FabSwingers.com forum: Bi ladies

By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Do you friends that aren't involved in this scene know that you are bi?

I told my closest vanilla friends last year and they were fully supportive, weren't surprised, and didn't treat me any differently whatsoever.

I was over the moon with them all.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

They all know, none care

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes my friends know.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Yep.

They all know, none care

"
.that's how it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately no one in my life off here knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been a secret from my family or friends weather they know about fab or not. I just am who I am (bat shit crazy woman with a fat arse and a big love for boobs

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

No body really knows. I told my best friend from school who I reconnected with that I like swingers parties and she really wasn’t surprised.

Probably because she was my first real girl crush which I didn’t hide well

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Unfortunately no one in my life off here knows. "

Do you not feel able to tell your closest friends?

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Never been a secret from my family or friends weather they know about fab or not. I just am who I am (bat shit crazy woman with a fat arse and a big love for boobs

) "

An absolutely adorable woman too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately no one in my life off here knows.

Do you not feel able to tell your closest friends?"

Not really, if you were to ask any of them they'd tell you I was straight as a dye. Have never openly talked about being bi, off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some know some don’t. My best friend was one of the first girls I ever got with so she definitely knows though she’s swears she’s strictly dickly now lol she’s on baby no 5.

I told my new college mates who are significantly younger than me and they didn’t even bat an eyelid so I guess society is more accepting. When I was 17 I told my mum and she said it was a phase lol little did she know.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Some know some don’t. My best friend was one of the first girls I ever got with so she definitely knows though she’s swears she’s strictly dickly now lol she’s on baby no 5.

Strictly dickly

I've never heard that saying before. Love it.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Everyone knew as soon as I laid my eyes on Charlene from Neighbours. It’s never been a secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend knows I've been with women in threesomes, but not actually told her I'm bi. I don't really discuss fab life in my normal life. It doesn't bother me. Love chatting on here about all things fab. Mrs x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Most do.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Everyone knew as soon as I laid my eyes on Charlene from Neighbours. It’s never been a secret. "

Brilliant.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13."

Oh. I didn't realise there was an age limit on discussing sexuality.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"A friend knows I've been with women in threesomes, but not actually told her I'm bi. I don't really discuss fab life in my normal life. It doesn't bother me. Love chatting on here about all things fab. Mrs x "

This is a great place where people can openly be themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13."

Also not 13, discuss sex with my pals quite often.

The two aren't related.

If anything, I'd suggest a level of maturity is required to have open and frank conversations about sex.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Most do."

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Caroline has been openly bi for the last 16 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been a secret from my family or friends weather they know about fab or not. I just am who I am (bat shit crazy woman with a fat arse and a big love for boobs

)

An absolutely adorable woman too."

Aww! Thank you gorgeous

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Caroline has been openly bi for the last 16 years."

I like this. People should be able to be open about such things.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Friends know, only when it comes up conversationally. They like to swear off men every now and then, no converting the faithless though

Family has no clue, it never needed to be said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most of them do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13.

Also not 13, discuss sex with my pals quite often.

The two aren't related.

If anything, I'd suggest a level of maturity is required to have open and frank conversations about sex.

Assuming they want to hear about it. Some people seem to think the whole world wants to know every aspect of their sex life. Zero discretion.

Aka verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13.

Also not 13, discuss sex with my pals quite often.

The two aren't related.

If anything, I'd suggest a level of maturity is required to have open and frank conversations about sex.

Assuming they want to hear about it. Some people seem to think the whole world wants to know every aspect of their sex life. Zero discretion.

Aka verifications. "

I'm not sure how that's relative...

Just don't think the OP or discussing sex has anything to do with age/maturity, that's all.

You choose to keep your business to yourself, nothing wrong with that...but there's nothing wrong with chatting to friends about it either...that's all I'm saying...

It's not indiscreet to have a chat with a pal about anything.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Friends know, only when it comes up conversationally. They like to swear off men every now and then, no converting the faithless though

Family has no clue, it never needed to be said. "

My family dont know, only friends.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Yes, most of them do"

That's good you can be yourself.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13.

Also not 13, discuss sex with my pals quite often.

The two aren't related.

If anything, I'd suggest a level of maturity is required to have open and frank conversations about sex.

Assuming they want to hear about it. Some people seem to think the whole world wants to know every aspect of their sex life. Zero discretion.

Aka verifications. "

I don't see how confiding in your trustworthy best friends about sexuality is breaking discretion, but there we go. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know. I told my bestie at about 14, she didn't bat an eyelid. She's still my bestie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13.

Also not 13, discuss sex with my pals quite often.

The two aren't related.

If anything, I'd suggest a level of maturity is required to have open and frank conversations about sex.

Assuming they want to hear about it. Some people seem to think the whole world wants to know every aspect of their sex life. Zero discretion.

Aka verifications.

I don't see how confiding in your trustworthy best friends about sexuality is breaking discretion, but there we go. Each to their own."

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep. I've been somewhat open about it since I was a teenager. My high school friends know. I don't really feel any need to announce it to people but it it ever comes up I don't hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discuss sex with my friends. I'm not 13.

Also not 13, discuss sex with my pals quite often.

The two aren't related.

If anything, I'd suggest a level of maturity is required to have open and frank conversations about sex.

Assuming they want to hear about it. Some people seem to think the whole world wants to know every aspect of their sex life. Zero discretion.

Aka verifications.

I don't see how confiding in your trustworthy best friends about sexuality is breaking discretion, but there we go. Each to their own."

If there is mutual agreement. I don’t see why it’s a problem. I’m genuinely curious as to why you think age makes a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No only my fab friends know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ppl on fab know im bi.

Ive always had thing for women, id look and say to inked yrs ago shes gorgeous, look at her figure blah blah blah. He knew way before i told him that i was bi and that was his chance to tell me about fab and a way for me to explore my sexuality.

My first experience with another woman was ffm and it was amazing. The next step is ff(i just think that would allow more exploring) though im always very happy for ffm.

I just wished id have said something sooner

Miss

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By *ussy_whisperer2020Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Hi yes my family and close friends

Know , not so much work colleagues... I recently told

My children too after separating from my husband after 17 yrs ... and said that I may be swayed more towards women ... they were both fine and had lots of questions which I answered truthfully , I don’t want to have secrets from

My kids ...

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