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Advise on getting to know a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay then so I am coming to you guys for help.

I have always been interested in joining in with a couple. But I know that's extremely hard being a straight single guy on here.

Do you have any advise for me that could make this less awkward?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Organised socials and clubs.

Sorry, I know it's my usual answer, but that's coz I believe it to be true.

I'll come up with something different eventually!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Organised socials and clubs.

Sorry, I know it's my usual answer, but that's coz I believe it to be true.

I'll come up with something different eventually! "

Ahaha. Well I am still bloody waiting for those.

I was going for more in the meantime. Like not looking to meet. But would like to start to get to know someone.

I'm not the most confident person so would definitely need to get to know them. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When you find a couple to chat to ask what their dynamic is and take your cue from that. For instance any guy who just talks to me (f) is a big no for us. Remember that your boundaries and preferences are as important as theirs. Decent couples will make an effort to put you at ease, we know it's daunting for a single guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you find a couple to chat to ask what their dynamic is and take your cue from that. For instance any guy who just talks to me (f) is a big no for us. Remember that your boundaries and preferences are as important as theirs. Decent couples will make an effort to put you at ease, we know it's daunting for a single guy "

Awwww that is lovely. Thank you so much for that.

I really appreciate it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find a couple to chat to ask what their dynamic is and take your cue from that. For instance any guy who just talks to me (f) is a big no for us. Remember that your boundaries and preferences are as important as theirs.

***Decent couples will make an effort to put you at ease, we know it's daunting for a single guy *** "

*** Very much this.

OP respect and communication should be mutual. Unless the scenario is cuck/ humiliation and intentionally that way.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile text is all about finding a FWB. It doesn't mention wanting to meet a couple. Maybe adding this would help ?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Be prepared to take your time and make friends with couples and see what happens, I like to chat to a couple for at least 6 months before I will commit to playing with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile text is all about finding a FWB. It doesn't mention wanting to meet a couple. Maybe adding this would help ?"

Yes, ofcourse. I will have a little rewrite today. Xx

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