sorry!?”

But to get to these questions I have to know if I can ask you them!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion

Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point

Ooh red flag

I will have you know this is a very important question no point in asking you :

“Why is it a toothbrush and not teethbrush?”

“Why does Fred Flinstone drive with his feet, surely its easier to walk than carry a half ton car, barney,wilma,kids and dino?”

“Why does Drake want kiki to love him when he only loves his bed and his mom, he”s sorry!?”

But to get to these questions I have to know if I can ask you them!

"

We know perfectly well that the question that follows "do you mind if I ask you a question" will probably require copious amounts of brain bleach and a trip to Lourdes to exorcise

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion

Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point

Ooh red flag

I will have you know this is a very important question no point in asking you :

“Why is it a toothbrush and not teethbrush?”

“Why does Fred Flinstone drive with his feet, surely its easier to walk than carry a half ton car, barney,wilma,kids and dino?”

“Why does Drake want kiki to love him when he only loves his bed and his mom, he”s sorry!?”

But to get to these questions I have to know if I can ask you them!

We know perfectly well that the question that follows "do you mind if I ask you a question" will probably require copious amounts of brain bleach and a trip to Lourdes to exorcise "

Yes.

"The fact that I asked you a question so diabolical that it makes you puke is entirely mitigated by the fact that I sought your permission. I have manners, ungrateful woman"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge."

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't know if the creeps are really oblivious to how awful it is, or if they get off on it.

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour "

Come meet me and you'll find out....

Erm , no creepoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh gremlins

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

Come meet me and you'll find out....

Erm , no creepoid! "

I ask them questions about me.

So far, it's never actually been me and they're so sorry for trying to trick me. Block

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

only met 2 guys in 4 yrs, but i admit, low behaviour. The next will be lying about vaccine status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had these ones yet but had an influx of very descriptive messages of what they "are going to do to me" or being told that I WILL screw them, I just don't know it yet

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

"

I had this one, only the time he claimed it happened I was in Hong Kong.

Block

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've not had these ones yet but had an influx of very descriptive messages of what they "are going to do to me" or being told that I WILL screw them, I just don't know it yet "

Oh hate. "When we're alone..." I look to see how long the message is, see it's a wall o' text, and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird.

I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Weird.

I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark "

Has anyone told LVM of your black cock only preference?!

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

I get cut n paste messages repeated from a few guys.

How daft do they think we are.

And block button is in overdrive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weird.

I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark

Has anyone told LVM of your black cock only preference?! "

Have you not seen his massive black cock yet? I will ask him to pm you it if you want

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Weird.

I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark

Has anyone told LVM of your black cock only preference?!

Have you not seen his massive black cock yet? I will ask him to pm you it if you want "

Actually I had seen it, but having it up close and personal in my inbox would be splendid

You're a lucky woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

Come meet me and you'll find out....

Erm , no creepoid! "

"Creepoid" lol. I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On behalf of the decent single guys on here, I apologise for the fuckwits that give us a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I had this one, only the time he claimed it happened I was in Hong Kong.

Block "

Oooh,I wonder if it's the same one. It's such an odd approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

Come meet me and you'll find out....

Erm , no creepoid!

I ask them questions about me.

So far, it's never actually been me and they're so sorry for trying to trick me. Block

"

I also get "Long time, no speak" or "we spoke ages ago". From faceless guys I've absolutely never spoken to. Even verifications off people I've never met, in the hope I'll return the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

Come meet me and you'll find out....

Erm , no creepoid!

I ask them questions about me.

So far, it's never actually been me and they're so sorry for trying to trick me. Block

I also get "Long time, no speak" or "we spoke ages ago". From faceless guys I've absolutely never spoken to. Even verifications off people I've never met, in the hope I'll return the favour "

I messaged you once before after seeing you on the hot pics....think I got an instant delete! .

You're still on my hotlist though.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

Have/had a stalker (been quiet for a while tf & one good thing bout covid for me)

Remember me usually gets a instant delete unless I genuinely remember them...I do have quite a shitty memory with both names & faces though. !-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion "

I always ignore random questions

I’ve also turned off single men messaging, but thanks for the heads up.

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By *oanonmyboneMan
over a year ago

maybe close


"On behalf of the decent single guys on here, I apologise for the fuckwits that give us a bad name "

Agree, no wonder when us genuine guys see something that takes our fancy only to click on the message button to reveal the filters active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weird.

I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark "

I'd like a dildo like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

I have a friend on here, this very stunt happened to her.

Sad at how low people will go. But fir what? They will only get found out.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

This happened to a friend of mine on here.

Sad and disturbing how low people will go on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had another saying I've the same user name as someone's he's met.. yeah ok.. block!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Another reason not to be on kik.

Deceitfulness doesn't bode well for a good meet does it?!

Such underhanded tactics will result in a block from us. It's no better than a phishing email - maybe these people should be reported?

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weird.

I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark

I'd like a dildo like that."

It's from Lovehoney. I am sure they have different colours and lengths too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had people doing that for ages xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've had a similar message today, saying hello stranger, I came and watched through your window, do you remember me.. I was like wtf"

Would “Hello stranger, I watched and came through your window, do you remember me?” have been better? Asking for a friend......

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It's not new, that particular sort of gaslighting has been used by some men for generations. It's slightly safer for women when they do it online but face to face it's incredibly scary.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ooh they’re absolute tinkers!

It’s laughable when have the gall to complain we don’t reply.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour "

This is to be expected when you put your face on public display on your profile, surely? Tattoos make you recognisable too. I’m not excusing this shitty behaviour, and I’ve had my share of it, including someone using my Fab profile pics to create a profile in kik.......

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

From the thread title I thought it was a new kinky game, put yr head up a lady ... pfffff one extra large fanny and a divers air bottle, one thinks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ooh they’re absolute tinkers!

It’s laughable when have the gall to complain we don’t reply. "

Yes, the follow up message of us being rude

Oh baby oh baby I adore manipulation, take me you gorgeous hunk of man meat

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I've had men from here find me on kik as they know I have men blocked and then try to say we've met in the past.

Like fuck have we, I've never met men ever.

They soon shit themselves though when you let them know there are back access ways via kik of getting into their phone an having complete access to all their apps and data and that you will be coming to find them in person at their front door and that they won't have a clue who I am as a guy when I knock.

Why they do it I dont know, imbeciles.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've had men from here find me on kik as they know I have men blocked and then try to say we've met in the past.

Like fuck have we, I've never met men ever.

They soon shit themselves though when you let them know there are back access ways via kik of getting into their phone an having complete access to all their apps and data and that you will be coming to find them in person at their front door and that they won't have a clue who I am as a guy when I knock.

Why they do it I dont know, imbeciles."

I deleted and restarted my Kik to stop that happening, because don't message me means don't message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked over 500 for many a reason.

Lots of.... verbal abuse if dont agree with the reply of no"

Yeah it's funny how in their 1st message you are a babe, then when you say no, you suddenly are a cow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just pretending to be no longer interested so women will see me as a challenge and want to seduce me....I should be knee deep post lockdown..

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Is there only me that sees these creepy creeps as good sport? I play along for a couple of messages...then hit them with double-barrelled scathing sarcasm. They tend to take their ball home after that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's not new, that particular sort of gaslighting has been used by some men for generations. It's slightly safer for women when they do it online but face to face it's incredibly scary."

Agreed. Same shit, different technology. At least online they're not an immediate threat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message saying Hay kirsty I still love watching that video of you in the toilet and was soooo freaked out.... Like wtf is kirsty? Why are you videoing her on the toilet, does she know you did? Major creeps but then I just decided it was a random stot in the dark message to try get a response.... Quite sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

I had this at weekend and thought someone was out to get me ha deleted in the end

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I had a message saying Hay kirsty I still love watching that video of you in the toilet and was soooo freaked out.... Like wtf is kirsty? Why are you videoing her on the toilet, does she know you did? Major creeps but then I just decided it was a random stot in the dark message to try get a response.... Quite sad really"

When I had my initial as my Fab name, people would guess my name. Never got it right

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It's not new, that particular sort of gaslighting has been used by some men for generations. It's slightly safer for women when they do it online but face to face it's incredibly scary."

It IS a form of gaslighting yes!

It's not big, it's not clever, it's NOT "an ice breaker to get talking"

It's lies and trickery and fraudulent.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

Well, that's a new one.

Will be interested to see if I get anything similar.

I don't have kik and only use WhatsApp with 2 people I know personally.

Not to mention the fact that I don't meet single men.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Is there only me that sees these creepy creeps as good sport? I play along for a couple of messages...then hit them with double-barrelled scathing sarcasm. They tend to take their ball home after that "

If I get one of these messages... I suspect I might be tempted to have a bit of sport with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had quite a few guys say I look intriguing, hoping I'll probably as why...

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

Well, that's a new one.

Will be interested to see if I get anything similar.

I don't have kik and only use WhatsApp with 2 people I know personally.

Not to mention the fact that I don't meet single men. "

I think I'd have been less "oh shit" if I did use kik, it was that I don't use it that got me flapping to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

This is to be expected when you put your face on public display on your profile, surely? Tattoos make you recognisable too. I’m not excusing this shitty behaviour, and I’ve had my share of it, including someone using my Fab profile pics to create a profile in kik....... "

Well of course I'd be recognised with my face on here. And distinctive tattoos.

Still doesn't make such messages any less creepy. Ladies without their face pics on here seem to get odd messages too.

Regardless, face on show or not, it's out of order. Expected? Yeah of course. People are brave behind a screen/keyboard

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've had a few of these.

One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)

Creepy as fuck

I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.

I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour

This is to be expected when you put your face on public display on your profile, surely? Tattoos make you recognisable too. I’m not excusing this shitty behaviour, and I’ve had my share of it, including someone using my Fab profile pics to create a profile in kik.......

Well of course I'd be recognised with my face on here. And distinctive tattoos.

Still doesn't make such messages any less creepy. Ladies without their face pics on here seem to get odd messages too.

Regardless, face on show or not, it's out of order. Expected? Yeah of course. People are brave behind a screen/keyboard "

It's completely out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on KIK, you can do random conversations with people.

My (female) friend was telling me what crap she gets off guys so I went on there and identified as female. I said I wanted to speak to a certain location and age range, and wasn't up for sex chat right away.

Fifteen chats, maybe fiver were bots, and only one was a nice lad who accepted he wasn't what I was looking for and said to have a nice day.

The rest were dreadful, abusive and generally nasty.

No wonder these guys can't get anyone to chat to online. Made me feel ill.

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"on KIK, you can do random conversations with people.

My (female) friend was telling me what crap she gets off guys so I went on there and identified as female. I said I wanted to speak to a certain location and age range, and wasn't up for sex chat right away.

Fifteen chats, maybe fiver were bots, and only one was a nice lad who accepted he wasn't what I was looking for and said to have a nice day.

The rest were dreadful, abusive and generally nasty.

No wonder these guys can't get anyone to chat to online. Made me feel ill."

Imagine how freaky it would feel having someone telling you it was great talking to you last night on there and thanking you for giving them your fab profile name when you know full well it hasn't happened.

It makes you think someone has been pretending to be you and directing random people to your fab profile. It makes you wonder what has been said. It makes you wonder if you've knocked someone back and they're now on a revenge mission.

Initially it's quite frightening coz you don't know who or why, you wonder if it's someone who may have info about you and possibly give other details out.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

If I don’t see a pic attached I don’t even open a message if it’s a dick pic delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I delete and come back to fab quite a bit. I do message people saying remember me but always upload a face pic. They ofc always do because I’m being honest.

I can imagine guys do it for that purpose though. Some gusy really act as if there is some secret method as if once you have a reply the fuck is imminent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.

I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does kik have a report facility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

I’ve been getting these for years, although it seems to be on the increase recently.

Do guys compare notes on what breaks the ice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does kik have a report facility? "

It does, yeah.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

People are starting to get creative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.

I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women. "

This is so freaky! Kik really attracts all sorts because you don’t need a mobile number to join. The perfect app for fake accounts.

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By *irty-DianaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

"

I had this the other day... thought it was odd... told them they had the wrong person and blocked them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a timely reminder that it's prudent to keep a tight rein on the breadth and nature of any online interaction we have with others

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.

I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women. "

That's the whole twisted point, to get attention and communication going. They don't realise the upset it can cause. That you do involve friends trying to find out what the hell is going on. It causes a whole shitstorm ... just to get some fucking attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.

I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women.

That's the whole twisted point, to get attention and communication going. They don't realise the upset it can cause. That you do involve friends trying to find out what the hell is going on. It causes a whole shitstorm ... just to get some fucking attention "

Exactly! I was going nuts and then panicking thinking my pics had been plastered all over the place, my friends were using their time to help find out what was going on and trying to calm me down in the process. The whole thing was sick. I managed to find a couple of the other ladies they had done it too through statuses etc and give them details of who was doing it. People are fucked up.

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By *rincess peach OP   Woman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.

I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.

The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.

It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.

I had this the other day... thought it was odd... told them they had the wrong person and blocked them..."

And if you'd not blocked them, that was it, communication line open.

The one that I responded to and I was all "right give me details coz it's bullshit and I'm clearly the target of some revenge or something, heads are gonna roll when I get to the bottom of it" (as I do) well the dude wasn't expecting that and then told me the kik person then gave them a different fab name, then when HE told the kik profile he was gonna call the police they deleted. He wouldn't give me the (imaginary) profile name, which.... you would if that shit really happened to begin with.

Trying to be my saviour when all along they're the creep.

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