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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last thread got too big. I'm interested in how couples, especially new ones feel about it and kissing

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Absolutely I do . For me it's as important than the fun before .

The intimacy and closeness of spooning especially, nothing better than someone falling asleep in your arms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x"

With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party?

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Yeah, not sure on what you mean, with the other party?.. hmm. with a solo male.. no, it'd be weird.

with a couple it's a lot more intimate, so I don't know, I can imagine K's answer would be a hard no! :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, not sure on what you mean, with the other party?.. hmm. with a solo male.. no, it'd be weird.

with a couple it's a lot more intimate, so I don't know, I can imagine K's answer would be a hard no! :P "

Yes, sorry that's what I meant. With the person/couple you're having the meet with.

I think it's something that should be between husband/wife/partners. As you say it's an intimate thing. Not sure if I'm over thinking

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By *ob46Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Cuddles an kiss are very important, it make you feel want by your partner, before sex an after sex,

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If its first agreed to be within the boundaries of the play meet then yes, if not then no.

Breaking a couples trust by pushing boundaries when you have one of them on they're own is a big no no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its first agreed to be within the boundaries of the play meet then yes, if not then no.

Breaking a couples trust by pushing boundaries when you have one of them on they're own is a big no no. "

He thinks it's fine, I think I would feel uncomfortable with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

If it’s a man then no

If it’s a couple then no that’s they thing they trust

If it’s a woman and that’s what she wanted then yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends

If it’s a man then no

If it’s a couple then no that’s they thing they trust

If it’s a woman and that’s what she wanted then yes "

And all have to be comfortable with it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends

If it’s a man then no

If it’s a couple then no that’s they thing they trust

If it’s a woman and that’s what she wanted then yes

And all have to be comfortable with it?! "

Yes

Well with men it’s just a sex thing for me cuddling means more intimate to me

For couples I am under no elusons that it’s nothing more than sex

And for single woman well then could be a chance that they want things to go much further and transcend just casual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cuddle and kiss on meets, including first meets xx

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We love a cuddle after we mopped up lol

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We don’t and wouldn’t cuddle with others it just wouldn’t feel right .Kissing others during playing then yes cuddling after no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don’t and wouldn’t cuddle with others it just wouldn’t feel right .Kissing others during playing then yes cuddling after no."

That's what I said. I wouldn't feel comfortable afterwards. There is a degree of cuddling during I suppose, but after, no. It's a more intimate and personal thing afterwards

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x

With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party? "
I've never cuddled up to a man after sex except an actual partner. I've also rarely kissed during a fab meet till recently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x

With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party? I've never cuddled up to a man after sex except an actual partner. I've also rarely kissed during a fab meet till recently."

Has that just been your preference, or another reason, if you don't mind me asking

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"If its first agreed to be within the boundaries of the play meet then yes, if not then no.

Breaking a couples trust by pushing boundaries when you have one of them on they're own is a big no no.

He thinks it's fine, I think I would feel uncomfortable with it "

Then you have your answer for now, things may change if you find a third who is a good friend and the trust boundaries are there.

After all including others into sexual play is only to enhance each others sexual experiences, sex should be fun no dramatics included

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By *eagleMan
over a year ago

Holywood


"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x"

What is "reclaim sex"??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit too intimate for me. Something I'd only really do with a partner, not a Fab meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit too intimate for me. Something I'd only really do with a partner, not a Fab meet "

You can recieve love from absolutely anybody if you accept it

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It is a absolute must for me. A good spooning A nice little chat or maybe a nibble of the ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit too intimate for me. Something I'd only really do with a partner, not a Fab meet

You can recieve love from absolutely anybody if you accept it "

I'm sure you can. I'd just rather not

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x

With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party? I've never cuddled up to a man after sex except an actual partner. I've also rarely kissed during a fab meet till recently.

Has that just been your preference, or another reason, if you don't mind me asking "
my preference. The not kissing is a bi product of something that happened to me on my first sexual experience... but the cuddling during random sex has more been my personal choice. When I was a couple it was the only thing that ever caused me jealousy. I came back in and my partner was laying cuddled up and I was not happy... ( we had agreed to not do so prior to this too though)

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We absolutely love kissing and cuddles dont really get people who dont but they are willing to give you oral pleasure but no kissing #

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddling and kissing that make the fun better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without cuddles and kisses after isn't for me.

If I want that I'll just have a wank

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Its worth mentioning for me that I'm a greedy girl and rarely do 121 sex... however I haven't really cuddled up with individuals either if its random sex.

To those not getting those that choose to... remember somewhere someone will be judging us for wanting to share our partners with others full stop.. to have multiple partners... you dont have to understand it just respect it

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