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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So there are a few threads that I am posting on over various forums and the same people keep viewing me but will not responded to me privately despite common interests.

To these people. ********

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you are a Favorite of mine!! So you could message me !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you are a Favorite of mine!! So you could message me !"

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you are a Favorite of mine!! So you could message me !

I do "

I know Dear Wonko... I meant today!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there are a few threads that I am posting on over various forums and the same people keep viewing me but will not responded to me privately despite common interests.

To these people. ********"

I post a lot in the forums, but rarely respond to PM's, especially if they have a sexual slant and the sender isn't what I'm looking for

That's a reflection on me and what I want from here, not the sender

I am more likely to reply if the PM is general, but if it's banter only, for me, we can leave that in the thread

It does not need to go to PM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there are a few threads that I am posting on over various forums and the same people keep viewing me but will not responded to me privately despite common interests.

To these people. ********"

Just because people view your profile it doesn't mean they are interested.

If they were interested they would message you.

If they don't reply then would you want to meet someone like that?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I often check out and view a poster, if I gauged any compatibility, I would message. Many however think they see compatibility that I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh free will, funny old thing isn't it?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So there are a few threads that I am posting on over various forums and the same people keep viewing me but will not responded to me privately despite common interests.

To these people. ********"

Well it's a free world.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Common interests dosnt mean interested tho.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

1 to 1 convo may be too intimate and pressured. I don't mean you applying pressure or turning it sexual, far from it, I'll try to explain.

Sometimes with 1 to 1 convos I don't want to seem disinterested or rude so sometimes fret about it, the reality is I'm happy to pipe up and say my piece in a group setting (the forums) where I can wander off and return or not. I'd not want to make someone think they did something or said something that either pissed me off or upset me, when the truth is, my brain just isn't in that place, so then I worry and that's where the pressure comes from.

It's not that I'm ignoring THEM... I pretty much ignore everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a rant

It did not need responded to. I know well enough how this site works.

The block button will be deployed shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a rant

It did not need responded to. I know well enough how this site works.

The block button will be deployed shortly "

You posted it on a forum?

That is what people do when they want a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 to 1 convo may be too intimate and pressured. I don't mean you applying pressure or turning it sexual, far from it, I'll try to explain.

Sometimes with 1 to 1 convos I don't want to seem disinterested or rude so sometimes fret about it, the reality is I'm happy to pipe up and say my piece in a group setting (the forums) where I can wander off and return or not. I'd not want to make someone think they did something or said something that either pissed me off or upset me, when the truth is, my brain just isn't in that place, so then I worry and that's where the pressure comes from.

It's not that I'm ignoring THEM... I pretty much ignore everyone! "

This for me too. I just can't hold a conversation anymore.

Better they think I'm a dickhead than them feel bad for me not replying.

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