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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people seem to get so het up about what you should and shouldn't be doing with your own body?!

There was a thread yesterday about overweight people shouldn't be being classed as fabulous, in the virus forum threads about the vaccine and how beneficial it is to have it, even being on fab there are those who feel being on a site like this you should be sharing your body with anyone who asks.

Where does it stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

And then there are those who have 'preferences' and having the audacity to exclude people from who they share their body with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people seem to get so het up about what you should and shouldn't be doing with your own body?!

There was a thread yesterday about overweight people shouldn't be being classed as fabulous, in the virus forum threads about the vaccine and how beneficial it is to have it, even being on fab there are those who feel being on a site like this you should be sharing your body with anyone who asks.

Where does it stop? "

Did someone actually say that, that if you’re on here you should share with anyone who asks

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people are people. The good, the bad and the ugly all show themselves in shiny glory on the internet.

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By *K herts mMan
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For the same reason some people get het up by anything other people do that's different to what they do. It bothers them because they're not 100% secure in their choice. If they criticise the ones who make different choices and can get other to back them up they feel better about themselves.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice. "

But how does somebody not finding another person sexually attractive make them superficial ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice.

But how does somebody not finding another person sexually attractive make them superficial ?"

i was thinking this too ?? rejection is part of the scene best get used to it as it happens to all of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For the same reason some people get het up by anything other people do that's different to what they do. It bothers them because they're not 100% secure in their choice. If they criticise the ones who make different choices and can get other to back them up they feel better about themselves."

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems

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This.

People who incessantly criticise others reveal a deep dissatisfaction with themselves and their own lives. Projection, the shrinks call it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has opinions about something.

Why do people get het up about people having opinions?

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By *K herts mMan
over a year ago

Fleetwood


"Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice.

But how does somebody not finding another person sexually attractive make them superficial ?"

OK that was badly worded on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems

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Very true. Lot of headfucked people out there these days.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems

Very true. Lot of headfucked people out there these days. "

Even more on these forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I try and avoid personal trainers or guys to into fitness after dating some slim guys are ok depending I like bigger men and women size 12 upwards where as some people would like size 8-10 or a gym fit guy end of the day it's preference

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone has opinions about something.

Why do people get het up about people having opinions?"

I don't as long as they have the same opinions as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has opinions about something.

Why do people get het up about people having opinions?

I don't as long as they have the same opinions as me. "

Scary.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone has opinions about something.

Why do people get het up about people having opinions?

I don't as long as they have the same opinions as me.

Scary. "

I bloomin am scary.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Everyone has opinions about something.

Why do people get het up about people having opinions?

I don't as long as they have the same opinions as me. "

Agreed

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