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Help :how do I make my profile better.

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I need help from u lovely lot I want advice on how I can make my profile look better.any advice would be appreciated.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Get rid of some/all the cock pics...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Get rid of some/all the cock pics..."

Agreed! Op surely there's more to you then simply a penis? Surely you have slightly more imagination?

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I've removed half of the photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t have a cock photo as your profile pic

Set the cock photos to friends only or just have one on your profile

If you’re comfortable having face pics up then have a few selfies or mirror shots on.

In your bio talk a bit more about you, what your interests are etc

That’d be my advice but everyone has their own way on fab

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I've updated my profile is that better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe smile in the avatar?

I personally don’t like any dick pics, but some do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need help from u lovely lot I want advice on how I can make my profile look better.any advice would be appreciated."

I don't think the first two sentences are necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've updated my profile is that better"

You can't please everyone. I tried it once and my willy started to erode from all of the friction. Luckily Shag Tonight let me have some of his protein shake and and my shaft grew back on Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you Chris Moyles?

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you Chris Moyles?"

No, I'm Gary Davies.

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By *amillMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Maybe one piece of advice from me would be change the username, I’m not sure how many people would find someone referring to themselves as lonely that appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think just adding a variety of photos smile, just be you & have fun, try some of the photo challenges that are often on the forum get creative and it will come to you - you’ll find what works hopefully good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean this in no way as an insult or to make you feel bad just as advice from how I perceived your profile when I viewd it... To me it came across as being a little bit depressed seeming, the username combined with the photo where you look less than thrilled to be here all just seems very serious and negative as opposed to like being open and fun and friendly ... Does that make sence?

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"I mean this in no way as an insult or to make you feel bad just as advice from how I perceived your profile when I viewd it... To me it came across as being a little bit depressed seeming, the username combined with the photo where you look less than thrilled to be here all just seems very serious and negative as opposed to like being open and fun and friendly ... Does that make sence? "
I will try and make these changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your profile reflects your personality and what you have to offer and what you are looking for then job done op and best of luck.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I am no fab expert (if that's a thing).

But have confidence in yourself.

Change your username to something either related to you or something fun and playful (but not bigcock4u96)

Add a bit of your personality into your bio. Something that is different to every other guy.

Just try not to take this place too seriously. We're all here for a bit of escape even more so at the minute so just try and have a bit of a laugh.

Man maybe i should take my own advise. Lol.

Good luck dude. You got this.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Honest opinion OP - do away with the cock pic - it really does you no favours, not so much *because* it's a cock pic, but because it's an unimaginative cock pic - there are countless cock pics like it on here, all of which could belong to anyone.

Take some pics that show you off - think suits, unbuttoned jeans, cheeky bum shots, and more - play around with the timer and the basic editing functions on your phone camera and get creative - look at other verified guys profiles for ideas if you're stuck for them.

As for your profile text, take a look at it and ask yourself if it sells you well. Does it tell the reader all they need to know about you and what you are looking for, and just as importantly what you think you have to offer a prospective meet? Does it entice people in and make them want to find out more?

Does it make you stand out from the crowd?

Being brutally honest, currently it doesn't - it reads more like a dating ad than one for this site - nothing wrong with looking for dating through here if that's what you want but even then you need to make that clear and give it a bit more oomph because again being blunt (and apologising if you take it so) it's a little bland.

Don't forget that a lot of people aren't currently looking to meet and even when they are you're a very small fish in a very big and over filled pond as a single guy on here, so you need to do all you can to make yourself attractive to others.

Good luck

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