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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is they such a thing as nsa fun or is there always a drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always always a drama

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Keep it to a one off and there's no drama. The longer it remains a thing, the more chance of drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had plenty of NSA fun on here without any drama but I have had some issues but on the whole its been fun and a good experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if people are honest that they want NSA or lie about wanting FWB.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

People can make drama if they want to.

I have many nsa arrangements with no dramas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had any drama and politely call it a day if it gets complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can smell a drama a mile away

It depends on how you approach things.

I definitely tend to stay away from people that bang on about NSA - they're nearly always married / attached

And then the drama begins.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I can smell a drama a mile away

It depends on how you approach things.

I definitely tend to stay away from people that bang on about NSA - they're nearly always married / attached

And then the drama begins.

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This^^

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Drama generally comes from lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can make drama if they want to.

I have many nsa arrangements with no dramas.

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True same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are one offs then drama can be avoided. The more meets the more drama usually I find. Though not always obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drama generally comes from lies.

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Yes it does - and the lie is usually about how single they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it to a one off and there's no drama. The longer it remains a thing, the more chance of drama."

. The vast majority of my meets are just one offs and it keeps things simple. But I've had regulars for NSA and it's been ok.

Relationships can be drama, especially when already married, I've had a girlfriend in addition to my husband and that worked fine until the point it ended which was then upsetting. I might have a new boyfriend after covid but will tread carefully so all three of us stay clear on boundaries.

But to directly answer your question OP I've had loads of NSA no drama meets. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had any drama and politely call it a day if it gets complicated "

Same. Nice & simple

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I’ve never had any drama and politely call it a day if it gets complicated

Same. Nice & simple "

I think you need to be quite ruthless for that.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

There doesn’t always have to be drama. I just cannot STOP myself making a scene after sex. I’m a mess of a man

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had any drama on here. I dont give them chance they would be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had any drama and politely call it a day if it gets complicated

Same. Nice & simple

I think you need to be quite ruthless for that. "

Think it just depends how you go into it. I'm super clear that nothing more will come of things than a casual arrangement so it's not like a break up if it comes to an end, it's just run its course. Completely different where someone has implied it could lead to more though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first sign of drama = block ..simples

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

One bit of drama in ten years isn't too bad I guess

Still pisses me off when I think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No drama in the 7 years on here thankfully but, there again, I'm allergic to drama in my life!

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By *p4u69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've never had any drama from a meet on here. If I get the impression that somebody os going to make things complicated I will wish them well and walk away....I like a drama free life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had any drama and politely call it a day if it gets complicated

Same. Nice & simple

I think you need to be quite ruthless for that. "

Sometimes it’s a necessity to be ruthless if becoming complicated or drama fueled

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If both parties are on the same page then yes it can work, but in my experience someone usually gets the wrong end of the stick.

Good communication is key.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Is they such a thing as nsa fun or is there always a drama."

We've had loads of great sex with other people, never had any drama what-so-ever.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. It's real easy to avoid the drama llamas. You have to be very selective.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

NSA is definitely possible, but then can also be drama from people. Some people aren't cut out for swinging.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

All the meets I’ve had have been NSA and no drama so can’t complain. It’s the same as messages if I get a no thanks then it’s thanks for the reply and happy fabbing. If no reply then I tend to take a hint.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a lot of potential for misunderstanding especially if people aren't completely honest about the level of commitment they're willing to give or are wanting. This can cause drama. Then you get the people who enjoy a good drama anyway.

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