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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Good morning you beautiful deviants. Can I ask, do you prefer a polite intro with face pic? Or a more direct cock shot and a crude intro? I've always leaned towards the polite choice, but most, if any don't answer? Many thanks to all who respond

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Read the profile and respect wishes. That's your best bet.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Crude *may* get a reply, but believe me it ain't the reply they want.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Crude *may* get a reply, but believe me it ain't the reply they want.

"

Quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found a lot of women respond well to “fuck now”. That kind of forwardness and brazenness seems to be an alpha male move. Attracts everyone

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Amen to that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!"

Because some of us are cock hungry sluts who want to see what's going to be fucking us

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seventeen dick pics and a boing

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!"

Because none of us horny women (we MUST be horny if we're online right?) can resist the man meat. We need it, we want it and it's all that matters in our lives. We don't see a penis. We see excalibur dripping with diamonds, on a bed of Ferrero rocher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found a lot of women respond well to “fuck now”. That kind of forwardness and brazenness seems to be an alpha male move. Attracts everyone "

Along with

Wuu2?

How are you?

I wanna fuk u

Show uz minge

Trust me... plenty of gents still actively awaiting replies to these - got to have faith!

To be less sarcastic, I actually go the polite route attach a face pic and try to find something common such as a forum post or something on their profile, if they don’t reply then simply move on and not message them again.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!

Because none of us horny women (we MUST be horny if we're online right?) can resist the man meat. We need it, we want it and it's all that matters in our lives. We don't see a penis. We see excalibur dripping with diamonds, on a bed of Ferrero rocher."

Please don't mention Ferrero Rocher. That just gets me I instantly hard! Can I show you? pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!

Because none of us horny women (we MUST be horny if we're online right?) can resist the man meat. We need it, we want it and it's all that matters in our lives. We don't see a penis. We see excalibur dripping with diamonds, on a bed of Ferrero rocher."

Literally lol’d!!!!

everyone loves a willy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!

Because none of us horny women (we MUST be horny if we're online right?) can resist the man meat. We need it, we want it and it's all that matters in our lives. We don't see a penis. We see excalibur dripping with diamonds, on a bed of Ferrero rocher."

Aha, I see you've gazed upon my penis before

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Personally, the content of the message is low on the my list of priorities when I look at my inbox.

First and foremost I'll look at profile picture...if that doesn't interest me then that's as far as my interest in that message goes.

If the profile picture shows a possible attraction, then I'll open the profile and look at the rest of the pictures...if no attraction from those, or if they have action shots, then the message goes in the delete pile.

If I like the pictures, I'll then read the profile...ONLY if there is nothing in there that puts me off will I actually read the message...and if it's crude or cringe then it's likely being deleted anyway.

Honestly, I don't reply to many messages...I prefer to search and contact people I'm interested in myself.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it? "

I know a lot of people (men) don't believe us when we say it, but a lot of us womenfolk really don't enjoy repeating ourselves.

Fine

Fine

Nothing

That's literally the responses I'd give to those questions. Wank or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!

Because some of us are cock hungry sluts who want to see what's going to be fucking us "

Its horses fot courses I guess but a little respect from some guy would be appreciated no?

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By *nna WulfWoman
over a year ago

Wandsworth

A 'one size fits all' approach is the wrong approach.

Women are not a monolith (men definitely are though.. one massive erect penis -shaped monolith)

Read the profile - if they say.. not send me a dick pic - don't send it

if they say - send me a dick pic.. send it

if they say 'no small talk' don't do it

if they say.. come say hi - say it

just read the profile and do what you're told

like a good boy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I still don't understand why any guy in their right mind would send a message with a cock pic. At least in his first message but I guess you get dicks in every walk of life!

Because none of us horny women (we MUST be horny if we're online right?) can resist the man meat. We need it, we want it and it's all that matters in our lives. We don't see a penis. We see excalibur dripping with diamonds, on a bed of Ferrero rocher."

It's a sex site, sex is just about penis. Here woman a penis, you cannot resist.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it?

I know a lot of people (men) don't believe us when we say it, but a lot of us womenfolk really don't enjoy repeating ourselves.

Fine

Fine

Nothing

That's literally the responses I'd give to those questions. Wank or what? "

I get that those questions are about as exciting a cold sick but I’m more asking for what would be better?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it? "

I mean I don't mind the question, but not just by itself. Give me a reason to be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it? "

That may be true in real life but on Fab where women receive so many messages you’ll need something more original to catch the eye, and even then sheer numbers mean many messages go unread or unnoticed. Harsh but true.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Something witty makes me smile.x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it? "

I think those profiles that say don't ask "how are you?" etc are referring to messages that say just that and nothing else rather than a longer message that may include that within it.

The answer to the overall question though, is there isn't one - there is no magic formula that will appeal to all, it's often not even about the message content at all, but profile, pics, forum interaction and ultimately attraction, all of these will have a bearing on whether someone replies to a message or not.

So for someone who is primarily the sender of messages rather than the recipient it's about finding what works for you and accepting that it may not always generate a reply.

Another thing a lot of guys fall into here is thinking that the *only* way to approach the site is blindly sending messages to random profiles in the hope of a response - there are several other ways that are possibly more likely to work, the forums is one, the chat rooms another, outside of the current situation group socials and clubs are others.

It really is about finding what approach works best for you, setting expectations and attitude correctly and selling yourself well through your profile and pics and not necessarily about the content of messages.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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The best thing to do Op? Be yourself.

Don't try and mould yourself into fitting ideals touted on a fora - the vast majority of women on here don't visit here and if you've tried to change who you are to meet this Adonis-for-the-fora archetype, you'll get caught out at some point and woe betide a man who isn't who he says he is on here.

Read the profile, if it matches the natural you? Go for it. And have fun! Fab is meant to be fun, not a scatter gun of desperation.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"A 'one size fits all' approach is the wrong approach.

Women are not a monolith (men definitely are though.. one massive erect penis -shaped monolith)

Read the profile - if they say.. not send me a dick pic - don't send it

if they say - send me a dick pic.. send it

if they say 'no small talk' don't do it

if they say.. come say hi - say it

just read the profile and do what you're told

like a good boy"

Fair enough! Fab profile by the way

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it?

I think those profiles that say don't ask "how are you?" etc are referring to messages that say just that and nothing else rather than a longer message that may include that within it.

The answer to the overall question though, is there isn't one - there is no magic formula that will appeal to all, it's often not even about the message content at all, but profile, pics, forum interaction and ultimately attraction, all of these will have a bearing on whether someone replies to a message or not.

So for someone who is primarily the sender of messages rather than the recipient it's about finding what works for you and accepting that it may not always generate a reply.

Another thing a lot of guys fall into here is thinking that the *only* way to approach the site is blindly sending messages to random profiles in the hope of a response - there are several other ways that are possibly more likely to work, the forums is one, the chat rooms another, outside of the current situation group socials and clubs are others.

It really is about finding what approach works best for you, setting expectations and attitude correctly and selling yourself well through your profile and pics and not necessarily about the content of messages."

Solid advice thank you! It’s what I am trying to do o was more seeing if I was doing something majorly wrong or just I’m an ugly mug lol

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

That's the tact I went for lol but still nothing. I had a week off fab, went back on, I had 1 view on my profile lmfao x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?

These are surely polite questions or conversation starters to ask as a first message. Not just on its own but with some more body to it?

I know a lot of people (men) don't believe us when we say it, but a lot of us womenfolk really don't enjoy repeating ourselves.

Fine

Fine

Nothing

That's literally the responses I'd give to those questions. Wank or what?

I get that those questions are about as exciting a cold sick but I’m more asking for what would be better?

"

What would you like to be asked?

I mean, as questions especially given the current shitstorm that's happening across the world they're awful.

I'm not gonna lie I had one land in my inbox not long ago asking what I'd been up to.

My first thought? None of your fucking business ya nosey cunt

I appreciate I'm extra spikey due to the arrival of auntie flow this morning.

But that's also part of the point aint it, you'll never know if someone's having a great day or a day from hell that they're trying to escape from, so a lot of it is timing and luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

The general rule is:

Some like dick pics, some don't.

But make a judgement on the profile.

If it's a woman who's flashing her pussy in most pics or has a profile pic of her pussy, go for it.

If the pictures are more teasing and not as crude, then don't.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Good shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like my profile to been read & respected and absolutely no dick pictures ... simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good shout "

And if they have pussy pics, but complain about receiving a dick pic, you get to call them a self righteous hypocrite and block them

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’m curious on this as well as many say no dick pics which is completely understandable nor would I ever deem that an appropriate intro!

But equally I see many that say, don’t ask how are you? Or how was your day? Or what have you been up to?"

Which probably demonstrates one size doesn't fit all (pardon the pun)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

The general rule is:

Some like dick pics, some don't.

But make a judgement on the profile.

If it's a woman who's flashing her pussy in most pics or has a profile pic of her pussy, go for it.

If the pictures are more teasing and not as crude, then don't.

"

I think you just made that rule up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

The general rule is:

Some like dick pics, some don't.

But make a judgement on the profile.

If it's a woman who's flashing her pussy in most pics or has a profile pic of her pussy, go for it.

If the pictures are more teasing and not as crude, then don't.

I think you just made that rule up"

That's nice.

I'm wondering, do you deliberately follow me about the forum trying to wind me up, or have you been sent by "others" to do their bidding?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"That's the tact I went for lol but still nothing. I had a week off fab, went back on, I had 1 view on my profile lmfao x "

Don't pay any heed to profile views - most women and couples look in stealth mode so you'd never know if they had looked - and on top of that, someone "looking" doesn't mean a thing unless they follow it up with a message or a wink or similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

The general rule is:

Some like dick pics, some don't.

But make a judgement on the profile.

If it's a woman who's flashing her pussy in most pics or has a profile pic of her pussy, go for it.

If the pictures are more teasing and not as crude, then don't.

I think you just made that rule up

That's nice.

I'm wondering, do you deliberately follow me about the forum trying to wind me up, or have you been sent by "others" to do their bidding?"

You wonder some strange things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

The general rule is:

Some like dick pics, some don't.

But make a judgement on the profile.

If it's a woman who's flashing her pussy in most pics or has a profile pic of her pussy, go for it.

If the pictures are more teasing and not as crude, then don't.

I think you just made that rule up

That's nice.

I'm wondering, do you deliberately follow me about the forum trying to wind me up, or have you been sent by "others" to do their bidding?

You wonder some strange things "

Perhaps.

Perhaps not.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Deffo polite with face pic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the tact I went for lol but still nothing. I had a week off fab, went back on, I had 1 view on my profile lmfao x

Don't pay any heed to profile views - most women and couples look in stealth mode so you'd never know if they had looked - and on top of that, someone "looking" doesn't mean a thing unless they follow it up with a message or a wink or similar "

So you’re saying I’ve had dozens of stealth views and none of them liked what they saw

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"That's the tact I went for lol but still nothing. I had a week off fab, went back on, I had 1 view on my profile lmfao x

Don't pay any heed to profile views - most women and couples look in stealth mode so you'd never know if they had looked - and on top of that, someone "looking" doesn't mean a thing unless they follow it up with a message or a wink or similar

So you’re saying I’ve had dozens of stealth views and none of them liked what they saw "

Potentially you did yes, the point is someone "looking" means not the slightest thing

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Tempted to delete my pics and start again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tempted to delete my pics and start again lol "

Op. Use reply and quote so we know who you’re talking to.

I think your pics are nice. You’re smiling and you look friendly.

When I get a message I look at the pictures first, then read the bio if I like the pics, and then the message.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Ty very much btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tempted to delete my pics and start again lol "

Mate your pics are fine! Just checked them out but not in a gay way lol. Just need to know what completion I'm up against.

I think I know where your 3 stone went!!! Great effort though. You can have it back if you want.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Tempted to delete my pics and start again lol "

Why?

Your profile as it is right now could be absolutely perfect for someone who is perfect for you.

My ex was one of those poeple who would try to attract everyone. He would want to put stuff in our profile that appealed to all. I'd say things and he was all "you can't say that you might put them off"

Putting people off was fine by me as long as I was being truthful. If they were gonna meet me they were gonna meet me, not a watered down version of me where I had to pretend to be someone I wasn't. Fuck that shit.

Just be you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The only criticism I have on your profile text is that she must be fit as fuck. That can be taken 2 ways, fit as in can go all night fit, or fit as in attractive fit?

Don't forget an awful lot of women don't look in the mirror and think "phwoooar, fit as fuck me" they look in the mirror and see an extra wrinkle, more greys, extra weight perhaps. Attractive is subjective, and I'd never class myself as fit as fuck. Some people will think I am, others will think I'm a minger. It ain't for me to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only criticism I have on your profile text is that she must be fit as fuck. That can be taken 2 ways, fit as in can go all night fit, or fit as in attractive fit?

Don't forget an awful lot of women don't look in the mirror and think "phwoooar, fit as fuck me" they look in the mirror and see an extra wrinkle, more greys, extra weight perhaps. Attractive is subjective, and I'd never class myself as fit as fuck. Some people will think I am, others will think I'm a minger. It ain't for me to decide."

Oh I missed that, yes, I agree, I would find that off putting.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

OK, I'll rectify that xx

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"OK, I'll rectify that xx "

Some good feedback here pal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning you beautiful deviants. Can I ask, do you prefer a polite intro with face pic? Or a more direct cock shot and a crude intro? I've always leaned towards the polite choice, but most, if any don't answer? Many thanks to all who respond "

Would you approach a lady in public, in the real world, with your cock hanging out? Your answer should help you decide on your approach here.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

OK, changed fit as fuck, to girls who respect themselves... better?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"OK, changed fit as fuck, to girls who respect themselves... better? "

You have not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, I'll rectify that xx "

I think you’ve got to be realistic about the current situation as well. I imagine less people than ever are replying to messages as they can’t go anywhere, or starting to chat then running out of things to say.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"OK, changed fit as fuck, to girls who respect themselves... better? "

What do you mean by that?

Again that is subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont forget to ask to meet now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, changed fit as fuck, to girls who respect themselves... better? "

I think calling women girls is probably not the best, and also, I’m still not sure about that sentence anyway.

Can’t put it in words why...*looks round for someone more eloquent*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, changed fit as fuck, to girls who respect themselves... better?

I think calling women girls is probably not the best, and also, I’m still not sure about that sentence anyway.

Can’t put it in words why...*looks round for someone more eloquent*"
.

Gentleman, who seeks a lady with fine curves and a riveting engine?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"OK, changed fit as fuck, to girls who respect themselves... better?

I think calling women girls is probably not the best, and also, I’m still not sure about that sentence anyway.

Can’t put it in words why...*looks round for someone more eloquent*"

Coz respect means different things to different people.

In my personal opinion, and this is my opinion which will probably get some peoples back up, but like I say, the initial sentence is subjective anyway...

On a site like this, the ones that don't respect themselves are the ones who are looking for validation through sex. The ones who don't really love or even like themselves that much so any attention from others is in their minds good. If it means opening their legs to get that attention then it's better than nothing. Yes they may feel used and shallow afterwards but at the time they felt like they had at least something to offer.....

Coming from someone who opened their legs more often than I should have done when I was young, confused and feeling very unloved and outcast.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Blimey, didn't realise my bio was so deep and the questions it's posed lol x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Blimey, didn't realise my bio was so deep and the questions it's posed lol x "

So what DO you mean by someone who respects themselves?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Write what you think is right in your profile text. You'll attract the kind of people who agree with you.

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By *it-of-Alright OP   Man
over a year ago

South west

Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cool "

Welcome to the world of fab forums, where the same prople debate the same varitey of choices till death will do them part!

As with most things on fab, some will some wont.

Different strokes for different folks - and I guarantee there will be someone on here who enjoys your specific flavour (even if it is having sex on a unicycle whilst eating crumpets coated in baked beans, whilst raining in Tokyo)

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

For us...

- A personal message - not cut'n'paste or at least not obviously so.

- We don't mind the odd spelling mistake, but a whole message that needs to be deciphered to be understood is difficult to read.

- Humour... Flirty/tease is good, crude not so good

- Smiling face pic (non-smiling to us often looks like a spare police profile picture)

- Profile should have some content ('fill out later' just hints at laziness)

- Profile pics should be a mix (not 100s of penis photos). We prefer classy or tease photos over particularly explicit ones. Pay attention to your background - messy bedroom, kids toys or toilet seat up are a bit of a turn off.

- Verified

It sounds like we are really picky, but we get so many messages, we need to triage as best as we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tempted to delete my pics and start again lol "
your pics are fine .. nice mixture , well taken , in answer to your question about people not answering.. we as a couple have had 46 messages today so far .. I’ve answered two ...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Tempted to delete my pics and start again lol your pics are fine .. nice mixture , well taken , in answer to your question about people not answering.. we as a couple have had 46 messages today so far .. I’ve answered two ... "

I've got 291 in my inbox, and probably won't look at any today.

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