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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

A fabulous score is a high score, a fabulous glossy shine is just that. So why do bigger people claim to have fabulous figures. Now I'm not svelt, toned, an Adonis but when I click on a profile and see fabulous you.would expect an amazing figure.

Fab can you do away with these wishful thinking terms for size and just have good ol' sizes we all know a size 8 is slim, a 12 is average bit a size 18 and above is definitely not fabulous it is a health scare

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Why cant a bigger woman have a fabulous body?...many men think they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace yourself Op, incoming.

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By *hilledGuerillaMan
over a year ago

In the monkey house

Standby for incoming fire.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Like you care about our health

Anyone can think they have a fabulous body so anyone can choose that option. I know I'm fucking fabulous regardless of my dress size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early prediction, this ones going the distance.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'll must park myself here and munch on my wotsists ....

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I thought 16-18 average body size anything under 12 needs a good meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn time

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Pulls up a chair and snacks on popcorn....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CALLING ALL UNITS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy...... Brave!!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Popcorn time "

Got enough there for 2?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

This post just comes across as very ignorant and judgmental and shows a complete lack of knowledge on women's bodies.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m not svelte but I’m pretty fabulous. When it comes to me I care how I feel about myself not others

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Surely it's how the individual feels about themselves. If they are on the larger size but they are happy, then why can't they call themselves fabulous.

Why should it affect you how others describe themselves?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Another attempted fabicide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brace yourself Op, incoming. "

Not worried in the slightest, think whatever but a size is factual, a body type on here seems like opinion. There are slim women who say curvy coz they have big tits, skinny toned who say athletic, then there are slim, average, curvy and large who all.claim fabulous. Think what they want but fab really makes it difficult.

At least of there were definite sizes for men, women and all the other genders people could filter searches and omit those.outsode their preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to go well this op

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Oh look. A thread where large AND slim ladies are body shamed. Sheesh.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Hope OP has his hard hat on as we can predict a barrage on replies coming in

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By *lackCherry...Woman
over a year ago

North East

Pretty sure size 16 is average in the UK

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Brace yourself Op, incoming.

Not worried in the slightest, think whatever but a size is factual, a body type on here seems like opinion. There are slim women who say curvy coz they have big tits, skinny toned who say athletic, then there are slim, average, curvy and large who all.claim fabulous. Think what they want but fab really makes it difficult.

At least of there were definite sizes for men, women and all the other genders people could filter searches and omit those.outsode their preference"

Or you could look at pictures maybe?!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Oh look. A thread where large AND slim ladies are body shamed. Sheesh."

Equal opportunities in action

From a fat lass (but couldn't find that category when signing up to Fab )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm just here for the labels!

Jo.Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because they feel good about themselves and are seeking those who agree with that assessment.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Wow.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

OP, fat people (and thin for that matter) can describe themselves how they want.

However, the choices for descriptive purposes on Fab are very narrow and they don’t have a “fat bastard”choice.

Maybe take it up with the site?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Then they should also have a box for the blokes to tick called wanker...or maybe just missed it..

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I am curvy and love my body. I am far from a 12.

I have no health issues whatsoever. So not sure how you say its a heath scare...

Everyone likes different things OP. Some thing a size 8 is amazing while others think that its skin and bones. Conversely some love 16 18 and even bigger, while others would call them fat or unhealthy.

Just because its not to your taste doesnt mean that no one sees the appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your looking for a very size specific op? Like what 10/12 kinda specific just asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

A fabulous score is a high score, a fabulous glossy shine is just that. So why do bigger people claim to have fabulous figures. Now I'm not svelt, toned, an Adonis but when I click on a profile and see fabulous you.would expect an amazing figure.

Fab can you do away with these wishful thinking terms for size and just have good ol' sizes we all know a size 8 is slim, a 12 is average bit a size 18 and above is definitely not fabulous it is a health scare"

So enlighten me as to what I am at a size 12/14/16 then? Just plain old fat?? What do "we all know" a size 14-18 is as you've missed that bracket. Women's "sizes" vary depending on where they shop. Also have you actually stopped to think there could be medical issues??? My weight fluctuates due to a thyroid issue....

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By *ancaster31Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Fabulous is a silly body type option I do agree. What's fabulous to one is not to another. That's from someone who prefers girls to be flabulous

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Get ready to dodge the bullets OP....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also love men who try to inform women about women's clothing sizes

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Hmm wonder if this is one of these threads, where if I insult one kind of lady then the other kind will think I'm amazing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah because we need more body shaming in this world. I for one would not give my dress size out as a body size, It's no one's damn business. Don't like the look of me? Pass on by but don't stop and shame on the way

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Looking at your pic you definitely not Slim size 8 more size 12/ 13 .

I’m a size 20 and have a fabulous shapely figure . What exactly was your point ?

I Don’t have any health problems apart from under active thyroid .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm fabulous and so is my body, I couldn't care less what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that? "

Fully considered, and people should be able to search based on preference. As not every profile has a picture, and people are creative with camera angles and filters nowadays an actual size would help many.

I get clothes bridge sizes, bit of I preferred larger 16+ size women, or under size 14 I should be able to filter accordingly. The site has been around long enough to introduce better filters and search parameters.

It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

A fabulous score is a high score, a fabulous glossy shine is just that. So why do bigger people claim to have fabulous figures. Now I'm not svelt, toned, an Adonis but when I click on a profile and see fabulous you.would expect an amazing figure.

Fab can you do away with these wishful thinking terms for size and just have good ol' sizes we all know a size 8 is slim, a 12 is average bit a size 18 and above is definitely not fabulous it is a health scare"

I can't speak for others (like you did) but I picked fabulous because they told me so.

More seriously - what qualifies you to decide what is fabulous or not?

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"I'll must park myself here and munch on my wotsists ...."

Hmmm love wotsits.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

I'm a size 16-18 and get plenty of compliments on my body. I believe a 16 is your average for the UK.

If I think my body is fabulous I'll say so. If I'm happy in myself why can't I say I'm fabulous..... now wheres that block button??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having fun fishing OP? Some folk will say anything for attention. If ppl are happy surely that enough they don’t need to telling them how to feel about their body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I get what you're trying to say. You've said pretty bloody badly, but I think what you meant was that that Fab makes it hard to filter by body size preference because the categories are vague. I understand that, I call myself curvy because I am curvy, but I've been criticised for doing this as others think curvy means other things. There's no right answer, we all interpret it our own way. Your idea of clothes sizes is tricky because they vary by height/frame - a size 8 on someone my height would look skeletal, for example.

Your best bet is just to look at photos. And brace yourself for the responses you'll get in this thread lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabulous is a silly body type option I do agree. What's fabulous to one is not to another. That's from someone who prefers girls to be flabulous "

I don't think it's silly at all.

If that's how somebody whatever their shape or size wants to describe their own body that is on them and maybe they don't fit into any of the other categories because they are very narrow.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


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It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site"

Then take it to the FAB advice section, not here in the lounge.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Fabulous is a silly body type option I do agree. What's fabulous to one is not to another. That's from someone who prefers girls to be flabulous

I don't think it's silly at all.

If that's how somebody whatever their shape or size wants to describe their own body that is on them and maybe they don't fit into any of the other categories because they are very narrow."

Yeah, to me it's "fuck this, none of the above"

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm a size 16-18 and get plenty of compliments on my body. I believe a 16 is your average for the UK.

If I think my body is fabulous I'll say so. If I'm happy in myself why can't I say I'm fabulous..... now wheres that block button??"

Just looked your profile not bad, not bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

Hubby prefers me curvey .

But It’s what size makes you happy really

If you don’t like it jog on

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Look, when they add it as an option, I'll pick "fat lass, slight seconds (damaged goods) - no warranty"

Is that okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman is fabulous if she believes it no matter her size

However what grips me is profiles stating curvy then the write up is along the lines of hygienic, plays safe etc but in the pics it’s more like ample, the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy and the “fuck” pics are all with unsheathed cock, not safe

Basically bullshit from start to finish, so if the boot fits please be truthful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" we all know a size 8 is slim, a 12 is average bit a size 18 and above is definitely not fabulous it is a health scare"

Well thanks for your view & opinion OP, you have such a way with words. If a lady wants to decribe herself as fabulous who are you, or anyone other than herself, to say she isn't? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You might want to remember that one & just scroll on by.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, when they add it as an option, I'll pick "fat lass, slight seconds (damaged goods) - no warranty"

Is that okay? "

Will they also add ‘man with penis growing from forehead’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

Fully considered, and people should be able to search based on preference. As not every profile has a picture, and people are creative with camera angles and filters nowadays an actual size would help many.

I get clothes bridge sizes, bit of I preferred larger 16+ size women, or under size 14 I should be able to filter accordingly. The site has been around long enough to introduce better filters and search parameters.

It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site"

You will not be the 1st all the last to suggest this however you did it in a very clumsy way.

You say you are not having a dig at anyone larger but if that was the case you would not have said anything 18 plus was a health scare.

Cloths size actually has very little to do with body shape or type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is correct in a certain point though, more filters would deffo help in our search for what we are looking for!

It would save sooo much time for us, to be able to rule out those we want to avoid!

Suggestions could include:

Arrogant

Twat

Judgmental

Ignorant

Shallow

Hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought everyone understood that the "fabulous" category is a kind of ironic, tongue-in-cheek option for those who don't want to label themselves by a category and let people decide from their pics (like me).

Not really sure why you care enough to make a whole thread about it? Don't really see how it hurts you. If you don't like someone's body just... Move on to the next profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brace yourself Op, incoming.

Not worried in the slightest, think whatever but a size is factual, a body type on here seems like opinion. There are slim women who say curvy coz they have big tits, skinny toned who say athletic, then there are slim, average, curvy and large who all.claim fabulous. Think what they want but fab really makes it difficult.

At least of there were definite sizes for men, women and all the other genders people could filter searches and omit those.outsode their preference"

I didn’t realise we weren’t allowed to make our own decisions about it?

Who is anyone to say someone isn’t fabulous!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Pulls up a chair and snacks on popcorn....

"

Shares on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy"

Charming

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My body is twice as fabulous as many others........ Literally.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's up to the person themselves what they want to call themselves. If you don't agree then just move on. Why knock a body type just because it doesn't fit what you think it should.

I'm not slim I wish I was but I'm not it's a work in progress. Would I have the body confidence to call myself fabulous not a hope so I am full of admiration for those no matter what their size is for doing that.

It's just sickening how people on here knock others because they don't fit into what they think is right and take pleasure in knocking anyone who may have confidence in how they look.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


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It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site"

Yet it was. You had a problem with bigger women choosing fabulous as a body type because you don't think it's fabulous and is a heath scare.

It is what it is. Fabulous is above curvy and large so makes sense that the larger ladies use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that? "

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure the OP has read the room here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP "

Maybe that is what we should all do and not have a category on body type.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP "

Pfffffft. Ive been saying you're fabulous for years.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also.... I would love to see a guy look at a woman and guess their clothes size correctly. They all seem such experts at women's sizing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous. "

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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You can't search for body size can you ?

People could put supermodel, broomstick or fridge freezer I'm not interested what they put down I use my eyes when looking

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

OP you say "It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site."

So you don't believe that saying

"Fabulous you would expect an amazing figure" so your suggesting that larger people cannot be fabulous though I don't see why they cannot be?

And this is the worst one in my opinion using a person's health which you don't give a crap about let's be honest, but you're using it as a put down "fabulous it is a health scare".

Now you're entitled to your preference and yeah the body categories here aren't ideal. But you choose to go for the larger ladies not men. If you're that worried you could have offered some ideas for both genders, but no you decided not to, funny that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous. "

I dont get why you reply and quoted me.... you could have just posted without the reply and quote.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Also.... I would love to see a guy look at a woman and guess their clothes size correctly. They all seem such experts at women's sizing on here "

There's something of a fixation on women's sizing, yes. If it's not clothes size, then it's bra size (woefully misunderstood). Have we had any examples of women asking for men with only a certain waist size?!

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By *..TsunamiPandaWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-On-Trent

Curvy/fabulous or so I'm told.

Have curves in all the right places.

Now where is that popcorn

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By *everlyandersonTV/TS
over a year ago

newcastle


"Like you care about our health

Anyone can think they have a fabulous body so anyone can choose that option. I know I'm fucking fabulous regardless of my dress size. "

I agree with the above , I'm not a woman but a cd/TV not the slimmest but it's amazing how many people love the fuller figure ,I bet he wouldn't refuse to have sexy fun with anyone with a fuller figure lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied "

There's a slight difference between "has an active infection" and "has not bowed to fashion and removed hair that naturally grows"

Just a teeny tiny difference

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The labels that we assign to ourselves are much more important than the ones that others pick for us.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago when I first joined Fab it was explained to me that Fabulous was next size up from Curvy in Fab sizes.

But size is always subjective and many guys on Fab need a re-think too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also.... I would love to see a guy look at a woman and guess their clothes size correctly. They all seem such experts at women's sizing on here

There's something of a fixation on women's sizing, yes. If it's not clothes size, then it's bra size (woefully misunderstood). Have we had any examples of women asking for men with only a certain waist size?!"

I have thoughts on this.

I'm not going there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The labels that we assign to ourselves are much more important than the ones that others pick for us.

Cal"

Nail on head Cal!

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over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied "

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

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By *ovestruck69Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Many yrs ago I used to be slim, around 8.5st and thought anyone over a size 10/12 was fat, but that came and bit me in the ass, as I had a thyroid condition called hypothyroidism, it ment I could eat 15,000 calories a day and not put an ounce of weight on, but I had a hard choice to make, either try and eat 20,000+ calories a day or my body would start to eat itself and could possibly die or have a operation to have my thyroid removed, so I chose to have the operation, within 6mts I put on 10st, I lost 1.5" off my cock (it now 6.5") and I gained more weight my highest was 26st. But it now around 18 to 19st and I started to love the more fabulous lady one of my ex's was a size 22 and another size 26, I've also had some ladies size 10 upwards. I know I'm no Adonis but I feel great in my body and many fabulous women look fucking hot and sexy. I just wish I wasn't such a dick all those years ago. Keep it going you fabulous sexy hot women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well from a crisp eating fatty. I wear sizes 20/22/24. Does that help. We all come in various shapes. How many options would you like choose from?

Perfection doesn't come from options,it's in the eye of the beholder. I'm not very good with words but this woman is trying damn hard to except her self the way she is.

Sorry I don't come with a delete button. Just move on.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Speaking as someone who works in a clothing warehouse, I can tell you that the most popular size is 14

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"A woman is fabulous if she believes it no matter her size

However what grips me is profiles stating curvy then the write up is along the lines of hygienic, plays safe etc but in the pics it’s more like ample, the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy and the “fuck” pics are all with unsheathed cock, not safe

Basically bullshit from start to finish, so if the boot fits please be truthful "

Just FYI, body hair does not mean poor hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as someone who works in a clothing warehouse, I can tell you that the most popular size is 14"

And thats relevant, how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though. "

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many yrs ago I used to be slim, around 8.5st and thought anyone over a size 10/12 was fat, but that came and bit me in the ass, as I had a thyroid condition called hypothyroidism, it ment I could eat 15,000 calories a day and not put an ounce of weight on, but I had a hard choice to make, either try and eat 20,000+ calories a day or my body would start to eat itself and could possibly die or have a operation to have my thyroid removed, so I chose to have the operation, within 6mts I put on 10st, I lost 1.5" off my cock (it now 6.5") and I gained more weight my highest was 26st. But it now around 18 to 19st and I started to love the more fabulous lady one of my ex's was a size 22 and another size 26, I've also had some ladies size 10 upwards. I know I'm no Adonis but I feel great in my body and many fabulous women look fucking hot and sexy. I just wish I wasn't such a dick all those years ago. Keep it going you fabulous sexy hot women! "

You mean hyperthyroidism. Not hypo. Glad you got it fixed and you're happy

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous. "

It is absolutely bodyshaming to state that everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman is fabulous if she believes it no matter her size

However what grips me is profiles stating curvy then the write up is along the lines of hygienic, plays safe etc but in the pics it’s more like ample, the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy and the “fuck” pics are all with unsheathed cock, not safe

Basically bullshit from start to finish, so if the boot fits please be truthful

Just FYI, body hair does not mean poor hygiene."

I know, I have a bit of peach fuzz myself but I’m squeaky clean but some, not all, maybe are

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think there is no way that you can actually use body shape/size labels as a guide to what someone's body is like. Saying that, you can also not use clothes size or even measurements to accurately know what someone's body will be like. Because we are all different, and some people (sit down, this will come as a shock) aren't entirely truthful.

All you can do, if body size matters that much to you, is go by pictures. And if someone doesn't have pictures then they are obviously not for you.

And by the way, I had way more health issues when I was a size 12-16 (as the size that fits depends on so very many things) than I do now I'm a size 18-24 (if I went down a couple cup sizes I'd drop a size immediately).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the OP chose the right name - he probably didn’t imagine this much hot fun though.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

For arguments sake there was such an option. I'm a size 10 waist. I sometimes have to go up to a 14/16 up top for the boobs. So what would I tick?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing "

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t believe this post! Who the hell are you OP to be so judgemental?

I for one like all body sizes so in my eyes they are all fabulous!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare"

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t believe this post! Who the hell are you OP to be so judgemental?

I for one like all body sizes so in my eyes they are all fabulous! "
well said obviously the op isnt happy with his own life or body

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over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming."

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For arguments sake there was such an option. I'm a size 10 waist. I sometimes have to go up to a 14/16 up top for the boobs. So what would I tick? "

You tick what you feel is right for you.

It doesn't matter what you tick because somebody will feel the need to come and tell you you are wrong.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I can also choose fabulous as my male body type

I choose not to as I’m not that confident in my body

I’d like to think there would be one or two females out there who think I might be fabulous though

I love the fact that anyone can choose fabulous to describe themselves

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over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO"

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often read stuff on here from men whining they cant get layed

And think " try losing the shitty attitude big boy"

This thread says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful."

True but I was making a point of my own, not intending to shame or disrespect, just a point, my view is clearly wrong, not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful.

True but I was making a point of my own, not intending to shame or disrespect, just a point, my view is clearly wrong, not. "

I didn't say your view was wrong I said the way you put your view was wrong.

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By *ovestruck69Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"Many yrs ago I used to be slim, around 8.5st and thought anyone over a size 10/12 was fat, but that came and bit me in the ass, as I had a thyroid condition called hypothyroidism, it ment I could eat 15,000 calories a day and not put an ounce of weight on, but I had a hard choice to make, either try and eat 20,000+ calories a day or my body would start to eat itself and could possibly die or have a operation to have my thyroid removed, so I chose to have the operation, within 6mts I put on 10st, I lost 1.5" off my cock (it now 6.5") and I gained more weight my highest was 26st. But it now around 18 to 19st and I started to love the more fabulous lady one of my ex's was a size 22 and another size 26, I've also had some ladies size 10 upwards. I know I'm no Adonis but I feel great in my body and many fabulous women look fucking hot and sexy. I just wish I wasn't such a dick all those years ago. Keep it going you fabulous sexy hot women!

You mean hyperthyroidism. Not hypo. Glad you got it fixed and you're happy "

Yeah that's what I ment but auto correct jumped in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful."

Plus both women and men, in life, are deceitful as stated by many inundated women, humans eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful.

True but I was making a point of my own, not intending to shame or disrespect, just a point, my view is clearly wrong, not.

I didn't say your view was wrong I said the way you put your view was wrong."

But it’s my view, how can it be wrong?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Then they should also have a box for the blokes to tick called wanker...or maybe just missed it.."

This is my favourite response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Just here to quietly watch the show eating my popcorn haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

"

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from. "

I will add something else though with my imperfect punctuation

Women don't like people that shame other women for any reason

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu "

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Antagonists, protagonists, damsels in distress and super hero’s this one has it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

I will add something else though with my imperfect punctuation

Women don't like people that shame other women for any reason"

And rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from. "

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no shame in what body size or shape people are men and women we have to be respectful to them because they might not be your type dose not give you the right to abuse them everyone is not perfect so just be respectful to others

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

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"Antagonists, protagonists, damsels in distress and super hero’s this one has it all"

OP dropped a cluster fuck to get a rise and succeeded. Jumped back in to stir the pot and sit back entertained. Why feed the troll? Because everyone is stir crazy and bored.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there "

No one who says they are concerned for fat people's health are actually bothered about people's health. They just use it as an excuse to make comments about their weight.

'I'm not being mean, but being that fat is not good for your health'

You don't know a person's health by looking at picture of their tits in a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there "

Correlation and causation are different things. You can be slim and very unhealthy. You can be larger and very unhealthy. There isn't a direct link. Health is more closely correlated with lifestyle and genetics, and yes some lifestyles are also correlated with being overweight. But that doesn't mean being overweight is always unhealthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?! "

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

"

The "conniving backstabbing bitches" stereotype: once again, biting those who believe in that shit.

Sisters before misters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there "

Nah. Not at a size 18.

That's the average dress size here in the UK.

Lots of women who wear a size 18 are perfectly fit and healthy. The label in their jeans tells you fuck all except the size of their jeans.

You can "not see it that way" but facts are facts. The OP was body shaming. And dress size doesn't tell you how healthy someone is. Fact. I'd suggest opening your eyes if you can't see that.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Antagonists, protagonists, damsels in distress and super hero’s this one has it all

OP dropped a cluster fuck to get a rise and succeeded. Jumped back in to stir the pot and sit back entertained. Why feed the troll? Because everyone is stir crazy and bored."

And people don't like being insulted. Yeah he knew what he was doing and we should'nt bite, you're right but it's insulting. Sorry I struggle to bite my tongue on this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry "

Why because I challenged you? so did many others it is just me you chose to personally target.

Also I think you apologised to the wrong person.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

At the end of the day if would you pick someone of a particular size with no personality and shite blow job skills or the opposite body size who makes you laugh your socks off and gives the best head you’ve ever had?

I know what I’d pick...just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

Why because I challenged you? so did many others it is just me you chose to personally target.

Also I think you apologised to the wrong person."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im no where near skinny. Im a size 16, i always put ample yet inked will say im curvy...

I suppose what im saying is other ppl see sizes and words different to others. If they want to be fabulous, let them be.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry "

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average my ass haha

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By *eivers101Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Dress size and physiche are 2 entirely different things.... A woman of 5'9" and a dress size 12 would be described as slim by any standards, however someone of 4'10" and size 12 looks totally different and some would describe her as curvy, voluptuous etc BUT she's still a size 12!!!! OP it's akin to a woman saying she's not interested in any man who takes over 34" waist jeans..... A guy 5'5" and one 6'3" may well both buy said waist size but one will appear much slimmer than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average my ass haha "

Not sure I understand this comment...could you elaborate?

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Op has gone, probably in the bath or summit, maybe he put some music on and settled in for the evening. Probably thinks his work is done here. Might have had a casserole on the go, who knows. Wonder if he will be back, not sure, who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc. "

Lo siento no intiendo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average my ass haha

Not sure I understand this comment...could you elaborate?

Lu "

Was talking to the dude making this silly thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Op has gone, probably in the bath or summit, maybe he put some music on and settled in for the evening. Probably thinks his work is done here. Might have had a casserole on the go, who knows. Wonder if he will be back, not sure, who knows. "

Oh definitely, he knew what he was doing. Light a bomb and sit and watch the carnage from afar.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo. "

*entiendo. Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby prefers me curvey .

But It’s what size makes you happy really

If you don’t like it jog on

"

Literally!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there "

No there isn’t. Plenty of thin people are unhealthy, and personally I will never be healthy again even if I somehow managed to get into a size 12 again. In fact in real terms, my health is worse now than it was when I was bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo. "

Not replying as I’ve no more to say, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average my ass haha

Not sure I understand this comment...could you elaborate?

Lu

Was talking to the dude making this silly thread"

Phew!

I was worried you were another one of them...

Silly is polite!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there

No one who says they are concerned for fat people's health are actually bothered about people's health. They just use it as an excuse to make comments about their weight.

'I'm not being mean, but being that fat is not good for your health'

You don't know a person's health by looking at picture of their tits in a swingers site. "

Years of research has shown a consistent association between excess weight and increased risk of health problems...and whilst you can't tell someone's BMI or body composition from looking at pictures, it's pretty easy to see if someone is carrying a few (or more) extra pounds. Very few ladies will be a dress size 18 while also having a (generally considered by the medical profession) healthy body fat percentage...so I'd say the OP is correct in that aspect.

I don't agree with criticising people's choice of words to describe themselves, but I do think that the choices on here to describe yourself are very limited and don't tend to pay them much attention, I just go on the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw OP I'd like to thank you.

This crisp eating fatty has just gone and found the FABULOUS button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Op has gone, probably in the bath or summit, maybe he put some music on and settled in for the evening. Probably thinks his work is done here. Might have had a casserole on the go, who knows. Wonder if he will be back, not sure, who knows. "

He made a similar thread 30weeks ago (green arrow) got far less traction than this one

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"Like you care about our health

Anyone can think they have a fabulous body so anyone can choose that option. I know I'm fucking fabulous regardless of my dress size. "

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Youve classed yourself as slim op. Not sure everyone would agree with that either. Id describe you as average. Not up to you to decide whos fabulous. Its not a size, its a state of mind! We're all fcuking fabulous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo.

*entiendo. Jeez "

That was the native Spanish speaker that told me how to spell that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about the tin hat and popcorn time might have some cake too

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"The Op has gone, probably in the bath or summit, maybe he put some music on and settled in for the evening. Probably thinks his work is done here. Might have had a casserole on the go, who knows. Wonder if he will be back, not sure, who knows. "

I wonder if it’s chicken or beef casserole...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo.

*entiendo. Jeez

That was the native Spanish speaker that told me how to spell that! "

Haha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Op has gone, probably in the bath or summit, maybe he put some music on and settled in for the evening. Probably thinks his work is done here. Might have had a casserole on the go, who knows. Wonder if he will be back, not sure, who knows.

He made a similar thread 30weeks ago (green arrow) got far less traction than this one "

There is a few iv green arrowed on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He looks more average than slim, getting my own back lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo.

*entiendo. Jeez

That was the native Spanish speaker that told me how to spell that!

Haha brilliant "

Oh you can't be talking to me because you don't want to talk to me anymore remember!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there

No one who says they are concerned for fat people's health are actually bothered about people's health. They just use it as an excuse to make comments about their weight.

'I'm not being mean, but being that fat is not good for your health'

You don't know a person's health by looking at picture of their tits in a swingers site.

Years of research has shown a consistent association between excess weight and increased risk of health problems...and whilst you can't tell someone's BMI or body composition from looking at pictures, it's pretty easy to see if someone is carrying a few (or more) extra pounds. Very few ladies will be a dress size 18 while also having a (generally considered by the medical profession) healthy body fat percentage...so I'd say the OP is correct in that aspect.

I don't agree with criticising people's choice of words to describe themselves, but I do think that the choices on here to describe yourself are very limited and don't tend to pay them much attention, I just go on the pictures. "

Many factors go into health.

Having a higher body fat percentage than the government deem acceptable doesn't mean you're in bad health.

Being overweight doesn't make you unhealthy.

Weight lifting women who wear a size 18 May not even have a high body fat percentage....more than likely muscle.

It's just another way for people to justify body shaming others.

Lu

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"For arguments sake there was such an option. I'm a size 10 waist. I sometimes have to go up to a 14/16 up top for the boobs. So what would I tick?

You tick what you feel is right for you.

It doesn't matter what you tick because somebody will feel the need to come and tell you you are wrong. "

Thanks. But i just wouldn't tick at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo.

*entiendo. Jeez

That was the native Spanish speaker that told me how to spell that!

Haha brilliant

Oh you can't be talking to me because you don't want to talk to me anymore remember!"

I said I wasn’t replying, not that I wasn’t talking, damn, I’m outa this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Brace yourself Op, incoming. "

Yea, I'm going to do a run up and belly flop onto you

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

A fabulous score is a high score, a fabulous glossy shine is just that. So why do bigger people claim to have fabulous figures. Now I'm not svelt, toned, an Adonis but when I click on a profile and see fabulous you.would expect an amazing figure.

Fab can you do away with these wishful thinking terms for size and just have good ol' sizes we all know a size 8 is slim, a 12 is average bit a size 18 and above is definitely not fabulous it is a health scare"
fabulous is a feeling not a size... and can be any size. I am bigger than a 18 so not sure I get how I'm a health scare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is you and people like you who feel you have the right to judge and comment on what others look like. Theres way too many people in this world that tear theirselves down without other people doing it also. Feeling good about how you look and your body can only be a positive thing no matter what shape or size you may be. I hope everyone realises they are good enough one day despite the ignorance and unkindness others show. If you can't say nothing nice, don't say anything at all

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

It is absolutely body shaming to claim everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

It's also bullshit.

Lu

Like I said... I don't see it that way. As for health and size... Yeah there's quite a strong correlation there

No there isn’t. Plenty of thin people are unhealthy, and personally I will never be healthy again even if I somehow managed to get into a size 12 again. In fact in real terms, my health is worse now than it was when I was bigger."

You see there you made an assumption that when I said size and health I was implying larger sizes. I wasn't. I chose my words deliberately.. As you quite rightly say... Being undersized can also have health rated issues. Anyway look I don't mean to upset or argue but from what I've seen these discussions tend to become quite inflamed with what people assume someone means compared to what they've actually written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics, just go with the pics...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The problem is you and people like you who feel you have the right to judge and comment on what others look like. Theres way too many people in this world that tear theirselves down without other people doing it also. Feeling good about how you look and your body can only be a positive thing no matter what shape or size you may be. I hope everyone realises they are good enough one day despite the ignorance and unkindness others show. If you can't say nothing nice, don't say anything at all "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Early prediction, this ones going the distance. "

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Then they should also have a box for the blokes to tick called wanker...or maybe just missed it..

This is my favourite response "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tick the health scare box.

The size boxes are irrelevant anyway. Everyone has different opinions about them.

If people treated profiles as though there was a real person behind them and not just sex meat, there would be no need for a tick box.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Something many don't seem to learn is on the whole women do not like people who body shame in whatever form other women.

Missed a bit of punctuation there but I see where you’re coming from.

Wow! Really? A body shaming thread is bad enough now we get the grammar police?!

I don’t normally care but felt the need on this occasion sorry

You realise there are often good reasons for people missing punctuation or misspelling? No amount of pointing it out will improve things, so if you struggle to understand the post in the form it is presented, why not just move on, instead of criticising people? The person may be dyslexic or not a native speaker of English etc.

Lo siento no intiendo.

*entiendo. Jeez

That was the native Spanish speaker that told me how to spell that! "

Tell him to check his diccionario

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