FabSwingers.com forum: Finding Fab

By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

How long have you been on Fab and do you wish you had found this lifestyle earlier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd account here

Yes I do because I think if I’d of found it earlier with the girl I was with at the time, we would of had an amazing couples account & experiences

But will never know so make the best of what you have & when you have it

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Romford

Only a couple of months. But found everyone friendly and laughed my head off at several threads, that have not gone the way the ops probably would have chosen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years ago, but discovered swinging at the end of the nineties. I wish I’d worked it out in my 20s. The door was open but I was still a slave to my conditioning at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long probably

Do I wish I’d found it earlier? Maybe but it was the forum that made it worthwhile for me so finding that sooner definitely

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"3rd account here

Yes I do because I think if I’d of found it earlier with the girl I was with at the time, we would of had an amazing couples account & experiences

But will never know so make the best of what you have & when you have it"

Yes everyone needs to enjoy what they have at the present moment. Things can change too quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was either late 2010 or early 2011 originally

I had a great 2/3 years of meeting people and there were some right characters in the forums that will stick me with for some time

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Only a couple of months. But found everyone friendly and laughed my head off at several threads, that have not gone the way the ops probably would have chosen.

It can be entertaining here

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"11 years ago, but discovered swinging at the end of the nineties. I wish I’d worked it out in my 20s. The door was open but I was still a slave to my conditioning at the time. "

11 years is good going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years ago is when I joined...

I was 18, so I couldn't have really done it sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was either late 2010 or early 2011 originally

I had a great 2/3 years of meeting people and there were some right characters in the forums that will stick me with for some time "

Yeah. I would have liked to have discovered the forum earlier than I did. It took me until November 2013 to find the forum. I was in the verge of leaving but bumped into a newbie. So I ended up asking an innocent question about local clubs with a view to visiting one with her. She left the site soon after, but the banter on that thread hooked me in.

By Christmas I was kicking myself for not finding it sooner, having spent the first four years frequenting the chatrooms and struggling to make any connections at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to chat on this, get alot of American slander towards me on these forums. Other then that I been on it for a year, I don't take it seriously anymore, need more decent and genuine people on this that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11 years ago, but discovered swinging at the end of the nineties. I wish I’d worked it out in my 20s. The door was open but I was still a slave to my conditioning at the time.

11 years is good going

Just before Bussy joined, although our paths didn’t quite cross early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our 1st account was around 2010/11 left in 2017 but came back after 3 months

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Eight years ago, admittedly there have been breaks for long/short stretches of time.

No, I don't wish I found it any earlier, I'm happy when I did. I wish I'd had the confidence in myself on here when I was younger - to ask for what I wanted sexually, to say no it's not working etc.

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

Not as long as most joined years ago and came back with a singles profile. Then met Alice when I was about to leave again after throwing my dummy out the pram.

Now I wish i had met her alot sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back I think the writing was always on the wall for me to be a hotwife, just didnt realise it until a year ago! Im glad I've waited until im secure and confident in myself so as fun as it is, I dont wish I'd done it sooner

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Joined Fab 8 years ago and have enjoyed the experiences we have had. Yes wish we had took the plunge and entered the lifestyle earlier but jobs and family would probably have restricted our fun back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2015 with the original couple’s profile I think.

It’s the friendships that have been the major hold for me here.

People of similar mindsets and beliefs.

Part of me does wish I’d been exposed to the kind of open minded chats and ideas that have become such an influence from fab but then I might not of had the experiences that have led to being where I am now.

On balance I don’t wanna change a thing.

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

I have found fab to be a light in a dark place

Fun where I thought there was none left

And most of all it has brought my closest friends

So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 11/12 years ago with my then husband, when we separated I joined on my own as wanted a wide variety of naughty fun but not ready for a relationship . It didn't work out that way as I found the love of my life on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found fab to be a light in a dark place

Fun where I thought there was none left

And most of all it has brought my closest friends

So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier

Quack!

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"I have found fab to be a light in a dark place

Fun where I thought there was none left

And most of all it has brought my closest friends

So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier

Quack! "

Now this is a very rare duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found fab to be a light in a dark place

Fun where I thought there was none left

And most of all it has brought my closest friends

So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier

Quack!

Now this is a very rare duck "

As rare as rocking horse shit?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Been on a good few year but take long breaks from it. Think I found it at the right time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long have you been on Fab and do you wish you had found this lifestyle earlier?"

I've been on a couple of times in the last two years.

Definitely wish I'd found this lifestyle earlier.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Since 2012 on two different occasions.

Didnt change my life until recently .

Now it really has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 or 4 years I think. I really don’t know! Not really a lifestyle for me. Met a few lovely people though. x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Five years in Feb since I originally joined - and five years in October with this profile.

More than happy with my experience to date, although how much longer it continues remains to be seen.

Do I wish I had found it sooner? I can see the pros and cons of having done so and on balance I don't know is the honest answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 years. Have had a few accounts. Some ups and downs like everybody.

Wished I had found this when I was single when I arrived in the uk. Oh well!

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

8 years, originally as a couple, met some great folk over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here almost 2 years i think

I was very straight laced, constrained by my upbringing and societal conditioning... But I've always had a gleam in my eye

I definitely wish I'd found it in my 30s.. I kinda feel I'm so old now, I'll never get to be truely me.. I'll run out of time

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Been here almost 2 years i think

I was very straight laced, constrained by my upbringing and societal conditioning... But I've always had a gleam in my eye

I definitely wish I'd found it in my 30s.. I kinda feel I'm so old now, I'll never get to be truely me.. I'll run out of time

I would say you are in your prime!

But it’s a state of mind that I totally understand, didn’t think this is where I would hang out at 50 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 yrs now...introduced by a friend

Gave me confidence about my desires I was seeking after being put down for yrs. Felt liberated and once introduced to a club I'm now hooked..

Gives me light and laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a year or so, but yes, I wish I'd joined at 18 xx

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By *anctionedSecretsCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We've been on and off for about 5 years now we think, having deleted our account for about 2 months last time, we quickly came back... We do wish we'd found it before starting our family. A little more freedom in that respect would have probably helped.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've been here since Sept 2006. We did one day in April 2014 decide to leave it and deleted our profile. Less than 24 hours later we opened this profile and have been here ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.5yrs ago, yes I wish I found it sooner, about 7 years ago would have been great

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

3 years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

January 2016. Prior to that I was on another sex site. Whilst I wish I had found Fab earlier as more local men here, the site prior to Fab gifted me two red hot lovers that I had some of the best sex ever with.

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

edgware

found mrs jones at just the right time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've been on and off of here for about 11 or 12 years. This is my 2nd profile, I had a break of 4 or 5 months between profiles.

Before here I'd been on smaller swingers sites for about 3 or 4 years but have been swinging for over 20 years, starting with the contact mag era. I think I started just at the right time for me

Up until covid kicked in FAB was just a place to keep up with people I met at swingers clubs, people I hoped to meet at swingers clubs and a place for promoting events I held or ran guest lists for at swingers clubs.

Now it's a place to while away a bit of time until lockdown restrictions start to ease again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont thinking finding iy earlier wouldve mattered for me as wouldnt have been able to join lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined in 2009, found the forums in 2010. Had many fun years on our couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined a few years ago and yes I do wish I had joined earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here far too long.

Now I can't leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very new to me. We wonder about whether we had found it sooner during our marriage it would have made any difference, but clearly we weren’t ready. Now we are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here just over a year. Wish I had found it years ago. To have been on here at 21 with my boobs under my chin would have been amazing lol

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