FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist Removal

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are certain things that will make me delete someone from my Hotlist - one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

Do you have any particular reason that will make you remove people from your Hotlist?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Us as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Don't worry, you're not alone - half mine is Notlist as well. It's a good way to track anyone you want to avoid, and anyone they've had contact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

This, plus certain opinions that surface in threads that I can't abide with.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Us as well

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Don't worry, you're not alone - half mine is Notlist as well. It's a good way to track anyone you want to avoid, and anyone they've had contact with.

I use my private note facility a lot on profiles to keep track of what or why I would not meet etc if they mail, or re-mail.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have 50/50 hot and not for the same reasons, admittedly there more hot than not currently. That’s probably due to the Pandemic though as I’m not avoiding anyone currently.

People’s general opinions are my reasons, you can be attractive on the outside but if you’re a bit of a prick on here or out politics are too diverse then I can’t see us getting on in the bedroom or socially so why bother.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

This, plus certain opinions that surface in threads that I can't abide with."

You have site supporter, use the private note facility

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

If I'm not feeling it anymore I will remove

Mainly use it for people I'm open to meeting with

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If he puts his videos of himself getting fucked by a hot man into friends only.

*you know who you are*

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"There are certain things that will make me delete someone from my Hotlist - one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

Do you have any particular reason that will make you remove people from your Hotlist?"

I have a small hot list, which get added and substracted from practically daily .

Statuses are one of the reason , but also my coming to my senses ( too far , different interests, my being rejected, me deciding they're twats, blah blah blah )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

This, plus certain opinions that surface in threads that I can't abide with.

You have site supporter, use the private note facility

Yeah, I use that as well. I just find that some status updates make people sound awful, and regardless of how cute they look, they're cut! Some of my private notes on people are quite startling as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Darn it, i knew coming 2nd would have ramifications

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Our lisr is a combo of mostly hot, some observation before and some not..for removal from hot then its updates or behaviour that may put us off.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Don't worry, you're not alone - half mine is Notlist as well. It's a good way to track anyone you want to avoid, and anyone they've had contact with.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Why do you want to see updates on people you don't like?

Ours comprises of people we've yet to strike up a friendship with. They may come off the list if we establish they're not for us, or they progress to the friends list.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Certain things said on the fora.

Erm, trying to think of other reasons... if their profile is a bit inactive. If I'm having a clear out and realise I only added them because I was gagging for anything vaguely sexual. Sometimes I'm cleaning it up a bit because I don't like too many people in any list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go off how long they’ve not been active for, once it starts hitting 3 or 4 weeks I remove them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you view someone's activity on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Don't worry, you're not alone - half mine is Notlist as well. It's a good way to track anyone you want to avoid, and anyone they've had contact with.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Why do you want to see updates on people you don't like?

Ours comprises of people we've yet to strike up a friendship with. They may come off the list if we establish they're not for us, or they progress to the friends list.

I don't, that's the point - their updates are sometimes the reason I remove them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I'm missing something here. Why do you want to see updates on people you don't like?

Ours comprises of people we've yet to strike up a friendship with. They may come off the list if we establish they're not for us, or they progress to the friends list.

I have someone who stole one of my photos, so i keep an eye on them... i used to think it was weird too until it happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you view someone's activity on the forum?"

Click the green arrow next to their name in the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm not feeling it anymore I will remove

Mainly use it for people I'm open to meeting with "

This

If I work up the courage to message them and they don’t reply then I remove

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

Exactly the same for me -especially if i am talking to them offsite but want to still refer to their profile or look at their pics again.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Mine's definitely more of an observation list than perv list...they generally only come off when I move them to the blocked list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long period of inactivity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

It's a brilliant answer and I glad you said that because that's exactly how I use my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine's definitely more of an observation list than perv list...they generally only come off when I move them to the blocked list "

Snap.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hot list is for all different things

Maybe one off ur pics cought my eye so I have hot listed you

Or maybe I like what you say on the forums so I have hot listed you

Only tend to remove is if I decide that I am going to message you

And tell you that I think ur hot and I get a no thank you or no reply

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I use my hotlist to keep track of people, rather than who I find 'hot'. So delete can be because of too many reasons to list. Not the best answer

It's a brilliant answer and I glad you said that because that's exactly how I use my hotlist

Do I get a prize

Do I get chips

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"How can you view someone's activity on the forum?"

You also have site supporter, so you can make private notes on people's profiles as you go along

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

This, plus certain opinions that surface in threads that I can't abide with.

You have site supporter, use the private note facility

I also note if someone jumped on me like a twat on my posts etc

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have just purged my hot list and only 8 remain.

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

If they're on my friends list they get taken off the hotlist

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"If they're on my friends list they get taken off the hotlist

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I use my hotlist as a list to remind me who I wouldn't meet except 2 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing them online and never talking to me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My hot list used to be my "to do"list.

Now no one is doing any "doing" it's more of a "look and sigh" list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my uses for the hotlist is for people I'm interested in messaging. Once I've messaged them, I remove them. and forget about it. If anything comes of the message, then great, but mostly it just slips into ether.

If I send a message and it's read, and deleted without a reply, then they go on the block list, to avoid bothering them again.

But best of all, is for them to go on my friends list.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I follow social hosts on my hotlist and use the notes function on individual profiles as to whether I am interested or not in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I've plucked up courage to message and not got a response normally.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Dunno there's nobody on mine

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Dunno there's nobody on mine

Gee thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of they havent been online for a few months.

if the post revolting photos.

if they have veris from undesirables

if we added them because they had a lot of hot pics, but are too far away.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Arse licking in the forums.

Sending me a three page message about what they’d like to do to me sexually.

Flirting with everyone on the forums but me and then hitting me up for some side action flirting on the down low.

Messaging me to ask how I am after 2 years. I’ve moved on, that’s how I am!!

That’s it I think. As you can see, I’m a fairly laid back lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use the hotlist to keep tabs on people they don't like.

Wtf

Why not just block them and forget about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are certain things that will make me delete someone from my Hotlist - one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

Do you have any particular reason that will make you remove people from your Hotlist?"

I think using the word ‘author’ is overegging it, unless they’ve had their status updates published.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Perhaps lack of updates? Losing interest..

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As there has never been anyone on ours then our answer is simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just if there’s no interest or not responding or if they are too arrogant sometimes

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I've removed a few who's status updates make it sound like they are still arranging meets during lockdown. That's certainly changed my view on a few people. It also surprises me as several of those still meeting have a strick policy about sexual health.... Don't want to contract an std but happy to risk their's or someone else's life with covid.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"People use the hotlist to keep tabs on people they don't like.

Wtf

Why not just block them and forget about them?

Karma x

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Obnoxious, snide or negative status updates or comments in forums that aren't for me will have me moving someone from hotlist to block list.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

"There are certain things that will make me delete someone from my Hotlist - one of them being status updates that don't reflect well on the author.

Do you have any particular reason that will make you remove people from your Hotlist?"

These days I add / remove based on

Attitude ( some rude people on here, unfortunately just don't know how to use a forum like this )

People who want to meet/brag about a meet they have had during covid

People who suddenly start mentioning drugs in their statuses. Can't abide a junkie! just scum frankly :/

Other than that some people have been on my hotlist gathering cobwebs for months and very likely to remain there

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

way too many undesirable/unattractive photos or no new photos for months. It just doesn’t serve the purpose of my pervy eyes

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I feel like I'm missing something here. Why do you want to see updates on people you don't like?

Ours comprises of people we've yet to strike up a friendship with. They may come off the list if we establish they're not for us, or they progress to the friends list.

I have someone who stole one of my photos, so i keep an eye on them... i used to think it was weird too until it happened

Ah now that makes sense. I'm sorry to hear that

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Arse licking in the forums.

Sending me a three page message about what they’d like to do to me sexually.

Flirting with everyone on the forums but me and then hitting me up for some side action flirting on the down low.

Messaging me to ask how I am after 2 years. I’ve moved on, that’s how I am!!

That’s it I think. As you can see, I’m a fairly laid back lass

Oh god, all of these

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